I’m Done! Now What?

I’m Done! Now What?

Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence. You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered. I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love. If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place. Click play and let’s dive in.

Episodes

June 17, 2025 37 mins

What’s really getting in the way of your success when it comes to being fit, healthy and consistent?

For years, I went around in circles—desperate to become fit and healthy, to start feeling good but I always ended up back at square one.

And I realised... the things I thought were holding me back? They weren’t the real issue at all.

In this episode, I’m opening up about the sneaky, unexpected things that were actually keeping me st...

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Do you feel like you eat, drink, and scroll too much — and wish you didn’t?

I drank too much for years. I overate for years too. And while I didn’t hate it all the time, towards the end… I just felt stuck. Every day felt like Groundhog Day. Every Monday felt like I was starting again.

I wasn’t making progress in the areas that mattered to me. I felt unfit, tired, and sluggish all the time. My clothes didn’t feel right, and I didn’t...

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You keep thinking, “If only I knew back then what I know now…”

You’re either all in or completely off—and you’re so tired of swinging between the two.

In this episode, I’m taking you back to the version of me that was stuck in that loop—eating too much, drinking too much, and feeling totally disconnected from my body. I’ll share what I wish I’d known back then, the tiny mindset traps I couldn’t see at the time, and how shifting my ...

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You feel off every Monday.

Tired, bloated, overwhelmed—like you’ve gone too far again, and now you’re starting over.

You tell yourself you’ll get back on track, but deep down, it’s the same cycle every week. And it’s exhausting.

In this episode, we’re slowing things right down. We’ll look at what’s really going on with your weekend habits—not from a place of shame, but from curiosity. If you’ve been stuck in that “I’ll start fresh...

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You’re doing your best, but something still feels off. You’re ticking all the boxes, but deep down, you feel overwhelmed, unsettled, and like you’ve lost a bit of yourself.

In this episode, we’re getting really honest about the small habits that might be stealing your peace — without you even realising it. These aren’t big dramatic things, but they quietly pile up and leave you feeling exhausted, stuck, or just not quite you. I’ll ...

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You tell yourself every night, “This time will be different.” But somehow, you’re back at the fridge, glass in hand, wondering why it keeps happening. You’re tired. You want peace. And you’re not sure how to get it.

In this episode, I’m sharing what my evenings used to look like—and why they felt so hard, even when everything on the outside looked fine. If you’ve ever felt that pull toward food or wine when the day ends, this will ...

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You keep trying to stick with exercise… but it just never clicks.

Maybe you start off motivated, but it always ends up feeling like a chore—and then the guilt creeps back in.

In this episode, I’m sharing a fresh way to look at movement—especially if you’ve never really enjoyed working out. We’ll talk about why so many women feel disconnected from exercise, and what can shift when you stop forcing it and start making it work for yo...

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You’ve been putting in the effort—counting, tracking, doing long workouts—but still feeling stuck. It’s frustrating when you’re doing so much and getting so little back.

In this episode, we’re digging into why the usual plans—like calorie counting, step goals, or endless food prep—often leave you feeling more tired, more stressed, and no closer to your goals. You’ll hear real stories from women who broke free from that loop and fou...

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You keep calling yourself lazy… but deep down, you know that’s not really it.

You’re tired, overwhelmed, and wondering why you just can’t seem to get it together.

In this episode, I’m unpacking what’s actually going on when you feel stuck or off-track—and why pushing harder isn’t the answer. I’ll share a few real-life stories from women who thought they just needed more willpower, and what helped them finally feel calm, clear, and ...

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You were all in. Focused. Ready.

Then out of nowhere, the motivation just… vanished. And now you’re wondering, “What happened?” 😕

In this episode, we’re talking about that moment—the dip. When the energy fades, the excitement goes quiet, and everything starts to feel harder than it should. If you’ve ever felt like you were doing great and then lost your rhythm, this is going to help you make sense of it—and more importantly, know...

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You’re going through the motions, holding everything together—but deep down, you don’t feel like you anymore.

If you’re feeling sluggish, overwhelmed, or just off… this episode is for you.

I’m sharing three small but powerful shifts that can help you feel grounded, strong, and clear again—without overhauling your whole life.

Tune in to learn: ✔️ Why doing more might be the very thing keeping you stuck ✔️ The tiny shifts that crea...

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You’re eating well. Moving more. Doing what you think you should be doing…

So why do you still feel tired, bloated, overwhelmed—and stuck?

In this episode, I’m sharing 10 sneaky habits that might be quietly working against you. These aren’t the obvious ones, but they can leave you feeling drained no matter how hard you try.

Tune in to learn: ✔️ What these hidden habits are—and why they’re so easy to miss ✔️ How they might be maki...

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Why do some women over 40 stay consistent—while others keep starting over?

It’s not about willpower. It’s not about being more motivated. The difference comes down to a few key mindset shifts and habits that make consistency feel easier.

Tune in to learn: ✔️ The mindset shift that separates women who stay on track from those who constantly restart. ✔️ How to make time for fitness instead of waiting for the "perfect" moment. ✔️ W...

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You’re putting in the effort, but progress feels slow—or completely stalled. The truth? It’s not about trying harder. It’s about knowing what’s actually holding you back.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes that might be slowing you down, including:

✔️ The real reason why focusing on weight loss can hold you back ✔️ A habit almost everyone does—but actually works against progress ✔️ The sneaky mindset shift th...

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Why does staying consistent with fitness feel so hard? Do you start strong, then lose motivation after a few weeks? What if motivation isn’t actually the problem?

I used to think I just needed more willpower. I’d go all-in, train hard for a few weeks, then stop. Every time I quit, I told myself I wasn’t disciplined enough. Sound familiar? The truth is, most people struggle because they’re making fitness harder than it needs to be.

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Do you feel like you're constantly starting over, stuck in the same unhealthy habits, and unsure how to break free? 

In this episode, I sit down with Sabrina, a Thrive Academy member who transformed her mindset, ditched alcohol and sugar, and finally took control of her health. 

She shares the struggles she faced, the powerful shifts that helped her break the cycle, and how accountability and self-belief changed everything.

If you'...

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Have you ever started something with the best intentions—whether it’s working out, eating better, or sticking to a routine—only to fall off track when motivation disappears? 

You’re not alone. The truth is, motivation is unreliable, but discipline? That’s what creates real, lasting results.

In this episode, I’m sharing practical, no-fluff strategies to help you build discipline and stay consistent—even on the days you don’t feel li...

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Have you ever felt like eating healthy is just too hard?

Like no matter what plan you follow, you always end up back in the same cycle—being "good" during the week, then overeating at weekends, feeling frustrated, and starting over again? I’ve been there.

In this episode, I’m sharing exactly why we overcomplicate food and how to finally make it easy to eat well without stress, guilt, or strict rules. I’ll walk you through my own jo...

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Struggling with consistency? Feeling stuck in the cycle of trying, stopping, and starting over? You’re not alone.

In this episode, I sit down with Mary O’Dwyer, a thriving member of Thrive Academy, to talk about her incredible transformation. 

Mary once believed that success meant being “on” or “off”, “good” or “bad”. She thought the key to health was weight loss and dieting—until she discovered a better way.

Three reasons to tune ...

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Have you been thinking about quitting alcohol but feel stuck, unsure, or just a bit lost on what life would even look like without it? Maybe drinking doesn’t feel right anymore, but the idea of stopping feels overwhelming. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

I’m joined by Olivia Farrelly, host of No More Booze and founder of Grey Area Drinker. Olivia gave up alcohol in 2018, and now she helps others untangle from drin...

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