April 1, 2025 • 8 mins
Amy and Kurt from OKC went out, and someone's RBF might have killed the chance of another date. We find out why
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Jenadan jer Rod's second date update
on kJ one three. We wanted to get Amy from Okay,
see a second date with Kurt Ain't happening so far, Amy,
tell us about your first date.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Okay, So I met Kurt on a dating app. Like
a lot of people, we have a lot in common.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
We both went to UCO.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
We're both military bratt you know, we just we vibed.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
We had a lot of the same things going on.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
We ended up meeting up after work for a drink.
This is about a month ago, and I mean I
thought he was great, very attractive, he said, I looked
great at my pictures, but even act given person, you know,
a lot of flirting, a lot of laughing.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Some of his friends.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Actually and their girlfriends happened to be at the same bar,
and I like them. So everything just seemed nice to me.
At the end of our date, he said that he
had a great time with me, just wanted to go
out again.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
And he even called me a few days later to
set up.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
A date for the very next weekend.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
We were going to go out for dinner and you know,
possibly drinks again. So he texts me on Friday and
he said he had to cancel, and from that point
on he just kind of like stopped texting, stop.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Calling, nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Okay, Wow, Yeah, I mean I even called him and
texted him and he haven't returned my calls or text
I kind of want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Okay, and maybe get another date on him.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, I would love to go on another date.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Okay, all right, Well here's you know how this works.
We'll get Kurt on the phone, We'll try to figure
out what his deal is and uh and hopefully we
get you another date. Hold on a second, Amy, We'll
get him on the phone. Okay, all right, it's TJ,
Jannet and Jay Rides. Second Date Update pin kJ one
O three got Kurt on the phone for the second
date update. And Kurt, we're trying to.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Figure out why you don't seem to want to go
out with Amy again, because.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
She said you told her.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
You had a great time, you wanted to go out again.
You even text her the next day and then just
completely ghosted her. So why are we avoiding Amy?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Kurt?
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Man?
Speaker 6 (02:13):
Honestly, yeah, I had a really good date with Amy.
She was great, we were going to do you know,
a second date? And you know I always trust my
friend's opinions. I mean they said, you know, they said
something about her made me think twice about going out
with her again. Basically is what it was. And for
the consensus is the is that she's fake. I mean,
she pretends to be nice, she pretends to be this friendly,
fun girl or whatever, and they think it's just an act,
(02:36):
like she's just putting on a front.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
So interrupt for a second.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah, sure, Kurt Amy's actually on the phone right now.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Oh so, I mean, Kurt, I met your friend for
like twenty minutes. I mean, I don't know what in
that short amount of time they could have seen me
to call me fake.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
I mean, you were with me.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
For two did you think I would think?
Speaker 6 (03:04):
Okay? Well, apparently before I got there, you were waiting
by the door and a couple of the girls said
you seemed like rude, and then some of the guys
said you looked at them like very rude, like you
were pissed off or something.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
I look rude.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
What does that even really mean? I'm not a rude person.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I don't think I said anything rude to anyone.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Did you think I was rude.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
No, no, I mean I no, I didn't think you were,
but they think you are. And they think it's all
an act that like you can like a light switch
like gid run off and on or whatever. And they said, you,
you know, they said you look rude. And when I
showed up, all of a sudden, you're all happy and smiling.
And one of the girls saw you in the bathroom.
When you're in there, you look rude again, like you
look mad or just saw.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
You look rude?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, what's rude? Like?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
What is?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah? I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
I mean, that's what they're telling me, is like that's
what they said. It's like look rude, like you know,
you look at somebody and it's like why the hell
are you looking at me? Kind of things. I guess.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay, So I honestly I don't get why we're not
going out again.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
I'm confused too, I mean I don't I don't know what.
You know, my friends wouldn't lie to be.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I smile all of the time.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
Maybe they saw me when I was waiting for you
and I was nervous. What about that?
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Okay, So you're not rude, amy.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
No, I mean, I'm promised I'm not rude.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Okay, Okay, I mean I can, I can. I could
give her that.
Speaker 6 (04:27):
I mean, I will say from my experience with her,
that's why I wanted to go out with her again.
Initially was because she seemed nice. But again, like I said,
my friends, I mean I've known them forever. We've known
each other since like before high school, and like you know,
they're telling me she just looked like she was worthy that.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
She loved rude. So, Curt, are you gonna go out
with Amy again?
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I mean, honestly, yes, I would like to go out
with Amy again. I mean, you know, she explained herself,
so I think maybe they just misunderstood. But yeah, I
would like to go out with her against.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Okay, but it's like, okay, wait a minute. I I
would love clearly to go out.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
With you too.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I had a great time with you, but.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
I don't want your friends showing up and judging.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, I'll give you that, Amy, I'll give you that.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
That's you can get that. And and Amy, I'm sorry
about that. I mean, you know, they're my friends. They
were just looking out for me, you know, I'll give
them the heads up that you're you know, you're not
rude and tell them that, you know, on our next
little gathering, or it's just a solo date for you.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Okay, Well, Amy, you got to give him that to
his friends. I mean, you know you got friends too.
