May 31, 2023 • 10 mins
Adam and Lauren meet on Hinge and had 1st date about two weeks ago and Adam like Lauren because she’s very pretty and herself and not super aggressive. They had a lot in common when they meet for the 1st time. He got her an uber home after dinner and he paid for it plus they had a small little kiss. He hasn’t not heard from her since that date.
We call Lauren and she said he was very nice and it was fun but when they talked about EX’s and he said that his was crazy. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Lauren and she said he was very nice and it was fun but when they talked about EX’s and he said that his was crazy. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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(00:00):
If you are new this year,we do second date Update. You go
on date with somebody you feel likethere maybe could be a connection, could
be a vibe, and then thetrail goes cold, so to speak.
You don't hear from them, there'sno more responses in the kind of the
poopy thing is. You have towonder was it you? Was it?
Then? What's going on? Wetry to figure out with second date Update.
(00:20):
Let me bring him back on Adam. Good morning, sir, Hey,
good morning. Appreciate you doing this. Then, yeah, man,
thanks for listening, got your email. Let's get into this. So you
and Lauren met where, well,we met on Hinge. Okay, so
the laate the best play to meetsomebody nowadays? I think I think of
all the episode, I only wasUnhinge for a little bit. I like
(00:41):
that. I think Hinge was likethe next evolution of stuff. So I
think it's a pretty good spot.So I think so too, I've said
anyway, sorry, yeah, yeah, So mash on Hinge had our first
day about two weeks ago. Yousaid, yeah, okay, so yeah,
yeah, what about Lauren sit outto you? Why would why would
(01:02):
like Lauren? Well, I mean, first of all, she's she's really
pretty. But she was just youknow, she was just really herself Like
I just felt like she was kindof she's kind of uh it was not
really aggressive, but you know,very sure of herself and and was assertive
about things and uh, you know, I just kind of really like that.
(01:23):
Uh. We laughed a lot.We had a lot in common.
I mean, you know, asideringwe just met the first time. I
mean we just she like sports,you know that. It's really cool.
Yeah, um yeah, I meanshe was funny. Uh yeah, you
know, I mean it didn't feellike there's any work you know, which
(01:44):
you know what that that's just whenwhen there's like painful silences and stuff.
There really wasn't any of that.I didn't think. I just thought it
was a great day. Yeah.So you guys went to it was a
dinner two weeks ago. Yeah,you said an email, you got her,
you got her Nuber homes, youpaid for Uber. Yeah, you
know, I'm gonna class you guys. Yeah, I think, Yeah,
(02:05):
I think that's nothing nothing, youknow, nothing too untoward. At the
end of the evening, but alittle you know, a little kiss and
good night and I can't wait tosee you again. Was the way it
was left. We have her forher sense, right, I have not
heard from her, okay, soyeah, that's yeah, that's and that's
(02:28):
where we come in. So letme just I'm a caller and uh try
get go on. Doesn't see whatwhat wrong I do? It's interesting.
I do think there is something too, you say, her being assertive that
does take a bit pressure off fromyour dude, if like, because that
what you know for a shrug,okay, even if you magine it's like,
oh she wants to date, yeah, my ass and beyond date,
I think they just want to befriends. Let me just try to get
(02:49):
her on real quick. Hold on, that's not good. Hold on hopefully,
uh hopefully she's not her us haveher phone off. I'd be a
bit of a buzz kill shy again. I'm a little nervous. Ah,
good dude, Hello, Hi,calling for Lauren. Please. This is
(03:19):
her. Hey Lauren. My nameis in turn John. I got Rose
here as well from your show.Can I talk to you on the area
quick about something? Nothing bad?It's like real quick if you have by
two minutes from me, Um,yeah, I guess okay, perfect,
we're doing a second date. Update. I have somebody on hold who named
Adam af who wants to say hello, Hi, Hi. Perfect. Adam
(03:42):
told us that yep, Adam toldus you guys want to date a couple
of weeks ago, mash unhinge,and he just hasn't heard anything since.
