Hair What I'm Saying

Hair What I'm Saying

“Hair What I’m Saying” is where healing, beauty, and honest storytelling meet. Hosted by Kinetra, a licensed hair expert, deep thinker, and truth-teller, this show has earned a spot in the top 5% of podcasts worldwide, on Listen Notes. It goes beyond the surface to explore the emotional, spiritual, and personal layers behind hair, identity, and growth. Whether it’s uncovering the science of hair loss, breaking generational cycles, or reflecting on real-life relationships, each episode holds space for vulnerable conversations, self-discovery, and unapologetic truth. If you’ve ever found power in your pain or beauty in your becoming, this podcast is for you.

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December 7, 2025 56 mins

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Memory carries what our kids forget, especially when those memories live in our hands. In this Black girl hairconversation, I sit with my daughter, Majik, for a mother and daughter reflection on Black girl identity and the emotional roots behind our hair journeys. As a mother, I revisit the moment a little boy called her locs ugly, and how that moment shaped her early sense of identity as a Black girl.

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In this episode of Hair What I’m Saying, we unpack the haircut that went viral on TikTok and why it sparked so much emotion. From the fear many Black women have around cutting their hair to the deep emotional attachment we place on our strands, we dive into the psychology behind why haircuts can feel personal.

I break down the importance of consultations and clear communication with your stylist, showing why understand...

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Labels make hair feel simple, until they don’t. In Curl Myths Pt. 2, we move past the alphabet soup of curl types and dig into what actually matters for real results in hair care. Let’s talk texture, not type, and shift the focus to porosity, density, elasticity, moisture–protein balance, and how your scalp and strands respond to water, products, heat, and climate.

I share why the popular curl pattern chart feels valid...

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The curl chart went viral, but it never learned your life. We sit down with Minnie of Shag Noir Salon ATX to unpack why letters and numbers can’t tell you what your hair needs; and what actually can. From porosity and pH to water hardness, climate, and stress, we share a simple way to decode your hair’s real behavior and build rituals that work in the real world, not just on a grid. Minnie takes us thr...

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September 28, 2025 4 mins

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Celebrating two years of podcasting growth from nervous beginnings to international reach and award-winning status. This anniversary episode reflects on the journey, impact, and future of Hair What I'm Saying. 

  • Started with just a microphone, vision, and nerves two years ago. 
  • Now in the top 5% of podcasts on Listen Notes with an international audience
  • Won the Women Who Podcast Award for Reppin the Southwest Reg...
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Have you noticed how quickly conversations about Black baby girls turn to their hair texture and skin tone? This episode dives into the uncomfortable reality of how our community scrutinizes Black girls from the moment they're born, sometimes even before. When Cam Newton's child's mother, Jasmine Brown, spoke out about the constant questioning of her daughter's hair and complexion, she hit a nerve ...

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Our conversation about Black hair takes an unexpected turn when a clip that almost went viral before I turned off the comments to slow down the engagement, showcasing the messy yet necessary path toward healing from texturism and lenthism in our community.

• Addressing the fallout when a short TikTok clip from a longer conversation about "long hair for a black woman" sparked cruel comments

• Examining how the ...

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Nia Ford returns to unpack the deep, quiet ways texturism affects Black women's relationship with their hair, from childhood experiences to adult self-acceptance. We explore how external criticism and family dynamics shape our perception of beauty, particularly for those with kinky, coily textures. Nia shares how her childhood love for big hair shifted after hearing classmates with looser texture...

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Use code: DEWY at checkout to save 20% on my Dewy Curls Shampoo and Conditioner on my website at https://www.thevintagehipster.net/natural-hair-products and experience the intentional balance of silicones we discussed today.

Silicones have long been demonized in the natural hair community, but is this fear based on facts or misinformation? In this enlightening deep dive, we unravel the truth about these controversial i...

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This season on Hair What I’m Saying, we’re going beyond the surface to explore the hidden biases and pressures around hair texture and length — known as texturism and lengthism. We’ll dig into how these biases show up in our families, schools, workplaces, and even within ourselves.

Through honest conversations, personal stories, and guest perspectives, we’ll uncover how these ideas have shaped our self-worth and discon...

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Time is the most valuable asset in the hair braiding business, and it's something veteran stylist Vandy of VLS Hair ATX has mastered through years of perfecting her craft. In this candid conversation, we dive deep into the realities of professional braiding that clients rarely see and stylists often don't discuss.

Vandy shares her journey from doing hair as a side hustle while worki...

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When Raeshetta Thompson discovered her first sign of hair loss at age 12, she couldn't have known it would become the foundation for her life's purpose. After hiding her alopecia for nearly 30 years while building a successful career as a hairstylist, Raeshetta finally embraced her natural self and discovered a world of women who needed exactly what she could offer.

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Angel Henderson turns conventional wisdom about "protective" braided styles upside down in this eye-opening conversation about hair health, scalp care, and the true cost of convenience styling. The natural hair expert begins by challenging our fundamental understanding of protective styles, asking the provocative question: "What are we actually protecting?" Most of us aren't protecting our hai...

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Postpartum hair loss is a reality for many women, yet it's rarely discussed in mainstream pregnancy and postpartum care. In this episode, Hillary Washington-Goodner shares her personal journey; from minimal shedding after her first pregnancy to significant, unexpected hair loss after her second. She opens up about the emotional toll of watching her hair change, the surprising timeline of post...

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In this eye opening episode, we engage with Empress, a multi-licensed beauty ritualist and founder of Root Honey, who bridges the worlds of beauty and holistic wellness. Our conversation delves into the transformative power that hair has in our identity and emotional well-being, revealing how beauty rituals serve as a portal to self-care and acceptance.

Empress shares her journey and cultural connections to b...

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Ever wondered how a mother's love can spark a revolution in the beauty industry? Kameese Davis, the founder of Nyla's Naturals, shares her incredible journey of creating a hair care brand inspired by her daughter Nylah's challenges with seborrheic dermatitis. Faced with the lack o...

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Discover the passionate journey of Dr. Saya Obayan, a celebrated board-certified dermatologist, as she shares her inspiring story from her childhood in Nigeria to founding Nature of Skin Dermatology in Austin, Texas. Her unique insights on treating hair and skin conditions for people of color are informed by personal experience and a deep-seated commitment to her patients. With a special emphasis on ha...

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After witnessing a friend's struggle with hair loss during cancer treatment, Aoife, a trichologist from Austin, Texas, embarked on a journey of empathy and innovation in hair health. In our latest episode, she shares her personal story and offers insights into the world of trichology, emphasizing the necessity of understanding hair loss as a complex issue intertwined with overall h...

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Unlock the secrets to restoring your hair and confidence with our latest episode of Hair What I'm Saying.

Discover how medications like Ozempic may impact your hair, and learn about powerful, natural ingredients like ashwagandha, saw palmetto, and beringaraj that can potentially reverse hair loss and promote growth.

Join us as trichologist Aoife Marie from Aoife Marie Beauty and board-certifie...

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Essence Farmer, a pioneering force in the natural hair industry, shares her extraordinary journey from braiding hair in her parents' laundry room to becoming a prominent figure who reshaped industry regulations. At just 23, she bravely confronted the Arizona State Board of Cosmetology, winning a landmark legal battle that opened doors for countless natural hair stylists. Es...

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