February 2, 2024 • 8 mins
Cody is on that gym grind, and it seems Jessica is too, so he thought it was a great fit. Cody thinks the first date went well, but now he can't get in touch with Jessica.
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(00:00):
Variety from the two thousands, thenineties, and today Star one on one
three. It's Marcus and Corey.Guess what time it is? Is it
time for second date? Up?Oh my god, girl, That's what
we do every day. We figureout why you didn't get that e loose
is second date? Let's bring Codyon Cody. Good morning. Hey guys,
Hey dude, Hey, what's yourstory? Can you be a little
(00:24):
more specific? Dude? My partnerbefore Corey, Sandy, she used to
hate it. I would walk itin the morning and be like, hey,
what's your deal? She too,She took it as a personal attack
every time. Not very friendly.Cody, Please tell us about your date
with Jessica. How'd you guys meet? First of all, we met the
jim you know, one of thoseNew Year's resolutions. Got me into it
(00:46):
again? Whatever, blah blah blah. Sure are you still with it?
Are you still with it? Yeah? Still with it? Man, It's
one addiction to another. Okay,I can guess. Do I need to
go you need to go into detail? Probably not. Let's just keep it.
We'll keep it going. Okay.So you guys made it the gym?
(01:06):
Yeah, I mean I was checkingher out a little bit beforehand,
not to be a weirdo, butI also needed a machine that she was
using, and uh, and askedif I could work in. I assumed
she'd be like, you know,run, run, weirdo, but she
was cool about it, and youknow, I had no intentions of like,
you know, moving in at thatpoint, but like, you know,
(01:26):
I just thought you was attracted andI was like, cool, Like
I get to talk to cool chickand continue my workout. Sure, yeah,
so yeah, I mean we weI feel like we we clicked pretty
pretty fast. And then I sawher very frequently at the gym, almost
every day. We chatted, youknow, and then we went out and
(01:48):
it seemed like it was just asgreat. And then I got the you
know, at the end of theyou know, the end of the day,
like you know, trying to likekill it out, whether you can
make the move or not, orwhat's gonna happen, And she gave me
the quick hug. Was it likea side hug, not the long bring
it in I want to feel intheir energy kind of hug? But this
all right, Yeah, it wasdefinitely the energy of the side hug.
(02:12):
Okay, what did you guys talkabout during the date. I'm just trying
to get some clues. You know. We talked about some family things.
We talked about like, you know, goals we you know, we talked
about, you know, just embarrassingmoments from childhood and things like like just
like a lot of random stuff.Like it was. It was just like
(02:32):
a free form conversation. But inyour estimation it went well, I thought
so. But like I definitely like, oh man, I hate saying this
on the radio. It just makesme sound like such a creep. I
felt like there was like a moreof like a sexual energy before the date
and now it's gone. He friendzoned of the date somehow. I yes,
(02:55):
I felt like I felt like itwas pretty quick too, Like okay,
well, let's not speculate. Wecould do that all day. I'm
sure you've been doing it all week. Let's call her. Can you hang
on the line. Let's go aheadand take a beat, and we'll call
Jessica after the song. It's asecond Date update Star one on one three,
Well variety from the two thousands andthe nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcusand Corey. We're doing Second Date Update
(03:19):
we've got Cody on the phone.He met a lady whilst participating in his
New Year's resolution. He met herat the gym. I've never met any
well, I take that back.I guess I did date someone from the
gym. I mean, I feellike, Cody, this kind of happened
to you. It's really easy towalk over and be like, hey,
can I work in right? Andthen it's up to you and then she
looks up and she like, eitherit finds you attractive or she doesn't.
(03:42):
And apparently this worked out. AmI doing well so far? Cody?
Absolutely? Okay. So you guyswent out and the Prayer's the problem is,
like the dates started out great andthen by the end of the date
he got the side hug energy.So we're trying to figure out what went
side with. Let's call her Coldy. Go ahead and meete your phone.
I'm gonna give her a shout rightnow. Okay, we'll figure it out.
(04:04):
Here we go. Hello, Thisis Jessica. Hi Jessica, It's
Marcus and Corey calling from Star oneon one three. Hello, Hello,
Hi, hi, Hi. Doyou listen to our show? I do
(04:29):
excellent? This is starting well sofar? Are you familiar with second date
update and if you are, yeah, yeah, would you mind being on
it with us? To us?I guess, so, Okay, have
(04:50):
you been on a date recently wherethe gentleman might or might not be on
the phone with us right now?He knows, yes, probably exactly.
Okay, I'm just gonna sense youknow, Cody, Cody, Cody there,
(05:13):
Yeah, okay, right, we'reall trepidation. Wow, nobody wants
that. I thought I was gonnabe. Let's since we're all here,
let's discuss Jessica, I don't haveto tell you. Cody would like to
take you on another date. Heenjoyed your date. He did feel the
(05:34):
vibe gets sucked out of the roomat the end, So I'm not sure
if that was just his imagination orif he did something wrong or something went
sideways. Maybe you've just been busy. There's been a lot of speculation.
