August 9, 2024 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Abby is on the phone today for our first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Mark.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Abby, how long
has the vinces you heard from Mark?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's then about a week?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
About a week? Okay? Have you tried to reach out
to him multiple times?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
I did a few times, but you know, I if
someone doesn't respond, like continuing to message them, does it normally?
Speaker 6 (00:35):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I did, like one and then I did one more, and.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Then I saw, well, let's hear about your date and
how you met him and see if we can't figure
out why he's ghosting you.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Yeah, so we met.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
We actually got sat up through Mark's coworker and I
have Mark's co worker's wife yoga class. I attend that class.
So me and a Serena, which is mark coworker's wife,
we grabbed coffee and it was kind of like Serena
(01:09):
recruited me to go out on a date with Mark.
But she and her husband Josh, are always on the
hunt for a wife for Mark, and Serena thought I
would be perfect.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So Mark and I met up at a Thi.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
Restaurant that has amazing tropical drinks, and we shared food
and chatted about our favorite thing and we had so
much in common and tonight was so good.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
We ended up going back to Mark's house for like
a little nightcap a sip.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
We're like, a, wow, what what is that?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I was looking for a nicer way to say it
came out with sounds, so I'm really sorry.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Is it just a drink or or.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
Both?
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Okay, I mean yeah, I was super like attracted to him,
and like I could tell that there were like instance
sparks between both of us, and it was just like
easy and effortless. So yeah, we ended up hooking up.
And then afterwards Mark kept talking about his job and
(02:28):
how close he was to a promotion, but I was
kind of bored by it, so I pretended to obviously.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Okay, I'm thinking, like maybe he knew I was pretending.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
About No, I mean, he he did like mention that
I breathed. I breathed like differently when I'm in like
different sleeping.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Phases, So I feel like, maybe, huh, a little buss.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
And I mean, I'm really excited and I want to
support like this promotion journey and all of that, but
the time was just like wanting to enjoy my posts
playtime piece. And that was the nicest way to get
him to shut up by pretending I was asleep.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
So what do you want to say to him?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Well, I want to explain myself in that, Like it
might have seemed rude, but that wasn't like I had
good intentions.
Speaker 7 (03:41):
It's like it wasn't my it wasn't my plans.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Then we'll play a song, come back, and then call
and see if it's us why he's ghosting you, and
see if you still want another date after we find
out the reason.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, okay, sound good.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Plus i'll come back and get your first day follow
up next right in a middle of your first date
follow up and if you're just joining us. Abby is
on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude
named Mark, and it might be because she was bored
by him. We're about to call and see if you'll
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
another date. Before we do that, Abby wanted to you
(04:16):
refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Yeah, we were sat up by Mark coworkers, and we
went out to dinner and had drinks and had like
a great night. We went back to Mark's place for
a nightcab and we ended up cooking up and after that,
(04:40):
I wanted to go to sleep, but Mark kept talking
about his job and his promotion he might be getting.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
So I just pretended to be asleep.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
And I think he might have noticed, and that's why
he's not talking to me.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
All right, Well, man, let's see if we can figure
it out right for us to call him.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Yeah, okay, here we go. Hi, Man, speak to Mark please.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Yeah, this is Mark.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Hey Mark, what's up?
Speaker 8 (05:24):
Man?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
How are you?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
My name is Jewbell and I host the radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Hi, Mark, the show's here.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
My name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. Because you're cool? Yeah,
you ever listen to the show at all?
Speaker 9 (05:37):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (05:37):
Wow? Yeah? Sometimes?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Okay cool?
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Wa Wait a minute, I think I know where you're going.
Speaker 10 (05:45):
What is this where you guys like call someone after
they went they met someone.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yes it is. It's called the first day follow up,
where you go out on a date with somebody and
you ghost them. They can ask us to get you
on the phone and find out what happened. So we
got an email about you, Mark, Oh boy, it's from Abby.
(06:12):
Do you mind telling us about your day with Abby
and why you're not why you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
I mean, I'm sure she told her by the day right,
it was pretty fun.
Speaker 10 (06:22):
But I guess I'll just say that, yes, I'm ghosting
her for the reason is because.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
She used my razor. Like did she tell you we
went back to my place after a date?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
All right?
Speaker 10 (06:39):
She says she wanted to go like freshen up. But
I never crossed my mind that she would use my razor.
And I don't like sharing any personal items, Like I
don't share my razors, not even my tooth brushs like,
not even with like the level of my life.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
I feel like it's so gross.
Speaker 10 (06:52):
And I thought it was so entitled of her just
march into my bathroom and just use my razor. And
I know she used it because light little brown hair.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Oh this is so gross to me. So yeah, I
ghosted her. That's the reason.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
When when was this that she used your razor?
Speaker 10 (07:12):
I'd say, like, I guess she used it before we
I don't know what she tell.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
You, but she said, you guys had fun at your place.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Yeah. Yeah, we got like cozy with each other.
