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February 13, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocates dot com. Willam is on the phone
today for a first date follow up and he's getting
ghosted or ghosts anyway. This is a different kind of
first day follow up. I'll let Liam explain.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Liam.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
What's up, man, how are you?

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Hey? Good?

Speaker 1 (00:18):
So tell us your situation.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
So about uh, it's been like I think four years, Yeah,
about four years since I ghosted this girl Abbey.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh okay, so you.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah, and I kind of want to she wants to
go on another date.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
What what after four years are you supposed to respect
the down four years?

Speaker 1 (00:41):
I'm sorry, I mean I got to give you a
hard time a little bit.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
We Yeah, I had a great date and then we,
you know, started actually dating.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
Okay, so you so you were actually dating her four
years ago?

Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah, yeah, you know it was well, I mean it
was like it was still now. We were dating for
like a two months, I'd say. I mean we were
not like espicially boyfriend and girlfriend, but we were moving
on heavy. But I did get transferred with work, and
I mean we weren't exclusive, but we were just having fun,

(01:16):
you know, and getting.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
To get ghosted after two months, just disappeared.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
I just didn't think it was necessary to tell her
that I was. I know, it was pretty much stuff
that I did that to her. I just you know,
I didn't know what. I didn't know what to do,
and you know, because I knew I was gonna get transferred,
and I just I don't know, I'm not really good
with breakups, you know, And I just thought like, since
we're not like dating dating, I thought, you know, if
it's better if I just like disappear so messed up.

(01:46):
I understand. I know it's my fault, and I get it,
you know. And when I moved for work, you know,
I just keep thinking about her, Like for the last
four years, i'ld go on other dates and I'm like, wow,
she's not She's not as great as any was, you know,
so I you know, and I just like I thought
about her, and I was like, but then I had

(02:07):
the opportunity to come actually back, and I was like,
you know, this is the perfect time to like, you know,
see if she's interested, you know.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
And I mean, yeah, I just like on social media
and stuff.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
I mean I tried that obviously, but she bought me,
which I get I get I understand why to do that.
I get it because I just like disappeared. But you know,
but I don't know she's great. I just see she's
the perfect girl. And it's like you know that you're
like get saying like the like in the movies, the
girl who got away, Like she's literally the girl who

(02:45):
got away. And even though I kind of like with,
you know, just obviously I should have manned up and
told her, you know, with the situation. I get it.
I know why she would be met at me, but
it it's been four years, so I figure maybe she's.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Not as mad. Remember she's got four years. I still
be mad about it. You never know.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Shoot, I actually want to call her, and she bocked
my number, so you guys can only get through her.
I can't, Okay, I want to. I want to tell
her how sorry I am. I should never go, sir.
I should have manned up and told her my situation.
But I really want her to be my Valentine.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Okay, Well, I don't know if it's all yet. Yeah,
it's like half all. We'll see, all right, man, Well
we'll play a song come back, and then we'll call
her and see if she still remembers you after four years,
which I'm sure she does because you ghosted her out
of the blue after you're dating for a couple of months.
And if we can get you see if we can
get you a Valentine, thank you? All right, we'll play

(03:45):
song come back and get your first day follow up
next if you're just joining us for today's first Day
follow up. It's a little different than most because Liam
is on the phone, and Liam actually ghosted the girl
that he wants us to call today. He actually ghosted
her four years ago, and he wants to call and
ask her to be his Valentine. Before Before we do that,

(04:05):
I'll let Liam King to recap his situation.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Go ahead, Liam, So four years ago I met this
great girl Abby. We were getting for a couple of months.
It was great, but I got transferred for work. I
never told her because I get a man up and
then out of the door and I go sit her
and I want to call her apologize I should be
my Valentine. This year, I moved back, so I'm in

(04:28):
the same city she is, and I want to rekindle
what we had.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
Could we have a term for this? Is it like
called zombie?

Speaker 3 (04:36):
You know? I like that.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
That's a good term.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
I like that.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
And the reason that we have to do it in
a first day followed is because she's blocked you on everything, right.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yeah, I can't get in touch with her. So okay,
she blocked my top phone and every social media platform
block So I had to call you guys because you
only want to get to her through them, you know,
because I can't get to her.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Okay, all right, here we go. You ready?

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yes, I'm ready?

Speaker 1 (05:03):
Okay, here we go.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Hi is this Abby?

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Ye?

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Hi? Abby? How are you? My name is Jewbell and
I'm from a radio show called the Jewbell Show. Hi, Abby,
whole show. Here. My name's Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
Hey.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
How are you doing?

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (05:27):
I listened to the show you do sweet?

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah? Why are you calling?

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Well, there's a couple of reasons phone prank, But it'd
be weird to do a prank phone call if I
was just introducing myself right away, So probably not that.
Are you cheating on anybody or suspecting anybody cheating on you?

