January 17, 2025 • 12 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jordan is on the phone today for a first Day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Christa.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Jordan, how long is it,
Vinces you heard from Christa?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I mean it's been it's been a few days. I
left a voicemail. I mean it just fell right, I
mean the date was fire.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
It's only been a few days, though. Are you sure
you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I mean, look, it's it's just a vibe, and it's
just I was just after a few days, I'm kind
of like, what's up?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:37):
So you expected her to be like right.
Speaker 6 (00:38):
On it, Oh yeah, yeah, no doubt locked in.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
I mean I knew the second the second we nash
like national online, I knew that date was going to
be fired.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
What did you say in the voicemail?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
She said, there's a vibe, there's fires, you know, they
I was just saying stuff that I was just making
her laugh, you know, she was listening and you know,
I was just throwing down some motivational things about like,
you know, how my life all figured out, and you
know how I started from the bottom.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
Now I'm up there, you know. And I just.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Got that vibe that she kind of responded to me
a little sarcastic, but but she was with it.
Speaker 6 (01:15):
And I'm all about a girl and keep up with me,
you know.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Okay, So when was all this going down? Was this
part of the date?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:22):
No, I mean it started off in the d MS, okay.
And then afterward, after I said, you know, she can
keep up, you know she's got it, I decided to
take her over to you know it fancy joints and
shows that I.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Got class, you know, right.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Was she impressed?
Speaker 6 (01:40):
Oh yeah, I mean she was attracted.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I could tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I
sat down all classes.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
She could not keep her eyes off me. I could
feel my magnetism just pulling that all in.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
You get the same feeling when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Oh of course I'm drawn to it, you know.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Right.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
So dinner starts off perfect, right, and I'm like, I'm
just vibing.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Now, I'm just killing it with my stories, Okay, I
mean especially Yeah, my gym routine. I mean, like, this
is it's something special, you know, it's something it's built
from inspiration.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Is she into working out and stuff? Like would you
be interested in that? Because you know, sometimes he was
thrown into it. They don't want to hear about the
gym stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
No, I knew she was into it, Like, but she
was making jokes about it. But that's just she's just sarcastic,
you know. Okay, she knew my moves were bold and
she was liking it.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
She was with it.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Okay, you're talking about how much she was with Like
what did you like about her?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Like?
Speaker 5 (02:35):
Was she engaging other than being sarcastic? Other than your
gym routine? Was anything else going on?
Speaker 8 (02:41):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (02:41):
She was just a good listener. But she she could
keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
So what could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Then? Maybe, you know, maybe it's I just got a
little too motivational because that's my future. Like I'm going
to be a motivational speaker. Okay, you paid like six
figures to say a few things, knowing the kids believing.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Themselves, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
So I went from my gym routine straight into my
motivational speech, because like the mood was there right, Like
I was like, hey, you know, talking about.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Like what we're doing with our lives.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
And I just stood up and I hit the restaurant
with some high energy like I'm talking. People were looking
at me like I was like Tony Robbins, you know,
and I just I told her. I looked her in
the eyes and I said, it's my purpose to inspire
people to change lives.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
You know, So you.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Didn't just address her, you addressed the entire restaurant.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
Oh yeah, they were looking at me. They knew, you know.
And she was smiling. I mean she was shaking her
head in.
