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January 8, 2024 10 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
If you want to win the jubil Shows trip to
the Caribbean, you got to listen at eight ten. Britt
is on the phone today for a first day follow up.
She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean, So in
a few minutes we're going to get him on the
phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
her and maybe get her another date if she still
wants one. But Britt, before we talk about your date,
how long has it been since you heard from Sean?

Speaker 3 (00:25):
Uh? Freagain?

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Twelve days?

Speaker 5 (00:28):
You're not counting her. I'm sorry that sucks. Where how
did you meet Sean online?

Speaker 6 (00:35):
On an app or something else?

Speaker 4 (00:37):
Oh? And it's the only dating up I've ever really tried.

Speaker 7 (00:42):
And then I've heard good things.

Speaker 5 (00:44):
No, I have to that makes sense.

Speaker 6 (00:45):
Yeah, let's go back.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
Let's go back to the date. Can you tell us
about that?

Speaker 8 (00:51):
Well, it was good at first because we like met
one of those like fun bars where there's like, you know,
bar games, and he was paying for stuff, you know,
like he was getting or drinks and.

Speaker 4 (01:01):
I was winning a fool.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
So it was fun and it.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Was like a flirty good time and you know we
even like kissed. Okay, well we made out at the bar.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
Oh was there any moment where's something weird happened? Why
you might be getting ghosted?

Speaker 4 (01:18):
Okay, So I didn't plan this or anything at all,
but a group of my friends showed up and uh,
they you know, came and played a round of darts
with us.

Speaker 7 (01:28):
And that's the only thing.

Speaker 4 (01:29):
I can think of because I mean he left shortly after,
but he had to. He said he had like get
up for work or whatever.

Speaker 6 (01:34):
Like how are the vibes?

Speaker 4 (01:35):
When he left, he like kind of just was like, oh,
I realized the time it is, I have to go.
So he like left kind of abruptly, but like you know,
I was definitely like including him and then like it
was I thought it was like going fine. So I
didn't think that would have been.

Speaker 5 (01:50):
It were your friends kind of monopolizing your time at
that point?

Speaker 2 (01:55):
No?

Speaker 4 (01:55):
No, So I was like, I think, like we were
just all hanging out, like the only reason it could
have been off or it's just because they have never
met before because it was like a first date. But
I think it went fine, Like I even like text
them that night to apolog as that they shut up,
but I thanked him for like being cool and said
I couldn't like to see him again.

Speaker 6 (02:14):
Did he say anything back to that or was that
the last time you heard from him?

Speaker 4 (02:17):
No?

Speaker 3 (02:17):
He text me back the next morning.

Speaker 7 (02:19):
So that's why I was like, oh, yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
You must have gone home gone to sleep early, because
he woke up texted me. He's like, yeah, I had
fun and then ghost.

Speaker 6 (02:26):
Is it possible he's did any of your friends? Uh?

Speaker 7 (02:31):
None of them said anything about that, So I.

Speaker 5 (02:34):
Mean it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria,
remember when you had that date and you ran into
your friends. Oh, it almost feels like pressure in that moment, right, like, yeah.

Speaker 6 (02:43):
You're already meeting their friends.

Speaker 5 (02:45):
And you're just not ready to go that far.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Well, so it's a very first state, So like you're
meeting their friends and you're like, Okay, this is weird,
but hi, like you're introducing yourself and yeah, that's kind
of weird.

Speaker 5 (02:56):
Well that's besides the point though. So if that's what
happened and then he goes ghosts, like, so thing had
to have happened in that interaction. Were there guy friends
there too, so it was like guys and girls.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
No, I'm with a group of girls.

Speaker 6 (03:08):
And what was the last thing he said to you?

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (03:10):
He said that he had fun and I did, like
try texting him within those twelve days, like one or
two more times.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it
out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back,
and then call him and see if he'll tell us
why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, thanks,
all right, we'll play a song come Back. Get your
first Day follow Up.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Right in the middle of your first Day follow Up
if you're just joining us, Britt is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean. So
we're about to call him and see if he'll tell
us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Britt, why don't you remind
everybody of the situation with Sean.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean,
who I met online, and we were having a super
fun first day at a bar and then randomly ran
into a group of my girlfriends, played some darts with them,
and then Sean left, briefly texted me back once and
then goes to me and I don't know why because
it's a great first date.

Speaker 6 (04:12):
Well, we're about to get him on the phone and
find out why. You're ready?

Speaker 4 (04:15):
I'm ready?

Speaker 6 (04:15):
All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Sean. Please, Picky.
Who is Sean? How are you? My name is Jubel
and I'm on a radio show called The Jubil Show.

Speaker 5 (04:38):
Hi, Sean, I'm Nina also on the show.

Speaker 6 (04:40):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. So this is a radio show
called The Jubil Show. How are you?

Speaker 3 (04:44):
I'm okay, I haven't talked to the radio. What's this about?

Speaker 6 (04:48):
Do you ever listen to the show at all?

Speaker 3 (04:51):
I am not familiar with your guys? With you guys
this show? No?

