April 19, 2023 • 12 mins
Hannah and Michael first met on Bumble last year and nothing really happened, but three weeks ago they actually matched again and they decided to go out for dinner this past weekend to restart everything between them. Hannah and Michael both agreed on dinner, drinks, and potentially dancing, but right after dinner Michael abruptly had to leave saying he had to go help a friend. Hannah isn’t 100% sure he was telling the truth because Michael didn’t mention anything until Hannah went to the bathroom during dinner and ever since then she hasn’t heard back from Michael.
We call Michael to find out why he hasn’t responded to Hannah since their date and he tells us he left after dinner because of Hannah’s rudeness. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Michael to find out why he hasn’t responded to Hannah since their date and he tells us he left after dinner because of Hannah’s rudeness. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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(00:00):
Thank Your Morning Shows Second date update. Any morning show, you are in
the dating scene. You're trying tofind your person, and maybe it's been
a little bit longer than you wouldlike. You finally find somebody, they
break through. You think maybe thisperson could be something special, but then
they disappear. We try to figureout exactly what went wrong. Let me
(00:21):
bring her back on Hannah, GoodMorning. This is interesting. Your second
date update, Michael, we matchedon Bumble, but this is like the
second try, I guess with Bumble. Yeah, so we matched first about
a year ago. Okay, um, and you know, we just never
(00:41):
ended up growing out. It kindof just like sizzled dot a little bit,
start dating somebody else and I assumehe did do and then we kind
of matched again three weeks ago,and yeah, did you recognize him right
away? It's been like, oh, I'm pretty sure I matched with this
person before. Yeah. Yeah.And then and then I kind of wondered,
(01:02):
like, well, why didn't whydidn't we match the first time?
You didn't? I like, youknow, yeah, why didn't? It
wasn't it go first time? ButI guess just you know, the timing
wasn't right or whatever. I mean, it is it didn't cut you up.
It is one of those things whereit's like you, what are the
odds? Do you know what Imean? That you would match a year
ago whatever reason doesn't work out,and then recently you both find each other
(01:22):
again. Like that is kind ofstorybook a little bit. Yeah, I
mean, it just it just feltright and like we have similar interests and
I really liked it. He seemslike somebody has goals and you know,
wants to do stuff in life.So yeah, yeah, okay, so
we fast forward then, um butlet me ask you us first, did
he remember matching with you as well? I did? Like who brought that
(01:42):
up first? Um? He did. It was kind of it was kind
of funny, like we both kindof laughed about it. Okay, that's
cool, okay cool. And thenso this past weekend we had dinner or
dinner day and that's um, whilewe're here, So if you wouldn't mind,
Hannah, from your point of you, can you walk us through dinner
and what happened? Yeah? So, I mean, because we've already matched
(02:05):
before, we kind of just likethis needs to be like a whole night
thing. Let's make a thing ofit and go out and do the whole
thing. So we were like dinner, drinks, you know, um maybe
damn thing or whatever like, butall of a sudden, you know,
I mean I guess I thought wehad a really nice dinner. We went
to this you know, um wewent to this place. Um that was
(02:29):
you know, not like super fancyor anything, but like no not yea,
yeah it was. It was anice place and like, um,
you know, we shared a napand we um had that and had some
drinks beforehand and whatever. Bent likeright after dinner he had to balance and
(02:49):
I like he gave me some excuseabout having to go help his family or
something or a friend. I don'teven remember that. Then I was like
I don't it doesn't. I gotthe vibe like something was up and that
wasn't really really sure. Did helike check his phone and then realize it
or um, well, I meanI had gone to the bathroom and I
(03:14):
came back and if he's like,hey what, I was like what okay?
And since then this was Saturday,right, so we try we try
to reach out since then, andit's been basically nothing. Is that bear
to say? Yep? Exactly okay? And so um that makes sense.
Okay, So obviously we're trying tofigure out for sure what happened. I
(03:37):
mean, if there is something seriousgoing on, you know, that could
always be an answer as well.But let me do this. I'll call
him, I'll get him go outwith us, and we'll try to see
what's happening. Okay, all right, Yeah, sounds good. One second,
um, because I just think ifif you match somebody years later,
that's an interesting situation for sure.Hello, all right, calling from Michael.
(04:11):
Please. This is Mike. Hey, Michael, my name is intern
John Colling from your morning show.Can I talk to you on the air
real quick about something nothing bad?Just need your permission to go on the
air real quick. Sure? Yeah, perfect? Is it Michael or Mike?