So we're trying to figure out whatwent wrong from your your advantage point,
if you will. Oh, Iactually get int the uber home and conversation
was good. Everything was good.So yeah, I mean that's true.
It was we got along real greatand he was very nice and and you
(04:05):
know, dinner was great and itwas fun. But you know what,
when when you ask somebody about theirdating history and they tell you that their
ex is crazy, um, that'skind of a red flag, especially when
you can't they can't elaborate, likeokay, so like what what was the
issue? And they're just I don'tknow, they're just be a little crazy.
(04:28):
And what about you know the otherpeople you've dated had they're all just
a little nuts. I guess Ican't really pick them. Oh oh oh
yeah that's a bad yeah a bit. Yeah. So yeah, and let's
be real, Okay, every guywho says that their ex is crazy,
especially if they can't tell you whyshe's crazy. There's usually something he's done
(04:48):
to make her crazy. I mean, that's that's not wrong, that's that's
a good point. Um, Adam, is this makes sense? Oh well,
I mean she was really crazy,Okay, Okay, I mean,
but maybe that's the wrong word.But you know, she's just okay.
I mean, I've had I've hadsome bad luck. Yeah, And I
(05:10):
mean, I don't know if it'sme. I mean, I guess I'm
the common denominator, but you know, I don't, I don't know.
I mean, I've had some reallybad luck. It's always can tell you.
And yeah, I just felt likemaybe Lauren was good luck for a
change, and I just thought Iwas trying to be honest. Sure,
let me get this. I'm gonnaput you guys in hold. Are you
team Lauren or a team Adam?Eight seven seven nine nine five four six
(05:31):
They one to call me nine ninethree three eight tax second date update on
your morning show, any morning show? Please talk to Adam and Lauren.
We love your thoughts. Eight sevenseven nine nine five four six They one
to call three eight tech. Excuseme, I think I'm again. If
it's the pollen thing, or whatbut got my throat the last day just
feels like it's it doesn't hurt,it just feels like there's a substance back
(05:57):
there that makes sense, Yeah,like a small grape or in the back
of my throat and that's kind ofgosh the worst. Yeah, I believe
it's just the pollen. But anyway, what I love your thoughts. Second
date up date, Rose would goto phones. Would you want to say,
I don't love the whole my Xwas crazy stick? Yes, it's
overused and I feel like most ofthe time, if your ex is crazy,
(06:17):
you probably drove them there. Yes, like it's not but like my
uh not really red flag. Myfirst thought was it's an awkward question to
ask on a first date though forsure. Yeah. I mean like if
you ask if we're on a firstdate, if Molly asked me what happened
to Xes? Like there's no realgood answer, you know, is it
(06:38):
more of a what happened to yourexes? Or like why are you single?
Because I feel like why are yousingle could be like a topic of
like is it because you're too busywith work? Like what's what's the story
there? You know, like likehow did we get to this point maybe,
but I feel like bringing the xesinto it of my X is crazy
and not the way to go.But what I think we're crazy? No,
(06:58):
that's not. I Also that's athat's a loaded question to ask.
Yeah, I mean, that's ifyou're gonna ask the question, then it's
almost like you have to be okaywith what the answer is. Yeah.
I feel like also sometimes you couldask that as like, Wow, this
guy seems so great, how areyou single? You not kind of thing?
Isn't it um insulting? The otherway around though, Like, isn't
I thought I heard like some ofmy female friends saying they don't like being
(07:21):
asked why they're single because it impliessomething's wrong? Or is that my misunderstanding
that I mean? I guess itdepends on how it's Yeah, Yeah,
I mean, listen, what doI know? I'm I stumbled upon you
nod the hell's going on? Letme go? Nicole, good morning?
Hey, good morning. What doyou want to say with second date?
