Lolaโ€™s Lessons - ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— Lola Blakely & Carmen Ely ๐Ÿ”ž

Lolaโ€™s Lessons - ๐—๐—‚๐—๐— Lola Blakely & Carmen Ely ๐Ÿ”ž

Lolaโ€™s Lessons is a groundbreaking sex positivity podcast focused on education. Hosted by intimacy & sexual health practitioner, Lola Blakely & toy store owner, Carmen Ely Lolaโ€™s Lessons airs live, every Friday @ 21:00 CAT (Sex-education & relationship guide, focused on enhancing intimacy) Broadcasted live on llustfm.podbean.com and repeats are available on www.llustFM.live The intimacy & sexual health practitioner / associate counselor, Lola Blakely & her co-host Carmen Ely, dive deep into the world of relationships, pleasure, and personal growth to bring listeners a wide range of topics, from sexual education and empowerment to navigating consent and communication in three different, divers and fun talk shows. The dynamic duo invite experts, thought leaders, and individuals with diverse perspectives to share their knowledge and experiences. The shows embraces inclusivity, amplifying voices from all walks of life, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, or relationship style.. Tune in to Lolaโ€™s Lessons weekly & join us by embracing a sex-positive mindset, one episode at a time! www.llustFM.live llustfm.podbean.com @LadyLola_Za @PlayWithMeZA

Episodes

May 29, 2025 โ€ข 84 mins

From Beat to Bedroom - Lola and Carmen discuss the Dance of Desire with Dr. Marina Basson and learn about how music and dance unlock deeper intimacy, emotional healing, and connection. From rhythm to romance, this episode explores how movement brings our bodiesโ€”and heartsโ€”closer.

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Lola and Carmen wrap up Lolaโ€™s Lessons with stories, laughter, and reflections from their incredible journeyโ€”reminiscing about guests, favorite moments, and the lessons theyโ€™ll carry forward.

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Lola & Carmen talk to counsellor Julia Shatalov about how childhood wounds shape adult relationships. They explore attachment styles, love languages, trauma bonds, and how to build healthier, more secure love in todayโ€™s world.

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May 8, 2025 โ€ข 76 mins

Join Carmen & Lola as they chat with Vonks from Naturist Cafรฉ Arthouse Films, exploring body positivity, the art of naturism, and breaking societal taboos through creative storytelling.

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Going on a new love journey with old clothes - Lola & Carmen chat with sex coach Cindy Willemse about starting fresh in 2025. Navigating dating, desire, and self-worth in the wild world of adult love and intimacy.

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Lola and Carmen explore the world of sacred intimacyโ€”where connection goes beyond sex, and pleasure becomes a gateway to healing, presence, and soul-deep love.

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They chat to Melinda Strydom, owner of Elements Spa about the journey to finding deeper connections.ย 

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February 27, 2025 โ€ข 67 mins

Odette Newman from Afrodite Essence joins Lola and Carmen to discuss pheromones.

They dive into the fascinating world of pheromones โ€” those invisible chemical signals that can spark attraction, influence behavior, and shape human connection in ways we donโ€™t even realize. They explore the science, myths, and mysteries of this โ€˜Pheromone Phenomenon'

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February 19, 2025 โ€ข 60 mins

Love, libido and language? What do they have in common?

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February 19, 2025 โ€ข 83 mins

The team is back and Carmen & Lola kick off season 6 live from Play With Me Fourways at the Love Bite valentines day party.

They chat sex, relationship and intimacy trends for 2025, and chat to a couple of attendees at the party.

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December 14, 2024 โ€ข 40 mins

On the season 5 finale of Lolaโ€™s Lessons Bella, winner of the S5 listener lesson, joins Lola and Carmen to discuss her kink.

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What is a Cuckquean & cuckcake got to do with a hot husband?ย 

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Carmen & Lola discuss the season, and Lola gives Carmen a pop quiz.ย 

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November 30, 2024 โ€ข 63 mins

Azure_Inferno joins Lola on air the night of The Sex Expo Johannesburg after Carmen & Lola interviewed a bunch of exhibitors & a few members of the public.

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November 30, 2024 โ€ข 109 mins

Lola & Carmen chat to the the organizers of The Sex Expo leading up to the 2024 Johannesburg exhibition

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November 15, 2024 โ€ข 115 mins

Lola and Carmen return with the second half of Season 5!

They interview Jax and Ru-Ann from Body Art Initiative on genital piercings and how they affect sexual sensations.

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November 12, 2024 โ€ข 80 mins

Carmen & Lola speak to Michelle, a unicorn in the swingers lifestyle about her experience and her perspectives on the elusive single swinger female.ย 

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September 28, 2024 โ€ข 94 mins

Dr Marina Basson (Ph.D) aka Dr M, founder of Inspired Intimacies coaching & training, join Lola & Carmen to discuss how the swinging culture has evolved.

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They touch on current trends & shifts in the community and discuss differences within the global swingers community based on current research.

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September 27, 2024 โ€ข 101 mins

Carmen & Lola chat to Morgana about her life as a lesbian & how she came out.

What is comphet? What is a late in life lesbian? How do you know you're a lesbian?

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Want your relationship to reach end-game? Feeling like your relationship has lost the spark over the years? Feeling disconnected in from your partner?ย 

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Lola & Carmen discuss tips to maintain passion and intimacy over the years.ย 

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September 13, 2024 โ€ข 86 mins

Carmen and Lola discuss the impact of body positivity on sexual health and relationships, with tips on how to boost self-confidence in the bedroom.

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August 30, 2024 โ€ข 105 mins

You're an everyday couple or a general single, but you have a fantasy?

Should you turn your fantasies into reality, and how do you go about achieving this? When should you avoid pursuing the materialization of these desires?

Listen to this episode of Lola & Carmen's Lessons to find out how to explore it!

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August 15, 2024 โ€ข 84 mins

Lola & KB talk about Poly in general. What are some of the myths & misconceptions surrounding this ENM relationship dynamic?ย ย 

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