September 3, 2024 • 9 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocates dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Zayin is on the phone today for our first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marissa, who we
went on a date with. So in a few minutes
we're going to call her and see if she tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first zaying, how long has it been since you
heard from Marissa?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about a week since I since I've texted
her and I haven't gotten a respond.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
How many times you try to reach out to her
in the week.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Honestly, the last thing I sent it was just asking
her if we were going to catch up again, since
it was I messaged her follow up. We had a
we had a couple of glasses of wine in our
date and whatnot, and I kind of made made reilly
joke about a wine hangover or something, and she did
give me this like winky tongue skin out face, so
I kind of thought it was flirty and whatnot, and
(00:50):
I said, Hey, when are we going to do this again?
And that's really been it. I haven't I don't want
to push because I kind of want to you know
what I mean?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, that's like the worst one to
get ghosted on selfies. And then when it's like when
are we gonna hang out, let's go backwards sane. Why
don't you tell us about the day. How did you
meet Marissa?
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Oh? So we met work.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
We're going out and they wanted to go to a
karaoke bar, and I at a karaoke bar. Person. I
don't like it, for I have a musician music background,
and just hearing people singing poorly just kind of racks
my brain. But I need more to them. I want
them to have fun. I just don't need to listen
to it, you know. But I went anyway because it
(01:37):
was a group, and you know, I felt like kind
of a spoiled sport not going. So I went and
I met Marissa at the Marsa and myself when her
we met and we actually started flirting a lot, which
was a great distraction from the bad singing, and we
chatted and chatted.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
And just had a great time.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
We ended up getting up and do a karaoke song.
And again I'm not a karaoke singer, but we've seen
something from Grief on the summer eleven. But we had
an absolute lass and talked like about it. We finished
the night, I got her number. It was very friendly
but very fun, but nothing too forward, you know, got
her number. We ended up meeting up at a wine
(02:18):
bar and had a really great time. Talked the entire time.
We did the whole tasting menu too, so I'm sure
the wine helped the conversation. It is back and forth.
A lot of great bans are back and forth, and
it was like we were bouncing off of each other.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
You know. So the time went really fast and.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Just not a dull moment, you know what I mean.
And yeah, we talked literally about everything. So no, I'm
a little confused as to why, what's going on and
how I didn't hear anything.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I guess was.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
There a moment at any point where it was like
this could be why?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So yeah, during the whole conversation or during the whole time,
We're going through these wine tests and like we're chatting
and I'm I can drink relatively fast, but it was
obviously that she was a obviously a slow drinker.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
So I was kind of helping her along so we
could get to the next palate.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
So did you tell your drinks and you chugged hers.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Also, well, I mean I wouldn't say chug.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
She would take a hip, maybe another ship, and I'm done,
and I'm oh, let me.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Oh yeah that's nice, isn't it. Let me take another
ship of that? Isn't that nice?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
And I just kind of help her along, you know,
And maybe maybe that's a little really crappy, right, best
to play it as a joke, like I wasn't trying
to be at a hole about it, which I was making.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
But that's the only thing I could think that. Maybe
she didn't take it funny.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Yeah, that could that could be.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
It's like this dude's just drinking my drink. Yeah, she
thought you just were so ciry.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Okay, all right, well we'll try to figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and hopefully get you another date.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Okay, fantastic, that'd be awesome.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
We please on come back, Get your first Day follow
up next.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,
if you're just joining us, Zayin is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted from a date he went on
with a girl named Marissa. So we're about to call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and hopefully get him another date. But first, Zay,
why don't you recap your date with Marissa?
Speaker 5 (04:24):
A sure thing.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
We met at karaoke bar. We got along really really well.
We even sang together, which is unheard.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Of for me. We went on a date. It was fantastic.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
I may, outside of possibly drinking too much of her
wine instead of as well as my own, it may
it was a perfect date.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
It was fantastic. So just looking to see what happened.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
All right? You ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Okay, here we go. Hello him, speak to Marissa. Please,
this is she. Hey Marissa, how are you? My name
is Jewbell and I host a radio show. It's called
the Jewbill Show. Hi, Marissa, the Jewbill Show is here.
(05:11):
I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?
Speaker 5 (05:15):
I'm doing good?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Did you listen to the show?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
I do well?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Marissa? Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
I do listen to those? Okay, great, how would you
like to be on one?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
I honestly am not sure, but I'm here.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
For the rye.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Okay, sweet, Well, we got an email about you from
a guy that you're ghosting. Do you have any idea
who that could be?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I would imagine you're talking about Zay.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Yes, okay, correct. Zay emailed us.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I said it's been about a week since your date
and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's wondering why.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
Well, after on a date to a wine bar, right,
and it was a great time.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
I had a good time, but then we were like we.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Were getting a little buzzed, and he admitted that he
his favorite show was vander Pump Rules and like he
loves the Bravo Network. And that to me was a
bit of an ick because I mean, I'm a theater
kid and I don't really like reality TV. I think
it cheapens television. I think it takes away from people
(06:29):
who are real artists. If I'm like, if I'm going
to watch something on TV, it's going to be meaningful.
