April 10, 2025 • 22 mins
On the pod today.. we have a Pro's and Cons that gets a bit loose and that is just the way we like it! We also have a chat about those songs that can transport you back in time to a certain place or memory and there is a woman who has gotten back at her ex in a way you won't believe... PLUS Chrissie takes us back to the Big Brother reunion and the people she still talks to from her season!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
And with Kate podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Welcome to the Fit with Kate Richie podcast. Very special
intro to the pod today because it's not the boys
doing it.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
What's your name? Young Man?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Producer Tom slash Tim slash tongue.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Fantastic, what's yours?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Excellent?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
What's your name?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Producing Maddie?
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Sure, it's not busy?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Got it? Primer chick Baby.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
To introduce the podcast. And it's a good one because
we have two callers on today for pros and cons,
and their lists are quite amazing. One of the best
con I've ever heard. I don't want to go too
far into it's going to hear it all in the podcast,
but you definitely don't want to miss it.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
It gets really saucy this one, doesn't it. Guys?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Yes, they absolutely were. Make sure you check out the
pod and hey, well when you're done with this one,
produces pot. We've done one today, haven't we?
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Guys that up?
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Check it out. Lots of love will catch you when
the boys aren't in one.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Two three, everyone say bye.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Two three bye.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
See next time.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Let's move on to the theme of music as we continue.
Here's what I didn't even think about, Ryan James. They
talk about why music that you remember from your childhood
seems to stick with you so much more than music now,
and it's nothing to do with the actual music itself.
It's to do with what you were doing when you
listen to the music.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
This is really interesting because my boys asked me the
other day how I know so much old music, and
it's like I didn't have an answer.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
It was like, I think it was just listening to
it in the car with Mum and dad.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, I can explain it for you now because normally
it evokes other memories, so it has other details attached
to it of when you knew the music. That's why
things like Christmas carols or soundtracks from movies they have
other stories attached to them. So if it can transport
you back to a place where you were when you
knew that song or it, but it's pictures that then
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enriches and thicken the memory so it never leaves your brain.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Tommy, you said blinded, but blinded Baas.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Because you have wrapped up like a douche there. You
said that that's how you remembered the song.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely, it's and big shout out to everyone
involved in the making of Memory and movie. I'm glad
they did nor film it. But if you remember like
Peter and the Wolf, like, does anyone remember Peter and
the Wolf?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Not at all?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Does anyone remember come all year, faithful Christmas Carol? You
know I have very very fond memories.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Faithful. I don't know, certainly wasn't your wife.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
I can picture our family sitting down in front of
the TV Christmas Eve, getting their milk and cookies out
for Santa Claus and the Reindeers.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Finally, Tom just done the same joke about my wife
two minutes earlier. But you don't need to lay her
to suggest everybody in my family's rooting around to mate
that sits in with her. With Cape Ridgie podcast.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
A Northern Rivers woman has well, she's got back at
her ex.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Okay's her stories.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
She's raised her ex's phone data, locked him out of
his Facebook and transferred his car regio to her and
then reported at stolen's Sad said to the police, you
know what, I'm just really good with technology. So what
she did obviously didn't end too well. Tarren Wilson, twenty
seven years of age from Lismore. She broke up with
(03:49):
her boyfriend Michael Dakin and wasn't too happy with how
the relationship ended. So the first thing she did was
getting to it, so into his social media and do.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
You know what, I had the password of an ex
girlfriend once I saw her write it in.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
She was from America, and I remember I was hugging
her at the time and she was getting into her
Facebook page.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
She went to go right in the password.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
And I went on in hot pans.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Now that was just Australia. Yep, that's all it was.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
And I thought I shouldn't have looked at that, but
now I know it. And when I thought things were
going wrong in the relationship, I may did you go
in to look?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
And she was getting emails from other men, about ten
of them.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
Taran's gone into Michael's Facebook page and changed his bio
to I'm an e fing tossa.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Updated.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
It was a bit of a giveaway that she was
the one that got in there, though, I mean she
didn't do it suddenly, you know what I mean, she
just went straight in there.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
The other one as well.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like to go to the effort to transfer his car
ridge over to her and then call the cops and
report the car stolen.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Yeah, a lot of work.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
So then he's driving around in his own car and
the cops are pulling him over going get.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Out of the car it's stolen.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Awesome that it's a lot of effort.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Pretty good revenge.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Michael asked her, how did you factory data reset my phone?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
She said to the cops. I'm just really good at it.
