December 20, 2024 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Abby is on the
phone today for our first date follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a dude named Mark. So in a
few minutes we're gonna call him and see Ifiel tell
us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
But first, Abby, how long has the vinces you heard
from Mark?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
It's then about a week?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
About a week? Okay? Have you tried to reach out
to him multiple times?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
I did a few times, but you know, I if
someone doesn't respond, like continuing to message them doesn't normally.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yeah, I did, like.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
One, and then I did one more, and then I saw, well,
let's hear about your date and how you met him
and see if we can't figure out why he's ghosting you.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Yeah, so we met.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
We actually got up through Mark's coworker and I have
Mark's co worker's wife yoga class. I attend that class.
So me and Serena, which is mark coworker's wife, we
grabbed coffee and it was kind of like Serena recruited
(01:10):
me to go out on a date with Mark, but
she and her husband Josh are always on the hunt
for a wife for Mark, and Serena thought I would
be perfect. So Mark and I met up at a
sire restaurant that has amazing tropical.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Drinks, and we shared food and.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Chatted about our favorite thing.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And we had so much in common and tonight was
so good. We ended up going back to Mark's house
for like a little nightcap a sip.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
We're like, a, wow, what what is that?
Speaker 6 (01:50):
I was looking for a nicer way to say I'm
really sorry.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Was it just a drink or or.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Both?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Okay, I mean yeah, I was super.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Like attracted to him, and like I could tell that
there were like instant sparks between both of us, and
it was just like easy and effortless. So yeah, we
ended up hooking up. And then afterwards Mark kept talking
about his job and how close he was to a promotion,
(02:30):
but I was kind of bored by it, so I
pretended obviously. Okay, I'm thinking like maybe he knew.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I was pretending.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
About No, I mean, he he did like mention that
I breathed. I breathed like differently when I'm in like
different sleeping phases.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
So I feel like maybe a little bus.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
And I mean, I'm really excited and I want to
support like this promotion journey and all of that, but
the time was just like wanting to enjoy my posts
playtime piece. And that was the nicest way to get
him to shut up by pretending I was asleep.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
So what do you want to say to him?
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Well, I want to explain myself in that, Like it
might have seemed rude, but that wasn't like I had
good intentions.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
It's like it wasn't my it wasn't my plans.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back
and then call him and see if it's house why
he's ghosting you, and see if you still want another
date after we find out the reason.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, okay, sounds good.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Plus i'll come back and get your first day follow
up next, then a little of your first day follow up,
and if you're just joining us. Abby is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Mark,
and it might be because she was bored by him.
We're about to call and see if you'll tell us
(04:17):
why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Abby, whantn't you refresh everybody's
memory on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yeah, we were set up by Mark coworkers, and we
went out to dinner and had drinks and had like
a great night. We went back to mark place for
a nightcap and we ended up cooking up and after
that I wanted to go to sleep, but Mark kept
(04:47):
talking about his job and his promotion. He might beginning,
So I just pretended to be asleep, and I think
he might have noticed, and that's why talking to me.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
All right, well man, let's see if we can figure
it out. Right, you're the first to call him. Yeah, okay,
here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Mark please.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yeah, this is Mark.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Hey Mark, what's up?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Man?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
My name is Jebel and I host a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Hi, Mark, the show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
All yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
You ever listen to the show at all?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Yeah? Sometimes?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Okay, cool?
Speaker 6 (05:45):
Wait a minute, I think I know where're going. What
is this where you guys like call someone after they
went they met someone?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yes, it is.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
It's called the first day follow up, where you go
out on a date with somebody and you ghost them,
they can ask us to get you on the phone
and find out what happened. So we got an email
about you, Mark, Oh boy, all right.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
It's from Abby.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Do you mind telling us about your day with Abby
and why you're not why you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
I mean, I'm sure she told you by the day, right,
it was pretty fun, But I guess I'll just say that, yes,
I'm ghosting her for the reason is because she used
my razor.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Like did she tell you we went back to my
place after a date? All right? She says she.
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Wanted to go like freshen up. But I never crossed
my mind that she would use my razor. And I
don't like sharing any personal items, Like I don't share
my razors, not even my tooth bruss like not even
with like the love of my life. I feel it's
so gross, and I thought it was so entitled of
her just march into my bathroom and just use my razor.
And I know she used it because there's light, little
(07:04):
brown hair. Oh this is so gross to me, So yeah,
I got to her.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
That's the reason.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
When when was this that she used your razor?
