Post Trauma Secrets & Decluttering
Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.
Episodes
In this episode, Valerie and JM get honest about the emotional layers that make decluttering feel overwhelming—even when your home looks “clean.” They unpack the neuroscience of why clutter is so triggering, share their personal story of burnout, and challenge the polished perfection of most organizing content. With insights on trauma, identity, and the reality of ongoing healing, this episode reframes decluttering as a journey of ...
In this episode, Valerie and JM walk through Leslie’s 20-year journey of caregiving, grief, and emotional attachment—and how the trauma-informed DO Well Method helped her reclaim space, freedom, and joy. You’ll learn how clutter often holds meaning, why slow and compassionate support matters, and how decluttering can restore not just your home, but your life.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:
- Why clutter often represents g...
In this episode, JM shares compassionate, trauma-informed strategies to support someone who’s struggling with clutter. You’ll learn why clutter often represents safety or survival, how to communicate with empathy, and why consent is non-negotiable. From asking the right questions to celebrating small wins, this guide offers powerful tools to help your loved one reclaim their space—without losing their dignity or trust.
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In this episode, JM unpacks how emotional attachments to objects can impact communication, especially when trauma or grief is involved. You’ll learn why some people hold on, how to approach decluttering as a household, and strategies like community vs. personal zones, shared goals, and weekly resets. Designed for couples and families, this episode offers a path to declutter with compassion, restore connection, and create a home tha...
In this episode, JM shares the surprising story of a small drill bit with a big emotional impact—lost during a well-meaning garage clean-out. Together, JM and Valerie unpack the hidden cost of letting go too quickly and offer three mindful tips to prevent regret: use a Maybe Box, ask if an item carries a story, and slow down before tossing unique pieces. Whether you're clearing space or facing emotional decisions, this episode...
In this episode, Valerie and JM unpack the hidden emotional weight behind guilt, nostalgia, and identity that keeps clutter in your life. Learn the psychology behind why letting go is hard—and the mindset shifts that make it easier. This episode covers simple, practical steps to declutter without guilt, from the One-Year Rule to photo-based memory keeping. If you're holding onto things out of obligation, this conversation will...
In this episode, Valerie shares the emotional story of losing her beloved blanket—and how that moment shaped her view on sentimental clutter. Together with JM, they walk through four powerful strategies to help you declutter keepsakes without regret: from memory boxes to meaningful goodbyes. If you're holding onto items from the past but craving a lighter, more peaceful home, this episode offers practical tools to help you rel...
In this episode, Valerie and JM open up about the mistakes they wish they had avoided—from rushing the process and tossing sentimental items, to decluttering without a system or support. You’ll learn how to slow down, reduce regret, and use simple strategies like the 4-Box Method and One-Touch Rule. Whether you're starting fresh or resetting after overwhelm, this conversation offers clarity, confidence, and community-driven en...
In this episode, JM and Valerie uncover the hidden link between trauma, narcissistic abuse, and chronic clutter. Through the story of Abby and insights into trauma attachment, you'll learn why letting go feels so hard—and how to start healing your space and your mind. With science-backed tools and compassionate guidance, discover practical steps to declutter safely and reclaim your peace, one item at a time.
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In this episode, Valerie and JM reveal the three key areas silently fueling daily overwhelm and share simple, actionable tips to reclaim your space. From taming countertop chaos to transforming your bedroom into a calming retreat, this is your step-by-step guide to a more peaceful, organized home.
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- How clutter increases stress, anxiety, and cortisol levels
- Top 3 clutter zones to tackle first: living room, kitc...
In this inspiring episode, Valerie and JM take on the challenge of fully decluttering a messy bedroom—and uncover more than just extra space. Through simple strategies like sorting, letting go of sentimental items, and rethinking what truly matters, they reveal how clearing physical clutter leads to emotional clarity. Watch the full transformation and learn how to reclaim peace, focus, and energy—starting with your own space.
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In this episode, JM and Valerie share easy-to-follow tidying rituals to feel more at ease in their homes. From the 5-Minute Rule to themed cleaning days and the one-item declutter strategy, these habits are gentle, effective, and built for any energy level. Learn how a little daily effort can lead to a big boost in comfort, safety, and peace of mind.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:
- Easy daily tidying habits to reduce clut...
In this episode, JM and Valerie guide you through 10 specific items you can let go of right now to reduce stress and create a calmer, more focused home environment. From worn-out clothes to expired products and emotional clutter, discover how small changes can lead to big mental and emotional relief. Whether you're starting fresh or feeling stuck, these simple decluttering tips will help you reclaim your space—and your peace.
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In this episode, JM and Valerie reveal the hidden weight behind stress and anxiety—our attachment to expectations. Learn how clinging to ideal outcomes, perfectionism, and control can silently sabotage your peace. Through real-life stories and simple mindset shifts, they show how letting go of these attachments can lead to greater emotional freedom, clarity, and joy in the present moment.
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- How attachment to ...
In this episode, JM and Valerie break down the science and simplicity behind intention setting—a powerful tool to overcome mental overload. You’ll discover how to reduce stress, improve productivity, and gain clarity by starting each day with a focused mindset. With real-life tips and examples, this is your guide to feeling more in control, present, and peaceful—all without adding more to your to-do list.
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In this episode, JM and Valerie reveal five fresh, brain-based strategies to declutter your mind and regain control in a distraction-filled world. From the Brain Dump Method to the Two-Minute Reset and the Thought Jar, these practical tools help you feel lighter, think clearer, and get more done—without the overwhelm. Perfect for anyone feeling mentally drained or stuck in constant multitasking.
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In this episode, JM and Valerie explore why decluttering feels so hard and how emotional attachments, decision fatigue, and overwhelm can keep us stuck. Learn simple, science-backed strategies to get motivated, from 15-minute decluttering sessions to the Four-Box Method. With a focus on mindset, progress, and mental clarity, this episode is your step-by-step guide to creating a calm, organized environment that supports your well-be...
In this episode, JM and Valerie reveal how a cluttered environment affects your mental health, from elevated stress levels to poor sleep and reduced focus. Backed by research, they explain why your room may be draining your energy—and how small, consistent changes can help you reclaim peace and productivity. Learn how to use your space as a tool for better well-being, one step at a time.
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In this episode, JM and Valerie introduce the DO Well Method—a four-step approach to help you declutter more than just your home. Discover how to clear emotional stress, shift limiting mindsets, manage your time intentionally, and organize your space with ease. Backed by research and personal stories, this episode is your guide to creating a calmer, more focused life in the year ahead.
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In this episode, JM and Valerie guide you through practical, mindset-shifting strategies to declutter as you approach retirement. From starting small to handling sentimental items, you'll learn how to clear physical and mental space, keep what truly matters, and enjoy a more peaceful, organized home. Perfect for anyone ready to embrace this next chapter with clarity and confidence.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:
- Why reti...
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