I'm really good with technology.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I mean, the next level would be engaging. Remember Anonymous,
we haven't heard from them for a while, and it's
not one person and anonymous, it's a group of people
that will decide that they've declared war on an organization. Yes,
so I remember there was one business they didn't like,
and they do funny stuff, mate, So they hacked into
the computer system that runs the photocopier at work, and
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they just printed out black paper. So they just continue
to drain the ink sheet after sheet after just to
annoy the business. And they do things like they took
over and hacked into the system of something like twenty
pizza delivery companies and ordered food to that company on
their credit card.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
It'd be pretty amazing to be one of the top
hackers in the world. Like I know, you're sitting in
front of a screen the whole time, but just to
get into different systems would be unbelievable.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Magine if you could crack into the over playlist and
just put I don't know more Marley Cyrus or that's
what we've got next.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
This is the f with Cape Ritchie podcast two years ago.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
I was at the wharf at Manly's there a pub.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
You are, Wolfie? Were you what you were unloading a
ship or what were.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (06:40):
No, I was at a pub there, nice Calamari from
a memory and.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Do you know who I was with?
Speaker 7 (06:46):
Go on the entire cast of the two thousand and
three version series of Big Brother.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
I haven't spoken to you about this because you clashed
with a couple of people on that show as well.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Was it only one only clashed with one? Ben?
Speaker 8 (07:05):
Ben?
Speaker 4 (07:05):
That was Ben there?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
He was?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yes, all there.
Speaker 7 (07:11):
In fact, no, there was only one person that wasn't there.
I can't remember who she. I can't remember who it was,
much like the Australian public. Anyway, they were all there.
Reggie was there, Dan from Adelaide was there. I mean
these are names that I know that I don't expect
everybody to remember.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
But yes, Ben the Copper was there.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
He looks exactly the same as he always did.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
And even Big Brother was there.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Peter Abbott, the original voice of.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Of Big Brother Saxon, was there, Remember sucking?
Speaker 7 (07:47):
I remember, yes, yes, Well he's actually my best friend
from that series, my actual friend.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
He's my only real you know takeaway.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
And Reggie's been doing it pretty tough, hasn't she. She's
been losing her eyesight?
Speaker 7 (08:02):
Is that? Yes?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
She has, she has, but she came. She wouldn't miss
it for the world, of course.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
But it just got and it was actually the best
reunion I've ever been to, because you know, there's school
reunions and all that sort of stuff, and I started
to get excited about school reunions. I've been out of
school for about two thousand years, but the first school reunion,
I was really excited. I reckon, they have them after
ten years?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
So what did you How many of you been to
school reunions?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Two?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (08:35):
And how many am I going to go to from
now on?
Speaker 4 (08:38):
How many more?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Non?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Okay? So what happens? Sony? Was there anything?
Speaker 7 (08:43):
I was excited the first time, and then I was
a bit underwhelmed. And then the second time, someone got
really drunk and was like confrontational wind and white up
in my face, and I remember going, I was actually
breastfeeding my son at the time, literally boobe out the
born babies.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
Yeah yeahs.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
And she was hissing rose breath at me, you know,
talking about memories that I had nothing of it. I
was like, I'm busy here, I've got my boob out,
can you Anyway? I decided then that I wouldn't go
to them ever ever again, because I looked around and
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the people that I talked to.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Are the people that I want to see. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (09:34):
So, like, I've got really three close friends from school.
We met in grade five. We see each other all
the time. We're actually about to meet up in Bali.
We're proper friends. I was at this reunion. I was
talking to those three girls, What am I doing?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
What am I doing here? Like?
Speaker 7 (09:59):
If I I really cared what you know, what Marissa
you'd been doing, I would have at least friended you
on Facebook.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Let's get real, So.
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Old flames, no old Flames or anyone that you liked,
any crushes.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
At an all girls.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Always hard to catch up with the old flame at
an old girls school, especially when you've got a bub
on your boob.
Speaker 7 (10:25):
I'm sure, I'm sure there is that sort of unrequired
love situation, but not for me.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
And with Kate, which podcast good news.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
We're ready to riddle Riddle time for your Friday morning
the weekend to see you when you hear that music?
Aren't we ready to riddle?
Speaker 8 (10:52):
Well?
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Listen?
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Can I just interrupt for a second.
Speaker 7 (10:55):
This is not my first, my first foray into riddle time.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Because you can't get away from the riddles.
Speaker 7 (11:01):
I went to get a coffee and there was a
big poster at my local cafes saying this, I'm like
a doll, but I'm not for playing. I stand up straight,
but if windy, I may be laying. I'm well known.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
Oh god, I've actually lost interest. It's a schedule.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Is too long. Mine is short, to the point and
fun to play along with. Are we ready for another
riddle guy for the warm ups? Wana? Here we go? Okay,
I am weightless. Put me in a bucket and I
will make it lighter. What am I?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Oxygen, no air, no.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Weightless.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
I am weightless. If you put me in a bucket,
I will make it lighter.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
What am I a globe like light to make it lighter?
