June 3, 2024 • 11 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jesse is on the phone today for her first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Danica.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Jesse, how long has
it been since you heard from her.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I've been about a week now, Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
What was your last interaction with her?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
We went on a date to a baseball game and
it's then we hugged for a pretty long period of
time and did the French things on each cheek, and
she said that she was going to call me a
little bit later that night. And when I messaged her
the next day, because I just assumed, you know, she
got on with her friends, had a good time and
(00:48):
if she was okay, I just didn't even hear back
and tried again and a bit confused because I really
dig spending time with her, and I'm a bit shy
and I didn't feel that way around her specifically, So
that's always nice.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Well, why don't you tell us about the date then?
How did you guys meet and what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
So originally we met on the app, I think, trying
to find the right person and.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
What ap was it? It was Tinder Okay, So.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
We had like a good banter for a couple of weeks.
We both really liked baseball, so we thought, hey, how
about a low pressure day, we'll catch a game. We
get there, hot dogs beer. We ran into some of
our coworkers, which is a little bit of a bummer,
but I didn't say anything because you know, this is
the first time hanging out. We don't really know each
(01:40):
other that well. We spent the decent amount of time
with them at the game down by the bar. I
was really just interested in getting to know her, not
really her friends, just because you know, it's the first day,
and I don't want to, you know, be your friend.
I want to be something a little bit more than that.
I kind of ended up getting shy and I watched
a bit more of this game on the screen then
(02:02):
interacting with her friends. And I hope that she didn't
take it that I don't like her friends or I
feel entitled to her time. It's just I get nervous
in my group settings like that where everybody knows each other,
and I'm a guy that's on a day with your friend.
So that's the only thing that I'm thinking that might
(02:23):
have gone wrong. Because we went back to our sheet.
We had a good time. At the end, she invited
me to go hang out with her friends again, but
I said I'd rather just spend some more time with her.
So we had an extra drink and then she said, hey,
I really should get going to my friends because it's
good for work. And I find that remarkably attractive in
a woman that cares about her goals and what she's
(02:45):
working on, because that just makes a great partner in life.
I was all for that. I even stuck around that
area for a bit longer, hoping I see her after
she got a chance to meet up with their work
colleagues again.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
So that's when she was supposed to call you again.
After that.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, she su she was gonna call me after she
hung out with her friends if I was still in
the area. Yet I felt a pretty good connection, so
I wanted to stick around the area. I just didn't
want to become a friend in that circle of friends.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I mean, it's a lot of pressure on the first
time meeting anybody to have friends around.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, you know you're being.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Judge, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I think it might have just been the fact that
I was a bit shy around her friends, and that
might have came off as I didn't like them. It's
obviously not an attractive thing to say when you're trying
to go out and aren't. Hey, I get a bit shy,
and sometimes it's socially.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
And I mean, I can see not wanting to share
that right away. All right, well, we'll see if we
can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call her
and see what she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then get you another date if you still want one. Okay,
all right, all right, we'll play a song come Back,
get your first date, follow up next. In the middle
of your first date follow up, if you're just joining us,
Jesse is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Danica.
So in a second we're going to call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
(04:05):
maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Jesse,
why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Danica.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I met Danica Tinder and uh we dam meeting up
at a baseball game. We hung out with her and
some of her friends for a little bit, and then
we had some great quality time by herself. I was
supposed to hear from her later that day, but it's
been about a week and I still haven't heard from her.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
All right, you ready to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah? I'm hoping. Uh, you guys can help me out
because she's really someone sushion me too.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
All right, here we go. Are you ready? I'm going
to call her right now?
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Hi, ma, speak to Danica. Please. Yes, this is hi Danica.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
My name is Jewbil. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jeubil Show. Whole show is here, Danica. Hi,
my name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Oh hi, how are you not much?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Just chilling?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Second in?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Do you listen to the show ever?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
I have? Actually? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Well, thank you very much for that. I appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Wow, what can I.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Do for you?
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Guys?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
We actually have a question for you because I don't
know if you've heard a first date follow up before?
Have you?
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Oh? Yeah? I have? Actually?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Okay, So that's the segment where if you go on
a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them,
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Got it?