Oh, Mike's good. Perfect,Okay, So listen, Mike,
we're doing the second date update.I have somebody on hold here who says
(04:35):
they've matched with you on bumble HeadDay with you this past weekend and trying
to figure some things out from that. Hannah, if you want to say,
hello, oh hey, how's itgood? Perfect? And so Mike,
Hannah told us you guys at matchin the past, had dinner this
Saturday and that you kind of hadto abruptly go somewhere else. We're just
(04:55):
trying to see if that was,Um, is something one wrong? If
everything's good, is gonna be morebecause she's kind of wondering where you guys
stand. Okay yeah, oh yeah, so this is a little awkward.
Um okay, okay, uh okay. So we we went dinner, and
(05:16):
uh, she was rude. Shecomplained about everything. She's rude to the
stack at the restaurant. Yeah,I was trying to avoid that. Uh.
Yeah, she complained about the food. She's like like the you know,
the service wasn't good, even thoughlike the layer had a trainee with
(05:39):
him and the you know, itwas clear that it was like their first
day. And I was like,cut up with some slack. Okay,
yeah I didn't. I don't know. I I've been in food service before,
and I know that that job sucksand training in Yeah, brought a
(05:59):
house back gas doesn't matter at allsucks and uh, that is a thankless
job. And you should never berude to staff at a restaurant or agree
at a restaurant. So yeah,sorry to monologue about it, but like
that, that's that's where I'm atOkay, So Hannah, let's go to
you, because I think everybody canagree being rude to Await seven is bad.
But what's your thought, Hannah,from your perspective, what happened?
(06:25):
I mean, I I didn't thinkI was rude at all. I mean,
like, okay, I've worked inservice as well, like not a
lot, but a little bit,and like you know, if something isn't
right, you send it back likethat is. Their job is to get
you what you ordered and make itright. Sure, so if you ask
(06:48):
for no onions on your salad,then there should be no onions on your
salad. You know. That isnot you know, something that I need
to tippy toe around or whatever Iwas. I feel like they're the difference
between being rude and being direct,and I feel like I was just being
direct, okay. And also,you know, when someone screws up like
a few times, it's not likeI raamed them out or anything. But
(07:13):
I do feel like you can startto I don't know, like I might
have gotten a little bit impatient becauseyes, like he was training someone,
but that means you also have extrahands, like you know, if someone
screws up multiple times, Yeah,Okay, then yeah, like I feel
like expressing my displeasure with the experienceis not sure, Okay, unacceptable?
(07:38):
Okay, all right, well I'mloving this. I'm gonna put you guys
in hold. Are you team Hannahor team Michael eight seven seven nine nine
five four six eight one to callnine nine three three eight to text Second
Date Update any Mory Shaw leave thesecond Date update on any morning show.
We just talk to Hannah and Michael. Would I love your thoughts? You
can text nine nine three three eightcan call eight seven seven nine five four
(08:03):
six A one rose your thoughts withsecond Day Update. I'm team Michael on
this one. Yeah. So whenit comes to like the onions on the
salad thing, if there's something wrongwith my order that I can pick off
and I'm not allergic to, I'mnot going to make a big deal about
it. Just pushed off the side, No big deal. And the way
that she's like, oh, there'sextra hands for training, that means less
(08:24):
issue. Should No, you're trainingsomeone, which means they're learning, which
means when issues arise, it's alearning opportunity one for the trainer and two
it might have been like an issuelike the trainer was learning and didn't put
something in right. So like beexpressing your displeasure is just a key to
me. Well, it's a littlebit of perspective, right, because there
(08:46):
is nothing more annoying when you ordersomething that comes out wrong. But to
assume that it's a personal attack almostlike the waiters like, oh, they
ask a pickle, it's what I'mI do extra pickle, Tommy, Tommy,
they're making a rain family. Idon't know if that's necessarily a lot
of times things like that, likeyou could put it in perfectly and it
doesn't come out from the kitchen right, and that's, you know, an
(09:07):
issue with the kitchen sometimes not theway that you put it in. So
to be rude to the staff isjust not especially somebody who's new in their
job. I think that somebody whosays that they've worked in the service industry
these things damn. Let me goin Delta Pa Jessica morning, good morning.
You heard secondary update. What doyou want to say? I am
(09:30):
completely with Rose. It's the waythat people treat weite staff is very telling
of who they are as a person. And when you have a new person
that you're training, it's like havingkid hands you have to. You're literally
teaching them how to do the wholejob everything. Yeah, I can't.