Speaker 8 (03:43):
A few things.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
I know that kind of hadshake.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
You know. You know, I guy had shake when you
know you're still lucky, like like you won the lottery
or embarrassed. Well, you just see this guy with great
sayings and great gains.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I like that.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Yeah, you know, I said good night. You know, I
said good night. I'm a class dy dude. You know
I wanted I was, you know, wanting to get to
know her more. I said a text later, telling her
I had a blast and I just let the voice
not the next day, you know, I'm just because I'm
just being thoughtful, you.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Know, Well, why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I think I just think I'm gone.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
Maybe I went a little too big.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
It's in five days, and I mean, but we had chemistry,
and I mean, I know she wants to confident guy outgoing.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
Can't get more outgoing.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Than that, and I just think maybe maybe I'm being
a little misunderstood.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
But but I'm definitely her tight bro definitely or tight.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
All right, Well, we'll try to figure out where you
play a song come back, and then call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Ghosting you and maybe get you another day to write.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Oh yeah, you got it, you got it?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Okay, thank you, play song, come back, and get your
first AFE follow up.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Next.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up
and if you're just joining us, Jordan is on the
phone and he's getting ghosted by Christa. So we're about
to call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jordan,
why don't you kind of recap your day for us?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, so we went out to a fancy place. We
hit it off. The spot definitely had chemistry. She couldn't
keep her her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her
eyes off her. I was just being confident, you know,
just showing off my outgoing nature.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
I told her some stories.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
We hit it off, and you know, I went into
my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation,
and uh, we hit it off. I had a I
had a blast, and I've been texting her about Hey, yes,
let's keep this going, like, let's when I am.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
When am I going to sen your game?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Ready for us to call her? Yeah, no doubt, let's
do it. Here we go, hell, Hi, may I speak
to Christal please? Hey Christa, how are you? My name
is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called
(06:09):
The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Hi, Christo, we're all here. My name is Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
Okay, I know you guys.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Oh you do?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Sweet well, thank you very much for knowing us. Appreciate that.
We do a segment on the show. It's called the
First Day follow Up. It's where if you go on
a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,
that person can email us to call you and find
out why.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
You're ghosting, So any idea who would email us about you?
Speaker 8 (06:31):
Jordan?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Obviously, yes it is Jordan.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
So you are asked you are blatantly ghosting Jordan, Oh yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Huy, Okay, would you mind telling us why?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I mean, like the whole day just felt like I
was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show.
Speaker 8 (06:47):
It was an absurd human I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
I don't know any highlights of the reality show that
you felt like.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
You were on so many let's see.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, well, okay, first off, he's he's really not my type, like,
is not normally the type of guy I would go
out with, but you know, he's accute, and me pick
a fancy restaurant, so I figured, you know, why not?
And so I walk in and there he is in
this like totally skin tight, like long sleeve white almost
see through shirt with like you know, his biceps are
(07:20):
like screaming to please give me a break from bicep curls.
He just was a total meat head, you know what
I mean, Like you could just tell. And so dinner
started fine until like Jordan started talking and he noticed
the waiter who was like the kind of a skinny,
young you know, dorky kind of guy. So Jordan starts
(07:42):
calling him scrawny to his face, and then out of
nowhere it got worse. So like that was embarrassing enough,
but then out of nowhere, Jordan like grabs the guy's
arm and is like and looks at me and goes, Babe,
check this out, and then challenge arm wrestling.
Speaker 8 (08:02):
Challenge him to an.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Arm wrestling match. Luckily, Grownnie declined, so we got away
with not dealing with that. But yeah, and then he
just like wouldn't stop talking about like his gym and
like ever ingredient and his protein shake in the mornings
and like all of this crap. And then the worst
part was it's towards the end. I mean, I'm just
(08:24):
kind of laughing at him because he's again an absurd human.
Speaker 8 (08:28):
And towards the end he starts talking about how he
wants to be like a Tony Robbins, like.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Motivational speaker guy, and he stands up and does like
a motivational seat to the back corner of the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
We talked that he was really proud of it, of
course he was.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Yeah, No, it was mortifying. It was mortifying.
Speaker 8 (08:54):
And then when the date was, so he.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Bade the check, sat back down, you know whatever, and
then he wanted to go like he wasn't ready for
the night to be over and wanted to take me
to some bar so that he could arm wrestle more.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Got like I want to off more.
Speaker 8 (09:11):
Yeah. Yeah, he just.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Got to like show off that he could like arm
wrestle or bench press anybody.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
I don't know. It was just absurd.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So you didn't go no, no, no, I got out
of there.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
You know who might be surprised to hear that you
felt that way.
Speaker 8 (09:29):
Jordan.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Yes, And guess what, Jordan is actually on the phone
listening and wants to talk to you. Oh god, okay, yeah,
hey Christa good to hear from you.