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Good thinking?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
But no, perhaps a balloon, a helium ball.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Any idea Ryan James, you are hole in the bucket.
Well suck it. There's a hole in the bucket.
Speaker 7 (12:14):
So now all weekend I'm going to be seeing there's
a hole in my mock.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
That's why we do this. What about this one? Until
I am measured? I am not known yet? How you
miss me when I have flown? What am I?
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Until I'm spot on?
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Chrissy, she can there, she cannot.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Let's play more Mike's post. Now, now this is good?
Speaker 1 (12:44):
What about this? I'm lighter than a dumb bell, but
even the strongest weightlifter can't lift me. What am I?
I'm lighter than a dumb bell, but even the strongest
weightlifter can't lift me.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
What am I lighter than a dumb bell.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Lighter than a dumb bell, but even the strongest weightlifter
can't lift me?
Speaker 4 (13:11):
Can't lift me?
Speaker 1 (13:13):
It will?
Speaker 5 (13:15):
It can't be a battle bubble because you can lift
a bubble.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
It is a.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Bubble if you try, if you will pop it. Oh,
Mandy and mascot.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
To you, to you a Monday.
Speaker 9 (13:36):
I've certainly got a riddle. Ready, you see me in water,
but I am not wet.
Speaker 8 (13:41):
What exactly am I?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
You see me in water, but I am not wearing
your reflection?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Than if this is the fits and Whipper with Richie podcast.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Pros and Cons like third, Well, she's no good in bed.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
I like them.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
We step of pros and cons.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
As soon as I hit the pillow asleep, because you
know what, there's.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
The honeymoon period in a relationship. Yeah, you know it
is this? Is that a con for you or a pro?
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Pro?
Speaker 4 (14:29):
That's a pro.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
I think I'm good at it.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Yes, thurteen and twenty fourteen.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
If you're in a relationship and you want us to
sort it out, give us a call, because this is
the thing.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
You have your honeymoon period, and then you have that
question of do I really want to continue this?
Speaker 5 (14:43):
Go through the pros and cons. We make the decision
for you. We've got Selena and Pecs on the line.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
Hi, Selena, Hey guys, Selena.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Welcome to pros and Cons. This is a safe space
for you to share openly and honestly. Who is the partner?
Tell us about them.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
His name is Nick.
Speaker 9 (15:01):
We've been together for about eleven months now, so almost
a year and we just met on a dating Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
He sounds amazing. Hinge. Tell us about the things about Nick.
Speaker 9 (15:14):
Well, some really sweet things that he does is every
month on a Sunday, we'll pick one he takes me
for a nice brunch and we go on a little
bookshop crawl. I love reading and I love books, and
he just buys me books. What are the books I want?
Speaker 7 (15:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Oh my god, that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
That look she needs love a book man.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Okay, what else? What else do we love about Nick?
Speaker 9 (15:42):
And just keeping with the book theme, he'll put like
pressed flowers in my books. So he'll put like a
little flower and you'll like close it in. So when
I'm like reading out, I'll have like a little pressed flowers.
Speaker 7 (15:54):
Really cute. I want you to dump him now, put
him in an uber of my hand.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Terrible, this is exciting?
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Anymore?
Speaker 4 (16:04):
You want any more? Price?
Speaker 9 (16:06):
Well, I'm really unwell, just feeling a little bit sick.
He puts together a little care package for me, so
he'll pop some like medicine in there, some of my
favorite snacks, like a candle, and some Tis shoes snique.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
That is it sounds like he has a very very
big heart.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
That's amazing, But we have to go from sicknique to pricknique.
Speaker 9 (16:34):
Things that do give me pick what is it? So
one of the things, he's very into running and he
wears these really gross like toe shoes when he goes
out for a run.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
You've got them individual toe It's.
Speaker 7 (16:51):
Like a.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Terrible like Aquaman.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Do we like?
Speaker 8 (16:58):
So?
Speaker 9 (16:58):
I know if you guys know that, it's a British
kids TV show called in the Night.
Speaker 7 (17:02):
Garden Sleep every Night with Eagle Piggle, I sleep every night.
Speaker 9 (17:09):
He watches an episode of that every night. It's just
I don't know why. He says it just like calms him.
But I'm like, surely there's another thing.
Speaker 7 (17:21):
I feel like, I feel like we've stumbled across my
soulmate here.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
Anymore? Any more any more? Con Selena and.