Speaker 2 (04:56):
All right, well now you will be I guess. We
do a segment on the show and it's called the
First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out
on a date with somebody and then it end up
ghosting them, they can email us to get you on
the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay, we
got an email about you from a girl named britt.

Speaker 7 (05:15):
Oh Rit Okay, Wow, that's a uh yeah, I can
understand why she might wanna might want to get some answers.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yeah, she said, it's been twelve days since you guys
went out, and the last thing you texted her was
had fun.

Speaker 6 (05:30):
So what's that.

Speaker 7 (05:32):
Yeah, I uh definitely did have to take a step back.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
And just give her some space after the last time
we went out.

Speaker 6 (05:43):
Why is that?

Speaker 3 (05:45):
It's not her? It's uh and I'm not sure if
she told you this, but when we were out, we
were into some of.

Speaker 7 (05:49):
The friends, and uh, she wasn't giving them more attentions
she was giving me. She was making sure that she's
being scared of.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Both parties and being you know, being on a date
with me. She just happened running to her friends.

Speaker 7 (06:01):
But uh, it is because of her friend, Sabrina.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Okay, we used, Yeah, we used to.

Speaker 7 (06:08):
Hook up, and Sabrina at one point in time, yeah I.

Speaker 3 (06:11):
Know, it was just like two years ago. But Sabrina
at one point in time cornered me and basically was like,
oh my god, I'm so good to see you. I'm
so happy to be out a date. And all this
other good stuff.

Speaker 7 (06:23):
And then yeah, oh asked me if I wanted to
have a threesome.

Speaker 6 (06:29):
What with her friend or.

Speaker 7 (06:33):
Well, well, well Sabrina and Brittany both at the both
at the uh at the same time.

Speaker 6 (06:38):
I wonder if she knows that, yeah, you want to.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
Need a little bit of space. It's a little weird.

Speaker 5 (06:43):
Wait, so you think Britton knows about that?

Speaker 7 (06:46):
I would I would guess that she does, because you know,
girls talk. I feel like that came up from the
conversation at some point in time.

Speaker 5 (06:53):
I don't really know what to say about that.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
It's like, I mean, you.

Speaker 7 (06:56):
Know, it wasn't it just you know, maybe a little
uncomfortable around the group dynamics.

Speaker 6 (07:01):
You don't get down like that or I.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
Get competitive during uh during those types.

Speaker 7 (07:07):
Of things, and uh, yeah, I'm not good at sue projects,
all right.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
I can see that. Yeah, you know, Hey, thank you
for being honest and I appreciate it.

Speaker 6 (07:18):
Also, no, not at all.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
And I want to let you know that britt is
actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Uh what, okay, brut.

Speaker 4 (07:31):
Hey, I wish someone would have told me that I
had no idea.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
You had no idea that he used to suck up
with your friend Sabrina or that she asked him to
have a threesome.

Speaker 4 (07:41):
Neither. I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina. She's
like a friend of a friend, so I don't know.
I only really see her in group setting. I don't
know why she said that. Also, I don't know why
she would want to include me in that. I've never
even hung out with her.

Speaker 9 (07:58):
It's just like of course everybody, she's like, I'm not
going to technically steal her date if I include process,
I'll ask him first because guys will be down, and
then I'll approach her.

Speaker 4 (08:13):
Wo And the only thing we've ever done together is
like go to a Taylor Swift concert. They were like
kind of us.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
But that's a little different than a reason. But yeah,
so you didn't know anything about that at all.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I
didn't hear anything from her like if anything, I feel
like I would have hurt for her Instagram. But no, nothing,
And really, like I said, she's not back with her friends.
So that's like whenever you guys have like, I don't care.
I still love a second chance.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
With you, John, Are you like gonna hook up with Sabrina?

Speaker 3 (08:51):
Uh, I've done that already. I didn't didn't want to
keep doing that.

Speaker 7 (08:57):
Would like to would like to go on a second date,
just just the two of us though, no, don't know her.

Speaker 6 (09:04):
Yeah, sa Sean, you would like to go out with
Britt again? Yeah, we'll pay for.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
That. Would be awesome, especially after the holidays.

Speaker 7 (09:14):
But if that, if that could be a thing, you guys,
the whole thing about is just you know, me and
her type intimate setting versus the group aspect of it.

Speaker 6 (09:23):
I think that would be Britt.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
You don't care that he's hooked up with Sabrina.

Speaker 4 (09:27):
No, he said in the past.

Speaker 6 (09:29):
And okay, you want another date, Britt?

Speaker 4 (09:32):
Yeah, maybe we could do dinner or something where there's
only room for two of us. In the books, you of.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
This wholesome dinner, they're going to be the only person
going on a second date in the restaurant is demanding
that they just make sure it's a table for two.

Speaker 6 (09:46):
That's it. Nobody else at this table.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
The waitress comes up, They're like, no, yeah, no, we
know what you're after. No, we're trying to go out
with each other. Well, Congratulations, you guys got another date.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
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