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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Willow,
good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you, good morning?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm doing great.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
So what's going on with this dude? Abe?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
We got to know how you met, about any dates
that you've been on, and then where things are now?
And then why do you think maybe you're being ghosted?
Because that's what we're here to do is get to
the bottom of that.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yes, I need to get down to the bottom. I
need some assistance. Well, me and me and Abe, we've
been We met on a at you know, dating app,
hook up app. Maybe it's dating, but I don't know,
you know.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Meet, Well, which one is it? Are you dating? Are
you hooking?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I mean, you know, if you end up to you know, meet,
and then of course you could probably hook up or
you know.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Okay, okay, so you're so you were you were looking
for a partner, but anything could happen because I think
there are certain apps you can go to. Apparently apparently
I'm told certain apps you can go to where it's
just about that. But you're looking for maybe that and
then maybe more. I just want to be clear on
what we're doing here, Willow.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Yes, I'm looking for companionship, but you know, I know
how these guys are nowadays, so I may just find that,
you know, a good time.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Okay, okay, so open to you met Abe, and then
what happened?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
I met a well, we hungry out. We had a
great time too, had a few drinks and everything. Went
back to his place, you know, to have a nightcap
or you know whatever, flow with the flowing with the.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Willow.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Willow is just down for whatever. Yeah, so you go
back to Abe's spot, and then what happens.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Then we.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Enjoyed ourselves throughout the night. But then I didn't hear anything.
So I'm calling you all to see, like what happened?
I thought we were on the same page.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Okay, all right, I mean that's that is surprising playing
with you, I'm playing, but.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
You know that's why I'm open to you.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Know, I'm just giving you a weird time because you
seem like, you know, you seem a little all over
the place. But that's okay, that's okay. You had a
nice day with this man, you you you had fun,
except you have not heard from him since then, and
you were expecting to just based on I guess that
all the things that happened on the date. I mean
(02:25):
usually it's a good sign when you hang out with
somebody and then you go back to the airplace and
you look up. But that's all good stuff, right. There's
a lot of places along the way where you could leave.
But he didn't. He stayed. He just hasn't contacted you.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Since exactly so great was what happened?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Well, we're about to find out, because I'm gonna play
a song and come back, and we're gonna see. When
we get Abe on the phone, you'll be on the
phone too. We're gonna ask some questions. We'll see if
we can straighten this out and set you guys up
one another date or or otherwise. So hang on one second, Okay, Okay,
you've got to hear what happens next. I promise, don't
go anywhere. Chapel rowan back in two minutes. The Fresh Show, chavalone,
(03:01):
The Fred Show is not good morning. Hey Willow, Okay, Willow?
Oh you know what I really like you, Willow?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I do.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So you went out with his dude, Abe, You guys
met out one of the apps. You had a great date,
went back to his place. Stuff happened you haven't heard
from him since, and you want to know why you're
being ghosted, or it appears that you're being ghosted. You
want to know why exactly. Okay, let's call Abe now,
good luck Willow?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Is this Abe Fanson? Abe?
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Can which that for just a second? Do you mind?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yes? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Okay, so yeah, that's good. Perfect.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
So, Abe, we're calling on behalf of a woman named
Willow who says she met you on one of the
apps and you, guys, you recently went out. Do you remember,
I'm thinking you remember her?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Well?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay, well what is that? What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Because she called us and she said that she enjoyed
meeting you and that you guys had a nice time
and the date may have gone into the night and
maybe the morning, and yet she hasn't heard from you
since then.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
So what's going on?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Is that what she said?
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Okay, that's what she said? What's that you?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I remember?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
I staid man, the girl the girl was faking it. Man,
my roommate said she was faking it. I'm not that
I thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I agree, and I just couldn't deal with it faking it. Okay,
hold on, Oh god, we're on a journey. We're on
a journey. I have a lot of questions here. So
you're you're what does your roommate have to do with
did she hear it? Or did or she hear it?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
It was yeah, you know him after the day we
were filling touchy silly, you know what I mean, we.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Do Okay, okay, you know, so you're in your room
and your roommate's not like in a chair in the
corner like your roommate. Your roommate is not holding a
video like your roommates somewhere else in the in the house,
I assume, yeah, yeah, he was.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
In his room.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, we're not too far from each other, so okay,
he heard.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
What was going on, the commotion in the ocean, and
uh okay. He told me, you know, the next day
and we were just you know, recapping.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
The whole thing.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
He told me.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
He said, hey, man, I don't know, bro, but that
just sounds like that was real.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
All those.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
What kind of roommate Is this your to you? Is
this your friend? I don't think.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
First of all, I don't know if I've never had
anybody be that attentive to what I'm doing. But saying,
I don't think I've ever had one of my boys
be like, hey, just to keep it real with you,
she faked.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
It my boys.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Girl. Okay, so you didn't know at the time, though,
you weren't like, wow, this is a lot like she
seems really excited about what's going on.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
I thought I was doing a stellar job, but you know,
as I thought about it, it was just too much.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I've never heard it like that before.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Right, I do appreciate your honesty, he knows. Okay, Well,
it's a good thing that Willow is here. And this
is starting to make a lot of sense to me
how this came together. But yes, Willow, I forgot to
mention that Willow is here. Is it true that you
(06:43):
may have been overplaying how happy you were about the experience?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Well, first of all, why would you listen to your roommate?