Up date? Well, I'm justdefinitely a team Lauren. I had a
(07:46):
recent experience Rebilly UM, but thesame type of situation. First time I
met the guy UM and a groupof friends actually started talking about how it's
acts was super crazy. I wenton a date with him and yeah,
I can explain a little more ifyou want me to. Yeah, you
know what happens super pacific. Yeah, so I just I went on a
date with Sam and and then um, I kind of felt it maybe a
(08:11):
little bit not so I started topull back a little bit in my text
because I wasn't sure. The secondI started doing that, man, he
just started like blowing up my phonesuper clean. What do you what do
you do in at you? Iam? You know that's like but oh
that's weird. Um yeah, yeahthat's a Yeah, that's a that's a
you can't put on too much rightaway. Nicole, thank you for calling.
(08:33):
I have a great day, Noproblem. Go Lauren, Go Brittany,
you're also on team Lauren. Whatdo you want to say? I
am? I think that if somebodysays all my ex is crazy, somebody,
I mean he was either a narcissistand he drove them there just like
Rosa se or there's very few justblatantly crazy people. Yeah, what do
(09:00):
you think, Brittany? The questionof the axes is good for a first
date or do you think that shouldwait until later on. I don't know.
I used to ask people when Iwould go on first dates. I'd
be like, would you do this? Like what were three things you liked
about me? And three things youdid it? And I'd ask them if
they want to go again? Okay, or like if they want to go
on another date? But sometimes Iwould I mean, I don't know.
I guess it was very kind becausesometimes I would say yes and then I
(09:24):
would block them and I would right, Brittany, thank you so much for
I have a great day. Thanksbye, And now somebody texted in My
brother dated a legit crazy girl,faked the pregnancy, faked the miscarriage,
like altered medical documents, crazy,nothing about crazy. Yeah, my god,
(09:46):
that's but listen, Wow, Iwould love them how long they're there
for together with each other, becauseI can if he stayed, I can
tell you exactly why, because dudesare idiots when it comes to that kind
of are idiots? Are you sayingbecause she was high that'd be a it's
it's but I think it kind ofgoes both ways, like the things with
helpful that somebody's really hot. It'sinsane when you look at the chart if
(10:07):
you want to do a second dateupdate. The dms are always open at
y MS Radio. If I missit on the show, I download the
podcast. Your Morning Show
If you are new this year,we do second date Update. You go
on date with somebody you feel likethere maybe could be a connection, could
be a vibe, and then thetrail goes cold, so to speak.
You don't hear from them, there'sno more responses in the kind of the
poopy thing is. You have towonder was it you? Was it?
Then? What's going on? Wetry to figure out with second date Update.
(00:20):
Let me bring him back on Adam. Good morning, sir, Hey,
good morning. Appreciate you doing this. Then, yeah, man,
thanks for listening, got your email. Let's get into this. So you
and Lauren met where, well,we met on Hinge. Okay, so
the laate the best play to meetsomebody nowadays? I think I think of
all the episode, I only wasUnhinge for a little bit. I like
(00:41):
that. I think Hinge was likethe next evolution of stuff. So I
think it's a pretty good spot.So I think so too, I've said
anyway, sorry, yeah, yeah, So mash on Hinge had our first
day about two weeks ago. Yousaid, yeah, okay, so yeah,
yeah, what about Lauren sit outto you? Why would why would
(01:02):
like Lauren? Well, I mean, first of all, she's she's really
pretty. But she was just youknow, she was just really herself Like
I just felt like she was kindof she's kind of uh it was not
really aggressive, but you know,very sure of herself and and was assertive
about things and uh, you know, I just kind of really like that.
(01:23):
Uh. We laughed a lot.We had a lot in common.
I mean, you know, asideringwe just met the first time. I
mean we just she like sports,you know that. It's really cool.
Yeah, um yeah, I meanshe was funny. Uh yeah, you
know, I mean it didn't feellike there's any work you know, which
(01:44):
you know what that that's just whenwhen there's like painful silences and stuff.
