A Little Birdie Told You

An avoidant usually always makes a return, but should you let them? You may be asking yourself, why are they coming back? Why would the person who couldn’t commit come back? Is it curiosity, closure, or control? Well, in this episode, Kristen discusses what to do when the very person who left you decides to return, how to avoid repeating the cycle, the psychology behind the pattern, energetically detaching from the dynamic, and why...

Mistakes are a necessary part of growth. Many of us believe mistakes are proof of failure, as if we’re falling behind. but the truth is, every mistake carries information that allows you to become equipped with knowledge to stop repeating the pattern. Every failed relationship, every wrong door opened, every setback, every disappointment, allows you to learn what you will refuse to tolerate ever again. Making mistakes gives you acc...

It seems we often attract the same type of partnerships. It almost seems as if it’s the same person in a different body, resulting in the same ending, betrayal, pain, and heartache. Realistically, are we attracting the same type of dynamics, or are we accepting? In this episode, Kristen discusses how to recognize the relationships you’re accepting. We learn how to break the pattern, decipher between safety and chaos in a relationsh...

Learn to love your own company, not solely in a romanticizing sense, but actually loving the process of being alone. When you spend time with yourself, you uncover who you are without the outside noise, without external projections, you sit with your own emotions and triggers, revealing your true identity. In this episode, Kristen discusses how establishing your relationship with yourself not only sets the standards for everything ...

When a door shuts, we initially ask ourselves, “What went wrong?”We question ourselves and wonder what could have been done differently to keep the door open. However, you should be grateful that the door closed. If that door hadn't closed, you may have settled for less than you deserve and tolerated behavior that doesn’t align with who you’re meant to become. What seemed like punishment was actually protection in disguise. It didn...

Sometimes those who disrespected, betrayed, or hurt us finally decide to resurface after a duration of time and provide us with an apology for their actions. But the real question is, is their apology sincere? In this episode, we dissect the psychology behind apologies, revealing the three key reasons people feel the need to apologize, whether it’s due to guilt, ego conflict, or an attempt to see if they still have access to your e...

When we are attempting to find our true identity, we first have to unlearn who we were taught to become. Many people in our environments will project limitations onto us, creating the need to feel validated and achieve certain expectations ingrained in our minds. But what’s life if you’re not truly living for yourself? In this episode, Kristen discusses why it’s crucial to unlearn the patterns and projections you were taught. Wheth...

Letting go of someone, something, or a situation can be a difficult process. Truthfully, letting go happens in layers. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli express why you should let go, breaking the cycle of attachment and choosing detachment, refusing to repeat patterns, understanding your emotions through the process of letting go, finding closure internally,  and why clinging onto what’s not meant for you is preventing you from c...

In this episode, we dive into the dating realm, giving you our honest truths when it comes to pursuing romantic relationships. Whether it's learning to choose yourself, deciphering between love and loneliness, consistency over intensity, pursuing love through discernment over desperation, establishing a relationship with yourself, understanding the value you carry into relationships, refusing to see potential over reality, listenin...

Choosing to trust your intuitive nudge can be crucial in navigating your life. Whether it’s distancing yourself from certain situations, a calling to pursue something, understanding the distinction between intuition and anxiety, navigating what’s meant for you, shifting from the perspective of what you desire to see to reality, and clarity versus confusion in this episode, we cover why you should heavily develop confidence in your ...

When something is abruptly removed from our lives, we tend to feel the void of abandonment. However, we refuse to recognize the abundance that has the potential to enter our lives. When something is removed from your life, this creates space for something of additional value. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli discuss the experience of sudden loss, the importance of alignment over attachment, valuing yourself enough to choose growt...

To become the best version of yourself, to reach the destination you desire, and to accomplish your goals, you have to begin moving with intention. In this episode, Kristen discusses the importance of living an intentional life to carry out the path of your vision. Whether it’s gaining the clarity to protect your energy, recognizing misalignment, maintaining promises to yourself, freeing yourself from mental and societal restrictio...

Value yourself to the extent you remove yourself from situations where you aren’t valued. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli explain the importance of distancing yourself from situations that undervalued you. Whether it's the topic of remaining in situations that diminish your growth, limit your understanding of your own worth, becoming self-aware, learning not to tolerate someone being uncertain about you, or loving yourself to yo...

Have you ever found yourself dimming your authenticity, because you feel you're “too much,” your standards are “too high,” or perhaps even you’ve been told “you’re not thinking realistically?” Well, in this episode, Kristen covers why you’re not “too much”, and why you should refrain from dimming your natural ability to shine, as other people fear your potential. Whether it’s learning to embrace your true authenticity, understandin...

Becoming a magnet for abundance, prosperity, success, or even connection requires a specific mindset. A mindset that aligns with inner confidence, self-awareness, and authenticity. How can you become magnetic? Well, in this episode, Kristen provides you all the necessary tips on how to become your most magnetic self, as she discusses embodying inner magnetism, the habits and qualities of magnetic people, and how to project a magnet...

Becoming the best version of yourself is a commitment that requires daily action and decision. However, what are the necessary actions needed to become the best version of yourself? Well, in this episode, Kristen guides you through understanding the process of aligning with your highest self, the process of daily intention to become the best version of yourself for yourself, and making decisions from the perspective of the person y...

Every experience, emotion, circumstance, and moment is temporary. Things are constantly changing and transforming, and that equates to the law of impermanence. In this episode, Kristen discusses the importance of detaching from outcomes, as everything is temporary. Whether it’s the perspective of learning to enjoy the present moment, becoming mindful of the choices you make, understanding the importance of experience, acknowledging...

A response of silence is a response of power, but why is silence essential? In this episode, Kristen discusses how silence relates to reclaiming your peace, controlling your emotions, understanding why peace is far more valuable than proving a point, refusing to partake in situations that bring unnecessary chaos, and how silence forces people to confront the truth. Because the truth is, silence causes people to feel your absence wh...

Sometimes someone hurts us, and we desire that they face the sensation of regret for the way they made us feel. However, maybe the best revenge is no revenge at all. In this episode, Kristen dives into why not aiming to get revenge is better. Such as the topics of shifting the energy onto yourself, time will reveal who this person truly is, not giving them a reaction, improving yourself, building a better version of yourself, and u...