I'm saying, so mm hmm.Can you tell us the date from your
perspective? Shed some light? Yeah, Hi, Cody, So we give
(06:00):
it to me. Share now.We had a good time. I enjoyed
it. And but yeah, sowe we met at the gym, we
went out after I don't know,a couple of weeks of working out.
But and I do apologize for ghosting. I could have handled it better,
but I'm to be honest. Iwas annoyed that you were deceptive deceptive?
(06:29):
Did she say deceptive or no?He lies? Do you mean? Well?
Okay, so you know we wemet at the gym. You know,
when you go out for coffee,you're wearing something different than what you
wear at the gym. Sometimes Idon't know, but he Cody was wearing
(06:49):
a hat, Like just wore ahat to the gym every time, which
I get, like to your sweatingwhatever. I don't know. But when
we met up for a date,I was bold, and that's there's nothing
wrong with that. There's nothing wrongwith that. I just felt like,
you know, he like made themove, he got the girl a little
(07:11):
bit, like hooked her in fora date, and then to find out
he's bald. The baldness is notthe red flag, okay. The red
flag to me is just like thedeception of likes. Ye are your thoughts?
(07:32):
I am a little a little insecureabout the hair. That's what I
do wear the hat, But thatis a little petty, don't you think
I mean I'm sorry, but Ican't it just what did that? Takes
my mouth? So no Second Dateor Jessica your Yeah, I feel awkward.
(07:53):
I mean I started going to adifferent gym. I just it's not
from guy. It's again not thebald No, no, it's not the
baldness. It's just like, wow, I don't know. Okay, sorry,
I'm I'm just out. Okay,hang on, I'm not gonna lie.
That's a little short sighted, that'sa little superficial. I agree with
(08:15):
that. But the thing is,I don't know if you want to use
the word deception because he was wearinga hat, feeling like my guy's dodging
a bullet. Yeah, if I'mbeing real anyway. Second Date Update seven
oh five weekday mornings replays at nineoh five. Of course, it's got
a podcast you can binge listen overthe weekend. If you're new to the
show and you haven't heard, Iwas playing old Second Date updates for my
(08:35):
cousin off of our punch Kidding Dying. Yeah. Check it out on the
iHeartRadio app and go download Marcus A. Corey Second Date Update and subscribe.
Thank you so much.
Variety from the two thousands, thenineties, and today Star one on one
three. It's Marcus and Corey.Guess what time it is? Is it
time for second date? Up?Oh my god, girl, That's what
we do every day. We figureout why you didn't get that e loose
is second date? Let's bring Codyon Cody. Good morning. Hey guys,
Hey dude, Hey, what's yourstory? Can you be a little
(00:24):
more specific? Dude? My partnerbefore Corey, Sandy, she used to
hate it. I would walk itin the morning and be like, hey,
what's your deal? She too,She took it as a personal attack
every time. Not very friendly.Cody, Please tell us about your date
with Jessica. How'd you guys meet? First of all, we met the
jim you know, one of thoseNew Year's resolutions. Got me into it
(00:46):
again? Whatever, blah blah blah. Sure are you still with it?
Are you still with it? Yeah? Still with it? Man, It's
one addiction to another. Okay,I can guess. Do I need to
go you need to go into detail? Probably not. Let's just keep it.
We'll keep it going. Okay.So you guys made it the gym?
(01:06):
Yeah, I mean I was checkingher out a little bit beforehand,
not to be a weirdo, butI also needed a machine that she was
using, and uh, and askedif I could work in. I assumed
she'd be like, you know,run, run, weirdo, but she
was cool about it, and youknow, I had no intentions of like,
you know, moving in at thatpoint, but like, you know,
(01:26):
I just thought you was attracted andI was like, cool, Like
I get to talk to cool chickand continue my workout. Sure, yeah,
so yeah, I mean we weI feel like we we clicked pretty
pretty fast. And then I sawher very frequently at the gym, almost
every day. We chatted, youknow, and then we went out and
(01:48):
it seemed like it was just asgreat. And then I got the you
know, at the end of theyou know, the end of the day,
like you know, trying to likekill it out, whether you can
make the move or not, orwhat's gonna happen, And she gave me
the quick hug. Was it likea side hug, not the long bring
it in I want to feel intheir energy kind of hug? But this
all right, Yeah, it wasdefinitely the energy of the side hug.
(02:12):
Okay, what did you guys talkabout during the date. I'm just trying
to get some clues. You know. We talked about some family things.