There really wasn't any of that.I didn't think. I just thought it
was a great day. Yeah.So you guys went to it was a
dinner two weeks ago. Yeah,you said an email, you got her,
you got her Nuber homes, youpaid for Uber. Yeah, you
know, I'm gonna class you guys. Yeah, I think, Yeah,
(02:05):
I think that's nothing nothing, youknow, nothing too untoward. At the
end of the evening, but alittle you know, a little kiss and
good night and I can't wait tosee you again. Was the way it
was left. We have her forher sense, right, I have not
heard from her, okay, soyeah, that's yeah, that's and that's
(02:28):
where we come in. So letme just I'm a caller and uh try
get go on. Doesn't see whatwhat wrong I do? It's interesting.
I do think there is something too, you say, her being assertive that
does take a bit pressure off fromyour dude, if like, because that
what you know for a shrug,okay, even if you magine it's like,
oh she wants to date, yeah, my ass and beyond date,
I think they just want to befriends. Let me just try to get
(02:49):
her on real quick. Hold on, that's not good. Hold on hopefully,
uh hopefully she's not her us haveher phone off. I'd be a
bit of a buzz kill shy again. I'm a little nervous. Ah,
good dude, Hello, Hi,calling for Lauren. Please. This is
(03:19):
her. Hey Lauren. My nameis in turn John. I got Rose
here as well from your show.Can I talk to you on the area
quick about something? Nothing bad?It's like real quick if you have by
two minutes from me, Um,yeah, I guess okay, perfect,
we're doing a second date. Update. I have somebody on hold who named
Adam af who wants to say hello, Hi, Hi. Perfect. Adam
(03:42):
told us that yep, Adam toldus you guys want to date a couple
of weeks ago, mash unhinge,and he just hasn't heard anything since.
So we're trying to figure out whatwent wrong from your your advantage point,
if you will. Oh, Iactually get int the uber home and conversation
was good. Everything was good.So yeah, I mean that's true.
It was we got along real greatand he was very nice and and you
(04:05):
know, dinner was great and itwas fun. But you know what,
when when you ask somebody about theirdating history and they tell you that their
ex is crazy, um, that'skind of a red flag, especially when
you can't they can't elaborate, likeokay, so like what what was the
issue? And they're just I don'tknow, they're just be a little crazy.
(04:28):
And what about you know the otherpeople you've dated had they're all just
a little nuts. I guess Ican't really pick them. Oh oh oh
yeah that's a bad yeah a bit. Yeah. So yeah, and let's
be real, Okay, every guywho says that their ex is crazy,
especially if they can't tell you whyshe's crazy. There's usually something he's done
(04:48):
to make her crazy. I mean, that's that's not wrong, that's that's
a good point. Um, Adam, is this makes sense? Oh well,
I mean she was really crazy,Okay, Okay, I mean,
but maybe that's the wrong word.But you know, she's just okay.
I mean, I've had I've hadsome bad luck. Yeah, And I
(05:10):
mean, I don't know if it'sme. I mean, I guess I'm
the common denominator, but you know, I don't, I don't know.
I mean, I've had some reallybad luck. It's always can tell you.
And yeah, I just felt likemaybe Lauren was good luck for a
change, and I just thought Iwas trying to be honest. Sure,
let me get this. I'm gonnaput you guys in hold. Are you
team Lauren or a team Adam?Eight seven seven nine nine five four six
(05:31):
They one to call me nine ninethree three eight tax second date update on
your morning show, any morning show? Please talk to Adam and Lauren.