Speaker 9 (17:30):
This last night, it's so disgusting. He cuts his toeails
on the story far like you'll standing custom on the
sofa and then he'll just sweeps them into the story
for like crack.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
So, I mean, he's going to so much effort with
his toenails, and then he's doing that with his flowers
in your book. I don't know it's a serial killer.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
Selena, do you know what? Why don't we leave this
up to Christy?
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Christy, you need me, need to make a decision here,
because there's some great pros some awful cons.
Speaker 4 (17:56):
What should Selena do?
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Well?
Speaker 7 (17:58):
See, I think the only con there is the toe
now one, and you know that's easily fixed. The fact
that he wears toe shoes. I get that they're not
your thing. However, the fact that he's running and looking
after his mental health true, is really great and it
also means that you know he's got things that he
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wants to do independently of you. He's his own person.
So look, I think he's a real keeper. He's singing,
very caring, He pays attention to your needs and wants.
He sounds like the perfect partner in that he's a
gay man, but he's straight.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
I think we've sorted it out for you, Selena. Hang
on to your best friend.
Speaker 9 (18:41):
Yeah, I think that's fair.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
She's good.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I like him, but he's good. Should should we ste.
Speaker 9 (18:55):
All?
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Right? Claire is in Zeppelin? Claire are you twenty four
years old? Is that right?
Speaker 8 (19:00):
A'm twenty five?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Now twenty five?
Speaker 4 (19:03):
It's not clear, Danes, you're not bringing up about Ben Lear.
Speaker 7 (19:05):
You no water late night, He's Perry Water Parry.
Speaker 5 (19:12):
That was one of the best. Hey, how long have
you been with him? What's his name?
Speaker 8 (19:16):
His name's Sam. We've been together about a year.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
What are the good things about the old Sammy?
Speaker 8 (19:22):
I'd say he's very funny, so like he'll just come
out with a little bit of a dance in a
song and I got to keep.
Speaker 4 (19:30):
Yeah, find and you'll still.
Speaker 8 (19:33):
Love You're want to hear the song? Yeah, song he
sings every time he likes the candle, which is every night.
He's gotta like mckendell, gotta like mcndale, marry him.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Gotta gotta lap my gonna lap my candle.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
Personality. Personality is a rare thing.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Yeah, clear, this is a good start. What are the
pros if you got.
Speaker 8 (19:55):
Well, this one's nice and basic. But he's really good
with kids, and I love kids. My jobs with kids,
so that's a good one.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
What does he do for work?
Speaker 8 (20:02):
He's just in trades at the moment, in the trade.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
That all right? What are the cons sam?
Speaker 8 (20:10):
So he has this funny thing despite him being a
trade he when he touches something a little bit gross
or dirty, he pinches his index finger and thumb together
and will kind of like hold them slightly, like hovering
out his body, being like bit gross, and I need
to go.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Fine does it?
Speaker 7 (20:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (20:34):
Yeah? Weed reactions?
Speaker 8 (20:39):
What else is he doing in relation to that one? Then?
Like we were out the other day walking at the
market and there was a Golden Road triever sitting over
there and I loved them, so I wandered over and
I was like hi, hi, giving it a pat. And
then when I went back to go find Sam, he
was like wandering off in the distance and I was like, oh, hey,
where'd you go? And he goes, well, he went over
to pat the and how many people have touched that
(21:02):
Golden retriever's head and it's so spurry, so I don't
want to hold your hand anymore?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Oh okay right?
Speaker 8 (21:08):
And I was like, yeah, okay's fair. I should have
known with a little finger and the something.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Right so quirky. I love it.
Speaker 8 (21:17):
Like earlier in our relationship days when he would come
over to my place, like we used to little find
my friend's tracker up on your phone to see like, oh,
he's maybe twenty minutes away or like five minutes. I
popped down out of my apartment to go grab him,
and because you can see your little face on fire
my friends. One night, apparently my face was bobbling around
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and he's like watching it, being like, what's she doing?
Apparently she's at home, but it's kind of bobbling around.
And then he ended up calling me like an hour later,
being like, hey, what was up, Like, you know, it
was bobbling and I was like, I've just been lying
here in bed the whole time, like he should have
just facetimed me. And he goes off being like, yeah,
your thing was bobbling around.
Speaker 7 (21:59):
And that the only red flag I can see is
the fine my friends thing that sounds controlling and keeping
tabs on you hard. The weird reactions is good. Funny
dances good if someone's checking up on you hard past.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
But you know what, for being part of pros and Cons,
We're going to send you to Ato on Wallamelo Wolf
Date with John WAW's well done.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
We're going to be at the next table watching you
confront him.