Again, like I think most peopledon't want to be bad their jobs.
(09:54):
I think most people don't want it, like most people want shrewharden do well.
So I think that aga into ahim like the waiter's trying to be
better or the trainee. I thinkis not the best look. Jess,
thank you for calling. I havea great day, mom. Man.
I was trained on how to holdlike three glasses in one hand. We're
talking with stems or without stems,now without stems? Three glasses in one
(10:16):
hand? What kind of glasses arewe talking? Like glasses for water or
soda? I'm saying like the tallones are glass, like the wine tumblers,
you know what I'm saying. Notthe wine tumblers, the tall ones
for drinks. I can hold threein one hand. And I was trained
on how to do that because wedidn't have like, we didn't really use
trays at that time. So yeah, like you get trained on literally everything,
(10:37):
how to punch things in, howto carry things, how to I
stack three plates on my arm atone point, so I could carry four
plates to a table. It's insane, what you're what you're learning, and
what you go through when you're training. Well, you know, I always
say, Rose, don't and Idon't even know. Any glass can be
a wine glass if you put yourmind to it. Tell me before your
(10:58):
choice them, No, that's true. Tell me glass can be a wine
glass if you just hear wine init. Thank you. Now, tell
me if I put that on apillow and sold million dollars million dollar idea,
you hear it here? First,let me give an Arlington Shannon,
good morning. Hey, So Roseis completely right. Yes, usually my
(11:20):
point after seeing the movie Waiting,I will never return my food at a
B Yeah, I've seen that movietoo to do that. Yeah, honestly,
I'm just too scared in general.Like I just I feel like I
have a little bit of anxiety whenit comes to just excuse me, Like
(11:41):
this is where I hate doing itand it. Yeah, I'm like,
I'm so every time I do.If I have to send something back because
like there's something really wrong with it, I'm like, I'm so, like
I'm on my knees begging for theirforgiveness. Yea, I'd I'd rather pack
it up and take it home.Yeah, that movie ruined me. I
(12:03):
think it ruined all of us.Thank you so much for call I have
a great day. That is sofunny. Hi, oh my gosh.
And if you've never seen that movie, just good, We'll just watch it.
You cannot continue over text nine ninethree three eight if you want to
do a second date, out ofdate would make it a very simple.
Dms are always open at WIMS Radio. Give us your info, give us
(12:26):
their info, try bringing it backtogether. That one to me though,
like when you Matt rematch with somebodyback in the day, Like that is
like a bit of a oh couldthis possibly could be something sad? Right?
If I miss it on the show, I download the podcast Your Morning Show
Thank Your Morning Shows Second date update. Any morning show, you are in
the dating scene. You're trying tofind your person, and maybe it's been
a little bit longer than you wouldlike. You finally find somebody, they
break through. You think maybe thisperson could be something special, but then
they disappear. We try to figureout exactly what went wrong. Let me
(00:21):
bring her back on Hannah, GoodMorning. This is interesting. Your second
date update, Michael, we matchedon Bumble, but this is like the
second try, I guess with Bumble. Yeah, so we matched first about
a year ago. Okay, um, and you know, we just never
(00:41):
ended up growing out. It kindof just like sizzled dot a little bit,
start dating somebody else and I assumehe did do and then we kind
of matched again three weeks ago,and yeah, did you recognize him right
away? It's been like, oh, I'm pretty sure I matched with this
person before. Yeah. Yeah.And then and then I kind of wondered,
(01:02):
like, well, why didn't whydidn't we match the first time?
You didn't? I like, youknow, yeah, why didn't? It
wasn't it go first time? ButI guess just you know, the timing
wasn't right or whatever. I mean, it is it didn't cut you up.
