April 15, 2025 • 8 mins
Jacob and Stacy went out, they knew each other at OU and when he asked her out she thought it would be fun. Now she has a boyfirend? What?? We find out what happened with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one three. Here we got to help
out Jacob for more trying to get another date with
Stacy not happening so far, and especially because Jacob Welcome
to the second date updates.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hey Jacob, you a how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
We're good. You knew Stacy like already when you went.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Out, right?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Yeah, so we actually met at ou Her roommate was
a high school friend of mine.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Okay, gotcha.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
We'd see each other at parties and stuff. We didn't
like really know each other, but in passing.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Okay, gotcha. Okay, and then you've reconnected since then?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Yeah, so, like about a month ago, I see your
fuzzies down in Bricktown and we sat and had lunch together.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
It was really nice, he can me.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Yeah, Okay, was this friend conversation or was this date conversation?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Well, I mean, since we didn't really know each other
really well, we were just kind of getting to know
each other. I mean, we talked about college.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
And actually she had said that she kind of.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Liked me a little bit, but I guess her roommate
was kind of putting the brakes on it, so she
never really pursued it.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Oh, the one that you knew from from high school
was like, no, no, no, no, you can't date him. I'd
like it, right, So where where do we stand now?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well, so that was about a month ago, and you know,
we left it just saying we'll get together soon. I've
called her a few times, texted, and really it's just
kind of one of those situations where it's like I
can't this week, maybe another time. It's my boyfriend's birthday.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Wait wait, wait, wait wait wait.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
What was the Yeah, that was the last one. It's
my boyfriend's birthday. And you know, the thing is, she
never even mentioned having a boyfriend at lunch, so I
don't really know if she made him up or if yeah,
or if she just wants me.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Boyfriends. Is roll no second date?
Speaker 4 (02:07):
So I replied boyfriend and you know, and then she
didn't really reply back.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Really because if she didn't think it was a date,
she would have mentioned her boyfriend. Yeah, I have a
boyfriend right now. But she did it, which makes you think, Okay,
was she hiding in the boyfriend?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Is there no boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Oh now yes, okay, I'm even more intrigued.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Now let's get Stacy on the phone and find out
what's going on and try to get an honest answer
from her.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
All right, we'll talk to her.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Next Second Date update kJ one O three, TJ Janet,
Jay Rod in the morning. It's TJ Janet and Jay
Rods second date update on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
So Jacob for more. It calls us. He's like, I
ran into this girl I met in college.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Her name was Stacy, and it's been you know, years later,
and we were, you know, we were at Fuzzies in
Bricktown waiting in line, and we're like, well, let's just
eat lunch together. And they had lunch, they caught up
and she admitted she he kind of was crushing on
him in college, but they never went out. And here
it is, all these years later. David said, let's get together.
All this then the B word okay, and then after
texting her a few times, out of the blue, she says, Oh,
(03:12):
it's my boyfriend's birthday.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
I can't go out. He's like, what what the hell?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Was? Okay this come from Yeah, that's what we're thinking too.
So Lan, let's talk to Stacy. Thanks for coming on
the second date update Stacy.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Yeah, you never you never replied. You never replied when
we you know, I texted you about the boyfriend, And
I mean you didn't mention a boyfriend at lunch. I
don't really get it, Like, yeah, well he's new, Well, like.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
How new?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
When did you meet him? I mean it's crazy, it's
only been a few weeks.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Right, yeah, I don't know, a couple of weeks ago,
I guess.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
And he's like already your boyfriend. Yes, well you met
him a couple of weeks ago, he's already your boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yes, you know.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
I just I just really think that, you know, I mean, I.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Mean you can't get together because it's your boyfriend's birthday.
Speaker 5 (04:12):
I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I mean, you've got all the data, you know, you're
connecting all the dots.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Do you know him?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Correct?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
Mines?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
You know, you know him for like ten minutes and
he's already your boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
You're celebrating his birthday.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Why didn't you mention him at lunch?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Jacob? You're coming after her man? Why?
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Why exactly why were you in harrogating me?
Speaker 4 (04:39):
His name is David, Well, where's he from?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Edmund?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
When's his birthday?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
What does that even matter what see you don't even know.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
I mean, come on, I thought his birthday was, you know,
a couple of days ago when I last texted you.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I mean, come on, this is ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Okay, Stacy, this so, Stacy, let me just clarify.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
So you have a boyfriend. Yes, Okay, Okay, it's just
it's new. I was just clarifying. I'm not doubting you.
I just wanted to say, like, we're gonna let.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
You go with you have a boyfriend. Okay, I've said this, Stacy.
