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February 14, 2024 10 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocates dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Four years ago, I met this great girl Abby dating
for a couple of months. It was great, but I got.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
Transferred for work.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
I never told her I go sit her and I
want to call her apologize. It should be my Valentine
this year.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
We're calling you today because somebody would like to say
hi to you.

Speaker 5 (00:25):
Go ahead, sir, Hi Abby, Liam, Yes it is.

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yes, what is this after four years?

Speaker 6 (00:33):
What is this?

Speaker 3 (00:34):
Well?

Speaker 2 (00:35):
My heartbreaks that I get it you. I want to
show you how I changed. And I'm just asking you
for one date just to show you how sorry I
am and how much I change. And we could talk
about this.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
You know what, I can go out tonight if you.

Speaker 5 (00:50):
Want what really you will go out with him again?

Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (00:55):
Will you guys check in with us tomorrow so tell
us about your date please?

Speaker 6 (00:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, Like as I'll unblocked your number and you can
text me and we'll figure it out all.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Right, amazing, amazing, amazing, Okay, And we'll talk to you
guys the same time tomorrow to get an update on
how it went.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
It's gonna go great, I know it.

Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, we'll see. I mean, you've got a lot of
talking to you.

Speaker 5 (01:18):
Oh, I know, I know, I'm gonna be ready.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
That's a clip from yesterday's First Date follow up, and
Liam is actually on the phone right now because they
had their Valentine's date last night.

Speaker 5 (01:29):
I guess, yeah, something like that. I'm really kind of
anxious to see what happened.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
Liam. Hey, oh, it doesn't sound like your date went well.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
What happened?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
She's ghosted me?

Speaker 5 (01:42):
What are you serious?

Speaker 2 (01:45):
I don't know. I don't understand the mind game like
we had. I'm like, so I don't. I don't we
had planned she texted me, you know, she unblocked me,
so texting me a great you know, happy hour at
dinner spot, and it's sound of so much fun. So
I get there, she's not there, and I wait forty

(02:07):
minutes and I'm texting her nothing. We were texting back
and forth. I know, it was so great. It was
like she was so flirty we you know, I mean
even up to like, wait, before I was leaving, she
texted me like, oh, I'm getting ready. I got this
cutest dress. I think you'll like. She's like, actually, I
were on one of our dates four years ago. So
let's see if you remember what date. Like, you know,

(02:28):
she'd be really blurty blirty, and she said, did you
leave yet? I said, I'm about to, and she's like, oh, yeah,
me too, came to see you. Hearts all these emoji kisses,
you know, and then I get the rest on and
she's that was nowhere to be found. I check it
like social media, and I'm I'm reblocked. I'm like, so

(02:49):
I can't make contact with her?

Speaker 5 (02:50):
Oh yeah, I don't.

Speaker 6 (02:51):
Know why I don't.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
I don't know why. I don't understand what the game is.
I don't understand the getting back ghost to me. What
does that serve? What purpose does that sert?

Speaker 5 (02:59):
Wow? Okay, I got.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
There like an idiot.

Speaker 5 (03:02):
I don't know. You don't even block your phone number.
This it's hard to know, right.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
Well, I mean when we when we were texting each other,
I said like, yo, can we like we connect on
you know, Instagram, and she's like yeah, yeah, from unblocked me.
So I like a couple of her pictures, you know,
because I haven't seen her at four years, so that
kind of scrolling tech, you know. And then so I
know she unblocked me and then I can't find a
profile anywhere.

Speaker 5 (03:26):
That is weird. Wow.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
I mean so it's not like she's missing.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
I mean she got her inch GAM's gone.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
Like like that was intentional. Yeah about it.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
I mean, you guys know if you were on Instagram
ha and look her up if she's still on well
if you know her handle, like let me know.

Speaker 5 (03:44):
Well, let's try to call her.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yeah, that's even better.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
Okay, so we'll plays I'll come back and then we'll
call her and I guess you can get your actual
first day follow up next.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Yeah sounds good.

Speaker 5 (03:54):
Okay, I'm sorry man, we'll call her right after this. Okay.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
First date follow up by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
at Advocateslaw dot com.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
If you're just joining us for today, it's the first
date follow up. We talked to Liam yesterday for a
first date follo up. He actually goes to this girl
named Abby four years ago because he moved out of town.
They were dating for a couple of months and he
just bounced, and now that he's back, he wanted to
ask her if she would go out and be his valentine.
So we called her and he was able to explain
himself At first she was not very interested in even

(04:25):
talking to him because he was blocked on everything. So
we actually got her to agree to go out with
him last night on a date. And Liam is on
the phone right now because what happened?

Speaker 5 (04:35):
Liam? She goes to me, you never showed up, She
didn't show up.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
No, I was there for almost an hour and nothing,
no text, nothing. All right, block me again on everything.

Speaker 5 (04:47):
Maybe somebody got into her head.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
Ooh you know. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
I don't know if this is my games or whatever,
but I want to get to the bottom of this
because it is well.

