CRINGE & CRUMBLE

Host Tranisha sits down with Cedric Bertelli, founder of the Emotional Health Institute, to unpack why breakups and endings can trap us in a closure-seeking loop. They explore how the brain predicts emotion, how old patterns show up as real physical sensations that fuel rumination, and why checking an ex’s social media only reactivates the wound.

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When someone’s energy shifts in dating: slower texts, vague plans, mixed signals, it can send you straight into overthinking and spiraling. In this episode of Cringe & Crumble, Tranisha breaks down what to do when you feel the shift in dating: pause and regulate, name the shift and your need, make one clear ask, observe behavior, and de-escalate access if their effort doesn’t mat...

Consistency in Dating: If You’re Confused, That’s the Information. In this episode of Cringe & Crumble Tranisha breaks down what consistency actually looks like (reliable communication, follow-through, and repair) and how to spot inconsistency early from hot-and-cold behavior, breadcrumbing, pocketing, to “soon” plans with no action. You’ll get a simple 7-day consistenc...

In this reset episode of Cringe & Crumble, host Tranisha breaks down spending vs investing your time and why feeling drained isn’t always about doing “too much.” She names three hidden interest charges that quietly wear you out (inconsistent dating, nervous system dysregulation, and people-pleasing) and gives you a simple reset you can use immediately: Audit → Reallocate → Locks. By the end, you&rsqu...

If someone played your inner thoughts out loud… would it sound like you even like you?  In this episode, we breakdown what it really means to “not be a loser in your own story.” If you’ve been losing confidence not because you’re incapable, but because your inner voice keeps narrating your life from fear, this episode is for you. We unpack ego vs. higher self, how fear disguises itself as “realism,” and how to build grounded self-b...

“Date older, they’re more mature,” but emotionally, that’s not always true. In this episode of Cringe & Crumble, Tranisha unpacks what happens when you’re dating men raised in different emotional eras: older men conditioned on “boys don’t cry” vs. younger men raised on “use your words.” We break down how generational conditioning shapes emotional fluency and why emotional alignment matters more than age when choosing a partner.

In this episode of Cringe & Crumble, I sit down with certified hypnotherapist and mindset coach Nurhan Ora to unpack Low Vibrational Friends, the ones who drain your energy, live in constant chaos, and secretly compete with you. We break down 5 key signs of low-vibe friendships, how childhood patterns and subconscious beliefs shape who you keep around, what high vibrational friendships actually feel like, and how to set boundar...

Host Tranisha and guest Natalya Turner-Chapman explore why confident women don’t compete and how cultural conditioning quietly fuels comparison. They unpack subtle rivalry in friendships and at work: silence, backhanded compliments, performative support, and workplace gatekeeping. Through self-awareness, shadow work, and grace, they reframe confidence as quiet authenticity and offer practical ways to build real solidarity, se...

Explore the concept of an app detox and the reasons why someone might need one. Hosts Tranisha and Vanessa define what an app detox entails and how it goes beyond just taking a break from dating apps to focus on oneself. The hosts share their own experiences of taking an app detox and how it has helped them to connect with people in the real world and do the things they love without the distractions of screentime and conversations....

In this episode, we delve into the complex situations that arise when long-term relationships hit an impasse. Specifically, we focus on married women who are questioning whether they have outgrown their partners and whether it's time to move on. We explore various coping mechanisms, including taking a hiatus from the marriage or having a side piece, and discuss the pros and cons of each approach. Ultimately, we aim to help women in...

In this episode, we explore the challenges of being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner and share practical strategies for coping and preserving your mental health. We discuss the key characteristics and levels of narcissism, how to recognize the warning signs of narcissistic behavior, and the difference between narcissism and healthy self-protection. We also offer tips for setting boundaries, improving communication, and...