We Used To Be Cool

We Used To Be Cool

A fun and relatable podcast tailored for moms. Delving into the multifaceted journey of motherhood, the podcast navigates candid discussions on parenting, marriage, and the profound influence of faith in Jesus. Through engaging conversations, personal anecdotes, and expert insights, this podcast offers a supportive space where moms can connect, find solace, and rediscover their ’cool’ amidst the beautiful chaos of raising a family.

Episodes

July 9, 2025 32 mins

On episode 51, Xan and Hannah laugh harder than they have in a long time. They chat about week 3 and 4 of the sweeter than honey bible study, Hannah’s new role at home, and the mom group coming this fall. If you hear nothing else this week hear this: sometimes the shipping fee is actually worth it. 

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah dive into potty training, peace-making and pushing back on the idea that motherhood is suffering. They chat about session two and three of the Sweeter than Honey bible study and remind us that Jesus is the answer and sometimes the old stories just hit different. 

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah kick off a special summer series based on the Bible study “Sweeter than Honey.” This week they share what they took away from session one specifically what it means to be a woman and a mom with roots planted in God’s word. Haven’t read the book? No worries! This episode is for everyone! 

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April 9, 2025 30 mins

On the season 4 finale, Xan and Hannah chit chat about things they are learning and loving lately. They talk scripture, Survivor, and the So What Theory. Tune in for an exciting announcement about a special summer series coming in June!  Buy "Sweeter Than Honey" here: https://www.amazon.com/Sweeter-than-Honey-Bible-Enjoying/dp/B0D76R236B/ref=asc_df_B0D76R236B?mcid=731f98cbbc0638f4aacecda5565a4a7d&hvocijid=11776205023409450594-...

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On this episode, Hannah shares about her new outlook on parenting based on the book “The Flourishing Family” by Dr. David and Amanda Erickson. She reminds us that we are called to love our kids like Jesus does and we know he is gentle, kind and patient with us.  She leaves us with a call to prioritize connection over correction. Every parent needs to hear this one. 

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mental health counselor, Connor Keeter to discuss OCD, anxiety and intrusive thoughts. Connor helps us understand the signs of OCD, strategies for coping, and avenues for healing. She reminds us that there is a significant and important crossroads between Christianity and mental health counseling. Email Connor: connorkeeter@reclaimcounselingwellness.org

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On episode 45, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom, wife and business coach, Alexis Greco. As always, Alexis has so much great advice on managing our homes while also reaching our goals. She reminds us that we must prioritize purpose over performance and maintain a heart posture that is holy and resilient.  Follow Alexis on Instagram: https://instagram.com/alexistgreco Check out her Website & Podcast: https://linktr.ee/alexistgr...

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March 12, 2025 38 mins

On this episode, Xan and Hannah travel to Charlotte to catch up with everyone’s best friend and favorite hairstylist, Marissa Hughes. As usual, her wisdom and spiritual insight during this conversation led us straight to church! We talk contentment, deception, and kitchen appliances.  Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to hit Follow/Subscribe on your go-to podcast platform. Thanks for tuning in!

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom and wife, Laurie Parks. She shares about her daughter’s battle with Leukemia, her relationship with her husband, and the way the Lord has continually shown up for her family. In her wisdom and grace, she reminds us that motherhood is full of little holy moments and a strong marriage just requires “working the triangle.”  Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to hit Follo...

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of two and licensed therapist, Jordan Mitchener. Jordan specializes in helping women through the perinatal period (conception through the first year after birth). She has so much valuable insight and wisdom especially when it comes to normalizing conversations about mental health for moms. Share this one with every mom you know!  Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to ...

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of three, entrepreneur and the executive director of 4th Trimester Mission, Alex Richardson. She shares the inspiration behind her nonprofit and the realities that mom’s face in the first 3 months after birth. She gives some practical advice about self-care, communicating with our spouses and the steps it takes to build a village. This episode is for every mom in any season!  Follo...

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February 12, 2025 53 mins

On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with Tabitha Cox, LCSW to talk about her role as a mom, wife, and therapist. She shares her testimony and the way God has continually worked in her life. She reminds us that we were made for these exact moments with these exact children. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred streaming platform. Thanks for tuning in!

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On this short episode, we share about our technical difficulties this week and how we can decide first thing in the morning how our day is going to turn out.  Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred streaming platform. Thanks for tuning in!

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On this episode, Xan and Hannah share a practical way to pray for our kids. They discuss the importance of parenting from a posture of prayer and the way the Lord shows up when we ask him to work in our lives and in the lives of the people we love the most.  Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred streaming platform. Thanks for tuning in!

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2025 is here and so is season 4! On the season premiere, Xan and Hannah chat about the holidays, their goals for the new year and they share some of your resolutions. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred streaming platform. Thanks for tuning in!

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On the season finale, Xan and Hannah talk through their hopes for this Christmas season and their desire to stay present and joyful in the midst of the chaos.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

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November 21, 2024 42 mins

On this episode, Xan and Hannah chat about what they’e been learning lately. Xan shares about her time at the Behold and Become retreat, and all that she learned about herself and her relationship with the Lord. They also chat about mom rage and how to manage our to-do lists to help manage our emotions. Share with someone who needs to be reminded how loved she is 🤍 Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subsc...

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On episode 34, Xan and Hannah sit down with their lifelong friend and super mom Kathy Kalish to talk all things motherhood. Kathy shares about the importance of conscious parenting, self-reflection and meeting each of our kids’ individual needs as we raise them to be good humans.  Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!

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On episode 33, Xan and Hannah sit down with their friend Dana Laymon to discuss Jonathan Haidt’s book “The Anxious Generation.” They talk about the dangers of smart phones and social media on our kids, and how we can use this book and other resources to restore a healthy, play-based childhood for our kids.   Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for ...

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On episode 32, Hannah and Xan sit down with physical therapist and pelvic floor specialist, Rachel Neathery, to discuss reclaiming pelvic health during and after pregnancy. She shares some easy ways to incorporate exercise into our daily lives and the importance of muscle mass, protein and mindfulness on our physical and mental health.  Follow Rachel @dr.rachel.neathery.pt Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to foll...

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