It is one of those things whereit's like you, what are the
odds? Do you know what Imean? That you would match a year
ago whatever reason doesn't work out,and then recently you both find each other
(01:22):
again. Like that is kind ofstorybook a little bit. Yeah, I
mean, it just it just feltright and like we have similar interests and
I really liked it. He seemslike somebody has goals and you know,
wants to do stuff in life.So yeah, yeah, okay, so
we fast forward then, um butlet me ask you us first, did
he remember matching with you as well? I did? Like who brought that
(01:42):
up first? Um? He did. It was kind of it was kind
of funny, like we both kindof laughed about it. Okay, that's
cool, okay cool. And thenso this past weekend we had dinner or
dinner day and that's um, whilewe're here, So if you wouldn't mind,
Hannah, from your point of you, can you walk us through dinner
and what happened? Yeah? So, I mean, because we've already matched
(02:05):
before, we kind of just likethis needs to be like a whole night
thing. Let's make a thing ofit and go out and do the whole
thing. So we were like dinner, drinks, you know, um maybe
damn thing or whatever like, butall of a sudden, you know,
I mean I guess I thought wehad a really nice dinner. We went
to this you know, um wewent to this place. Um that was
(02:29):
you know, not like super fancyor anything, but like no not yea,
yeah it was. It was anice place and like, um,
you know, we shared a napand we um had that and had some
drinks beforehand and whatever. Bent likeright after dinner he had to balance and
(02:49):
I like he gave me some excuseabout having to go help his family or
something or a friend. I don'teven remember that. Then I was like
I don't it doesn't. I gotthe vibe like something was up and that
wasn't really really sure. Did helike check his phone and then realize it
or um, well, I meanI had gone to the bathroom and I
(03:14):
came back and if he's like,hey what, I was like what okay?
And since then this was Saturday,right, so we try we try
to reach out since then, andit's been basically nothing. Is that bear
to say? Yep? Exactly okay? And so um that makes sense.
Okay, So obviously we're trying tofigure out for sure what happened. I
(03:37):
mean, if there is something seriousgoing on, you know, that could
always be an answer as well.But let me do this. I'll call
him, I'll get him go outwith us, and we'll try to see
what's happening. Okay, all right, Yeah, sounds good. One second,
um, because I just think ifif you match somebody years later,
that's an interesting situation for sure.Hello, all right, calling from Michael.
(04:11):
Please. This is Mike. Hey, Michael, my name is intern
John Colling from your morning show.Can I talk to you on the air
real quick about something nothing bad?Just need your permission to go on the
air real quick. Sure? Yeah, perfect? Is it Michael or Mike?
Oh, Mike's good. Perfect,Okay, So listen, Mike,
we're doing the second date update.I have somebody on hold here who says
(04:35):
they've matched with you on bumble HeadDay with you this past weekend and trying
to figure some things out from that. Hannah, if you want to say,
hello, oh hey, how's itgood? Perfect? And so Mike,
Hannah told us you guys at matchin the past, had dinner this
Saturday and that you kind of hadto abruptly go somewhere else. We're just
(04:55):
trying to see if that was,Um, is something one wrong? If
everything's good, is gonna be morebecause she's kind of wondering where you guys
stand. Okay yeah, oh yeah, so this is a little awkward.
Um okay, okay, uh okay. So we we went dinner, and
(05:16):
uh, she was rude. Shecomplained about everything. She's rude to the
stack at the restaurant. Yeah,I was trying to avoid that. Uh.
Yeah, she complained about the food. She's like like the you know,
the service wasn't good, even thoughlike the layer had a trainee with
(05:39):
him and the you know, itwas clear that it was like their first
day. And I was like,cut up with some slack. Okay,
yeah I didn't. I don't know. I I've been in food service before,
and I know that that job sucksand training in Yeah, brought a
(05:59):
house back gas doesn't matter at allsucks and uh, that is a thankless
job. And you should never berude to staff at a restaurant or agree
at a restaurant. So yeah,sorry to monologue about it, but like
that, that's that's where I'm atOkay, So Hannah, let's go to
you, because I think everybody canagree being rude to Await seven is bad.
But what's your thought, Hannah,from your perspective, what happened?
(06:25):
I mean, I I didn't thinkI was rude at all. I mean,
like, okay, I've worked inservice as well, like not a
lot, but a little bit,and like you know, if something isn't
right, you send it back likethat is. Their job is to get
you what you ordered and make itright. Sure, so if you ask
(06:48):
for no onions on your salad,then there should be no onions on your
salad. You know. That isnot you know, something that I need
to tippy toe around or whatever Iwas. I feel like they're the difference
between being rude and being direct,and I feel like I was just being
direct, okay. And also,you know, when someone screws up like
a few times, it's not likeI raamed them out or anything. But
(07:13):
I do feel like you can startto I don't know, like I might
have gotten a little bit impatient becauseyes, like he was training someone,
but that means you also have extrahands, like you know, if someone
screws up multiple times, Yeah,Okay, then yeah, like I feel
like expressing my displeasure with the experienceis not sure, Okay, unacceptable?