Speaker 6 (09:43):
Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
I just want to say that.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
You're misunderstanding the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Like I get that that maybe the arm wrestling was
the It was been much, but you know, I'll try
and keep things fun. You know, we were having fun
and and it wasn't about it wasn't about showing off.
I mean, look, I'm not It's natural, maybe a little
because that's who I am, but it's because I wanted
(10:16):
you to see I'm not.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
I'm not boring. I don't play it safe. I'm not
that kind of guy.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
But I didn't realize it comes off or I came
off in any way as anxist. And I'll admit I
probably went overboard. But but that's me being me, that's
Jordan being Jordan's you know. But but for real, I
think there's still chemistry there with us. And I promise
I'll turn it down because I'm not so meat head
(10:43):
trying to prove himself. I'm proven. I just wanted to
make a good impression.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Okay, So I really appreciate how confident and out knowing
you are, and I think that's that's super great. And
you're not afraid to be yourself, and I think that's great.
I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably
like looking for different things. You know, You've got this
like big bold personality thing going and I don't really
mess with that kind of energy, like that's not my
(11:14):
jam kind of.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big
and bold presence.
Speaker 6 (11:21):
Who I am, and you you appreciate.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
My confidence, and then that's great. And I just want
to know if I could see you again.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Chris, would you like to go?
Speaker 3 (11:31):
What?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Jordan again? We'll pay for it?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Yeah, no, No, I'm good, thinks so yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Yeah, I mean if you hear right there, you started
off with a yes and change, so you just new
changing your mind there.
Speaker 8 (11:43):
I see you're still working it out.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
I know there's stuff you just need some time, you know.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
And hey, I'm not to keep in touch you know now,
Joran Jordan's delete my number.
Speaker 8 (11:54):
I think that would be the best if you need me.
Speaker 6 (11:57):
Look, if you don't like fitness, I don't mess.
Speaker 8 (12:00):
A Jordan, go back to the gym. I'm I'm I'm good.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Well, if I delete your number, how will I know
when you decide to call me?
Speaker 1 (12:13):
You will?
Speaker 4 (12:14):
The first date follow up
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jordan is on the phone today for a first Day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Christa.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Jordan, how long is it,
Vinces you heard from Christa?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I mean it's been it's been a few days. I
left a voicemail. I mean it just fell right, I
mean the date was fire.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
It's only been a few days, though. Are you sure
you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I mean, look, it's it's just a vibe, and it's
just I was just after a few days, I'm kind
of like, what's up?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:37):
So you expected her to be like right.
Speaker 6 (00:38):
On it, Oh yeah, yeah, no doubt locked in.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
I mean I knew the second the second we nash
like national online, I knew that date was going to
be fired.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
What did you say in the voicemail?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
She said, there's a vibe, there's fires, you know, they
I was just saying stuff that I was just making
her laugh, you know, she was listening and you know,
I was just throwing down some motivational things about like,
you know, how my life all figured out, and you
know how I started from the bottom.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
Now I'm up there, you know. And I just.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Got that vibe that she kind of responded to me
a little sarcastic, but but she was with it.
Speaker 6 (01:15):
And I'm all about a girl and keep up with me,
you know.
Speaker 5 (01:18):
Okay, So when was all this going down? Was this
part of the date?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:22):
No, I mean it started off in the d MS, okay.
And then afterward, after I said, you know, she can
keep up, you know she's got it, I decided to
take her over to you know it fancy joints and
shows that I.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Got class, you know, right.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Was she impressed?
Speaker 6 (01:40):
Oh yeah, I mean she was attracted.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I could tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I
sat down all classes.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
She could not keep her eyes off me. I could
feel my magnetism just pulling that all in.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
You get the same feeling when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Oh of course I'm drawn to it, you know.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Right.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
So dinner starts off perfect, right, and I'm like, I'm
just vibing.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Now, I'm just killing it with my stories, Okay, I
mean especially Yeah, my gym routine. I mean, like, this
is it's something special, you know, it's something it's built
from inspiration.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Is she into working out and stuff? Like would you
be interested in that? Because you know, sometimes he was
thrown into it. They don't want to hear about the
gym stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
No, I knew she was into it, Like, but she
was making jokes about it. But that's just she's just sarcastic,
you know. Okay, she knew my moves were bold and
she was liking it.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
She was with it.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Okay, you're talking about how much she was with Like
what did you like about her?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Like?