I mean, the people that are on reality television, they're
famous for no reason.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
It just it.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Shepens TV for me, just love that it's vander Pump Rules.
For him, though, it was just cringe I just don't.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
It really turned me off in a moment.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
And when you get the ick, you just get the hick.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Yeah, you just can't get rid of it. I couldn't
see him the same after that.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Because he likes vander pump Ros.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
I mean, yeah, okay, well, thank you for telling us.
Appreciate that Zaane is actually on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
It's like a reality.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Shows, that's it.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
That's it, because I like, like, I understand that none
of what they do is really all that talented or fantastic,
but it is dumb, simple comedy to me, and it
just you don't have to think about it. I don't understand.
Why is that, like a that's so odd to me?
Why would you not want to talk to me? Because
I like to cool down with a little bit of
really stupid, mindless television. I work in like really high stress,
(07:49):
nonsense tech industry, all that good stuff, so I'm high
ten out of the day and sometimes I just want
to turn on the TV and and watch idiots the
idiots and just laugh and not I think, and it's fantastic,
but I mean, that's really that's why you do you
ghosted me.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
We had such a good time and that the uh,
that's that's it. I mean, I'm seeing pathetic.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
I'm honestly embarrassed.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
I didn't really I want you to hear what I thought,
and I don't. I certainly don't want to hurt your feelings. Well,
trust me, I did not hurt my feelings.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
It just comes down to the fact that like, you're
not the one, Like I don't want to pursue you.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
I don't want to pursue you.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Well, I didn't realize that the RAP network had that
much of an influence of your dating outcomes. But okay,
I'm my feelings aren't hurt. I understand cool, you don't
like it, But.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Would you like to go to another day with Zayne?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
I really am sorry about all of this. I don't
think I'm interested. I mean, the reality TV of it
all is just not for me. I wouldn't want to
be around that for an extended period of time. And
if that's an interest.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
Of yours, that's great for you, but it's not for me.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Well that is perfectly okay, because if it's going to
be about someone being so snapi about something is watching
something on television that I think the feeling's mutual.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Now thing, We're all.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Good, Okay, great, have a nice life with all the
reality TV stars, have.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
A fun time getting that stick out your bumble.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
First date to follow up
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocates dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Zayin is on the phone today for our first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marissa, who we
went on a date with. So in a few minutes
we're going to call her and see if she tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first zaying, how long has it been since you
heard from Marissa?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about a week since I since I've texted
her and I haven't gotten a respond.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
How many times you try to reach out to her
in the week.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Honestly, the last thing I sent it was just asking
her if we were going to catch up again, since
it was I messaged her follow up. We had a
we had a couple of glasses of wine in our
date and whatnot, and I kind of made made reilly
joke about a wine hangover or something, and she did
give me this like winky tongue skin out face, so
I kind of thought it was flirty and whatnot, and
(00:50):
I said, Hey, when are we going to do this again?
And that's really been it. I haven't I don't want
to push because I kind of want to you know
what I mean?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, that's like the worst one to
get ghosted on selfies. And then when it's like when
are we gonna hang out, let's go backwards sane. Why
don't you tell us about the day. How did you
meet Marissa?
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Oh? So we met work.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
We're going out and they wanted to go to a
karaoke bar, and I at a karaoke bar. Person. I
don't like it, for I have a musician music background,
and just hearing people singing poorly just kind of racks
my brain. But I need more to them. I want
them to have fun. I just don't need to listen
to it, you know. But I went anyway because it
(01:37):
was a group, and you know, I felt like kind
of a spoiled sport not going. So I went and
I met Marissa at the Marsa and myself when her
we met and we actually started flirting a lot, which
was a great distraction from the bad singing, and we
chatted and chatted.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
And just had a great time.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
We ended up getting up and do a karaoke song.
And again I'm not a karaoke singer, but we've seen
something from Grief on the summer eleven. But we had
an absolute lass and talked like about it. We finished
the night, I got her number. It was very friendly
but very fun, but nothing too forward, you know, got
her number. We ended up meeting up at a wine
(02:18):
bar and had a really great time. Talked the entire time.
We did the whole tasting menu too, so I'm sure
the wine helped the conversation. It is back and forth.
A lot of great bans are back and forth, and
it was like we were bouncing off of each other.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
You know. So the time went really fast and.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Just not a dull moment, you know what I mean.