Speaker 8 (22:36):
Get excuse me? Can I get another napkin?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
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And with Kate podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Welcome to the Fit with Kate Richie podcast. Very special
intro to the pod today because it's not the boys
doing it.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
What's your name? Young Man?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Producer Tom slash Tim slash tongue.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Fantastic, what's yours?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Excellent?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
What's your name?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Producing Maddie?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Sure, it's not busy?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Got it? Primer chick Baby.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
To introduce the podcast. And it's a good one because
we have two callers on today for pros and cons,
and their lists are quite amazing. One of the best
con I've ever heard. I don't want to go too
far into it's going to hear it all in the podcast,
but you definitely don't want to miss it.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
It gets really saucy this one, doesn't it. Guys?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Yes, they absolutely were. Make sure you check out the
pod and hey, well when you're done with this one,
produces pot. We've done one today, haven't we?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Guys that up?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Check it out. Lots of love will catch you when
the boys aren't in one.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Two three, everyone say bye.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Two three bye.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
See next time.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
This is the Fitzi and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Let's move on to the theme of music as we continue.
Here's what I didn't even think about, Ryan James. They
talk about why music that you remember from your childhood
seems to stick with you so much more than music now,
and it's nothing to do with the actual music itself.
It's to do with what you were doing when you
listen to the music.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
This is really interesting because my boys asked me the
other day how I know so much old music, and
it's like I didn't have an answer.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
It was like, I think it was just listening to
it in the car with Mum and dad.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, I can explain it for you now because normally
it evokes other memories, so it has other details attached
to it of when you knew the music. That's why
things like Christmas carols or soundtracks from movies they have
other stories attached to them. So if it can transport
you back to a place where you were when you
knew that song or it, but it's pictures that then
(01:58):
enriches and thicken the memory so it never leaves your brain.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Tommy, you said blinded, but blinded Baas.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Because you have wrapped up like a douche there. You
said that that's how you remembered the song.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yeah, yeah, absolutely, it's and big shout out to everyone
involved in the making of Memory and movie. I'm glad
they did nor film it. But if you remember like
Peter and the Wolf, like, does anyone remember Peter and
the Wolf?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Not at all?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Does anyone remember come all year, faithful Christmas Carol? You
know I have very very fond memories.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Faithful. I don't know, certainly wasn't your wife.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
I can picture our family sitting down in front of
the TV Christmas Eve, getting their milk and cookies out
for Santa Claus and the Reindeers.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Finally, Tom just done the same joke about my wife
two minutes earlier. But you don't need to lay her
to suggest everybody in my family's rooting around to mate
that sits in with her. With Cape Ridgie podcast.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
A Northern Rivers woman has well, she's got back at
her ex.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Okay's her stories.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
She's raised her ex's phone data, locked him out of
his Facebook and transferred his car regio to her and
then reported at stolen's Sad said to the police, you
know what, I'm just really good with technology. So what
she did obviously didn't end too well. Tarren Wilson, twenty
seven years of age from Lismore. She broke up with
(03:49):
her boyfriend Michael Dakin and wasn't too happy with how
the relationship ended. So the first thing she did was
getting to it, so into his social media and do.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
You know what, I had the password of an ex
girlfriend once I saw her write it in.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
She was from America, and I remember I was hugging
her at the time and she was getting into her
Facebook page.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
She went to go right in the password.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
And I went on in hot pans.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Now that was just Australia. Yep, that's all it was.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
And I thought I shouldn't have looked at that, but
now I know it. And when I thought things were
going wrong in the relationship, I may did you go
in to look?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
And she was getting emails from other men, about ten
of them.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
Taran's gone into Michael's Facebook page and changed his bio
to I'm an e fing tossa.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Updated.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
It was a bit of a giveaway that she was
the one that got in there, though, I mean she
didn't do it suddenly, you know what I mean, she
just went straight in there.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
The other one as well.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like to go to the effort to transfer his car
ridge over to her and then call the cops and
report the car stolen.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Yeah, a lot of work.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
So then he's driving around in his own car and
the cops are pulling him over going get.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Out of the car it's stolen.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Awesome that it's a lot of effort.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Pretty good revenge.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Michael asked her, how did you factory data reset my phone?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
She said to the cops. I'm just really good at it.