We talked about like, you know, goals we you know, we talked
about, you know, just embarrassingmoments from childhood and things like like just
like a lot of random stuff.Like it was. It was just like
(02:32):
a free form conversation. But inyour estimation it went well, I thought
so. But like I definitely like, oh man, I hate saying this
on the radio. It just makesme sound like such a creep. I
felt like there was like a moreof like a sexual energy before the date
and now it's gone. He friendzoned of the date somehow. I yes,
(02:55):
I felt like I felt like itwas pretty quick too, Like okay,
well, let's not speculate. Wecould do that all day. I'm
sure you've been doing it all week. Let's call her. Can you hang
on the line. Let's go aheadand take a beat, and we'll call
Jessica after the song. It's asecond Date update Star one on one three,
Well variety from the two thousands andthe nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcusand Corey. We're doing Second Date Update
(03:19):
we've got Cody on the phone.He met a lady whilst participating in his
New Year's resolution. He met herat the gym. I've never met any
well, I take that back.I guess I did date someone from the
gym. I mean, I feellike, Cody, this kind of happened
to you. It's really easy towalk over and be like, hey,
can I work in right? Andthen it's up to you and then she
looks up and she like, eitherit finds you attractive or she doesn't.
(03:42):
And apparently this worked out. AmI doing well so far? Cody?
Absolutely? Okay. So you guyswent out and the Prayer's the problem is,
like the dates started out great andthen by the end of the date
he got the side hug energy.So we're trying to figure out what went
side with. Let's call her Coldy. Go ahead and meete your phone.
I'm gonna give her a shout rightnow. Okay, we'll figure it out.
(04:04):
Here we go. Hello, Thisis Jessica. Hi Jessica, It's
Marcus and Corey calling from Star oneon one three. Hello, Hello,
Hi, hi, Hi. Doyou listen to our show? I do
(04:29):
excellent? This is starting well sofar? Are you familiar with second date
update and if you are, yeah, yeah, would you mind being on
it with us? To us?I guess, so, Okay, have
(04:50):
you been on a date recently wherethe gentleman might or might not be on
the phone with us right now?He knows, yes, probably exactly.
Okay, I'm just gonna sense youknow, Cody, Cody, Cody there,
(05:13):
Yeah, okay, right, we'reall trepidation. Wow, nobody wants
that. I thought I was gonnabe. Let's since we're all here,
let's discuss Jessica, I don't haveto tell you. Cody would like to
take you on another date. Heenjoyed your date. He did feel the
(05:34):
vibe gets sucked out of the roomat the end, So I'm not sure
if that was just his imagination orif he did something wrong or something went
sideways. Maybe you've just been busy. There's been a lot of speculation.
I'm saying, so mm hmm.Can you tell us the date from your
perspective? Shed some light? Yeah, Hi, Cody, So we give
(06:00):
it to me. Share now.We had a good time. I enjoyed
it. And but yeah, sowe we met at the gym, we
went out after I don't know,a couple of weeks of working out.
But and I do apologize for ghosting. I could have handled it better,
but I'm to be honest. Iwas annoyed that you were deceptive deceptive?
(06:29):
Did she say deceptive or no?He lies? Do you mean? Well?
Okay, so you know we wemet at the gym. You know,
when you go out for coffee,you're wearing something different than what you
wear at the gym. Sometimes Idon't know, but he Cody was wearing
(06:49):
a hat, Like just wore ahat to the gym every time, which
I get, like to your sweatingwhatever. I don't know. But when
we met up for a date,I was bold, and that's there's nothing
wrong with that. There's nothing wrongwith that. I just felt like,
you know, he like made themove, he got the girl a little
(07:11):
bit, like hooked her in fora date, and then to find out
he's bald. The baldness is notthe red flag, okay. The red
flag to me is just like thedeception of likes. Ye are your thoughts?
(07:32):
I am a little a little insecureabout the hair. That's what I
do wear the hat, But thatis a little petty, don't you think
I mean I'm sorry, but Ican't it just what did that? Takes
my mouth? So no Second Dateor Jessica your Yeah, I feel awkward.
(07:53):
I mean I started going to adifferent gym. I just it's not
from guy. It's again not thebald No, no, it's not the
baldness. It's just like, wow, I don't know. Okay, sorry,
I'm I'm just out. Okay,hang on, I'm not gonna lie.
That's a little short sighted, that'sa little superficial. I agree with
(08:15):
that. But the thing is,I don't know if you want to use
the word deception because he was wearinga hat, feeling like my guy's dodging
a bullet. Yeah, if I'mbeing real anyway. Second Date Update seven
oh five weekday mornings replays at nineoh five. Of course, it's got
a podcast you can binge listen overthe weekend. If you're new to the
show and you haven't heard, Iwas playing old Second Date updates for my
(08:35):
cousin off of our punch Kidding Dying. Yeah. Check it out on the
iHeartRadio app and go download Marcus A. Corey Second Date Update and subscribe.
Thank you so much.
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