Thanks for coming on the step of date updates. Sorry
he got a little aggressive, but you have a good day. Okay, Yeah, okay,
you have this boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Conder's a guy, right, what's in social Security?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Okay, So thank you, Stace. Card of the drive at sixteen, Okay,
does she go?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
She's gone, She's okay, she's still there.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Bye, Stacy, Bye bye. Okay. I don't believe it.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I think she made him up.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
So that's why you were like, like, like she said,
interrogating her.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Well, I don't know, it doesn't seem like it was
an interrogation. I mean, if someone's gonna lie to me.
I'm gonna call her out on it.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
No, what's his name? Where he's from? Maybe she was
dating people in the process.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
She had multiple dates with this guy and was like, Oh,
we're gonna be boyfriend girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Okay, I mean, let's say that that happened. That's fine,
but just don't you know, just don't lie to me
about it or hire for me.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
Just tell me straight out, you know, be honest.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Okay, Well, I mean I wasn't she Well she said
she had a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
If she has a boyfriend, she was being honest.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
The only way she's not being honest is if this
is a made up boyfriend. So and again you know,
we don't none of us know. But all right, all right,
hack fun with that. Sorry we didn't get you another date,
but thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Okay, yeah, thank you appreciate it. All right.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So does she have a boyfriend? Is that a real boyfriend?
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I don't know. What do you think? Four or five?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Four?
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Six? L one or two seven? If you're listening, she
have a boyfriend? She where's he from? She make that
up either way? Either way?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Either way she was over going on another date here.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Was she sober that she made up a boyfriend? I
want to know what you're thinking. Okay call us.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Hey, kJ Willing, this is Kevin from the Wall up.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Okay, Kevin, Kevin. Did she have a real boyfriend? She
just make that up?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You know what if she said I've got a boyfriend
a text message, just drop it.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah, were alone?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What was funny is she didn't say, hey, I have
a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
You can't go out again. She's like, oh, I can't Saturday.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Because it's my boyfriend's birthday. And he's like, well, I
need to know what that means. Let's go on the
second days.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
When who says there's a timeline when you can can't
be I mean there's nothing that says you can you
have to wait nine days before you're considered boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah that's true.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
I mean you but do you think she really has
one or she just didn't want a second date.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
She probably does have one, Okay, and she probably don't
want a second day.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Cousin a wife an her Jacob.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Dates to read the sign signs there big knee on sign,
don't bother me.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I don't want a second date.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Her date with Jacob made her want to commit to
this other guy that she had dated one time.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I changed my mind. I love you, I love you,
I love you all right, thanks for recalling its
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one three. Here we got to help
out Jacob for more trying to get another date with
Stacy not happening so far, and especially because Jacob Welcome
to the second date updates.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hey Jacob, you a how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
We're good. You knew Stacy like already when you went.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Out, right?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Yeah, so we actually met at ou Her roommate was
a high school friend of mine.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Okay, gotcha.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
We'd see each other at parties and stuff. We didn't
like really know each other, but in passing.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Okay, gotcha. Okay, and then you've reconnected since then?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Yeah, so, like about a month ago, I see your
fuzzies down in Bricktown and we sat and had lunch together.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
It was really nice, he can me.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Yeah, Okay, was this friend conversation or was this date conversation?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Well, I mean, since we didn't really know each other
really well, we were just kind of getting to know
each other. I mean, we talked about college.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
And actually she had said that she kind of.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Liked me a little bit, but I guess her roommate
was kind of putting the brakes on it, so she
never really pursued it.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Oh, the one that you knew from from high school
was like, no, no, no, no, you can't date him. I'd
like it, right, So where where do we stand now?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well, so that was about a month ago, and you know,
we left it just saying we'll get together soon. I've
called her a few times, texted, and really it's just
kind of one of those situations where it's like I
can't this week, maybe another time. It's my boyfriend's birthday.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Wait wait, wait, wait wait wait.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
What was the Yeah, that was the last one. It's
my boyfriend's birthday. And you know, the thing is, she
never even mentioned having a boyfriend at lunch, so I
don't really know if she made him up or if yeah,
or if she just wants me.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Boyfriends. Is roll no second date?
Speaker 4 (02:07):
So I replied boyfriend and you know, and then she
didn't really reply back.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Really because if she didn't think it was a date,
she would have mentioned her boyfriend. Yeah, I have a
boyfriend right now. But she did it, which makes you think, Okay,
was she hiding in the boyfriend?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Is there no boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Oh now yes, okay, I'm even more intrigued.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Now let's get Stacy on the phone and find out
what's going on and try to get an honest answer
from her.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Okay, all right, sounds good.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
All right, we'll talk to her.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Next Second Date update kJ one O three, TJ Janet,
Jay Rod in the morning. It's TJ Janet and Jay
Rods second date update on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
So Jacob for more. It calls us. He's like, I
ran into this girl I met in college.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Her name was Stacy, and it's been you know, years later,
and we were, you know, we were at Fuzzies in
Bricktown waiting in line, and we're like, well, let's just
eat lunch together. And they had lunch, they caught up
and she admitted she he kind of was crushing on
him in college, but they never went out. And here
it is, all these years later. David said, let's get together.