Speaker 6 (07:16):
I'd say, like I guess she used it before we
I don't know what she told.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You, but she said you guys had fund out your place.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah, yeah, we got like cozy with each other.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
She must have used that before that, because then I
didn't notice it until I used the restroom in the
middle of the night and I noticed it.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And also it wasn't like she put it back where
it was. It was like fully.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Out, like I don't even leave my razor out, it's
like in a drawer, and like she had it out
on the stand to say the hairs, like it was
gross and she was just making herself at home. Like
both of those were just to turn off to me on.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
The first DA thanks for telling us. I mean, yeah,
I don't know. I mean, I probably wouldn't care if
i'body use my razor. But also I mean I probably
can get it was funny, but it might be a
little bit interesting. Mark Abby is on the phone and
has been listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
I forgot I love this part.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm sorry. I had no idea
about like the razor. I didn't think it was up
take of a deal, and I just like I wanted
to say like, I'm sorry I pretended to like be asleep.
I kind of thought that's why you were not talking
(08:38):
to me.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
You were pretending to be asleep.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
What it just well dream what like afterwards when you
were talking about your promotion and stuff, I was just
kind of zoning out like I normally.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Do after right after that time, and I just wow, wow,
And I thought maybe you knew that I did that
and that's why you were mad at me. But like,
I'm really sorry that I need anyways, And.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
No, I actually thought I put you to sleep, and
I was actually like proud of that.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
No, I mean you.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Did it was amazing and you did a very good job,
so I want have no complaints. And I didn't think
like the razor would be that big of a deal
because you know, I was doing it for you. I
was trying to, you know, look as fast as I could.
I wasn't trying to just use your razor for no reason.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Well that's not the only thing you did for me.
Speaker 7 (09:45):
We're saying the radio, Well, Mark, would you like another
date with Abby?
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Will pay for it? I mean, can you get past
the razor? Using mean she was thinking about you, and
I'll buy.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
I'll buy a razor of that, I'll buy it. Yes, yes,
I would yes, wow.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I mean i'd love to. And I can promise
you this time like I won't. I won't use a razor.
I will stay far away from it.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I'll get you a new one. I mean, you don't
need him now.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Well, he does go back.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Well when are we having this date? How far in
the future are we having this date?
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Well, i'll shave before the date, Okay, right.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Jules First Date follow up
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Abby is on the
phone today for our first date follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a dude named Mark. So in a
few minutes we're gonna call him and see Ifiel tell
us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
But first, Abby, how long has the vinces you heard
from Mark?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
It's then about a week?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
About a week? Okay? Have you tried to reach out
to him multiple times?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
I did a few times, but you know, I if
someone doesn't respond, like continuing to message them doesn't normally.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yeah, I did, like.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
One, and then I did one more, and then I saw, well,
let's hear about your date and how you met him
and see if we can't figure out why he's ghosting you.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Yeah, so we met.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
We actually got up through Mark's coworker and I have
Mark's co worker's wife yoga class. I attend that class.
So me and Serena, which is mark coworker's wife, we
grabbed coffee and it was kind of like Serena recruited
(01:10):
me to go out on a date with Mark, but
she and her husband Josh are always on the hunt
for a wife for Mark, and Serena thought I would
be perfect. So Mark and I met up at a
sire restaurant that has amazing tropical.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Drinks, and we shared food and.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Chatted about our favorite thing.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
And we had so much in common and tonight was
so good. We ended up going back to Mark's house
for like a little nightcap a sip.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
We're like, a, wow, what what is that?
Speaker 6 (01:50):
I was looking for a nicer way to say I'm
really sorry.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Was it just a drink or or.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Both?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Okay, I mean yeah, I was super.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Like attracted to him, and like I could tell that
there were like instant sparks between both of us, and
it was just like easy and effortless. So yeah, we
ended up hooking up. And then afterwards Mark kept talking
about his job and how close he was to a promotion,
(02:30):
but I was kind of bored by it, so I
pretended obviously. Okay, I'm thinking like maybe he knew.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I was pretending.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
About No, I mean, he he did like mention that
I breathed. I breathed like differently when I'm in like
different sleeping phases.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
So I feel like maybe a little bus.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
And I mean, I'm really excited and I want to
support like this promotion journey and all of that, but
the time was just like wanting to enjoy my posts
playtime piece. And that was the nicest way to get
him to shut up by pretending I was asleep.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
So what do you want to say to him?
