Lawfully Ever After
In this podcast, Julie Potts, Esq covers a wide range of family law topics including tips and opinions for navigating legal matters in divorce, custody and support; as well as candid conversations to help listeners get through the other side of one of the toughest times of their lives. Julie is a family law attorney located in Chester County, Pennsylvania and you can also find her @LawyerJulie on TikTok. Please remember nothing in this podcast should be considered legal advice, and you should always consult with your own attorney if you have questions about your specific situation.
Episodes
Today, we're tackling one of the most common — and most misunderstood — custody questions: When can kids decide where they want to live?
Julie breaks down how Pennsylvania law actually works (hint: kids don't get the final say), why putting children in the middle is damaging, and how judges weigh a child's preference alongside 16 other custody factors.
Plus, we talk about parenting teens in custody situ...
May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and mental health is a very common subject brought up in court for both divorce and custody cases...so let's talk about it!
In this episode, Julie Potts, a seasoned family law attorney from Chester County, PA, and co-host Emily discuss how mental health is (and isn't) treated in family court, why transparency with your lawyer is critical, and how addressing mental health ...
In this episode, we're diving into the LawyerJulie TikTok post that stirred up quite the conversation: my take on why women should never be full-time stay-at-home moms—at least not without a backup plan. Watch the video here:
https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie/video/7466149689814011178
We break down the financial and personal risks of stepping out of the workforce, the long-term implications of giving up a caree...
Are you facing a family law issue and drowning in bad advice from the internet? AnnouncingThe Initial Consult, a future podcast where Pennsylvania family law attorney Julie Potts gives real answers to real people—just like she would in an actual consultation. No sugarcoating, no false hope—just practical legal insight and tough truths to help you make informed decisions.
Each episode features anonymous consultations co...
In this episode of Lawfully Ever After, Julie Potts, Esq. dives into emotionally charged scenarios pulled from Reddit that mirror the challenges of modern relationships and divorce.
From the rise of "gray divorces" to navigating unexpected separation, they explore the interplay of control, independence, and communication in marriages.
They discuss how societal shifts have influenced divor...
In this educational episode, Julie and Emily pull back the curtain on the complexities of custody cases, focusing on how trials are scheduled, prepared, and ultimately decided. Julie shares her real-world experience managing a high-stakes case, from the years-long delays caused by procedural rules to the intense preparation required to present evidence and witnesses effectively.
Listeners will learn about the often-mis...
In this episode, we dive into the common pitfalls of custody battles and how taking a "scorched earth" approach often backfires.
Julie Potts, Esq. shares real-life examples of cases where focusing on the negative failed and how shifting the narrative to a more positive, cooperative stance led to better outcomes for both parents and children.
We discuss the importance of letting go of past...
In this episode, we tackle the often tricky subject of holidays post-divorce, with practical advice just in time for the holiday season. From Halloween to Christmas, Julie Potts discusses the challenges of sharing holidays, the common mistakes people make, and why it's crucial to keep the focus on the kids. With personal anecdotes and experienced insights, this episode offers tips on creating new traditions, avoi...
Ever wondered what it's like to have a consult with Julie? Chances are, you'd hear at least one or two of her most frequently used "Julie-isms".
For example, you may already be familiar with "Get a job!", but I bet you haven't heard:
- "Litigation is a last resort, not a first response."
- "If they're trying to get you upset, then walk away."
- "You...
In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.
We cover a lot in this episode, including:
- (00:37) Can a co-parent violate custody o...
In this episode, @LawyerJulie from TikTok talks about the importance of getting a job to avoid the very common problem of financial abuse in a marriage. Should you get a job if it reduces your spousal support/alimony? How do you afford a divorce if you don't have your own bank account? Julie answers these questions and more.
Show Notes:
Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com
Emily listened to the Britney Spears audiobook and couldn't wait to get Julie's take on her divorce and custody issues!
In this episode we discuss:
- Generational trauma and the importance of breaking the cycle
- If you file for divorce first do you have to pay your ex's legal fees?
- The importance of a solid foundation
- Should she have lost custody when she was 5150d?
- Navigating custody cases after o...
This short episode covers a few random topics:
- Are the courts reasonable?
- When is it considered perjury?
- What's the weirdest "asset" Julie saw clients fighting over?
- Can you go to pet custody court?
Follow Julie on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you'd like answered on the podcast, e-mail her lawyerjulie55@gmail.com
Show Notes:
Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https...
Today @LawyerJulie talks about something she sees all the time...parents recording their kids to get video "proof" of their kids not wanting to go to the other parent's house, or the kids complaining about the other parent in general. Is this a good idea? Can this video be used in court? What do the judges think? What if it's your spouse or ex-spouse you are recording, is that helpful to your case?
...
Julie Potts Esq (aka @LawyerJulie on TikTok) talks about a very common situation in divorce/custody issues: parties not reporting an increase in income to the other side. Julie discusses some options you have to get to the truth if you suspect your ex has gotten a promotion or is working under the table, and also explains how earning potential is calculated in Pennsylvania, and when you just might have no choice but t...
In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.
We cover a lot in this episode, including:
- Do parents have to give permission to the...
One of Julie's biggest pet peeves is when one parent talks poorly about the other parent directly to, or in front of, their child. She covers alienation, triangulation, and some true story scenarios where the kids were deeply affected by being put in the middle. This episode has examples, practical tips, and what you might hear in court if you try to influence your child's loyalty to one parent over the ot...
In this episode, Julie talks about why you should NOT feel uncomfortable or embarrassed sharing details about infidelity with your attorney, and how the Pennsylvania court views this situation in relation to your divorce, division of assets, alimony, and custody. She also covers what exactly is covered by attorney-client privilege in family law, and is there ever a time you should withhold information from your attorn...
One of @LawyerJulie's most controversial TikToks is titled "It's the kid's time, not yours!" and the comment section proved that this is a very controversial topic when co-parenting. In this episode, Julie shares some common scenarios she sees daily in regards to kid's activities and shared custody, discusses how the court typically handles these situations, and how they factor into child...
Is it weird to think about asking for a divorce if you aren't even married yet? In this episode, Family Law Attorney Julie Potts discusses how some of the more common relationship red flags can manifest during a divorce, and what you can do to avoid getting yourself into this emotionally exhausting situation in the first place.
Show Notes:
Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com
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