And was he I didn't even know you had a roommate.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Oh so we don't even know there was another man present,
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
The reaction of the lady every time. Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And the other thing you're abe is that Willow is
calling to see you again. So regardless of whatever she
did or didn't do, she liked you enough she wants
to do it again. So that's a good sign, right, yeah, yes, yeah, Okay.
So you didn't call her because your roommate convinced you
that she was faking it and it was just too much.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
For you to bear.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Yeah. I just don't want anybody being fakel to be
have any you know of anything, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
It could be anything. My guy he knows, he knows, Okay,
how does know more about her than her?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
And this is a dude who was in his room
alone listening to you, so I don't know what he
was doing.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
And where were his hands? Yeah exactly, I'm not sure,
but I thought you have good ears.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Okay, And so yeah, no, please please.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
This is the first woman that has faked it. You
are probably sadly mistaken. I hate to break it too
in his room.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I'm sorry that your roommate wasn't there to confirm it
every time, but I can I can assure you that
it has happened before to all of us and then Willow.
She hasn't said whether she did or didn't, but it
doesn't seem to matter. You enjoyed yourself enough that you
want to see this guy again?
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Right?
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Okay? So then so abe, So she wants to see
you again. I don't really know what if she did
or didn't think. I don't know what happened, but she
wants to see you again. Why don't you give another chance?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Like I said, I just with authenticity. You know what
I mean? He says, your roommate. I think you Maybe
he won't him? He seems jealous. This is a man
who wasn't involved. Maybe you want to be? Were you
open to that?
Speaker 5 (08:53):
No?
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I'm not good.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Like what difference does it make what he thinks she
wants to see you again? You you had a good time,
You went all the way on the first day. That's
a great sign. So who cares what this guy thinks?
Go out with her again? I say, you go out again.
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Well, I think I think I'm going to pass.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
There's something anyway.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Okay, Well, hey, I just told you about authenticity.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
There are to do.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I mean, I'm so, I don't know anyway. You know
what guys, I'm just gonna I'm going to end this now. Well,
thank you for your time, Abe, good luck to you
as well. Okay, thank you, thank you, thank you. The
Entertainment Report and Money with show by Shelley for fifty
Game Show Wednesday, all next to Fresh Show working
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Willow,
good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you, good morning?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm doing great.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
So what's going on with this dude? Abe?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
We got to know how you met, about any dates
that you've been on, and then where things are now?
And then why do you think maybe you're being ghosted?
Because that's what we're here to do is get to
the bottom of that.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yes, I need to get down to the bottom. I
need some assistance. Well, me and me and Abe, we've
been We met on a at you know, dating app,
hook up app. Maybe it's dating, but I don't know,
you know.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Meet, Well, which one is it? Are you dating? Are
you hooking?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I mean, you know, if you end up to you know, meet,
and then of course you could probably hook up or
you know.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Okay, okay, so you're so you were you were looking
for a partner, but anything could happen because I think
there are certain apps you can go to. Apparently apparently
I'm told certain apps you can go to where it's
just about that. But you're looking for maybe that and
then maybe more. I just want to be clear on
what we're doing here, Willow.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Yes, I'm looking for companionship, but you know, I know
how these guys are nowadays, so I may just find that,
you know, a good time.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Okay, okay, so open to you met Abe, and then
what happened?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
I met a well, we hungry out. We had a
great time too, had a few drinks and everything. Went
back to his place, you know, to have a nightcap
or you know whatever, flow with the flowing with the.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Willow.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Willow is just down for whatever. Yeah, so you go
back to Abe's spot, and then what happens.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Then we.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Enjoyed ourselves throughout the night. But then I didn't hear anything.
So I'm calling you all to see, like what happened?
I thought we were on the same page.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Okay, all right, I mean that's that is surprising playing
with you, I'm playing, but.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
You know that's why I'm open to you.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Know, I'm just giving you a weird time because you
seem like, you know, you seem a little all over
the place. But that's okay, that's okay. You had a
nice day with this man, you you you had fun,
except you have not heard from him since then, and
you were expecting to just based on I guess that
all the things that happened on the date. I mean
(02:25):
usually it's a good sign when you hang out with
somebody and then you go back to the airplace and
you look up. But that's all good stuff, right. There's
a lot of places along the way where you could leave.
But he didn't. He stayed. He just hasn't contacted you.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Since exactly so great was what happened?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Well, we're about to find out, because I'm gonna play
a song and come back, and we're gonna see. When
we get Abe on the phone, you'll be on the
phone too. We're gonna ask some questions. We'll see if
we can straighten this out and set you guys up
one another date or or otherwise. So hang on one second, Okay, Okay,
you've got to hear what happens next. I promise, don't
go anywhere. Chapel rowan back in two minutes. The Fresh Show, chavalone,
(03:01):
The Fred Show is not good morning. Hey Willow, Okay, Willow?