I'm really good with technology.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I mean, the next level would be engaging. Remember Anonymous,
we haven't heard from them for a while, and it's
not one person and anonymous, it's a group of people
that will decide that they've declared war on an organization. Yes,
so I remember there was one business they didn't like,
and they do funny stuff, mate, So they hacked into
the computer system that runs the photocopier at work, and
(05:45):
they just printed out black paper. So they just continue
to drain the ink sheet after sheet after just to
annoy the business. And they do things like they took
over and hacked into the system of something like twenty
pizza delivery companies and ordered food to that company on
their credit card.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
It'd be pretty amazing to be one of the top
hackers in the world. Like I know, you're sitting in
front of a screen the whole time, but just to
get into different systems would be unbelievable.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Magine if you could crack into the over playlist and
just put I don't know more Marley Cyrus or that's
what we've got next.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
This is the f with Cape Ritchie podcast two years ago.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
I was at the wharf at Manly's there a pub.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
You are, Wolfie? Were you what you were unloading a
ship or what were.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (06:40):
No, I was at a pub there, nice Calamari from
a memory and.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Do you know who I was with?
Speaker 7 (06:46):
Go on the entire cast of the two thousand and
three version series of Big Brother.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
I haven't spoken to you about this because you clashed
with a couple of people on that show as well.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Was it only one only clashed with one? Ben?
Speaker 8 (07:05):
Ben?
Speaker 4 (07:05):
That was Ben there?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
He was?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yes, all there.
Speaker 7 (07:11):
In fact, no, there was only one person that wasn't there.
I can't remember who she. I can't remember who it was,
much like the Australian public. Anyway, they were all there.
Reggie was there, Dan from Adelaide was there. I mean
these are names that I know that I don't expect
everybody to remember.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
But yes, Ben the Copper was there.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
He looks exactly the same as he always did.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
And even Big Brother was there.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Peter Abbott, the original voice of.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Of Big Brother Saxon, was there, Remember sucking?
Speaker 7 (07:47):
I remember, yes, yes, Well he's actually my best friend
from that series, my actual friend.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
He's my only real you know takeaway.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
And Reggie's been doing it pretty tough, hasn't she. She's
been losing her eyesight?
Speaker 7 (08:02):
Is that? Yes?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
She has, she has, but she came. She wouldn't miss
it for the world, of course.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
But it just got and it was actually the best
reunion I've ever been to, because you know, there's school
reunions and all that sort of stuff, and I started
to get excited about school reunions. I've been out of
school for about two thousand years, but the first school reunion,
I was really excited. I reckon, they have them after
ten years?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
So what did you How many of you been to
school reunions?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Two?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (08:35):
And how many am I going to go to from
now on?
Speaker 4 (08:38):
How many more?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Non?
Speaker 4 (08:41):
Okay? So what happens? Sony? Was there anything?
Speaker 7 (08:43):
I was excited the first time, and then I was
a bit underwhelmed. And then the second time, someone got
really drunk and was like confrontational wind and white up
in my face, and I remember going, I was actually
breastfeeding my son at the time, literally boobe out the
born babies.
Speaker 3 (09:03):
Yeah yeahs.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
And she was hissing rose breath at me, you know,
talking about memories that I had nothing of it. I
was like, I'm busy here, I've got my boob out,
can you Anyway? I decided then that I wouldn't go
to them ever ever again, because I looked around and
(09:29):
the people that I talked to.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Are the people that I want to see. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (09:34):
So, like, I've got really three close friends from school.
We met in grade five. We see each other all
the time. We're actually about to meet up in Bali.
We're proper friends. I was at this reunion. I was
talking to those three girls, What am I doing?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
What am I doing here? Like?
Speaker 7 (09:59):
If I I really cared what you know, what Marissa
you'd been doing, I would have at least friended you
on Facebook.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Let's get real, So.
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Old flames, no old Flames or anyone that you liked,
any crushes.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
At an all girls.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Always hard to catch up with the old flame at
an old girls school, especially when you've got a bub
on your boob.
Speaker 7 (10:25):
I'm sure, I'm sure there is that sort of unrequired
love situation, but not for me.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
And with Kate, which podcast good news.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
We're ready to riddle Riddle time for your Friday morning
the weekend to see you when you hear that music?
Aren't we ready to riddle?
Speaker 8 (10:52):
Well?
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Listen?
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Can I just interrupt for a second.
Speaker 7 (10:55):
This is not my first, my first foray into riddle time.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Because you can't get away from the riddles.
Speaker 7 (11:01):
I went to get a coffee and there was a
big poster at my local cafes saying this, I'm like
a doll, but I'm not for playing. I stand up straight,
but if windy, I may be laying. I'm well known.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
Oh god, I've actually lost interest. It's a schedule.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Is too long. Mine is short, to the point and
fun to play along with. Are we ready for another
riddle guy for the warm ups? Wana? Here we go? Okay,
I am weightless. Put me in a bucket and I
will make it lighter. What am I?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Oxygen, no air, no.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Weightless.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
I am weightless. If you put me in a bucket,
I will make it lighter.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
What am I a globe like light to make it lighter?