All this then the B word okay, and then after
texting her a few times, out of the blue, she says, Oh,
(03:12):
it's my boyfriend's birthday.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
I can't go out. He's like, what what the hell?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Was? Okay this come from Yeah, that's what we're thinking too.
So Lan, let's talk to Stacy. Thanks for coming on
the second date update Stacy.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Yeah, you never you never replied. You never replied when
we you know, I texted you about the boyfriend, And
I mean you didn't mention a boyfriend at lunch. I
don't really get it, Like, yeah, well he's new, Well, like.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
How new?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
When did you meet him? I mean it's crazy, it's
only been a few weeks.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Right, yeah, I don't know, a couple of weeks ago,
I guess.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
And he's like already your boyfriend. Yes, well you met
him a couple of weeks ago, he's already your boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yes, you know.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
I just I just really think that, you know, I mean, I.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Mean you can't get together because it's your boyfriend's birthday.
Speaker 5 (04:12):
I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I mean, you've got all the data, you know, you're
connecting all the dots.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Do you know him?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Correct?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
Mines?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
You know, you know him for like ten minutes and
he's already your boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
You're celebrating his birthday.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Why didn't you mention him at lunch?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Jacob? You're coming after her man? Why?
Speaker 5 (04:31):
Why exactly why were you in harrogating me?
Speaker 4 (04:39):
His name is David, Well, where's he from?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Edmund?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
When's his birthday?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
What does that even matter what see you don't even know.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
I mean, come on, I thought his birthday was, you know,
a couple of days ago when I last texted you.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I mean, come on, this is ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Okay, Stacy, this so, Stacy, let me just clarify.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
So you have a boyfriend. Yes, Okay, Okay, it's just
it's new. I was just clarifying. I'm not doubting you.
I just wanted to say, like, we're gonna let.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
You go with you have a boyfriend. Okay, I've said this, Stacy.
Thanks for coming on the step of date updates. Sorry
he got a little aggressive, but you have a good day. Okay, Yeah, okay,
you have this boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Conder's a guy, right, what's in social Security?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Okay, So thank you, Stace. Card of the drive at sixteen, Okay,
does she go?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
She's gone, She's okay, she's still there.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Bye, Stacy, Bye bye. Okay. I don't believe it.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I think she made him up.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
So that's why you were like, like, like she said,
interrogating her.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Well, I don't know, it doesn't seem like it was
an interrogation. I mean, if someone's gonna lie to me.
I'm gonna call her out on it.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
No, what's his name? Where he's from? Maybe she was
dating people in the process.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
She had multiple dates with this guy and was like, Oh,
we're gonna be boyfriend girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Okay, I mean, let's say that that happened. That's fine,
but just don't you know, just don't lie to me
about it or hire for me.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
Just tell me straight out, you know, be honest.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Okay, Well, I mean I wasn't she Well she said
she had a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
If she has a boyfriend, she was being honest.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
The only way she's not being honest is if this
is a made up boyfriend. So and again you know,
we don't none of us know. But all right, all right,
hack fun with that. Sorry we didn't get you another date,
but thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Okay, yeah, thank you appreciate it. All right.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So does she have a boyfriend? Is that a real boyfriend?
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I don't know. What do you think? Four or five?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Four?
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Six? L one or two seven? If you're listening, she
have a boyfriend? She where's he from? She make that
up either way? Either way?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Either way she was over going on another date here.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Was she sober that she made up a boyfriend? I
want to know what you're thinking. Okay call us.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Hey, kJ Willing, this is Kevin from the Wall up.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Okay, Kevin, Kevin. Did she have a real boyfriend? She
just make that up?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You know what if she said I've got a boyfriend
a text message, just drop it.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yeah, were alone?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What was funny is she didn't say, hey, I have
a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
You can't go out again. She's like, oh, I can't Saturday.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Because it's my boyfriend's birthday. And he's like, well, I
need to know what that means. Let's go on the
second days.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
When who says there's a timeline when you can can't
be I mean there's nothing that says you can you
have to wait nine days before you're considered boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah that's true.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
I mean you but do you think she really has
one or she just didn't want a second date.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
She probably does have one, Okay, and she probably don't
want a second day.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Cousin a wife an her Jacob.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Dates to read the sign signs there big knee on sign,
don't bother me.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I don't want a second date.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Her date with Jacob made her want to commit to
this other guy that she had dated one time.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I changed my mind. I love you, I love you,
I love you all right, thanks for recalling its
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