Speaker 10 (07:23):
Yeah, she must have used that before that, because then
I didn't notice until.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I use the restroom in the middle of the night
and I noticed it. And also it wasn't like she
put it back where it was.
Speaker 10 (07:33):
It was like fully out, like I don't even leave
my razor out, It's like in a drawer, and like
she had it out on the stank to sit in.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
The hairs with.
Speaker 10 (07:42):
It was gross, and she was just making herself at home.
Like both of those were just to turn off to me.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Well, thanks for telling us. I mean, yeah, I don't know.
I mean I probably wouldn't care if somebody use my razor.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
But also I mean I probably think it was funny,
but it might be a little bit interesting.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Mark, I mean is on the phone and has been
listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I forgot I love this part.
Speaker 9 (08:04):
I I yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I had no idea about like the razor.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I didn't think it was up take of a deal,
and I just like I wanted to say, like, I'm sorry,
I pretended to like be asleep. I kind of thought
that's why you were not talking to me.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
You were pretending to be asleep. What just well dream
what like.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Afterwards when you were talking about your promotion and stuff,
I was just kind of zoning out like I normally
do after right after that time, and I just wow, wow,
And I thought maybe you knew that I did that
and that's why you were mad at me. But like,
(09:01):
I'm really sorry that I need anyways, And.
Speaker 6 (09:06):
No, I actually thought I put you to sleep, and
I was actually like proud of.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
That, you know, I mean, you did it was amazing
and you did a very good job.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
So I have no complaints.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
And I didn't think like the razor would beat up
big of a deal because you know, I was doing
it for you. I was trying to, you know, look
as fast as I could. I wasn't trying to just
use your razor for no reason.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Well that's not the only thing you did for me.
Speaker 8 (09:41):
We're saying the radio, Well, Mark, would you like another
date with Abby?
Speaker 4 (09:51):
Will pay for it?
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I mean, can you get past the razor using I
mean she was thinking about you, and I'll.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Buy I'll buy a razor. Oh by yes, yes I
would yes, wow.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, I mean i'd love to.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
And I can promise you this time like I won't,
I won't use a razor.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I will stay far away from it.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
I'll get you a new one. I mean you don't
need him now the well.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Hair does grow back?
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Well, what are we having this date? How far the
future we have this day?
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Well, I'll shave before the date.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
Okay, right, you will first date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Abby is on the phone today for our first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Mark.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Abby, how long
has the vinces you heard from Mark?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's then about a week?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
About a week? Okay? Have you tried to reach out
to him multiple times?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
I did a few times, but you know, I if
someone doesn't respond, like continuing to message them, does it normally?
Speaker 6 (00:35):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I did, like one and then I did one more, and.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Then I saw, well, let's hear about your date and
how you met him and see if we can't figure
out why he's ghosting you.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Yeah, so we met.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
We actually got sat up through Mark's coworker and I
have Mark's co worker's wife yoga class. I attend that class.
So me and a Serena, which is mark coworker's wife,
we grabbed coffee and it was kind of like Serena
(01:09):
recruited me to go out on a date with Mark.
But she and her husband Josh, are always on the
hunt for a wife for Mark, and Serena thought I
would be perfect.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So Mark and I met up at a Thi.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
Restaurant that has amazing tropical drinks, and we shared food
and chatted about our favorite thing and we had so
much in common and tonight was so good.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
We ended up going back to Mark's house for like
a little nightcap a sip.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
We're like, a, wow, what what is that?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I was looking for a nicer way to say it
came out with sounds, so I'm really sorry.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Is it just a drink or or.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
Both?
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Okay, I mean yeah, I was super like attracted to him,
and like I could tell that there were like instance
sparks between both of us, and it was just like
easy and effortless. So yeah, we ended up hooking up.
And then afterwards Mark kept talking about his job and
(02:28):
how close he was to a promotion, but I was
kind of bored by it, so I pretended to obviously.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Okay, I'm thinking, like maybe he knew I was pretending.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
About No, I mean, he he did like mention that
I breathed. I breathed like differently when I'm in like
different sleeping.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Phases, So I feel like, maybe, huh, a little buss.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
And I mean, I'm really excited and I want to
support like this promotion journey and all of that, but
the time was just like wanting to enjoy my posts
playtime piece. And that was the nicest way to get
him to shut up by pretending I was asleep.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
So what do you want to say to him?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Well, I want to explain myself in that, Like it
might have seemed rude, but that wasn't like I had
good intentions.
