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September 25, 2024 10 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Alicia is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
So in a little bit we're gonna call him and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Alicia, how long
has it been since you heard from Jason?

Speaker 1 (00:19):
Hi, guys, it's been like like two weeks.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Have you tried to reach out to him?

Speaker 4 (00:26):
I've tried like once or twice.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Like I don't want to seem crazy or anything, but yeah,
I've tried a little and just nothing in response.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Well, why don't you tell us about the date and
how you guys met.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
Yeah, so we met on Hiinge, you know, as most
people do these days. I plodded, which hated for a
good minute. Like it was back and forth for like
a couple of weeks. Actually, he suggested we do like
a traditional date to dinner, which we paid for.

Speaker 4 (00:54):
It was very nice.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
We didn't get drinks afterwards, we just sort of went
our separate so, I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:02):
Know, I felt like it was really positive. We did kiss,
just a little bit, very small, very nice, and.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
He texted to make sure I got home, which felt
like a positive sign.

Speaker 4 (01:14):
And yeah, that was the last thing I heard from him.

Speaker 5 (01:16):
So what was going on during like the dinner, Like,
what were you guys talking about?

Speaker 3 (01:21):
Did you feel like you guys were flirtatious?

Speaker 5 (01:23):
Because I mean, to be honest, it sounds a little
bit dry from you know, just that was that.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
I mean maybe I mean for both of you, even
not just him.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
You know. I mean I thought in the conversation, like
I don't want to be again, I don't want to
sound crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
But I thought this guy was really perfect. He really
checked all of my boxes and he was so he
was so flirty over like the hinge messages and everything,
and when we were texting, he was super flirty and
I was really excited.

Speaker 4 (01:51):
So maybe that's why I'm sort of downplaying it now
because E.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
Was a little It was just so sweet and I
felt like the conversation was good.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
I mean, obviously now I'm replaying and I have like
a million like, oh my god, but did I do wrong?

Speaker 1 (02:04):
But yeah, I'm just kind of shocked that he hasn't.
I wonder if he felt the same way how.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
Did the kiss happen?

Speaker 5 (02:11):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (02:11):
It was sweet. He like walked me to my.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Car and we were just having a nice little conversation
about something completely unrelated and then he was like, can
I kiss you?

Speaker 4 (02:19):
Which also we love consent love that, he asked, yes,
we do. Also also like.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
A really like a green flag, Like I thought that
was a really like mature, like grown.

Speaker 4 (02:28):
Man kind of thing to do. So yeah, another positive
with a moment from the date.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Okay, is there anything you can think of that like
an awkward moment or something like that that could have happened.

Speaker 6 (02:39):
I mean, I.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
Don't, Like I said, my ego is just probably a
little bit bruised by this.

Speaker 4 (02:45):
So I'm automatically looking at myself in the mirror being like,
am I not cute enough for this guy? Or honestly,
I'm like, did my.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Breath think a little? Did I eat something stinky at dinner?
Because it was like it was like a quick kiss.
It wasn't like longed and drawn out, so I thought,
oh god, what if my mouth is stinky?

Speaker 6 (03:03):
For some reason?

Speaker 1 (03:04):
She could have been more passionate probably, I don't know,
or like we talked about work.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
That was a good thing. He's got like a really.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Great stable job in finance, and I'm a server right now.
I mean, I do a lot of things, but I'm
a server's sort of my main source of income.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
And I wonder if maybe that was off putting to him.
I'm not sure did.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
He say anything when you told him that.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
No, he wasn't like overt me, like judgmental or anything.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
I mean, I mostly consider myself a creative, like I
have like a multi hyphen it, like I have a
lot of things.

Speaker 4 (03:35):
That I do, So it's you know, I think I.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Saw myself pretty well in that regard, and hopefully he
wasn't like off put by.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
He seemed like supportive of it. He was like, oh,
that's great, like seeing like that was admirable for me
to be, you know, juggling so many things at once
and then being a server. So that was off book
by it. He didn't, he didn't really let all and you.

Speaker 5 (03:51):
Know, maybe it was more like intimidation than a negative thing.
You know, maybe it's just like, wow, she's creative and
can do so many things.

Speaker 3 (03:57):
I don't. I'm so linear and what I don't know
if he is. I don't really know what he does.
But I don't know.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Yeah, I mean I definitely ask him a lot of
questions about it, Like I think, you know whatever, everybody's
job is interesting.

Speaker 4 (04:09):
I like here people are passionate about so. But then
I'm also like, did I ask too many questions? You
know what I like? And you know I'll sing like police.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
All right, Well, let's see if we can figure it
out for you so you can get out of your
head on the whole thing.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
I get it though.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call him
and see if it's us, why is ghosting you?

Speaker 3 (04:25):
And maybe get you another date?

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Okay, okay, guys, thanks, all right, we'll play a song
come Back, get your first day follow up next. Right
in the middle of your first day follow up if
you're just joining us, Alicia is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason. So we're
about to call him and see ifa tell us why
he's ghostinger, and hopefully get her another date if she
wants one. But first, Alicia, why don't you catch us
up on your situation?

Speaker 4 (04:47):
Yeah, so I went out with this guy, Jason. We
met on Hinge. We talked for a little bit before.
I haven't heard from him in two weeks, and I
am totally spiraling about it. We did kiss on the date,
but it.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Was brief and I wonder if my breath was stinky
on the dates recap.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?

Speaker 4 (05:05):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (05:06):
All right, here we go.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Hi, misspeak to Jason. Please. Yeah, this is hey Jason.

