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August 5, 2024 12 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date is follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ava is on the phone today for our First Date
follow up, and she went on a date with a
guy named Justin, but now she's getting ghosted. So in
a few minutes we'll call him and see if you'll
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
another date. The first, Ava, how long has it been
since you heard from Justin?

Speaker 3 (00:20):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (00:20):
My god, it's been like a couple of weeks. And
you know, I've actually been reaching out to him. And
the first time I reached out to him, he said,
have a good day, and then I never heard anything
back from him.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
Okay, so you reached out to him again after they
have a good day.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
No, I mean, like it feels like really weird to
keep reaching out to this guy, especially if his only
response is have a good day. I'm worried. It's like
making me feel really desperate. But at the same time,
I really thought we had something. I thought we really connected,
and I don't know, I guess just at like one
point during our date, I was talking about my job,

(00:54):
and you know how thankful I was to have my
job and I accidentally call my boss attractive, and I'm
wondering if maybe that was like a red flag for him.
But I didn't mean it in that way, and if
that's how we took it, I'm I'm honestly very mortified
with that.

Speaker 4 (01:12):
Okay, well that sounds a little bit juicy. Can we
go backwards though, and talk about how we got to
that point, like how was your date other than that?

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Oh? My god?

Speaker 1 (01:20):
Well, so obviously I had a great time, and you know,
I was just thinking the whole time, like basically we
started out at a happy hour, which a lot of my
friends said that wasn't a correct way to go, but
you know, I just had a good feeling about him.
And you know, the funny thing is is he's had
a great sense of humor. He's athletic. Like we played
tickleball and it was like I'd never played before, so

(01:42):
it was really fun to have him kind of teaching
me the ropes.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
And I thought, I was like, yeah, well, basically we
played pick a ball and then went to happy hours,
so I felt like yeah, But you know the thing is.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
After a while, I was that that was all that
there was with us, just like kind of going to
a bar and hanging out because you know, we did
some shots and we danced.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
He showed me how to play darts.

Speaker 1 (02:08):
You know, we shared a bowl of peanuts, and eventually
we did go back to his place where things.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
Got a little you know, he did.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
And I haven't been with anyone in a really long time,
so I'm worried. I also may have just been spread
with signals.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
Okay, I guess I'm.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Just worried that, you know, going back to his place
after kind of a first date maybe gave him an
idea of that that's really all I was looking for,
and I kind of thought I was putting it out
there that I was looking for a little bit more. So, Yeah,
maybe going to his place afterwards was not the best
example for me to, you know, try to make it
work with a guy like this. And maybe that's why

(02:45):
he's ghosting me. Is if I'm coming on too strong
and he's under the impression that all I wanted was
a quick hookup. I don't know, It's just I just
feel so uncomfortable. I really want to go back and
spend some time with him. I felt like we had
a really good time, but now I feel afre just
trying to check in with him.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
At what point in all of that did it come
out that you thought your boss was hot? Oh my god,
this is embarrassing.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Basically, I was connected to my boss in such a
way I live with him. Okay, I'm a nanny, so
I actually live with my HOWK. They actually kind of
like hooked us up and you know, told us that
we should meet up. And you know, my boss even
told Justin that, like, I was a really cool person
to spend time with and that I was a lot

(03:30):
of fun. Yeah, I think he even told I think
he even told Justin that I was really cute. So again,
I'm worried that was like another.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
Red Flager Justine for Justin.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
So I do think maybe the fact that I may
have accidentally just that I thought he was cute, you know,
after we were talking about how we were hooked up
by him, that that was uh, you know, definitely something
that made him uncomfortable. And you know what the thing
is is, as soon as I said that out loud,
I realized it was totally the wrong thing to say,
and I tried to kind of like backtrack a little bit,

(04:02):
but I think that made him even more uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
Okay, well we'll see we figure it out for you. Okay, Well,
play a song, come back, and then call him and
see if you'll tell us why is ghosting you and
maybe get you another date. Okay, all right, thank you
to your first day follow up. Next, right in the
middle of today's first date follow up, if you're just
joining us, Ava is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by Justin. So we're about to call him and

(04:26):
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Ava,
why do you catch everybody up on your situation?

Speaker 1 (04:33):
So basically, I'm a nanny, which means I lived with
my employer, and my employer actually kind of set me
up with this guy, Justin, who's like really fun and
kind of amazing, and I thought our first date went
really well. You know, we played some sports, we went
to a bar. He actually showed me have stars really intimate,
and I may have accidentally while we were talking about

(04:54):
my boss to set us up, I may have actually
said that I thought my boss was really hot. And yeah,
then after that he stopped reaching out to me, and
I actually made the effort to reach out to him,
and all he said to me would have a good day,
and I never heard anything after that.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Okay, are you ready for us to call him?

Speaker 4 (05:13):
Yes? Please?

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Justin. Please.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
This is Justin. Who's this? Hi?

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Justin?

Speaker 3 (05:31):
How are you?

Speaker 2 (05:31):
My name is Jewbele and I host a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
Hi, Justin, the show's here too. My name's Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
How are you?

Speaker 3 (05:39):
I'm good? Good? What do you guys? What do you
guys need?

Speaker 2 (05:42):
We got an email about you from somebody, and so
we need to call you.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (05:48):
We do a segment on our show. It's called the
first eight follow Up. What that is if you go
out on a date with somebody and then you end
up ghosting them, that person can have us email you
and ask why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Okay, all right, I'm interesting. Do I know this person?
I'm assuming?

