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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Randy is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Rose.
And I really hope that they go out again because
Randy and Rose before we find out about your date
and why you think you're getting ghosted? How long has
it been since you talked to Rose?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's been It's been about a month.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
WHOA.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
I just was like, you know, a week or two
is understandable, but after about a month, it's like, Okay,
I think I did something really wrong here. Some things
I just you know, I just really want to find
out what what happened.
Speaker 6 (00:45):
You know.
Speaker 7 (00:45):
Sure, so we know you're getting ghosted, we just need
to know why. But if it's been a whole month,
why do you want to still get a hold of her?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
There's just something about her, you know.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
I'm a podcast here and I and I had do
reviews on movies and stuff, and she commented on one
of my stories on the podcast and we just got
to talking and there was just such a strong connection
that I just I couldn't like, oh, I can't stop
thinking about it.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I need to know. It's like, everything seemed so great.
Why why did disappear on me?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Like something?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Tell us about the date? Then?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
So we got to talk in and I found out
that she lived close by.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
I had a movie I was reviewing. It was a
horror film, you know. I asked, hey, do you want
to do you want to go to this movie with me?
We can get drinks at the bar beforehand and everything
like that, and she was down and I was like,
that's perfect, and you know, everything went off without a hitch.
We went to the bar, had a few drinks, and
(01:45):
I'm a movie buff and so finding someone that is
also passionate about movies, the conversation flows so perfectly. We
had a few drinks, really getting along. We went to
the movie early, we were ready. The movie was pretty good,
and again it was a horror film, and so she
did get a little scared.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
And did she jump into your lap at any point
or your arms?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Well, you know, there was one moment. There was one.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
There was one really big scare moment, you know the
jump scares in movies. Yeah, so that was a big
jump scare moment. And she grabbed my hand really tight
then and it just it felt really good, and I
was like, you know, she might not be into horror films. Yeah,
but I kind of like the he's a little scared.
She's like holding on?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Did she keep her hand on or take it off?
Speaker 5 (02:30):
After well, she grabbed my hand really really tight, and
it actually hurt. It's how she grabbed it. But after
that it was kind of like deadpans. She's like, nope, done,
and I was like, oh, I guess, I guess that
was too much.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Was one of the best feelings for me, at least
when I've gone on dates before to the movies and
is it's a scary movie. They jump and grab your
hand and then they leave it there on your hand.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
You're like, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
So then she asked, She's like, I need to use
the restroom, and I was like, okay, okay, go ahead,
do you think Then ten minutes go by, twenty minutes
go by, the movie ends.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I'm like, Rose, where where are you?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
You know?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
And so it was like kind of weird, just like
everything seemed to be going so smoothly and then out
of nowhere, you just disappear on me.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Like does she just bounce?
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Yeah, she just bounced and so I like, you know,
at first, I was scared. I was like, is she okay?
Did something bad happen? Where did she go? But you know, text,
you know, callback, no, no, nothing, And I thought about,
you know, because I wrote the review it was an
okay movie, But I thought about like mentioning something. But
it's like I don't want to bring anything off on
my podcast.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Like do not bring a date today?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
This movie?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Right? Yeah? Not a data movie is a movie for friends,
you know.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
So I just am at a loss, and I just
I really just want to know what did I do wrong?
Because if I did some thing incredibly wrong, I need
to know because I don't want to miss out on
another another person if if she's done.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
You know.
Speaker 7 (04:06):
I mean, but are you sure you don't want to
just cut your losses? I mean, this girl bounced on
you in the middle of a movie, which should be
a red flag to you, and is not responding in
a month, which should also be a red flag to you.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
So I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
Yeah, nine times out of ten, i'd be like, all right,
it's over, it's fine. But there was just something about
the way we connected over our love of movies that
I was like I can't. I can't let this go.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I just can't well, which I figured out. Man, We'll
play a song come Back, and then call her and
see if she answers, and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting you and why she skipped out on
the movie, and then maybe get you another date if
you still want Okay, yeah, yeah, all right, we'll play
a song come back to your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
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Speaker 2 (04:51):
I'm really interested in finding out what happened to Rose.
Rose is the girl that Randy went out with for
the first Date follow up. Today. We're about to call
her and ask her why she's ghosting him and see
if we can get him another date if he still
wants one after he finds out the reason. But Rose
just took off in the middle of their date. Randy,
why don't you recap the date real quick to refresh
everybody's memory before we call her?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Oh yeah, yeah, for sure. So I met Rose via
a comment on the podcast that I work, and we
hit it off.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Thought weird, grab a couple of drinks before a movie
that I had a review had to drink. Great conversation,
great start.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
To the movie.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
In the middle of the movie, for some odd reason,
she said she had to use the restroom and just
never came back.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
And I don't know what happened.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
It's like scary or heartbreaking or both.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
All right, well we'll try to figure out fore. You're
going to call the number right now, see if she answers,
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Okay, you ready, Yeah, I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Okay, here we go. Hello, I may I speak to
Rose please? She Hey, Rose, how are you? My name
is Jubal and I'm calling from a radio show. It's
(06:09):
called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Hi, Rose, this is the show too.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
My name is Rina.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
How are you.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
Hi, Guys, it's fine, I guess, Oh.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
My gosh, listen to the show.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I do.