Oh you know what I really like you, Willow?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I do.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So you went out with his dude, Abe, You guys
met out one of the apps. You had a great date,
went back to his place. Stuff happened you haven't heard
from him since, and you want to know why you're
being ghosted, or it appears that you're being ghosted. You
want to know why exactly. Okay, let's call Abe now,
good luck Willow?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Is this Abe Fanson? Abe?
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Can which that for just a second? Do you mind?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yes? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Okay, so yeah, that's good. Perfect.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
So, Abe, we're calling on behalf of a woman named
Willow who says she met you on one of the
apps and you, guys, you recently went out. Do you remember,
I'm thinking you remember her?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Well?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay, well what is that? What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Because she called us and she said that she enjoyed
meeting you and that you guys had a nice time
and the date may have gone into the night and
maybe the morning, and yet she hasn't heard from you
since then.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
So what's going on?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Is that what she said?
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Okay, that's what she said? What's that you?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I remember?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
I staid man, the girl the girl was faking it. Man,
my roommate said she was faking it. I'm not that
I thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I agree, and I just couldn't deal with it faking it. Okay,
hold on, Oh god, we're on a journey. We're on
a journey. I have a lot of questions here. So
you're you're what does your roommate have to do with
did she hear it? Or did or she hear it?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
It was yeah, you know him after the day we
were filling touchy silly, you know what I mean, we.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Do Okay, okay, you know, so you're in your room
and your roommate's not like in a chair in the
corner like your roommate. Your roommate is not holding a
video like your roommates somewhere else in the in the house,
I assume, yeah, yeah, he was.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
In his room.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, we're not too far from each other, so okay,
he heard.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
What was going on, the commotion in the ocean, and
uh okay. He told me, you know, the next day
and we were just you know, recapping.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
The whole thing.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
He told me.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
He said, hey, man, I don't know, bro, but that
just sounds like that was real.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
All those.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
What kind of roommate Is this your to you? Is
this your friend? I don't think.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
First of all, I don't know if I've never had
anybody be that attentive to what I'm doing. But saying,
I don't think I've ever had one of my boys
be like, hey, just to keep it real with you,
she faked.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
It my boys.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Girl. Okay, so you didn't know at the time, though,
you weren't like, wow, this is a lot like she
seems really excited about what's going on.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
I thought I was doing a stellar job, but you know,
as I thought about it, it was just too much.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I've never heard it like that before.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Right, I do appreciate your honesty, he knows. Okay, Well,
it's a good thing that Willow is here. And this
is starting to make a lot of sense to me
how this came together. But yes, Willow, I forgot to
mention that Willow is here. Is it true that you
(06:43):
may have been overplaying how happy you were about the experience?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Well, first of all, why would you listen to your roommate?
And was he I didn't even know you had a roommate.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Oh so we don't even know there was another man present,
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
The reaction of the lady every time. Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And the other thing you're abe is that Willow is
calling to see you again. So regardless of whatever she
did or didn't do, she liked you enough she wants
to do it again. So that's a good sign, right, yeah, yes, yeah, Okay.
So you didn't call her because your roommate convinced you
that she was faking it and it was just too much.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
For you to bear.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Yeah. I just don't want anybody being fakel to be
have any you know of anything, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
It could be anything. My guy he knows, he knows, Okay,
how does know more about her than her?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
And this is a dude who was in his room
alone listening to you, so I don't know what he
was doing.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
And where were his hands? Yeah exactly, I'm not sure,
but I thought you have good ears.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Okay, And so yeah, no, please please.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
This is the first woman that has faked it. You
are probably sadly mistaken. I hate to break it too
in his room.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I'm sorry that your roommate wasn't there to confirm it
every time, but I can I can assure you that
it has happened before to all of us and then Willow.
She hasn't said whether she did or didn't, but it
doesn't seem to matter. You enjoyed yourself enough that you
want to see this guy again?
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Right?
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Okay? So then so abe, So she wants to see
you again. I don't really know what if she did
or didn't think. I don't know what happened, but she
wants to see you again. Why don't you give another chance?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Like I said, I just with authenticity. You know what
I mean? He says, your roommate. I think you Maybe
he won't him? He seems jealous. This is a man
who wasn't involved. Maybe you want to be? Were you
open to that?
Speaker 5 (08:53):
No?
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I'm not good.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Like what difference does it make what he thinks she
wants to see you again? You you had a good time,
You went all the way on the first day. That's
a great sign. So who cares what this guy thinks?
Go out with her again? I say, you go out again.
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Well, I think I think I'm going to pass.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
There's something anyway.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Okay, Well, hey, I just told you about authenticity.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
There are to do.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I mean, I'm so, I don't know anyway. You know
what guys, I'm just gonna I'm going to end this now. Well,
thank you for your time, Abe, good luck to you
as well. Okay, thank you, thank you, thank you. The
Entertainment Report and Money with show by Shelley for fifty
Game Show Wednesday, all next to Fresh Show working
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