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah, you went out on a date with them and
now you're not talking to them. Do you have any
idea that would be?

Speaker 3 (06:11):
My goodness? Uh?

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Ava, maybe yes it is. Ava?

Speaker 3 (06:17):
It can.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Ava emailed us tell us about your date and is
wondering why you're not calling her back.

Speaker 3 (06:24):
I mean, she was awesome. We had an incredible time,
but you know, just a couple of red flags are
starting to pop up. Like we went out on a date.
I took her to play some pickle ball and then
we went to a bar afterwards. And when we got
to the bar, I mean, I don't know if she
maybe doesn't go out a whole lot or you know,

(06:44):
she you know, was just blown off some steam. But
I mean she was like really crazy. I mean I'm
talking like, you know, shot after shot and dancing with
almost everybody in the bar and grinding like even like
kind of when the bartender was kind of like walking by,
bringing like some glasses by, like almost kind of like

(07:05):
grinding against him, and just super flirtatious. Don't get me wrong,
she was cool with me the whole time too. It
wasn't like she was just blowing me off, but it
was seemed like she hadn't been out in like years
or something. It was just a weird vibe and it
was just like super you know, I don't know her
that well, and uh so it just it was kind

(07:25):
of shocking, you know, because you know, as the day progressed,
especially as the drinks kept flowing, she kept getting a
little more crazier and crazier, and we had a blast.
I mean when we went back, we went back to
my place afterwards, and uh, you know, you know, everything
was great, and it was, but it was just I
was like, man, this is like this on our first

(07:46):
time out. You know, what's it going to be like?
You know, what was going out for a few months,
So just I just got, like I said, red flags
were just popping up a little bit, and so just
kind of coming a little concerned.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
So she was that wasted, huh.

Speaker 3 (07:59):
I mean, I she wasn't like falling over like drunk,
but I mean she was definitely pretty boisterous and like
I said, super flirtatious, and you know that may be
her personality. And again she was super cool. It wasn't
like she was ignoring me or something, but she definitely
wasn't ignoring anybody in the whole place that night.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Well, thank you for telling us, man, I appreciate it. Also,
I'll let you know that Ava is actually on the
phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Oh my Goshny justin Ava here, Hey, Hey, well what's up?

Speaker 3 (08:34):
Are you.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
Well, you know, honestly, I'm really embarrassed by this whole situation,
and I'm I'm actually extremely sorry. I guess I just
didn't realize I was coming across that way.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
I mean, you know, I love having a good time,
and I love getting crazy and blown off steam because
we all need to do that. But it was I mean,
you were like, you know, grinding up against the bartender.
You were like like you were florting with everybody in
the place that night, and uh, you know, I was
just kind of it was kind of shocking to see
from from my point of view, you know, are you I.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Was grinding on the bar number like. I don't even
remember that, honestly.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
You know, you remember the dance floor. It was back
by where they get the new glasses.

Speaker 4 (09:21):
I don't remember the dance floor, Oh.

Speaker 3 (09:26):
My goodness, that night. You sure remember the dance floors.
But it that way, as said about everybody else in
the place that was dancing with you that night, because
you pretty much danced with anybody that was down to
dance with you that night. You were you were ready fun.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
I don't remember any of that, and honestly, I guess
I don't even really remember how much they drank that night?

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Is this like a normal like when you go out?
I mean, do you get that hammered like every single
time you go out? You know?

Speaker 1 (09:56):
Just then, honestly, I haven't really been out like that
and still long, and I must have just not even
realized I was really tense up and just kind of
went crazy and oh my god, I can't believe you
actually remember me grinding up on just the bartender and
doing shots like on and off. You know, I'm really

(10:17):
normally not like that. Justin I may have just been
like really nervous again, like it's just been so long
since I've been out and I've you know, even dated that.
I definitely was Marcus that night. I guess maybe I
just tried to compensate, you know, by you know, having
a little to drink and maybe letting loose and you know,
reflecting back on that, that was probably not best person

(10:38):
of action for me.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
Well, I mean, don't get me wrong, I had a
great time too, you know, And my whole thing was
I was just worried, like, you know, the next time
I go out or we go to another club where
we're go to a friend's party. I mean, is it
like every time I bring when there's alcohol around, is
this going to be like a big issue? And I just,
you know, that's the kind of thing I worry about,
you know, moving forward, if we you know, if we

(11:02):
end up, you know, continuing this relationship all right.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
I actually really understand exactly where you're coming from. But
I just, in full honesty, that's not the behavior that
I do all the time. I am a better person
than that. I hold myself to a higher standard. So
it's just like, I really guess, just thinking back on
that night, I don't even recognize myself and more importantly,

(11:26):
I don't recognize or remember half the things I did.

Speaker 2 (11:29):
Well justin would you like to go on another day
with Ava? Then we'll pay for it?

Speaker 3 (11:34):
Yeah, I mean I had such a great time, and
I really do like you a lot. And again, I
just just trying to look, you know, a few months
down the line if we start, especially when I start
bringing around family and positive I'm friends and possibly even family.
And you know, if you said this is kind of
a one off type incident, I mean I'll take your
word for it. And I mean I don't think i'd

(11:56):
be down with God again if you're into it.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
I mean I would really love to, you know, have
a second date, and more importantly, I cannot wait to
party and grind up against your mom.

Speaker 4 (12:12):
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