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Good thinking?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
But no, perhaps a balloon, a helium ball.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Any idea Ryan James, you are hole in the bucket.
Well suck it. There's a hole in the bucket.
Speaker 7 (12:14):
So now all weekend I'm going to be seeing there's
a hole in my mock.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
That's why we do this. What about this one? Until
I am measured? I am not known yet? How you
miss me when I have flown? What am I?
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Until I'm spot on?
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Chrissy, she can there, she cannot.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Let's play more Mike's post. Now, now this is good?
Speaker 1 (12:44):
What about this? I'm lighter than a dumb bell, but
even the strongest weightlifter can't lift me. What am I?
I'm lighter than a dumb bell, but even the strongest
weightlifter can't lift me.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
What am I lighter than a dumb bell.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Lighter than a dumb bell, but even the strongest weightlifter
can't lift me?
Speaker 4 (13:11):
Can't lift me?
Speaker 1 (13:13):
It will?
Speaker 5 (13:15):
It can't be a battle bubble because you can lift
a bubble.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
It is a.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Bubble if you try, if you will pop it. Oh,
Mandy and mascot.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
To you, to you a Monday.
Speaker 9 (13:36):
I've certainly got a riddle. Ready, you see me in water,
but I am not wet.
Speaker 8 (13:41):
What exactly am I?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
You see me in water, but I am not wearing
your reflection?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Than if this is the fits and Whipper with Richie podcast.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Pros and Cons like third, Well, she's no good in bed.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
I like them.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
We step of pros and cons.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
As soon as I hit the pillow asleep, because you
know what, there's.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
The honeymoon period in a relationship. Yeah, you know it
is this? Is that a con for you or a pro?
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Pro?
Speaker 4 (14:29):
That's a pro.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
I think I'm good at it.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Yes, thurteen and twenty fourteen.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
If you're in a relationship and you want us to
sort it out, give us a call, because this is
the thing.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
You have your honeymoon period, and then you have that
question of do I really want to continue this?
Speaker 5 (14:43):
Go through the pros and cons. We make the decision
for you. We've got Selena and Pecs on the line.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
Hi, Selena, Hey guys, Selena.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Welcome to pros and Cons. This is a safe space
for you to share openly and honestly. Who is the partner?
Tell us about them.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
His name is Nick.
Speaker 9 (15:01):
We've been together for about eleven months now, so almost
a year and we just met on a dating Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
He sounds amazing. Hinge. Tell us about the things about Nick.
Speaker 9 (15:14):
Well, some really sweet things that he does is every
month on a Sunday, we'll pick one he takes me
for a nice brunch and we go on a little
bookshop crawl. I love reading and I love books, and
he just buys me books. What are the books I want?
Speaker 7 (15:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Oh my god, that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
That look she needs love a book man.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Okay, what else? What else do we love about Nick?
Speaker 9 (15:42):
And just keeping with the book theme, he'll put like
pressed flowers in my books. So he'll put like a
little flower and you'll like close it in. So when
I'm like reading out, I'll have like a little pressed flowers.
Speaker 7 (15:54):
Really cute. I want you to dump him now, put
him in an uber of my hand.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Terrible, this is exciting?
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Anymore?
Speaker 4 (16:04):
You want any more? Price?
Speaker 9 (16:06):
Well, I'm really unwell, just feeling a little bit sick.
He puts together a little care package for me, so
he'll pop some like medicine in there, some of my
favorite snacks, like a candle, and some Tis shoes snique.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
That is it sounds like he has a very very
big heart.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
That's amazing, But we have to go from sicknique to pricknique.
Speaker 9 (16:34):
Things that do give me pick what is it? So
one of the things, he's very into running and he
wears these really gross like toe shoes when he goes
out for a run.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
You've got them individual toe It's.
Speaker 7 (16:51):
Like a.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Terrible like Aquaman.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Do we like?
Speaker 8 (16:58):
So?
Speaker 9 (16:58):
I know if you guys know that, it's a British
kids TV show called in the Night.
Speaker 7 (17:02):
Garden Sleep every Night with Eagle Piggle, I sleep every night.
Speaker 9 (17:09):
He watches an episode of that every night. It's just
I don't know why. He says it just like calms him.
But I'm like, surely there's another thing.
Speaker 7 (17:21):
I feel like, I feel like we've stumbled across my
soulmate here.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
Anymore? Any more any more? Con Selena and.