They're just trying to protect him. So I mean, come on, Okay,
so you guys are going out again.
Speaker 6 (05:38):
Yeah, I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
If she is with no friends, no friend, solo mission, okay, Okay, Kurt,
I'm guessing you guys will be in touch, so so
we'll talk to you later, Kurt.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
Okay, So was good, guys, I'll talk to you later.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Mean okay, okay, but Amy, send us a picture of
you not smiling. I need to see what looked rude.
Oh yeah, I'm.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Looking in the mirror right now, and I don't think
I look rude.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
No, but you sound like you're smiling right now. Just
look in the mirror and just kind of go yeah,
just see your normal face, just normal, like you're waiting
for someone to come in. You're nervous. Well cool, Well
we got you another date, so that's cool. Amy, All right, exactly,
So thanks a lot, and uh, good luck with Kurt
from now on. Okay. Actually, smile better, better luck with
Kurt's friends from now on exactly.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Thank you, guys.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
I think I have that you look rude thing when
I'm not smiling, like when I'm in thought or I'm
not really paying attention to my surroundings. I think I
look rude. I think that's my deal. I don't know
is that a thing? Anyone else got something that you
look rude?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Face?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Four?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Five, six seven. If you want to chime in on
the second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Do you think it's RBF that's got a mean case
of it?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Sometimes because I have it and my son has it,
and my.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Four year old grandson has it.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Oh wow, wow, runs, it's hereditary in your family, It's
hereditary RBF.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Everybody at work has asked me, are you okay? What's
going on? I'm like nothing. They're like, you look mad.
I'm like no, And my son too, when he's at
work or whatever. People that don't know us personally, we're like, are.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
You all right?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
What's going on? You look mad or whatever?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Like, and then people at the daycare is saying to
your grandson, why are you mad? Bro?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:26):
And then he just got that look like that mean
look mugg and he's mean mugget. But they don't, you know,
tell the four year olds he's at RBS.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
A little kid with RB that's like, oh, look at him,
he's so special. Okay, So that's so for you, for me,
for your son, for your for your grandson. We just
can't rest our face. We just have to smile otherwise
people think we're mad.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Act, you know, hardly ever mad. But if I'm doing
something or I'm in a train of thought or something
like that, or I'm serious about my work at the moment,
and people are like, let's go.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Down to you, all right, why are you mad?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah? I think that girl was probably sitting waiting for
her date a little bit stressed out, thinking yeah, people
saw her face and thought, wow, she looks rude, and
she just got the RBF like we got. Thanks for calling.
This is t J Jenadan jer Rod's second date update
on kJ one three. We wanted to get Amy from Okay,
see a second date with Kurt Ain't happening so far, Amy,
tell us about your first date.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Okay, So I met Kurt on a dating app. Like
a lot of people, we have a lot in common.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
We both went to UCO.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
We're both military bratt you know, we just we vibed.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
We had a lot of the same things going on.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
We ended up meeting up after work for a drink.
This is about a month ago, and I mean I
thought he was great, very attractive, he said, I looked
great at my pictures, but even act given person, you know,
a lot of flirting, a lot of laughing.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Some of his friends.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Actually and their girlfriends happened to be at the same bar,
and I like them. So everything just seemed nice to me.
At the end of our date, he said that he
had a great time with me, just wanted to go
out again.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
And he even called me a few days later to
set up.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
A date for the very next weekend.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
We were going to go out for dinner and you know,
possibly drinks again. So he texts me on Friday and
he said he had to cancel, and from that point
on he just kind of like stopped texting, stop.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Calling, nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Okay, Wow, Yeah, I mean I even called him and
texted him and he haven't returned my calls or text
I kind of want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Okay, and maybe get another date on him.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, I would love to go on another date.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Okay, all right, Well here's you know how this works.
We'll get Kurt on the phone, We'll try to figure
out what his deal is and uh and hopefully we
get you another date. Hold on a second, Amy, We'll
get him on the phone. Okay, all right, it's TJ,
Jannet and Jay Rides. Second Date Update pin kJ one
O three got Kurt on the phone for the second
date update. And Kurt, we're trying to.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Figure out why you don't seem to want to go
out with Amy again, because.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
She said you told her.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
You had a great time, you wanted to go out again.
You even text her the next day and then just
completely ghosted her. So why are we avoiding Amy?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Kurt?
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Man?
Speaker 6 (02:13):
Honestly, yeah, I had a really good date with Amy.
She was great, we were going to do you know,
a second date? And you know I always trust my
friend's opinions. I mean they said, you know, they said
something about her made me think twice about going out
with her again. Basically is what it was. And for
the consensus is the is that she's fake. I mean,
she pretends to be nice, she pretends to be this friendly,
fun girl or whatever, and they think it's just an act,
(02:36):
like she's just putting on a front.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
So interrupt for a second.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Yeah, sure, Kurt Amy's actually on the phone right now.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Oh so, I mean, Kurt, I met your friend for
like twenty minutes. I mean, I don't know what in
that short amount of time they could have seen me
to call me fake.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
I mean, you were with me.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
For two did you think I would think?