(07:38):
Okay, all right, well I'mloving this. I'm gonna put you guys
in hold. Are you team Hannahor team Michael eight seven seven nine nine
five four six eight one to callnine nine three three eight to text Second
Date Update any Mory Shaw leave thesecond Date update on any morning show.
We just talk to Hannah and Michael. Would I love your thoughts? You
can text nine nine three three eightcan call eight seven seven nine five four
(08:03):
six A one rose your thoughts withsecond Day Update. I'm team Michael on
this one. Yeah. So whenit comes to like the onions on the
salad thing, if there's something wrongwith my order that I can pick off
and I'm not allergic to, I'mnot going to make a big deal about
it. Just pushed off the side, No big deal. And the way
that she's like, oh, there'sextra hands for training, that means less
(08:24):
issue. Should No, you're trainingsomeone, which means they're learning, which
means when issues arise, it's alearning opportunity one for the trainer and two
it might have been like an issuelike the trainer was learning and didn't put
something in right. So like beexpressing your displeasure is just a key to
me. Well, it's a littlebit of perspective, right, because there
(08:46):
is nothing more annoying when you ordersomething that comes out wrong. But to
assume that it's a personal attack almostlike the waiters like, oh, they
ask a pickle, it's what I'mI do extra pickle, Tommy, Tommy,
they're making a rain family. Idon't know if that's necessarily a lot
of times things like that, likeyou could put it in perfectly and it
doesn't come out from the kitchen right, and that's, you know, an
(09:07):
issue with the kitchen sometimes not theway that you put it in. So
to be rude to the staff isjust not especially somebody who's new in their
job. I think that somebody whosays that they've worked in the service industry
these things damn. Let me goin Delta Pa Jessica morning, good morning.
You heard secondary update. What doyou want to say? I am
(09:30):
completely with Rose. It's the waythat people treat weite staff is very telling
of who they are as a person. And when you have a new person
that you're training, it's like havingkid hands you have to. You're literally
teaching them how to do the wholejob everything. Yeah, I can't.
Again, like I think most peopledon't want to be bad their jobs.
(09:54):
I think most people don't want it, like most people want shrewharden do well.
So I think that aga into ahim like the waiter's trying to be
better or the trainee. I thinkis not the best look. Jess,
thank you for calling. I havea great day, mom. Man.
I was trained on how to holdlike three glasses in one hand. We're
talking with stems or without stems,now without stems? Three glasses in one
(10:16):
hand? What kind of glasses arewe talking? Like glasses for water or
soda? I'm saying like the tallones are glass, like the wine tumblers,
you know what I'm saying. Notthe wine tumblers, the tall ones
for drinks. I can hold threein one hand. And I was trained
on how to do that because wedidn't have like, we didn't really use
trays at that time. So yeah, like you get trained on literally everything,
(10:37):
how to punch things in, howto carry things, how to I
stack three plates on my arm atone point, so I could carry four
plates to a table. It's insane, what you're what you're learning, and
what you go through when you're training. Well, you know, I always
say, Rose, don't and Idon't even know. Any glass can be
a wine glass if you put yourmind to it. Tell me before your
(10:58):
choice them, No, that's true. Tell me glass can be a wine
glass if you just hear wine init. Thank you. Now, tell
me if I put that on apillow and sold million dollars million dollar idea,
you hear it here? First,let me give an Arlington Shannon,
good morning. Hey, So Roseis completely right. Yes, usually my
(11:20):
point after seeing the movie Waiting,I will never return my food at a
B Yeah, I've seen that movietoo to do that. Yeah, honestly,
I'm just too scared in general.Like I just I feel like I
have a little bit of anxiety whenit comes to just excuse me, Like
(11:41):
this is where I hate doing itand it. Yeah, I'm like,
I'm so every time I do.If I have to send something back because
like there's something really wrong with it, I'm like, I'm so, like
I'm on my knees begging for theirforgiveness. Yea, I'd I'd rather pack
it up and take it home.Yeah, that movie ruined me. I
(12:03):
think it ruined all of us.Thank you so much for call I have
a great day. That is sofunny. Hi, oh my gosh.
And if you've never seen that movie, just good, We'll just watch it.
You cannot continue over text nine ninethree three eight if you want to
do a second date, out ofdate would make it a very simple.
Dms are always open at WIMS Radio. Give us your info, give us
(12:26):
their info, try bringing it backtogether. That one to me though,
like when you Matt rematch with somebodyback in the day, Like that is
like a bit of a oh couldthis possibly could be something sad? Right?
If I miss it on the show, I download the podcast Your Morning Show
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