Speaker 7 (05:23):
How are you.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Hi, Jason, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria.

Speaker 6 (05:29):
Yeah. No, no, I know you guys. Why are you
calling me?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Sweet?

Speaker 2 (05:36):
We're calling you because somebody emailed us about you. Okay,
So I don't know if you know the segment we do,
the first day follow up. That's where if you go
out on a date with somebody and then end up
ghosting them, they can email us to get you on
the phone and ask why you're ghosting? Okay, So is
there anybody that you can think of that you're ghosting?

Speaker 6 (05:57):
I mean not really, I don't know what I mean.

Speaker 8 (06:01):
Like, you know, online dating, it's like you have like
seven conversations going, you know, and it's like kind of
hard to remember sometimes, like who.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
Is somebody who actually went on a date with.

Speaker 8 (06:12):
Yeah, I mean, you know, it's so rare though, like
you actually meet somebody on the apps that like it's
actually worth going out with, and so I don't always
like get out on a date with somebody, So like, yeah,
I haven't really been on a lot of.

Speaker 6 (06:24):
Dates through him. It's probably like one.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
Like lately that I can remember her name.

Speaker 6 (06:31):
Yeah, No, it was a it.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
Was a Leisha ye got it correct, That is it.
That's who emailed us. She wasn't a wire ghostinger, she says.
She tried to reach out to you a few times.

Speaker 8 (06:41):
Uh yeah, I mean I don't know, you know, like
sometimes people are like really really good like communicating in
one style and then not so good and another one.

Speaker 6 (06:53):
You know, like all right, she's kind of a chat queen,
you know what I mean. She's great, like great at
adding on that.

Speaker 8 (07:00):
App, right, and like the conversation was super flirty and like,
you know, it was like we were both like you know.

Speaker 6 (07:08):
Never like leaving each other on red.

Speaker 8 (07:09):
Like there was a lot of just quick, quick back
and forth.

Speaker 6 (07:11):
And it was going really good. And I don't know,
like I mean I feel like the maybe that set.

Speaker 8 (07:17):
Things up a little like the bar a little bit
too high because then like when we got in person,
it wasn't as fun. But I mean, and that was okay,
but like the real deal breaker was like she says
she wanted a baby, and I am like so not
ready for that.

Speaker 6 (07:33):
Yeah. So we're sitting across.

Speaker 8 (07:34):
From each other in the boots in the restaurant and
she points over my shoulder and she goes, I want
one of those so bad, And I turn over my
shoulder and there is this like mom with like a toddler,
like you know, she's like, you know when it's states,
and I'm just.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
Like, I mean, I feel like that's a little bit
much on a first day. I think it's actually like
I want one of those so bad.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
Put one in me right now.

Speaker 5 (08:02):
I'm not saying put one in me right now, but
I think it is important to have that conversation early
on a date because that way you save each other time.
If you're a hard no and she's a hard yes,
Like why you even bother having a second date?

Speaker 3 (08:12):
This this ghosting makes sense then, yeah, I mean, so.

Speaker 8 (08:14):
Like I was totally going to take her back in
my place, so like after like that happened, like I
don't want.

Speaker 6 (08:20):
To risk becoming a father right now.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
So like that was great?

Speaker 1 (08:22):
Okay, sorry, Hi, Jathon, Hi, I need to arify something.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
Alicia is on the phone listening and wants to talk
to you. If you haven't figured that out.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yet, yeah, of course you Okay, okay, Hi, Hello, I
hope you're doing well.

Speaker 4 (08:42):
You Oh my gosh, I what are you talking about.
I definitely do not want a baby. I did not
mention that I wanted a baby on the date.

Speaker 6 (08:51):
Are you? I'm like crazy?

Speaker 8 (08:53):
You You pointed over my shoulders, said I want one
of those so bad, and there was like a mom
with her toddler sitting right mine.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
No, I was pointing at the drink on somebody's table.

Speaker 4 (09:08):
I definitely don't want a baby.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
It wouldn't be weird if you did. But okay, are
you serious?

Speaker 6 (09:17):
It wasn't. It wasn't the mom and the cooing baby
behind us.

Speaker 4 (09:22):
No, it was the drink that was at the chief
of some eur us. I'm so imperious that.

Speaker 6 (09:27):
You thought I was talking about that on a first date.

Speaker 8 (09:31):
I mean I turned around and all I saw was
mom and baby and like my, like my stomach drops
and then you're kidding me right, it was a cocktail.

Speaker 5 (09:44):
Be sure you don't want a baby, because you know
you see what you want to see and say what
you want to say.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
Oh man, I definitely maybe was a little quiet on
the first day.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
Sometimes I get nervous on first dates, but I definitely.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Would not have pointed at I said I want a baby.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Okay, Well good, now that we got that figured out, Jason,
would you like another date with Alicia?

Speaker 3 (10:08):
Will pay for it?

Speaker 4 (10:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (10:11):
I mean like everything was pretty solid until that moment,
and now that I.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
Know that, I completely missed that one. Yeah, yeah, that
sounds great. God I am I am so sorry I
didn't ask from what you were talking about.

Speaker 8 (10:30):
Yeah, if you're down, I would want to take you
out again.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
That that is completely okay and I would love to
go out with you again.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
Thanks for thanks for the second chance. And to be fair,
I think.

Speaker 1 (10:42):
You also mentioned something about taking me home that night
because I was listening to everything you said.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
So maybe you can make that.

Speaker 6 (10:50):
Now that I know where you stand on babies.

Speaker 4 (10:57):
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