And yeah, we talked literally about everything. So no, I'm
a little confused as to why, what's going on and
how I didn't hear anything.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I guess was.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
There a moment at any point where it was like
this could be why?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So yeah, during the whole conversation or during the whole time,
We're going through these wine tests and like we're chatting
and I'm I can drink relatively fast, but it was
obviously that she was a obviously a slow drinker.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
So I was kind of helping her along so we
could get to the next palate.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
So did you tell your drinks and you chugged hers.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Also, well, I mean I wouldn't say chug.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
She would take a hip, maybe another ship, and I'm done,
and I'm oh, let me.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Oh yeah that's nice, isn't it. Let me take another
ship of that? Isn't that nice?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
And I just kind of help her along, you know,
And maybe maybe that's a little really crappy, right, best
to play it as a joke, like I wasn't trying
to be at a hole about it, which I was making.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
But that's the only thing I could think that. Maybe
she didn't take it funny.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Yeah, that could that could be.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
It's like this dude's just drinking my drink. Yeah, she
thought you just were so ciry.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Okay, all right, well we'll try to figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and hopefully get you another date.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Okay, fantastic, that'd be awesome.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
We please on come back, Get your first Day follow
up next.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,
if you're just joining us, Zayin is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted from a date he went on
with a girl named Marissa. So we're about to call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and hopefully get him another date. But first, Zay,
why don't you recap your date with Marissa?
Speaker 5 (04:24):
A sure thing.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
We met at karaoke bar. We got along really really well.
We even sang together, which is unheard.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Of for me. We went on a date. It was fantastic.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
I may, outside of possibly drinking too much of her
wine instead of as well as my own, it may
it was a perfect date.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
It was fantastic. So just looking to see what happened.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
All right? You ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Okay, here we go. Hello him, speak to Marissa. Please,
this is she. Hey Marissa, how are you? My name
is Jewbell and I host a radio show. It's called
the Jewbill Show. Hi, Marissa, the Jewbill Show is here.
(05:11):
I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?
Speaker 5 (05:15):
I'm doing good?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Did you listen to the show?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
I do well?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Marissa? Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
I do listen to those? Okay, great, how would you
like to be on one?
Speaker 6 (05:28):
I honestly am not sure, but I'm here.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
For the rye.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Okay, sweet, Well, we got an email about you from
a guy that you're ghosting. Do you have any idea
who that could be?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I would imagine you're talking about Zay.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Yes, okay, correct. Zay emailed us.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I said it's been about a week since your date
and he hasn't heard anything from you, and he's wondering why.
Speaker 6 (05:57):
Well, after on a date to a wine bar, right,
and it was a great time.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
I had a good time, but then we were like we.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Were getting a little buzzed, and he admitted that he
his favorite show was vander Pump Rules and like he
loves the Bravo Network. And that to me was a
bit of an ick because I mean, I'm a theater
kid and I don't really like reality TV. I think
it cheapens television. I think it takes away from people
(06:29):
who are real artists. If I'm like, if I'm going
to watch something on TV, it's going to be meaningful.
I mean, the people that are on reality television, they're
famous for no reason.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
It just it.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Shepens TV for me, just love that it's vander Pump Rules.
For him, though, it was just cringe I just don't.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
It really turned me off in a moment.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
And when you get the ick, you just get the hick.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Yeah, you just can't get rid of it. I couldn't
see him the same after that.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Because he likes vander pump Ros.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
I mean, yeah, okay, well, thank you for telling us.
Appreciate that Zaane is actually on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
It's like a reality.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Shows, that's it.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
That's it, because I like, like, I understand that none
of what they do is really all that talented or fantastic,
but it is dumb, simple comedy to me, and it
just you don't have to think about it. I don't understand.
Why is that, like a that's so odd to me?
Why would you not want to talk to me? Because
I like to cool down with a little bit of
really stupid, mindless television. I work in like really high stress,
(07:49):
nonsense tech industry, all that good stuff, so I'm high
ten out of the day and sometimes I just want
to turn on the TV and and watch idiots the
idiots and just laugh and not I think, and it's fantastic,
but I mean, that's really that's why you do you
ghosted me.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
We had such a good time and that the uh,
that's that's it. I mean, I'm seeing pathetic.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
I'm honestly embarrassed.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
I didn't really I want you to hear what I thought,
and I don't. I certainly don't want to hurt your feelings. Well,
trust me, I did not hurt my feelings.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
It just comes down to the fact that like, you're
not the one, Like I don't want to pursue you.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
I don't want to pursue you.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Well, I didn't realize that the RAP network had that
much of an influence of your dating outcomes. But okay,
I'm my feelings aren't hurt. I understand cool, you don't
like it, But.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Would you like to go to another day with Zayne?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (08:58):
I really am sorry about all of this. I don't
think I'm interested. I mean, the reality TV of it
all is just not for me. I wouldn't want to
be around that for an extended period of time. And
if that's an interest.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
Of yours, that's great for you, but it's not for me.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Well that is perfectly okay, because if it's going to
be about someone being so snapi about something is watching
something on television that I think the feeling's mutual.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Now thing, We're all.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Good, Okay, great, have a nice life with all the
reality TV stars, have.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
A fun time getting that stick out your bumble.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
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