April 17, 2025 • 7 mins
Tim is confused why Francesca ghosted him after taking her out on a date... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Tim,
Good morning, Welcome, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:08):
We didn't do it? Okay, we call this waiting by
the field of course. Oh gay here here we are
just hanging out with you, Tim. What's going on with
this woman? Is it Francesca? How did you meet Francesca?
And then tell us about any dates that you've been on.
What's going on now?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yes, I met I met Francesco on Hinde and I
took her out to dinner and the dinner went really well,
and so I was like, it went so well that
took her back to my place, and I was trying
to be a gentleman, so I didn't want to be
like pushy, here, make a move. Yeah, And I guess
that that wasn't the move because I haven't heard from
her since.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Okay, So you think that because you weren't, because nothing
physical happened, because you didn't initiate that. You think that's
her problem. She was turned off, like you're not interested
or something. Yeah, I thought that would be the move.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I thought that she would appreciate that because guys are
always so pushy. And I guess that I don't know,
I just haven't heard from hersis.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I just don't no line. He was trying to be
a good guy. He's trying to be a gentleman. But
I also see how that could be misconstrued as he's
on intimate he doesn't like me because now you're back
at your place. So I guess it's kind of, you know,
not necessarily guaranteed, but maybe implied that that kind of
stuff might happen, and it didn't, so that could be
the issue. I don't know, that's that's an interesting observation.
But let's call this woman, Francesca. We'll get her on
(01:20):
the phone, we'll ask some questions. You'll be on the
phone at the same time. I don't want you to
jump in right at first, but at some point you're
welcome to come in on the call and hopefully we
can straighten this out and then get you guys set
up on another day that we pay for. Okay, absolutely,
let's see what's going on. Part two of waiting met
a phone after usher back in two minutes. Don't move.
It's the Fred Show, us Share. The Fred Show is
on the radio, on the iHeart app Live and anytime.
(01:41):
Search for The Fred Show on demand and make us
a preset please, Hey Tim? Yeah, all right, Tim, let's
call off Francesca. You guys met on a dating app.
You went on this date. You thought that went really well,
back to your place, and then you know, you were
a gentleman, you weren't aggressive, didn't make any moves. But
then since the date, you haven't heard anything, and you
think maybe that's why maybe you I don't know, maybe
(02:02):
she thought you weren't into it.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yeah, I just want to know first of all.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I like to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Okay, all right, let's call her right now. Good luck? Hello,
Hi is his Francesca. Hi, my name is fredam callin
from the Fred Show. Not sure if you've heard it before,
but I'm hoping we can talk to you for a
(02:29):
second on the radio. I would need your permission though,
to continue on the air.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Oh yeah, no, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
I actually, well, thank you very much. We appreciate that.
So you know what's going on here. We're calling on
behalf of a guy who says he recently went out
with you. His name is Tim. Do you remember meeting too?
Oh yeah, so okay, Well that's usually the tone of
somebody who like has got a story to tell. So
(02:55):
he reached out to us that he liked you was
hoping to see you again, but he can't get a
hold of you. Now, can you explain maybe kind of
fill us you know, what's going on and why.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, So we went on agate and it was I
mean effortually, like completely fine, and he was a sweet
gentleman and everything was pretty chill and pretty cool. And
so then we decided to, you know, go back to
his place, and I'm thinking, oh, okay, like.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
We're going to get to know each other a little
bit more and we share a little nanco. Soon maybe
something will happen.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Okay. So your expectation going back there was it like
you guys were going to hook up. That's that's where
your mind was. Yeah, Like it was.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I didn't think it was going to happen right away,
Like I mean, he was being like a pretty sweet
gentleman the whole time, and I was like, okay, I
could dig this, like yeah, and then h he did.
When we got back to his place, we didn't do anything.
In fact, the only thing we did is that he
talked about how he was super good at jiu jitsu,
which is like that Japanese fighting fell. I mean, I
(03:54):
didn't find anything wrong with that. At first. I was like, hey, man,
at least you're in shape and mean wrote good.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
But then but then he just proceeded to like have
me sit.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
There for hours and I'm not and I'm not talking
like one or two hours, like I'm pretty sure we
sat there like.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Like four or five hours. I'm surprised I lasted that long.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
And he just showed me videos of him and showing
me moves on how to like down my opponent.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Huge hit like match his row whatever they're called, the
literal video of him doing what you did.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Wo.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Yes, it was like home videos, like I'm pretty sure
his mom or his grandma filmed it because there was
some lady going oh.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
My god, and then again and then but then.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I thought maybe something was gonna happen, because then he
was like, oh, let me show you something, and so
he was like, you know, getting behind me home, Like okay,
maybe it's NIC's not gonna be a total loss. No,
he just proceeded to show me how he would take
out his opponent, and I was like him, I'm done,
and I he like grand again, I'm thinking maybe something's
gonna happen, know, and he stands up in the like.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
And that he wanted to I'm scared. Okay, I gotta
bring Tim and I forgot to mention Tim is here. Dude.
