Allen After Dark

An interesting exchange at happy hour leads to a discussion about gay men (and men in general) who embellish their lives with questionable stories of influential careers and envious wealth. 

After spilling a glass of water, Allen takes a moment to mourn the ending of the Netflix series Heartstopper as well as discussing an angry encounter with a conservative gay and the lies and propaganda about the trans community republicans continue to spread before election day. Allen takes a look at classic gay themed movies and wishes for a world that treats the LGBTQIA community the way movies like Big Eden were written.

Allen takes a look at old southern traditions that some folks might think are unusual or weird, particularly ones involving funerals and cemeteries. The discussion then turns to southern dialect and how difficult it might be for others to understand.

Allen reflects on the times he was "hoodwinked" by hustlers and what kind of legacy a conman leaves behind.

Allen takes a look at why men seem to have complex issues with communication especially when it comes to their health.

An insulting comment about Gay Pride leads to a discussion about the importance of diversity. A moment of "pocket pool" leads to a fond remembrance of the joys of men's room cruising. A road rage incident sparks Allen's thoughts about the mental health of Americans. 

Allen re-examines the rights of Trans-Americans and the lies conservatives present as truths to justify the introduction of outrageous laws. In a lighter segment he considers the reasons someone might alter the tone of their voice, new UFO information from the government and why conspiracy theorists are more likely to believe lies rather than the truth.

Allen has a few choice words for conservatives regarding their anti-pride attitudes, recalling the old days with gay bashing conservatives after an encounter with a confederate flag wearing a-hole.

Allen takes his annual mid-life crisis look at being unattractive and how the world views people based on their physical appearance. 

Allen takes an honest and tough look at his past experiences involving men living with HIV/AIDS and how gay men have been treated through out the history of the virus.  He takes into consideration this experience to discuss STDs and the importance of testing and treatment.

In anticipation of the coming blue moon, Allen reflects on the effect that a full moon has on people. A goth kid seeks acceptance at happy hour and another gay republican has to face facts when shown proof that he wants to deny. Allen decides to wade into the good, the bad and the ugly of "May-December" relationships. 

A very uncomfortable ogling incident on an elevator reminds Allen of the experiences that women have to endure on a daily basis. Taking a trip back in time, Allen reflects on the joy he experienced when going to his favorite gay dance club. As always, the "male ego" has to interfere with the discussion once again.

An unpleasant encounter with a bible beater kicks off this week's episode, leading to a discussion about relationships and certain gay men that love to cause drama. 

Allen takes a trip back in time to his high school days and some of the guys that excited him for a very specific reason.  He also muses over how an "act your age" point of view should be interpreted.

With high inflation and global conflicts raging, a frustrated Allen takes a look at several issues including the struggles average people are having while living in a material world. He considers his options if the only jobs available were coal mining or adult entertainment and wonders if people look at him as a dirty old man.

Allen has a few choice words for Caitlyn Jenner before considering the positive aspects of self-checkout in retail stores and the upsides of hookup apps. Feeling sentimental, Allen recalls his first time in a gay club and the sense of freedom as a result of that first experience.

Allen takes a trip back in time to remember some of his weirdest experiences in public. An incident during a recent visit to the mall leads Allen to discuss envy and jealousy.

Troubling personal incidents affect this week's discussion as Allen takes a look at the gay community's place in the world and how we can be guilty of making assumptions about others and their lifestyles. Allen discusses another sex dream and the joys such dreams can evoke.

Allen takes a look at "gaydar" and discusses how accurate it really is and he openly wonders the reasons why we base our personal worth on how attractive others find us. Prince Alberts, bad luck, and hooking up with "straight" guys complete this week's conversation.