Speaker 7 (03:41):
It's like it wasn't my it wasn't my plans.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Then we'll play a song, come back, and then call
and see if it's us why he's ghosting you, and
see if you still want another date after we find
out the reason.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, okay, sound good.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Plus i'll come back and get your first day follow
up next right in a middle of your first date
follow up and if you're just joining us. Abby is
on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude
named Mark, and it might be because she was bored
by him. We're about to call and see if you'll
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
another date. Before we do that, Abby wanted to you
(04:16):
refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Yeah, we were sat up by Mark coworkers, and we
went out to dinner and had drinks and had like
a great night. We went back to Mark's place for
a nightcab and we ended up cooking up and after that,
(04:40):
I wanted to go to sleep, but Mark kept talking
about his job and his promotion he might be getting.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
So I just pretended to be asleep.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
And I think he might have noticed, and that's why
he's not talking to me.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
All right, Well, man, let's see if we can figure
it out right for us to call him.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Yeah, okay, here we go. Hi, Man, speak to Mark please.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Yeah, this is Mark.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Hey Mark, what's up?
Speaker 8 (05:24):
Man?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
How are you?
Speaker 4 (05:24):
My name is Jewbell and I host the radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Hi, Mark, the show's here.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
My name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. Because you're cool? Yeah,
you ever listen to the show at all?
Speaker 9 (05:37):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (05:37):
Wow? Yeah? Sometimes?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Okay cool?
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Wa Wait a minute, I think I know where you're going.
Speaker 10 (05:45):
What is this where you guys like call someone after
they went they met someone.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yes it is. It's called the first day follow up,
where you go out on a date with somebody and
you ghost them. They can ask us to get you
on the phone and find out what happened. So we
got an email about you, Mark, Oh boy, it's from Abby.
(06:12):
Do you mind telling us about your day with Abby
and why you're not why you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (06:17):
I mean, I'm sure she told her by the day right,
it was pretty fun.
Speaker 10 (06:22):
But I guess I'll just say that, yes, I'm ghosting
her for the reason is because.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
She used my razor. Like did she tell you we
went back to my place after a date?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
All right?
Speaker 10 (06:39):
She says she wanted to go like freshen up. But
I never crossed my mind that she would use my razor.
And I don't like sharing any personal items, Like I
don't share my razors, not even my tooth brushs like,
not even with like the level of my life.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
I feel like it's so gross.
Speaker 10 (06:52):
And I thought it was so entitled of her just
march into my bathroom and just use my razor. And
I know she used it because light little brown hair.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Oh this is so gross to me. So yeah, I
ghosted her. That's the reason.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
When when was this that she used your razor?
Speaker 10 (07:12):
I'd say, like, I guess she used it before we
I don't know what she tell.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
You, but she said, you guys had fun at your place.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Yeah. Yeah, we got like cozy with each other.
Speaker 10 (07:23):
Yeah, she must have used that before that, because then
I didn't notice until.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I use the restroom in the middle of the night
and I noticed it. And also it wasn't like she
put it back where it was.
Speaker 10 (07:33):
It was like fully out, like I don't even leave
my razor out, It's like in a drawer, and like
she had it out on the stank to sit in.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
The hairs with.
Speaker 10 (07:42):
It was gross, and she was just making herself at home.
Like both of those were just to turn off to me.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Well, thanks for telling us. I mean, yeah, I don't know.
I mean I probably wouldn't care if somebody use my razor.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
But also I mean I probably think it was funny,
but it might be a little bit interesting.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Mark, I mean is on the phone and has been
listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I forgot I love this part.
Speaker 9 (08:04):
I I yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I had no idea about like the razor.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I didn't think it was up take of a deal,
and I just like I wanted to say, like, I'm sorry,
I pretended to like be asleep. I kind of thought
that's why you were not talking to me.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
You were pretending to be asleep. What just well dream
what like.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Afterwards when you were talking about your promotion and stuff,
I was just kind of zoning out like I normally
do after right after that time, and I just wow, wow,
And I thought maybe you knew that I did that
and that's why you were mad at me. But like,
(09:01):
I'm really sorry that I need anyways, And.
Speaker 6 (09:06):
No, I actually thought I put you to sleep, and
I was actually like proud of.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
That, you know, I mean, you did it was amazing
and you did a very good job.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
So I have no complaints.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
And I didn't think like the razor would beat up
big of a deal because you know, I was doing
it for you. I was trying to, you know, look
as fast as I could. I wasn't trying to just
use your razor for no reason.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Well that's not the only thing you did for me.
Speaker 8 (09:41):
We're saying the radio, Well, Mark, would you like another
date with Abby?
Speaker 4 (09:51):
Will pay for it?
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I mean, can you get past the razor using I
mean she was thinking about you, and I'll.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Buy I'll buy a razor. Oh by yes, yes I
would yes, wow.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, I mean i'd love to.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
And I can promise you this time like I won't,
I won't use a razor.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I will stay far away from it.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
I'll get you a new one. I mean you don't
need him now the well.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Hair does grow back?
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Well, what are we having this date? How far the
future we have this day?
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Well, I'll shave before the date.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
Okay, right, you will first date follow up
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