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Well, I want to explain myself in that, Like it
might have seemed rude, but that wasn't like I had
good intentions.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
It's like it wasn't my it wasn't my plans.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back
and then call him and see if it's house why
he's ghosting you, and see if you still want another
date after we find out the reason.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, okay, sounds good.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Plus i'll come back and get your first day follow
up next, then a little of your first day follow up,
and if you're just joining us. Abby is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Mark,
and it might be because she was bored by him.
We're about to call and see if you'll tell us
(04:17):
why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Abby, whantn't you refresh everybody's
memory on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yeah, we were set up by Mark coworkers, and we
went out to dinner and had drinks and had like
a great night. We went back to mark place for
a nightcap and we ended up cooking up and after
that I wanted to go to sleep, but Mark kept
(04:47):
talking about his job and his promotion. He might beginning,
So I just pretended to be asleep, and I think
he might have noticed, and that's why talking to me.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
All right, well man, let's see if we can figure
it out. Right, you're the first to call him. Yeah, okay,
here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Mark please.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Yeah, this is Mark.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Hey Mark, what's up?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Man?
Speaker 3 (05:28):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
My name is Jebel and I host a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Hi, Mark, the show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
All yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
You ever listen to the show at all?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Yeah? Sometimes?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Okay, cool?
Speaker 6 (05:45):
Wait a minute, I think I know where're going. What
is this where you guys like call someone after they
went they met someone?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yes, it is.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
It's called the first day follow up, where you go
out on a date with somebody and you ghost them,
they can ask us to get you on the phone
and find out what happened. So we got an email
about you, Mark, Oh boy, all right.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
It's from Abby.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Do you mind telling us about your day with Abby
and why you're not why you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (06:21):
I mean, I'm sure she told you by the day, right,
it was pretty fun, But I guess I'll just say that, yes,
I'm ghosting her for the reason is because she used
my razor.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Like did she tell you we went back to my
place after a date? All right? She says she.
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Wanted to go like freshen up. But I never crossed
my mind that she would use my razor. And I
don't like sharing any personal items, Like I don't share
my razors, not even my tooth bruss like not even
with like the love of my life. I feel it's
so gross, and I thought it was so entitled of
her just march into my bathroom and just use my razor.
And I know she used it because there's light, little
(07:04):
brown hair. Oh this is so gross to me, So yeah,
I got to her.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
That's the reason.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
When when was this that she used your razor?
Speaker 6 (07:16):
I'd say, like I guess she used it before we
I don't know what she told.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You, but she said you guys had fund out your place.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah, yeah, we got like cozy with each other.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
She must have used that before that, because then I
didn't notice it until I used the restroom in the
middle of the night and I noticed it.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And also it wasn't like she put it back where
it was. It was like fully.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Out, like I don't even leave my razor out, it's
like in a drawer, and like she had it out
on the stand to say the hairs, like it was
gross and she was just making herself at home. Like
both of those were just to turn off to me on.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
The first DA thanks for telling us. I mean, yeah,
I don't know. I mean, I probably wouldn't care if
i'body use my razor. But also I mean I probably
can get it was funny, but it might be a
little bit interesting. Mark Abby is on the phone and
has been listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
I forgot I love this part.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm sorry. I had no idea
about like the razor. I didn't think it was up
take of a deal, and I just like I wanted
to say like, I'm sorry I pretended to like be asleep.
I kind of thought that's why you were not talking
(08:38):
to me.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
You were pretending to be asleep.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
What it just well dream what like afterwards when you
were talking about your promotion and stuff, I was just
kind of zoning out like I normally.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Do after right after that time, and I just wow, wow,
And I thought maybe you knew that I did that
and that's why you were mad at me. But like,
I'm really sorry that I need anyways, And.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
No, I actually thought I put you to sleep, and
I was actually like proud of that.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
No, I mean you.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
Did it was amazing and you did a very good job,
so I want have no complaints. And I didn't think
like the razor would be that big of a deal
because you know, I was doing it for you. I
was trying to, you know, look as fast as I could.
I wasn't trying to just use your razor for no reason.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Well that's not the only thing you did for me.
Speaker 7 (09:45):
We're saying the radio, Well, Mark, would you like another
date with Abby?
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Will pay for it? I mean, can you get past
the razor? Using mean she was thinking about you, and
I'll buy.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
I'll buy a razor of that, I'll buy it. Yes, yes,
I would yes, wow.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I mean i'd love to. And I can promise
you this time like I won't. I won't use a razor.
I will stay far away from it.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I'll get you a new one. I mean, you don't
need him now.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Well, he does go back.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Well when are we having this date? How far in
the future are we having this date?
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Well, i'll shave before the date, Okay, right.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
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