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Right, Hey, so we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Huh, Okay, who do.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
You know who you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (05:54):
I mean, no one intentionally.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Really, He's gone on a lot of dates.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Stand up.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
I mean I've gone on a few here in the
past couple of months. But who is this regarding?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
He says, it's been a week since your date and
you haven't talked to him at all.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Got it?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
Okay, we're talking about Jesse, Yes we are, Okay, Okay.
I feel like I didn't want to follow up with
him because Jesse actually got one of my coworker's.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Numbers and like while on your date.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, and my coworker told me that they had exchange
numbers or something when she and she told me that
when I met back.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Up with her.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So wait, were you there? Did you go somewhere like
to the bathroom or something, and then he got her number?
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I guess I like, you know, went to the bathroom. Yeah,
I went to the bathroom. I've got a coke, you know,
And I mean I had no idea obviously that it
happened until afterwards. And I just found it like really
funny because I mean, he is so sweet, he's so great,
and I really loved the date actually, but he didn't
(07:18):
strike me as.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Like boy foot, Oh that's so disappointing.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Yeah, I know, I was. I was sad about.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
It and disappointed. I liked him.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Did he talk to your coworker, like, is he trying
to get a date with her?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
I kind of I kind of like just let it
lie like since then. So that's all I know is.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
That like a number was exchange.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
I guess I.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Could ask her.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I just kind of wanted to move.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
On from it.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
You know, you could ask well him because he's actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Oh hi, Jesse, Hey Danica, Oh my god, so you
heard all that.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
This is what's happened. Your coworker when I was just
watching the game, came up to me and put her
number on an apkin and put it in my pocket.
I threw it away before we even got back to
our seats because I had no intention on calling her
or even getting to know her, because that's just disrespectful
(08:26):
and that's not how I was raised. I was into you,
And the reason I didn't bring it up is I
don't really know your relationship with her. You just seem
like a caddy thing for me to say or something
that it's supposed to be, like, I'm so cool that
your friend tried to hit on me and I didn't
do it, And I didn't want to virtue segnal because
I just think that's like an unattractive quality, which is
(08:48):
why I didn't bring it up. It just wasn't part
of my even thought process because that's just not the
type of person I am.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Huh okay, so wait, let me get this straight. You're
saying that she gave her number to you in the
first place, did you like do anything at all, like
to give her the idea that there was a chance.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
No, I was just like even casually friendly. I'm I
don't know if you picked up on this, but I'm
a bit shy around doing people. And yeah, I know
it a general smile and like a friendly a greeting
is about the exchange of our conversation.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I was gonna say, you don't you didn't sound like
when we were talking to you earlier, like somebody who
would be hitting on everybody. D I feel like I
have a lot of questions for your coworker.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
But wow, yeah, wow, that's not the story that I
got at all. That's really crazy.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
I'm actually like, I'm sorry that like happened to you
and not like put us in such a weird situation.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
How close to a friend is your coworker, Denica.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
I mean, you know, we're not like best friends, but
I mean, you know, I know that she does have
a flirty personality and everything, so I just figured that
she's getting hit on all the time, so I didn't
think that like she was hitting on someone else's like day.
That's just so weird.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
It is very Yeah, I mean you want to talk
about girl code.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
But yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Honestly, she put her number on a paper, put it
in my pocket, and it scared me a little bit.
Speaker 6 (10:34):
I jumped, you know, yeah, my gosh, I chucked.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I still have my wallet. I was nervous.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Would you like to go on another date with Jesse?
We'll pay for it. Oh.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
I somehow find you very like endearing. I believe you
sound genuine and Yeah, I'll give it another shot, and
I'm definitely going to come front my coworkers. But thank
you for.