Speaker 3 (05:46):
No?

Speaker 1 (05:47):
So another option will be the first.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Oh, I can't cheat on anyone that I'm not with.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Oh you are single? Interesting? Great? Because this is a
first night follow up. So you know, that's the segment
where if you go out on a date with somebody
and then you ghosting them, they can email us to
get you on the phone and ask what happened and
why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Oh okay, I don't think I ghosted in anybody? Tho? Yeah? Positive?

Speaker 1 (06:12):
Okay. Well have you been ghosted ever?

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Uh? Yeah, yeah, a couple of times and it really sucked.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yes, it does. We're calling you today because somebody would
like to say hi to you. Go ahead, sir, Hi Babby?

Speaker 3 (06:32):
Is uh? Is that Liam?

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (06:38):
It is? Yes. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
You kind of led me down that path of like
who ghosted you?

Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yeah? So yeah?

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Is this the Liam that ghosted me like four years
ago after we've been dating.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
A couple of months.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (06:56):
Seriously, what the hell dude? Why? Why what is this?
After four years? What is this? Well? I'm back, I'm back,
first of all. First of all, okay, I just want
to tell you how sorry I was. You know, I

(07:19):
should have never ghosted you, especially sent to you like
dating for a few months. That's on me, and I
just wanted to call you to apologize now, you know, I.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
Mean, it's been four years. Why why did you ghost me?

Speaker 3 (07:32):
Ram? Okay, So I got to actually transferred out out
of the city through work, so I moved. So that's why.
I h that's why. And I just I'm really bad
with like breakup and like you know, I just didn't
want to have this conversation because you know, so I
just left and I should not. I know now I've

(07:54):
learned my lesson. I get it. I learned, I grew it.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
As a person, and you just you just didn't feel
like telling me or why didn't you?

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Well, I just me because I was moving. I just
didn't think it was like you know that much. If
I was leaving, then what's the point of youth like
discussing it? Uh? But now I'm back. I moved back,
you know, I moved back. I'm back to the city.
And I we had such I mean, I mean, we
had such amazing time. You cannot deny that when we

(08:24):
were together, we had such a good time. And I
want first of all, I called to say I'm sorry. Sorry.
And so for the last four years, you know, I
thought about you all the time, so you did not
leave my mind once. Uh, And I knew that you
are like the girl for me. I just you know,

(08:47):
you just know when you meet the person of your
dreams and you are And I know how I how
I left you. I mean, obviously I know why you
blocked me on everything, But I was trying to reach
out to you, you know too, to have this conversation.
But you block my phone, you blocked everything. The radio
was the only way I could actually get in touch

(09:08):
with you. You know, I didn't know what else to do.
And I really want to make this up to you.
I'm very sorry, and I want you to be my
Valentine and I wanted to take you out for around
time to day I show you how different I am.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
And you know, Abby, would you like to be Liam's Valentine?
You said you were single? Would you like to go
out with them Valentine's Day? To reconnect after four years?

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Well, I just don't know why. He couldn't have explained
all this four years ago. Yeah, absolutely, like just too
different years later?

Speaker 3 (09:43):
Come back? What I was more immature four years ago?
I mean, I'm I'm a different man today. I know
I made a mistake and I thought about you every day.
My heartbreaks that I give this to you. Please, I'm
like begging you like, I want to show you how
I changed, and you know, if you just you know,
be my Valentine, you know, go out with me. Just
I'm just asking you for one date, just to show

(10:05):
you how sorry I am and how much I change.
And we could talk about this, you know what.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
I you know what. I can't go out with you
on Valentine's Day. I'm very so I can go out
tonight if you want what really?

Speaker 3 (10:25):
Okay, I'm down.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
You will you will go out with him again?

Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, I'll go out tonight.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
He seems like he's really sorry and I really feel
like I need to talk to him and.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Dinner, okay, wherever you want to know, so let me know.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Will you guys check in with us tomorrow so tell
us about your date please?

Speaker 3 (10:45):
Yeah, yeah, definitely. All right guys. First of all, thank
you so much for giving me contact with a Thank
you for giving me a second chance. And I'm going
to make this up to you and I'll see you Tony.
I can't wait. Good, you want to go night?

Speaker 2 (11:01):
Well, like, so I'll unblock your number and you can
text me and you'll figure it out, all.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
Right, amazing, amazing, amazing, Okay, and we'll talk to you
guys the same time tomorrow to get an update on
how it went.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
Okay, okay, well yeah, wonderful. Hopefully it's gonna be it's
gonna go great, I know it. Yeah, we'll see.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
I mean, you've got a lot of talking to do.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
So I know, I know, I'm gonna be ready.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
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