You brought her back to your house to watch videos
of you doing martial arts. Wanted to those hours of them.
I mean like even maybe like a few clips, but
four hours of you whatever you're doing.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Yeah, I thought she was interesting, she was interested at first.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I did.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I did that to be nice.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
And nobody wants us to sit there and watch you,
you know, get the great at jiu jitsu for you.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Sure your mom got sort of filming you.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
No one's trying to watch videos that you're being great
for four hours. I'm not trying to watch anything for
four hours. Botanic. And then you try to tell.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
What was this that I'm good at jiu jitsu?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I was. I was nodding off. So you did your
ow like demonstrations. I gave you the hand of like,
oh boy, I'm kind of tired.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Maybe even you could have maybe like, uh, you could
have done like a little like I'm good at ju
ju jitsu flirty thing where maybe maybe and then you
kind of pin her down and like in a fun way,
and then yeah, you know, like in a fun way,
and then lock her up but never let her leave again. Like,
I mean, there's a way you could have made this fun.
She sounded into it, but four hours later she's exhausted
(06:26):
of watching all your moves, Like what the hell, dude.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
I mean, I mean she could have communicated that with it.
My thing is, like I was, I wasn't trying to
be pushy. I wondered the show where I'm as good
as you, like, I'm pretty sure she would appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
We're on a date and somebody attacked her.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know how.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
You already she was at your house, man, Like you
didn't need to impress her any further. She was down.
I mean she was already you won the match. I
mean you were good to go.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I know, okay, mateks like I lost it. I don't,
I don't, I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
You know. This seems like that would be like me
inviting women over to my house to play this. You
want to hear clips of me on the radio, It's like, no,
I don't. Four hours later, yeah jesus, all right, yeah,
well yeah, that's the thing that this sucks. I'm dried up. Yeah,
I got Francesca another date with this guy. Would you
(07:22):
consider it? We'll pay for it. No, no more video
clips of him, no things.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I don't think I could take another fourteen hours.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Of jiu jitsu, all right, Tim, dude, come on, man,
I mean, I think it's one thing to have a
hobby and a passion. I think you can probably communicate
that without having to go overboard like this. I think
you kind of missed it on this one. You missed,
you missed the cues.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Yeah, yeah, I guess you're right to this day.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I mean, you just got me sense Oh Jesus, all right,
I gotta go, sensey. No, I'm the sensor. What are you, grasshopper?
I gotta go. Good luck to both of you, guys. Okay,
thanks for your time. Francesca, no worry,
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Tim,
Good morning, Welcome, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:08):
We didn't do it? Okay, we call this waiting by
the field of course. Oh gay here here we are
just hanging out with you, Tim. What's going on with
this woman? Is it Francesca? How did you meet Francesca?
And then tell us about any dates that you've been on.
What's going on now?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yes, I met I met Francesco on Hinde and I
took her out to dinner and the dinner went really well,
and so I was like, it went so well that
took her back to my place, and I was trying
to be a gentleman, so I didn't want to be
like pushy, here, make a move. Yeah, And I guess
that that wasn't the move because I haven't heard from
her since.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Okay, So you think that because you weren't, because nothing
physical happened, because you didn't initiate that. You think that's
her problem. She was turned off, like you're not interested
or something. Yeah, I thought that would be the move.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I thought that she would appreciate that because guys are
always so pushy. And I guess that I don't know,
I just haven't heard from hersis.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I just don't no line. He was trying to be
a good guy. He's trying to be a gentleman. But
I also see how that could be misconstrued as he's
on intimate he doesn't like me because now you're back
at your place. So I guess it's kind of, you know,
not necessarily guaranteed, but maybe implied that that kind of
stuff might happen, and it didn't, so that could be
the issue. I don't know, that's that's an interesting observation.
But let's call this woman, Francesca. We'll get her on
(01:20):
the phone, we'll ask some questions. You'll be on the
phone at the same time. I don't want you to
jump in right at first, but at some point you're
welcome to come in on the call and hopefully we
can straighten this out and then get you guys set
up on another day that we pay for. Okay, absolutely,
let's see what's going on. Part two of waiting met
a phone after usher back in two minutes. Don't move.
It's the Fred Show, us Share. The Fred Show is
on the radio, on the iHeart app Live and anytime.
(01:41):
Search for The Fred Show on demand and make us
a preset please, Hey Tim? Yeah, all right, Tim, let's
call off Francesca. You guys met on a dating app.
You went on this date. You thought that went really well,
back to your place, and then you know, you were
a gentleman, you weren't aggressive, didn't make any moves. But
then since the date, you haven't heard anything, and you
think maybe that's why maybe you I don't know, maybe
(02:02):
she thought you weren't into it.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yeah, I just want to know first of all.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I like to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Okay, all right, let's call her right now. Good luck? Hello,
Hi is his Francesca. Hi, my name is fredam callin
from the Fred Show. Not sure if you've heard it before,
but I'm hoping we can talk to you for a
(02:29):
second on the radio. I would need your permission though,
to continue on the air.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Oh yeah, no, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
I actually, well, thank you very much. We appreciate that.