Speaker 9 (17:30):
This last night, it's so disgusting. He cuts his toeails
on the story far like you'll standing custom on the
sofa and then he'll just sweeps them into the story
for like crack.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
So, I mean, he's going to so much effort with
his toenails, and then he's doing that with his flowers
in your book. I don't know it's a serial killer.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
Selena, do you know what? Why don't we leave this
up to Christy?
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Christy, you need me, need to make a decision here,
because there's some great pros some awful cons.
Speaker 4 (17:56):
What should Selena do?
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Well?
Speaker 7 (17:58):
See, I think the only con there is the toe
now one, and you know that's easily fixed. The fact
that he wears toe shoes. I get that they're not
your thing. However, the fact that he's running and looking
after his mental health true, is really great and it
also means that you know he's got things that he
(18:19):
wants to do independently of you. He's his own person.
So look, I think he's a real keeper. He's singing,
very caring, He pays attention to your needs and wants.
He sounds like the perfect partner in that he's a
gay man, but he's straight.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
I think we've sorted it out for you, Selena. Hang
on to your best friend.
Speaker 9 (18:41):
Yeah, I think that's fair.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
She's good.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I like him, but he's good. Should should we ste.
Speaker 9 (18:55):
All?
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Right? Claire is in Zeppelin? Claire are you twenty four
years old? Is that right?
Speaker 8 (19:00):
A'm twenty five?
Speaker 1 (19:01):
Now twenty five?
Speaker 4 (19:03):
It's not clear, Danes, you're not bringing up about Ben Lear.
Speaker 7 (19:05):
You no water late night, He's Perry Water Parry.
Speaker 5 (19:12):
That was one of the best. Hey, how long have
you been with him? What's his name?
Speaker 8 (19:16):
His name's Sam. We've been together about a year.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
What are the good things about the old Sammy?
Speaker 8 (19:22):
I'd say he's very funny, so like he'll just come
out with a little bit of a dance in a
song and I got to keep.
Speaker 4 (19:30):
Yeah, find and you'll still.
Speaker 8 (19:33):
Love You're want to hear the song? Yeah, song he
sings every time he likes the candle, which is every night.
He's gotta like mckendell, gotta like mcndale, marry him.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Gotta gotta lap my gonna lap my candle.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
Personality. Personality is a rare thing.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Yeah, clear, this is a good start. What are the
pros if you got.
Speaker 8 (19:55):
Well, this one's nice and basic. But he's really good
with kids, and I love kids. My jobs with kids,
so that's a good one.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
What does he do for work?
Speaker 8 (20:02):
He's just in trades at the moment, in the trade.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
That all right? What are the cons sam?
Speaker 8 (20:10):
So he has this funny thing despite him being a
trade he when he touches something a little bit gross
or dirty, he pinches his index finger and thumb together
and will kind of like hold them slightly, like hovering
out his body, being like bit gross, and I need
to go.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
Fine does it?
Speaker 7 (20:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (20:34):
Yeah? Weed reactions?
Speaker 8 (20:39):
What else is he doing in relation to that one? Then?
Like we were out the other day walking at the
market and there was a Golden Road triever sitting over
there and I loved them, so I wandered over and
I was like hi, hi, giving it a pat. And
then when I went back to go find Sam, he
was like wandering off in the distance and I was like, oh, hey,
where'd you go? And he goes, well, he went over
to pat the and how many people have touched that
(21:02):
Golden retriever's head and it's so spurry, so I don't
want to hold your hand anymore?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Oh okay right?
Speaker 8 (21:08):
And I was like, yeah, okay's fair. I should have
known with a little finger and the something.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Right so quirky. I love it.
Speaker 8 (21:17):
Like earlier in our relationship days when he would come
over to my place, like we used to little find
my friend's tracker up on your phone to see like, oh,
he's maybe twenty minutes away or like five minutes. I
popped down out of my apartment to go grab him,
and because you can see your little face on fire
my friends. One night, apparently my face was bobbling around
(21:39):
and he's like watching it, being like, what's she doing?
Apparently she's at home, but it's kind of bobbling around.
And then he ended up calling me like an hour later,
being like, hey, what was up, Like, you know, it
was bobbling and I was like, I've just been lying
here in bed the whole time, like he should have
just facetimed me. And he goes off being like, yeah,
your thing was bobbling around.
Speaker 7 (21:59):
And that the only red flag I can see is
the fine my friends thing that sounds controlling and keeping
tabs on you hard. The weird reactions is good. Funny
dances good if someone's checking up on you hard past.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
But you know what, for being part of pros and Cons,
We're going to send you to Ato on Wallamelo Wolf
Date with John WAW's well done.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
We're going to be at the next table watching you
confront him.
Speaker 8 (22:36):
Get excuse me? Can I get another napkin?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
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