Speaker 5 (02:35):
Was she engaging other than being sarcastic? Other than your
gym routine? Was anything else going on?
Speaker 8 (02:41):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (02:41):
She was just a good listener. But she she could
keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
So what could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Then? Maybe, you know, maybe it's I just got a
little too motivational because that's my future. Like I'm going
to be a motivational speaker. Okay, you paid like six
figures to say a few things, knowing the kids believing.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Themselves, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
So I went from my gym routine straight into my
motivational speech, because like the mood was there right, Like
I was like, hey, you know, talking about.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Like what we're doing with our lives.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
And I just stood up and I hit the restaurant
with some high energy like I'm talking. People were looking
at me like I was like Tony Robbins, you know,
and I just I told her. I looked her in
the eyes and I said, it's my purpose to inspire
people to change lives.
Speaker 6 (03:30):
You know, So you.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Didn't just address her, you addressed the entire restaurant.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
Oh yeah, they were looking at me. They knew, you know.
And she was smiling. I mean she was shaking her
head in.
Speaker 8 (03:43):
A few things.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
I know that kind of hadshake.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
You know. You know, I guy had shake when you
know you're still lucky, like like you won the lottery
or embarrassed. Well, you just see this guy with great
sayings and great gains.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I like that.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Yeah, you know, I said good night. You know, I
said good night. I'm a class dy dude. You know
I wanted I was, you know, wanting to get to
know her more. I said a text later, telling her
I had a blast and I just let the voice
not the next day, you know, I'm just because I'm
just being thoughtful, you.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Know, Well, why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I think I just think I'm gone.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
Maybe I went a little too big.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
It's in five days, and I mean, but we had chemistry,
and I mean, I know she wants to confident guy outgoing.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
Can't get more outgoing.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Than that, and I just think maybe maybe I'm being
a little misunderstood.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
But but I'm definitely her tight bro definitely or tight.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
All right, Well, we'll try to figure out where you
play a song come back, and then call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Ghosting you and maybe get you another day to write.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Oh yeah, you got it, you got it?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Okay, thank you, play song, come back, and get your
first AFE follow up.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Next.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up
and if you're just joining us, Jordan is on the
phone and he's getting ghosted by Christa. So we're about
to call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jordan,
why don't you kind of recap your day for us?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, so we went out to a fancy place. We
hit it off. The spot definitely had chemistry. She couldn't
keep her her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her
eyes off her. I was just being confident, you know,
just showing off my outgoing nature.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
I told her some stories.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
We hit it off, and you know, I went into
my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation,
and uh, we hit it off. I had a I
had a blast, and I've been texting her about Hey, yes,
let's keep this going, like, let's when I am.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
When am I going to sen your game?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Ready for us to call her? Yeah, no doubt, let's
do it. Here we go, hell, Hi, may I speak
to Christal please? Hey Christa, how are you? My name
is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called
(06:09):
The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Hi, Christo, we're all here. My name is Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
Okay, I know you guys.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Oh you do?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Sweet well, thank you very much for knowing us. Appreciate that.
We do a segment on the show. It's called the
First Day follow Up. It's where if you go on
a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,
that person can email us to call you and find
out why.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
You're ghosting, So any idea who would email us about you?
Speaker 8 (06:31):
Jordan?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Obviously, yes it is Jordan.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
So you are asked you are blatantly ghosting Jordan, Oh yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Huy, Okay, would you mind telling us why?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I mean, like the whole day just felt like I
was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show.
Speaker 8 (06:47):
It was an absurd human I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
I don't know any highlights of the reality show that
you felt like.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
You were on so many let's see.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, well, okay, first off, he's he's really not my type, like,
is not normally the type of guy I would go
out with, but you know, he's accute, and me pick
a fancy restaurant, so I figured, you know, why not?
And so I walk in and there he is in
this like totally skin tight, like long sleeve white almost
see through shirt with like you know, his biceps are
(07:20):
like screaming to please give me a break from bicep curls.