So you know what's going on here. We're calling on
behalf of a guy who says he recently went out
with you. His name is Tim. Do you remember meeting too?
Oh yeah, so okay, Well that's usually the tone of
somebody who like has got a story to tell. So
(02:55):
he reached out to us that he liked you was
hoping to see you again, but he can't get a
hold of you. Now, can you explain maybe kind of
fill us you know, what's going on and why.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, So we went on agate and it was I
mean effortually, like completely fine, and he was a sweet
gentleman and everything was pretty chill and pretty cool. And
so then we decided to, you know, go back to
his place, and I'm thinking, oh, okay, like.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
We're going to get to know each other a little
bit more and we share a little nanco. Soon maybe
something will happen.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Okay. So your expectation going back there was it like
you guys were going to hook up. That's that's where
your mind was. Yeah, Like it was.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I didn't think it was going to happen right away,
Like I mean, he was being like a pretty sweet
gentleman the whole time, and I was like, okay, I
could dig this, like yeah, and then h he did.
When we got back to his place, we didn't do anything.
In fact, the only thing we did is that he
talked about how he was super good at jiu jitsu,
which is like that Japanese fighting fell. I mean, I
(03:54):
didn't find anything wrong with that. At first. I was like, hey, man,
at least you're in shape and mean wrote good.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
But then but then he just proceeded to like have
me sit.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
There for hours and I'm not and I'm not talking
like one or two hours, like I'm pretty sure we
sat there like.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Like four or five hours. I'm surprised I lasted that long.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
And he just showed me videos of him and showing
me moves on how to like down my opponent.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Huge hit like match his row whatever they're called, the
literal video of him doing what you did.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Wo.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Yes, it was like home videos, like I'm pretty sure
his mom or his grandma filmed it because there was
some lady going oh.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
My god, and then again and then but then.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I thought maybe something was gonna happen, because then he
was like, oh, let me show you something, and so
he was like, you know, getting behind me home, Like okay,
maybe it's NIC's not gonna be a total loss. No,
he just proceeded to show me how he would take
out his opponent, and I was like him, I'm done,
and I he like grand again, I'm thinking maybe something's
gonna happen, know, and he stands up in the like.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
And that he wanted to I'm scared. Okay, I gotta
bring Tim and I forgot to mention Tim is here. Dude.
You brought her back to your house to watch videos
of you doing martial arts. Wanted to those hours of them.
I mean like even maybe like a few clips, but
four hours of you whatever you're doing.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Yeah, I thought she was interesting, she was interested at first.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I did.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
I did that to be nice.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
And nobody wants us to sit there and watch you,
you know, get the great at jiu jitsu for you.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Sure your mom got sort of filming you.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
No one's trying to watch videos that you're being great
for four hours. I'm not trying to watch anything for
four hours. Botanic. And then you try to tell.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
What was this that I'm good at jiu jitsu?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I was. I was nodding off. So you did your
ow like demonstrations. I gave you the hand of like,
oh boy, I'm kind of tired.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Maybe even you could have maybe like, uh, you could
have done like a little like I'm good at ju
ju jitsu flirty thing where maybe maybe and then you
kind of pin her down and like in a fun way,
and then yeah, you know, like in a fun way,
and then lock her up but never let her leave again. Like,
I mean, there's a way you could have made this fun.
She sounded into it, but four hours later she's exhausted
(06:26):
of watching all your moves, Like what the hell, dude.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
I mean, I mean she could have communicated that with it.
My thing is, like I was, I wasn't trying to
be pushy. I wondered the show where I'm as good
as you, like, I'm pretty sure she would appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
We're on a date and somebody attacked her.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know how.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
You already she was at your house, man, Like you
didn't need to impress her any further. She was down.
I mean she was already you won the match. I
mean you were good to go.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I know, okay, mateks like I lost it. I don't,
I don't, I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
You know. This seems like that would be like me
inviting women over to my house to play this. You
want to hear clips of me on the radio, It's like, no,
I don't. Four hours later, yeah jesus, all right, yeah,
well yeah, that's the thing that this sucks. I'm dried up. Yeah,
I got Francesca another date with this guy. Would you
(07:22):
consider it? We'll pay for it. No, no more video
clips of him, no things.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I don't think I could take another fourteen hours.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Of jiu jitsu, all right, Tim, dude, come on, man,
I mean, I think it's one thing to have a
hobby and a passion. I think you can probably communicate
that without having to go overboard like this. I think
you kind of missed it on this one. You missed,
you missed the cues.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Yeah, yeah, I guess you're right to this day.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I mean, you just got me sense Oh Jesus, all right,
I gotta go, sensey. No, I'm the sensor. What are you, grasshopper?
I gotta go. Good luck to both of you, guys. Okay,
thanks for your time. Francesca, no worry,
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