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August 1, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Emily is on the
phone today for a first day follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a dude named John. So we'll talk
to her about her date, and in a few minutes
we'll call him and see if it tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if
she still wants one. But before we get into things, Emily,
how long has it been to you heard from John.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
It's been a couple of days now, and you know,
I'm like three days and I'm a little worried about
it because we were talking for you know, every day
up until the date.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
So the energy so we met him and Alf okay.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
But we've been chatting for about four or five days
before the date, so every day, good morning, you know,
good night, I hope you have a good day, a
little thirty shoes, and you know, then all of a sudden,
like we went on the date and everything and I
thought we had a great time and then he's just
ghosting me. So you know, I just I don't know

(00:57):
what's up like.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
With all of it.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
So tell us a little bit more about your date.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Well, I thought we had a really good time. You know.
We met up for dinner. We went and got some
Italian suit because we both liked Italian. We laughed, we
talked like I mean, it seemed like forever we were
Sharon Wine. We even stayed for desserts, and then afterwards
we decided to go over to John's hoss and he was,
you know, really close by. So we're like, hey, let's

(01:24):
just continue on like over at your house. So we
got an uber. We were making out the whole time,
the Uber and Sol we got some plane you know. Yeah,
like I thought we were, you know, having an instant connection.
We were talking about all sorts of things, you know,
like very passionate conversations. The hookup was really hot. We

(01:45):
had staying good time in bed, you know. The chemistry
for me, like I thought we were like off the
shirts and I just thought that there was really something there.
So I'm so confused, like I haven't been sleeping well
like I you know, Okay, so here's the part that

(02:07):
I'm really concerned about. Okay, So while we were there
and we were hanging out of house, He's like pouring
another glass room wine and I'm in the hallway and
I was looking at all the pictures of the family
and you know, friends and stuff that he has in
the hallway. So like, I'm not one hundred percent sure
if he figured out, but I was, you know, looking
at the things, and I was a little tipsy, so

(02:29):
I touched one of the frames to look at it
accidentally knocked it in just the corner of it broke
a little bit, and I managed to like put it
right back on the wall and didn't you know, see,
And I don't know, maybe he saw it and then
maybe he like blamed me, Like I don't know. We
were just kind of like in the moment and I
was like, I'll explain it later. And that's the only

(02:52):
thing that I can think of that would have like
set off, you know. And again, it's just like a
little cracked corner of a picture frame. And didn't think
it would be so big of a deal. But that's
the only thing I can think of that maybe something
went wrong, or maybe he just wasn't okay. Maybe he
found out and I got mad later.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
I really don't know.

Speaker 4 (03:13):
Well, let's be honest, if somebody leaves your house and
you find something broken and they didn't say anything about it.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
That is going to make you feel kind of like, yeah,
I could see that. I mean, like why didn't they
at least tell me?

Speaker 4 (03:25):
But then I can see why Emily wouldn't apologize now,
because if he didn't see it, then that would suck.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
Yeah, I mean so like I had to go to
work the next morning, so after everything, I kind of
like snuck out a little early so I could get
back to my place and get showered and get ready.
I sent him a message saying thank you, and he
hearted the message and everything that day, and then that
night I sent him a picture of myself in a
bathtub with you know, like all the bubbles, faith and

(03:55):
nothing like. He didn't respond at all. Now now it's
the third day, I'm like, what, like what okay?

Speaker 1 (04:03):
Was it like too hot?

Speaker 4 (04:03):
Too fast they hooked up and the hot pictures?

Speaker 1 (04:06):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
I mean, I don't know whether reviewing it was just
you know, bubbles are covering everything, but it was I mean,
after what we just did, he saw everything.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
Yeah, I wouldn't think that most guys would mind that,
but maybe I don't know. We'll try to figure it
out for you tho, we'll play a song come back,
and then call him and see if he'll tell us
why he's ghosting you, and then maybe get you another date.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Okay, that'd be awesome because I'm so confused.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Right now, Try not to break any picture for him
in the meantime, right, I'll come back, get your first thing.
Follow up next if you're just joining us for today's
first date follow up. Emily is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named John. So we're

(04:49):
about to call him and see if he'll tell us
why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Emily, why don't you catch
everybody up on your situation?

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Okay, So we had a great date. We had lots
of wine, and then we went back to his place
and I thought of going great. I might have accidentally
knocked a picture frame off the wall and then put
it back, but I don't think that that explains why
he completely ghasted me for three days.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Now.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
I have no idea what happened.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Let's see if we can figure it out for you. Okay,
we're going to call him right now, are you ready?

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yes? I am ready?

Speaker 1 (05:20):
All right here, We go.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Gloe.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
I'm missing to John. Please.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
This is John.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
Hey John, how are you? My name is Jewbell and
a host the radio show it's called the Jebel Show.

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Hi John, my name is Ninam on the show tubes.

Speaker 1 (05:45):
How are you?

Speaker 3 (05:45):
How are you doing? I'm good?

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Do you listen to the show?

Speaker 3 (05:48):
Ever said listen to the show?

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Oh? Great? Then so you do you know the first
A follow ups?