We love your thoughts. Eight sevenseven nine nine five four six They one
to call three eight tech. Excuseme, I think I'm again. If
it's the pollen thing, or whatbut got my throat the last day just
feels like it's it doesn't hurt,it just feels like there's a substance back
(05:57):
there that makes sense, Yeah,like a small grape or in the back
of my throat and that's kind ofgosh the worst. Yeah, I believe
it's just the pollen. But anyway, what I love your thoughts. Second
date up date, Rose would goto phones. Would you want to say,
I don't love the whole my Xwas crazy stick? Yes, it's
overused and I feel like most ofthe time, if your ex is crazy,
(06:17):
you probably drove them there. Yes, like it's not but like my
uh not really red flag. Myfirst thought was it's an awkward question to
ask on a first date though forsure. Yeah. I mean like if
you ask if we're on a firstdate, if Molly asked me what happened
to Xes? Like there's no realgood answer, you know, is it
(06:38):
more of a what happened to yourexes? Or like why are you single?
Because I feel like why are yousingle could be like a topic of
like is it because you're too busywith work? Like what's what's the story
there? You know, like likehow did we get to this point maybe,
but I feel like bringing the xesinto it of my X is crazy
and not the way to go.But what I think we're crazy? No,
(06:58):
that's not. I Also that's athat's a loaded question to ask.
Yeah, I mean, that's ifyou're gonna ask the question, then it's
almost like you have to be okaywith what the answer is. Yeah.
I feel like also sometimes you couldask that as like, Wow, this
guy seems so great, how areyou single? You not kind of thing?
Isn't it um insulting? The otherway around though, Like, isn't
I thought I heard like some ofmy female friends saying they don't like being
(07:21):
asked why they're single because it impliessomething's wrong? Or is that my misunderstanding
that I mean? I guess itdepends on how it's Yeah, Yeah,
I mean, listen, what doI know? I'm I stumbled upon you
nod the hell's going on? Letme go? Nicole, good morning?
Hey, good morning. What doyou want to say with second date?
Up date? Well, I'm justdefinitely a team Lauren. I had a
(07:46):
recent experience Rebilly UM, but thesame type of situation. First time I
met the guy UM and a groupof friends actually started talking about how it's
acts was super crazy. I wenton a date with him and yeah,
I can explain a little more ifyou want me to. Yeah, you
know what happens super pacific. Yeah, so I just I went on a
date with Sam and and then um, I kind of felt it maybe a
(08:11):
little bit not so I started topull back a little bit in my text
because I wasn't sure. The secondI started doing that, man, he
just started like blowing up my phonesuper clean. What do you what do
you do in at you? Iam? You know that's like but oh
that's weird. Um yeah, yeahthat's a Yeah, that's a that's a
you can't put on too much rightaway. Nicole, thank you for calling.
(08:33):
I have a great day, Noproblem. Go Lauren, Go Brittany,
you're also on team Lauren. Whatdo you want to say? I
am? I think that if somebodysays all my ex is crazy, somebody,
I mean he was either a narcissistand he drove them there just like
Rosa se or there's very few justblatantly crazy people. Yeah, what do
(09:00):
you think, Brittany? The questionof the axes is good for a first
date or do you think that shouldwait until later on. I don't know.
I used to ask people when Iwould go on first dates. I'd
be like, would you do this? Like what were three things you liked
about me? And three things youdid it? And I'd ask them if
they want to go again? Okay, or like if they want to go
on another date? But sometimes Iwould I mean, I don't know.
I guess it was very kind becausesometimes I would say yes and then I
(09:24):
would block them and I would right, Brittany, thank you so much for
I have a great day. Thanksbye, And now somebody texted in My
brother dated a legit crazy girl,faked the pregnancy, faked the miscarriage,
like altered medical documents, crazy,nothing about crazy. Yeah, my god,
(09:46):
that's but listen, Wow, Iwould love them how long they're there
for together with each other, becauseI can if he stayed, I can
tell you exactly why, because dudesare idiots when it comes to that kind
of are idiots? Are you sayingbecause she was high that'd be a it's
it's but I think it kind ofgoes both ways, like the things with
helpful that somebody's really hot. It'sinsane when you look at the chart if
(10:07):
you want to do a second dateupdate. The dms are always open at
y MS Radio. If I missit on the show, I download the
podcast. Your Morning Show
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