Speaker 6 (06:22):
I do.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Thank you appreciate that. Rose.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
Why are you calling me?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
I guess like we're just wondering why you ran out
of a date in the middle of it. My gosh,
this is the first date up and Randy email us
about you. I guess you guys went out and you
were at a movie and then you went to the
bathroom and you were gone. You haven't talked to him
since then. Randy is wondering if you would tell us
the reason that you're ghosting it.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Well, we're glad to hear you. Okay, that's a little bit.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
Scary, right, No, okay, so, oh my gosh, I have
no idea like what he may have shared with you.
But yeah, I mean I know I know the show,
and so I okay, we're going to talk about this. Okay,
what did he say? I mean, what did he say?
(07:09):
Because I love the date? I mean, I absolutely loved
the date.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Why did you leave it?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
Well, like, first of all, Randy, I don't know, you know,
if he mentioned that he's a podcaster so kind of
like you guys, like he's on the radio and has
like this really sexy voice. He was even sexier in person.
So like we would help for drinks before our date.
You know, I'm not a big drinker, but I knew
that I needed to kind of like loosen up. And
everything was perfect. I mean, everything was perfect, and I
(07:39):
was feeling like loose. I was feeling, you know, just comfortable.
I'm not a huge Hora fan. I mean, I haven't
watched like horror movies since like high school. But like whatever,
it's not that big of a deal. I don't feel
like they're that you know, there's not that much artistic
stuff that goes into it, you know, so I'm not
(08:00):
into like dumb slash reflects or anything like that. But
this movie was okay. But I do get scared easily.
I mean I felt comfortable holding his hand. Randy was
so like good to me and gentle, and it felt
so like perfect. There was like no judgment or anything.
But there was this point in the movie that I
(08:20):
got scared. And I don't know if any other women
out there, I mean, my doctor said, okay, I peed myself.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
We got it, been there, girl, it's okaya.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Laughing too hard?
Speaker 6 (08:33):
Did I peed my pants?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Oh my god?
Speaker 4 (08:35):
And I didn't know what to do.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
And I thought about it a second because you know,
like it was dark.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
And it just happened.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
I didn't mean to happen, and so I excused myself
to the bathroom. And when I made it to the bathroom,
I was mortified because it wasn't like I was going
to be able to go under the hand dryer. I
wore this skirt and I guess I just had too
many drinks. I don't know, and I was completely covered,
and I'm sitting there thinking, like my chair is wet,
(09:02):
my entire skirt is wet, Like being is so sexy.
He's going to think I'm a crazy person.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
And I just was.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
I was too embarrassed, you know what I mean. I
just slipped out when no one was looking, Thank god.
I mean, and I just I had to run to
my car. I had to go home. I had to
completely change, completely change, and.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
I you know that.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I mean, that's how it is when like a little
bit comes out and you can't stop it, and then
it's like literally sometimes and then it just keeps going.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
I know this is after the fact, but if it
ever happens again, just get a soda and dump it
on your side.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
In the future, right, It might save you a little bit.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
And I guess I just I was not thinking that's
a great idea, by the way, I was so flustered
that And I mean I got Randy's text, I did.
I just did not know what to say because I
don't want to start off with like lies, you know.
And he didn't say anything about it on his movie review,
so and I listened.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
For it like I did.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
That's cool. At least he didn't say that you beat
your pants on his podcast.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
Yeah, he wasn't like I took this crazy person off
for date and she pete on me or something like
like I wasn't the goal and yeah, so I don't
know what to say.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Well, I think you said it all. Basically. You also
said it to Randy because he's been on the phone
listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Oh my god, Hi, hello, Cirose. I am so sorry.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
Am I am so sorry.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
I've been trying hard not to.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Laugh, Like, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
I understand completely.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
I am just so happy that it was not something
crazy or that I did something.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Wrong, you know, yeah, no, no, it comes in my head. Yeah,
I know when Adam Standers goes pants, you know.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
Yeah, And I was a Jilly Madison moment too, But
like I didn't know if it would be. It's not funny,
it's not cool. It's so not funny.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
It's pretty fun like now that I've had I mean,
I wish you would have said something and like, hey,
I had an emergency, I need to go home, can schedule.
But I just honestly the biggest thing I feel right
now is relief, Like I feel really connected to you,
and it's like it's funny now, like we if you'll
(11:30):
have me, I would love to go in another date
and we can laugh about this, you know.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Rose, Would you like to go on another date with Randy?
Will pay for it?
Speaker 6 (11:39):
Absolutely? Absolutely, I would, just so long as this does
not become our story of how we met, like we're
going to need to come up with something else.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
We'll do another one.
Speaker 5 (11:48):
So I have I have kind of review that I'm
doing next week and it's a comedy, So maybe we'll
just try.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
It again and we'll watch it comedy.
Speaker 4 (11:59):
That's when it really happens. Rows, maybe bring some depends
just in case.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
I will be prepared.
Speaker 6 (12:04):
I will be prepared.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Cool consider me, mis Davis.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That was the growthst thing
Speaker 1 (12:18):
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