Speaker 5 (04:56):
I mean, you did bounce on her four years ago.
At there a couple of ye.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Yeah, but I apologize.

Speaker 5 (05:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
All right, man, Well call her and see if she'll
tell us what happened.

Speaker 5 (05:08):
Okay, yes, please, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, Abby, Hey,
how are you?

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Oh my gosh, is this a Jubil show?

Speaker 5 (05:24):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (05:25):
It is.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Hi.

Speaker 5 (05:28):
Hi, how are you good? So we're calling to check
in about your date last night with Liam. How'd it go?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Oh? Well, you know, it didn't go.

Speaker 5 (05:38):
It didn't go. We didn't go.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
What happened was, well, it's really caught off guard the
other day when you called and I really didn't know
what to think. I thought about it, and I really remembered,
you know, the original dates that we had four years ago.
We had a really good time, right.

Speaker 5 (05:55):
You guys were dating for a couple of months and.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
So yeah, and he goes to me and I was
fifty sad. Yeah, and you know I thought about it
in like about an hour before a date. I decided
to make him feel like I did four years ago.

Speaker 4 (06:13):
Okay, yeah, I mean obviously we did talk to Liam
before we called you.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Yeah, well, you know.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
I was planning on texting him after a few days.

Speaker 5 (06:21):
But you know, you work for it.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
Oh you know he ghosted me four years ago without
saying a word, and I, I don't know. I just
couldn't go out with him again and get him another
shot without you know, making him work for it.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
Like this is so messed up. I understand, you know
what happened. I go to do and you're trying to
get me back, but it's pretty messed up. Like I called,
you know, apologized, I manned up. I just don't understand
like you were texted me just like a game, like
did you what you like? Why did you go a game?

Speaker 3 (06:51):
It is get me back? It's it's it sounds like
a game.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
Yeah, no, I get it. And I already apologize to you,
So I don't understand why you have to like scab
me in the back or the stomach or whatever, you know,
after I apologize, like I said, I'm sorry, and you know,
I mean when you said you were going to go
on another day with me, I was so excited, like
I thought about you in the last four years. I
was super excited, like I thought about you almost every

(07:19):
day for four years, and I wanted to rekindle this
relationship that we had and you know, it was amazing.
And you know, just to like sideline me and just
to get me back is so really hurtful. And I
literally skipped into the restaurant like I was, you know,
like I was.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
One second way from just whistling.

Speaker 5 (07:38):
This is just hurtful.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah, it is hurtful.

Speaker 6 (07:42):
I just wanted you to understand how much it sucks
to get you you're excited to see, you know what
I'm talking It sucks to get ghosted by someone that
you are excited to see.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
So I wanted you to understand that. And if you
really want to see me again, I felt like you
really had the one to want it, and you want
to work for it. It's kind of in your court now, Abby.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
I do want to see you, like I want. I
really want to make this work. It's so special to me,
and I understand you just got you know, let's forget about.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
This ghosting stuff. Like I gooes to you, you got
me back, like, move on to the thing.

Speaker 5 (08:18):
And I really just want to go on.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
A date with you to show you I changed.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
I am the right person for you, and you know.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
And I know that you said you're busy in Valentine's
Day and I get it. I don't want to overstep,
but I do want to see you, and you know,
I want to go on a date this weekend. I'm
up for anything, you know, as long as you both
show up. And like you know, even though I won't
see you on Valentine's Day, you're still my Valentine.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
So if you want to.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
I could wait a couple of days to see you
and you can still be my Valentine's Day. I literally
waited for years because every day I'm with you would
be like Valentine's Day to May.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
Oh so actually, Leanne, no, I don't have many friends
tonight I kind of wanted to see what you would
do if you try and get in touch with me
and see if it was important enough to you. So
I made reservations for us for tonight just in case.

(09:18):
Are you serious?

Speaker 5 (09:19):
This is not a job, right, You're not.

Speaker 7 (09:21):
A can't this is not a w and I will
show up kind of test you. Okay, I'm talking.

Speaker 5 (09:36):
Excitement. I can feel it.

Speaker 3 (09:38):
Go ahead, go ahead, Okay, just don't interrupt me this time. Okay,
So okay, do you let me talk?

Speaker 2 (09:46):
Okay, Okay, sorry, I can't keep it. I just want
to I just want to skip a good Okay, Well.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
I guess I'll just I'll text you where i'll be
and when, and I'll see you tonight. I'll be your
Valentine this year. Oh my gosh, I.

Speaker 5 (10:03):
Was like, I can.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
I'm like, I get you talking. I'm so excited, Like
if this is so serious, I'm so I cannot.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
I'm so down, this is like.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
Oh my god, you are my gun time. Oh my god,
I'm so excited. I I'm speechless.

Speaker 3 (10:19):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
I can't wait to see you.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
I can't wait to see you.

Speaker 5 (10:24):
I'm looking forward to all right, I'm black maid and
text me.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
You Will's first day

Speaker 1 (10:32):
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