He just was a total meat head, you know what
I mean, Like you could just tell. And so dinner
started fine until like Jordan started talking and he noticed
the waiter who was like the kind of a skinny,
young you know, dorky kind of guy. So Jordan starts
(07:42):
calling him scrawny to his face, and then out of
nowhere it got worse. So like that was embarrassing enough,
but then out of nowhere, Jordan like grabs the guy's
arm and is like and looks at me and goes, Babe,
check this out, and then challenge arm wrestling.
Speaker 8 (08:02):
Challenge him to an.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Arm wrestling match. Luckily, Grownnie declined, so we got away
with not dealing with that. But yeah, and then he
just like wouldn't stop talking about like his gym and
like ever ingredient and his protein shake in the mornings
and like all of this crap. And then the worst
part was it's towards the end. I mean, I'm just
(08:24):
kind of laughing at him because he's again an absurd human.
Speaker 8 (08:28):
And towards the end he starts talking about how he
wants to be like a Tony Robbins, like.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Motivational speaker guy, and he stands up and does like
a motivational seat to the back corner of the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
We talked that he was really proud of it, of
course he was.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Yeah, No, it was mortifying. It was mortifying.
Speaker 8 (08:54):
And then when the date was, so he.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Bade the check, sat back down, you know whatever, and
then he wanted to go like he wasn't ready for
the night to be over and wanted to take me
to some bar so that he could arm wrestle more.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Got like I want to off more.
Speaker 8 (09:11):
Yeah. Yeah, he just.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Got to like show off that he could like arm
wrestle or bench press anybody.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
I don't know. It was just absurd.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So you didn't go no, no, no, I got out
of there.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
You know who might be surprised to hear that you
felt that way.
Speaker 8 (09:29):
Jordan.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Yes, And guess what, Jordan is actually on the phone
listening and wants to talk to you. Oh god, okay, yeah,
hey Christa good to hear from you.
Speaker 6 (09:43):
Hey, how you doing.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
I just want to say that.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
You're misunderstanding the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Like I get that that maybe the arm wrestling was
the It was been much, but you know, I'll try
and keep things fun. You know, we were having fun
and and it wasn't about it wasn't about showing off.
I mean, look, I'm not It's natural, maybe a little
because that's who I am, but it's because I wanted
(10:16):
you to see I'm not.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
I'm not boring. I don't play it safe. I'm not
that kind of guy.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
But I didn't realize it comes off or I came
off in any way as anxist. And I'll admit I
probably went overboard. But but that's me being me, that's
Jordan being Jordan's you know. But but for real, I
think there's still chemistry there with us. And I promise
I'll turn it down because I'm not so meat head
(10:43):
trying to prove himself. I'm proven. I just wanted to
make a good impression.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Okay, So I really appreciate how confident and out knowing
you are, and I think that's that's super great. And
you're not afraid to be yourself, and I think that's great.
I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably
like looking for different things. You know, You've got this
like big bold personality thing going and I don't really
mess with that kind of energy, like that's not my
(11:14):
jam kind of.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big
and bold presence.
Speaker 6 (11:21):
Who I am, and you you appreciate.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
My confidence, and then that's great. And I just want
to know if I could see you again.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Chris, would you like to go?
Speaker 3 (11:31):
What?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Jordan again? We'll pay for it?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Yeah, no, No, I'm good, thinks so yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Yeah, I mean if you hear right there, you started
off with a yes and change, so you just new
changing your mind there.
Speaker 8 (11:43):
I see you're still working it out.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
I know there's stuff you just need some time, you know.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
And hey, I'm not to keep in touch you know now,
Joran Jordan's delete my number.
Speaker 8 (11:54):
I think that would be the best if you need me.
Speaker 6 (11:57):
Look, if you don't like fitness, I don't mess.
Speaker 8 (12:00):
A Jordan, go back to the gym. I'm I'm I'm good.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Well, if I delete your number, how will I know
when you decide to call me?
Speaker 1 (12:13):
You will?
Speaker 4 (12:14):
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