Speaker 6 (03:04):
Okay? Well, apparently before I got there, you were waiting
by the door and a couple of the girls said
you seemed like rude, and then some of the guys
said you looked at them like very rude, like you
were pissed off or something.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
I look rude.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
What does that even really mean? I'm not a rude person.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I don't think I said anything rude to anyone.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Did you think I was rude.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
No, no, I mean I no, I didn't think you were,
but they think you are. And they think it's all
an act that like you can like a light switch
like gid run off and on or whatever. And they said, you,
you know, they said you look rude. And when I
showed up, all of a sudden, you're all happy and smiling.
And one of the girls saw you in the bathroom.
When you're in there, you look rude again, like you
look mad or just saw.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
You look rude?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, what's rude? Like?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
What is?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah? I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
I mean, that's what they're telling me, is like that's
what they said. It's like look rude, like you know,
you look at somebody and it's like why the hell
are you looking at me? Kind of things. I guess.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay, So I honestly I don't get why we're not
going out again.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
I'm confused too, I mean I don't I don't know what.
You know, my friends wouldn't lie to be.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I smile all of the time.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
Maybe they saw me when I was waiting for you
and I was nervous. What about that?
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Okay, So you're not rude, amy.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
No, I mean, I'm promised I'm not rude.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Okay, Okay, I mean I can, I can. I could
give her that.
Speaker 6 (04:27):
I mean, I will say from my experience with her,
that's why I wanted to go out with her again.
Initially was because she seemed nice. But again, like I said,
my friends, I mean I've known them forever. We've known
each other since like before high school, and like you know,
they're telling me she just looked like she was worthy that.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
She loved rude. So, Curt, are you gonna go out
with Amy again?
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I mean, honestly, yes, I would like to go out
with Amy again. I mean, you know, she explained herself,
so I think maybe they just misunderstood. But yeah, I
would like to go out with her against.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Okay, but it's like, okay, wait a minute. I I
would love clearly to go out.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
With you too.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
I had a great time with you, but.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
I don't want your friends showing up and judging.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, I'll give you that, Amy, I'll give you that.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
That's you can get that. And and Amy, I'm sorry
about that. I mean, you know, they're my friends. They
were just looking out for me, you know, I'll give
them the heads up that you're you know, you're not
rude and tell them that, you know, on our next
little gathering, or it's just a solo date for you.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Okay, Well, Amy, you got to give him that to
his friends. I mean, you know you got friends too.
They're just trying to protect him. So I mean, come on, Okay,
so you guys are going out again.
Speaker 6 (05:38):
Yeah, I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
If she is with no friends, no friend, solo mission, okay, Okay, Kurt,
I'm guessing you guys will be in touch, so so
we'll talk to you later, Kurt.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
Okay, So was good, guys, I'll talk to you later.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Mean okay, okay, but Amy, send us a picture of
you not smiling. I need to see what looked rude.
Oh yeah, I'm.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Looking in the mirror right now, and I don't think
I look rude.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
No, but you sound like you're smiling right now. Just
look in the mirror and just kind of go yeah,
just see your normal face, just normal, like you're waiting
for someone to come in. You're nervous. Well cool, Well
we got you another date, so that's cool. Amy, All right, exactly,
So thanks a lot, and uh, good luck with Kurt
from now on. Okay. Actually, smile better, better luck with
Kurt's friends from now on exactly.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Thank you, guys.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
I think I have that you look rude thing when
I'm not smiling, like when I'm in thought or I'm
not really paying attention to my surroundings. I think I
look rude. I think that's my deal. I don't know
is that a thing? Anyone else got something that you
look rude?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Face?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Four?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Five, six seven. If you want to chime in on
the second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Do you think it's RBF that's got a mean case
of it?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Sometimes because I have it and my son has it,
and my.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Four year old grandson has it.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Oh wow, wow, runs, it's hereditary in your family, It's
hereditary RBF.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Everybody at work has asked me, are you okay? What's
going on? I'm like nothing. They're like, you look mad.
I'm like no, And my son too, when he's at
work or whatever. People that don't know us personally, we're like, are.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
You all right?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
What's going on? You look mad or whatever?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Like, and then people at the daycare is saying to
your grandson, why are you mad? Bro?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:26):
And then he just got that look like that mean
look mugg and he's mean mugget. But they don't, you know,
tell the four year olds he's at RBS.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
A little kid with RB that's like, oh, look at him,
he's so special. Okay, So that's so for you, for me,
for your son, for your for your grandson. We just
can't rest our face. We just have to smile otherwise
people think we're mad.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Act, you know, hardly ever mad. But if I'm doing
something or I'm in a train of thought or something
like that, or I'm serious about my work at the moment,
and people are like, let's go.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Down to you, all right, why are you mad?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah? I think that girl was probably sitting waiting for
her date a little bit stressed out, thinking yeah, people
saw her face and thought, wow, she looks rude, and
she just got the RBF like we got. Thanks for calling.
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