Speaker 3 (05:53):
Then? Yeah, yeah, I've heard a couple of those.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
Well guess what, John, Oh no, yeah, yes, okay, you're
ghosting somebody And they emailed us to see if we
get you on the phone to ask why you're ghosting them?
Do you have any idea who that might be?

Speaker 3 (06:10):
I think so yeah, I think I know where this
is going.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Who do you think it might be?

Speaker 3 (06:15):
Is it Emily?

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (06:21):
I knew and I knew it.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Can you tell us why your ghosting Emily? Do you mind?

Speaker 3 (06:26):
No, No, I'll tell you. I mean, honestly, it was
she was just we went on the state and she
was just so combative. I don't know, I don't know
how about it. I'm just trying to find the words. Well,
I mean the day was cool, like itself, you know,
we were having spawn and honestly the hookup was pretty
hot too, But like, as far as our personalities, I

(06:49):
don't know if we're quite compatible, you know, in the
long term. I mean, here, here's the sticking point. Right
At one point during the date, I don't know. I
was just telling her how my buddy want a ton
of money at the horse track, you know, and I
was just sharing the story, and she just she went off.
She's I don't know, she she got really upset.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
What'd she go off about?

Speaker 3 (07:09):
Well, she has strong beliefs against horse racings. She's like,
thinks it's cool to the animals, and she went on
and on and and you know what, I understand that
I'm not you know, going to try to convince her
otherwise or tell her, you know, I agree to an extent,
you know, I understand, but like not that much. I
mean like not like, hey, what's wooing the date over

(07:30):
a level?

Speaker 4 (07:31):
You know.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
I was like, okay, you know.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Well, like how upset did she get?

Speaker 3 (07:36):
She was so upset and she couldn't talk about anything else.
That was all we allot to talk about. And I didn't.
I was, you know, trying to steer the conversation away,
and she was just another thing about it, you know,
do you understand how you know? And she keept like
steering it back to the horses and the cool towards
the horses, and I'm like, oh my god, this is
turning into a huge.

Speaker 1 (07:52):
Thing now for her.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah, exactly. And finally, like I was like, I don't
know what to do. This is just not fun, and
I like, just order another bottle of wine, like this
is my only answer. And I order another bottle of wine.
And you know, I was just trying to call calmer down,
and you know, I was like, oh, you know, I'm like,
you're beautiful. You know what she did, and and you know,

(08:16):
like she started to calm down for a second, and uh,
you know, I was like, okay, you know what, like
I think we might look up tonight. Like things are
kind of leading to towards that. So it's just kind
of have fun. And we went back to my place
and we had a great time.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
So even though you were like over it before you
even got to your place, you still like down to.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
I guess that's why you were ghosting me, Are you
kidding me?

Speaker 3 (08:43):
Like that is the reason I knew you're the lightning
This was going to happen, and I was like waiting
for this moment You're gonna establish me.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
But yeah, I yeah, it's so the fact, and I
don't think it's fair to hold the truth against me,
Like and then you just wanted to hook up and
that's it, Like so you knew that before.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
I mean, I don't know what to tell you. I
was hoping maybe would you even brought it up later
on again, like you kept talking about it. I s
don't understand why you're why all conversations have to lead
back to horse racing. I'm just I mean, I'm I
understand it's a either you're upset.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
About it, but I mean, yeah, okay, it's something I'm
passionate about because I have first hand experience and knowledge
of how it but also little tipsy, so maybe I
was extra opinionated, but still, like it's completely fact, and
that's just I can't believe that that is what set
you up. And I wasn't compeative about it.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
I mean you were. I mean I started wondering if
you were maybe raised by horses, you know, and that's
why you were to them or something. Oh, but you're thick,
and I honestly I was like thinking maybe you're OCD
or something and you know, you're just obsessed about topics
or something. I just kind of like it was a
window into the future, and I just didn't want to

(10:10):
be a part of that. I was like, is this
going to be what it's like when you hit these
points that you can't give up a topic, like you
won't let it go. I'm like, if you know it
was more than the horses.

Speaker 4 (10:21):
I mean, Emily, really, as you listen to this, it's
probably better if somebody that's not going to be able
to engage in your passion or takes it as being
combative when you're just sharing your thoughts. As long as
you're not attacking the person.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
Maybe there is no and I wasn't attacking him at all,
but I completely agree if he can't even have the
you know, a passionate conversation about something that I believe
strongly in and he perceives it that I'm being combative
because they're you know, literally putting horses down after they
don't race as well just kill them. It's fine, you know,
but whatever. So I, you know, definitely don't think that

(10:57):
I would be wanting to go on a second date anyway,
are you.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
Sure, Emily, because we'll ask John, John, would you like
to want a second date with Emily? We'll pay for it.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
I mean you want to go to the race track?
Oh no, oh god, oh it is too subs. You
know what.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
I was really worried about it, and I'm I'm glad
I broke your picture frame.

Speaker 3 (11:18):
You deserve that, absolutely what what what are you?

Speaker 2 (11:23):
Yeah, I'm sure I'll figure it out.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Okay. Bye. Juble's first day follow up
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