Speaker 4 (11:02):
Telling me what happened, Danica. If you need backup, Victoria
and I are here.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
Thanks y'all.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Well, Danica, I'm excited to see you, Sharona, because I
really did have a great time with you. And this time,
let's avoid both of our co workers and get to
know more about each other.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
Yeah, no coworkers this time, promise.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Kay Jubile's first day follow up
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jesse is on the phone today for her first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Danica.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Jesse, how long has
it been since you heard from her.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I've been about a week now, Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
What was your last interaction with her?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
We went on a date to a baseball game and
it's then we hugged for a pretty long period of
time and did the French things on each cheek, and
she said that she was going to call me a
little bit later that night. And when I messaged her
the next day, because I just assumed, you know, she
got on with her friends, had a good time and
(00:48):
if she was okay, I just didn't even hear back
and tried again and a bit confused because I really
dig spending time with her, and I'm a bit shy
and I didn't feel that way around her specifically, So
that's always nice.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Well, why don't you tell us about the date then?
How did you guys meet and what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
So originally we met on the app, I think, trying
to find the right person and.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
What ap was it? It was Tinder Okay, So.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
We had like a good banter for a couple of weeks.
We both really liked baseball, so we thought, hey, how
about a low pressure day, we'll catch a game. We
get there, hot dogs beer. We ran into some of
our coworkers, which is a little bit of a bummer,
but I didn't say anything because you know, this is
the first time hanging out. We don't really know each
(01:40):
other that well. We spent the decent amount of time
with them at the game down by the bar. I
was really just interested in getting to know her, not
really her friends, just because you know, it's the first day,
and I don't want to, you know, be your friend.
I want to be something a little bit more than that.
I kind of ended up getting shy and I watched
a bit more of this game on the screen then
(02:02):
interacting with her friends. And I hope that she didn't
take it that I don't like her friends or I
feel entitled to her time. It's just I get nervous
in my group settings like that where everybody knows each other,
and I'm a guy that's on a day with your friend.
So that's the only thing that I'm thinking that might
(02:23):
have gone wrong. Because we went back to our sheet.
We had a good time. At the end, she invited
me to go hang out with her friends again, but
I said I'd rather just spend some more time with her.
So we had an extra drink and then she said, hey,
I really should get going to my friends because it's
good for work. And I find that remarkably attractive in
a woman that cares about her goals and what she's
(02:45):
working on, because that just makes a great partner in life.
I was all for that. I even stuck around that
area for a bit longer, hoping I see her after
she got a chance to meet up with their work
colleagues again.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
So that's when she was supposed to call you again.
After that.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, she su she was gonna call me after she
hung out with her friends if I was still in
the area. Yet I felt a pretty good connection, so
I wanted to stick around the area. I just didn't
want to become a friend in that circle of friends.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I mean, it's a lot of pressure on the first
time meeting anybody to have friends around.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, you know you're being.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Judge, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I think it might have just been the fact that
I was a bit shy around her friends, and that
might have came off as I didn't like them. It's
obviously not an attractive thing to say when you're trying
to go out and aren't. Hey, I get a bit shy,
and sometimes it's socially.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
And I mean, I can see not wanting to share
that right away. All right, well, we'll see if we
can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call her
and see what she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then get you another date if you still want one. Okay,
all right, all right, we'll play a song come Back,
get your first date, follow up next. In the middle
of your first date follow up, if you're just joining us,
Jesse is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Danica.
So in a second we're going to call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
(04:05):
maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Jesse,
why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Danica.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I met Danica Tinder and uh we dam meeting up
at a baseball game. We hung out with her and
some of her friends for a little bit, and then
we had some great quality time by herself. I was
supposed to hear from her later that day, but it's
been about a week and I still haven't heard from her.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
All right, you ready to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah? I'm hoping. Uh, you guys can help me out
because she's really someone sushion me too.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
All right, here we go. Are you ready? I'm going
to call her right now?
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Hi, ma, speak to Danica. Please. Yes, this is hi Danica.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
My name is Jewbil. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jeubil Show. Whole show is here, Danica. Hi,
my name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Oh hi, how are you not much?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Just chilling?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Second in?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Do you listen to the show ever?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
I have? Actually? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Well, thank you very much for that. I appreciate it.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Wow, what can I.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Do for you?
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Guys?
Speaker 2 (05:23):
We actually have a question for you because I don't
know if you've heard a first date follow up before?
Have you?
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Oh? Yeah? I have? Actually?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Okay, So that's the segment where if you go on
a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them,
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Got it?
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Right, Hey, so we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Huh, Okay, who do.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
You know who you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (05:54):
I mean, no one intentionally.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Really, He's gone on a lot of dates.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Stand up.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
I mean I've gone on a few here in the
past couple of months. But who is this regarding?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
He says, it's been a week since your date and
you haven't talked to him at all.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Got it?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
Okay, we're talking about Jesse, Yes we are, Okay, Okay.
I feel like I didn't want to follow up with
him because Jesse actually got one of my coworker's.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Numbers and like while on your date.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, and my coworker told me that they had exchange
numbers or something when she and she told me that
when I met back.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Up with her.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So wait, were you there? Did you go somewhere like
to the bathroom or something, and then he got her number?
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I guess I like, you know, went to the bathroom. Yeah,
I went to the bathroom. I've got a coke, you know,
And I mean I had no idea obviously that it
happened until afterwards. And I just found it like really
funny because I mean, he is so sweet, he's so great,
and I really loved the date actually, but he didn't
(07:18):
strike me as.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Like boy foot, Oh that's so disappointing.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Yeah, I know, I was. I was sad about.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
It and disappointed. I liked him.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Did he talk to your coworker, like, is he trying
to get a date with her?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
I kind of I kind of like just let it
lie like since then. So that's all I know is.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
That like a number was exchange.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
I guess I.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Could ask her.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
I just kind of wanted to move.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
On from it.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
You know, you could ask well him because he's actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Oh hi, Jesse, Hey Danica, Oh my god, so you
heard all that.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
This is what's happened. Your coworker when I was just
watching the game, came up to me and put her
number on an apkin and put it in my pocket.
I threw it away before we even got back to
our seats because I had no intention on calling her
or even getting to know her, because that's just disrespectful
(08:26):
and that's not how I was raised. I was into you,
And the reason I didn't bring it up is I
don't really know your relationship with her. You just seem
like a caddy thing for me to say or something
that it's supposed to be, like, I'm so cool that
your friend tried to hit on me and I didn't
do it, And I didn't want to virtue segnal because
I just think that's like an unattractive quality, which is
(08:48):
why I didn't bring it up. It just wasn't part
of my even thought process because that's just not the
type of person I am.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Huh okay, so wait, let me get this straight. You're
saying that she gave her number to you in the
first place, did you like do anything at all, like
to give her the idea that there was a chance.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
No, I was just like even casually friendly. I'm I
don't know if you picked up on this, but I'm
a bit shy around doing people. And yeah, I know
it a general smile and like a friendly a greeting
is about the exchange of our conversation.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I was gonna say, you don't you didn't sound like
when we were talking to you earlier, like somebody who
would be hitting on everybody. D I feel like I
have a lot of questions for your coworker.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
But wow, yeah, wow, that's not the story that I
got at all. That's really crazy.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
I'm actually like, I'm sorry that like happened to you
and not like put us in such a weird situation.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
How close to a friend is your coworker, Denica.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
I mean, you know, we're not like best friends, but
I mean, you know, I know that she does have
a flirty personality and everything, so I just figured that
she's getting hit on all the time, so I didn't
think that like she was hitting on someone else's like day.
That's just so weird.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
It is very Yeah, I mean you want to talk
about girl code.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
But yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Honestly, she put her number on a paper, put it
in my pocket, and it scared me a little bit.
Speaker 6 (10:34):
I jumped, you know, yeah, my gosh, I chucked.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I still have my wallet. I was nervous.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Would you like to go on another date with Jesse?
We'll pay for it. Oh.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
I somehow find you very like endearing. I believe you
sound genuine and Yeah, I'll give it another shot, and
I'm definitely going to come front my coworkers. But thank
you for.
Speaker 4 (11:02):
Telling me what happened, Danica. If you need backup, Victoria
and I are here.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
Thanks y'all.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Well, Danica, I'm excited to see you, Sharona, because I
really did have a great time with you. And this time,
let's avoid both of our co workers and get to
know more about each other.
Speaker 6 (11:20):
Yeah, no coworkers this time, promise.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
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