ShameOver - The Drink Less Podcast

ShameOver - The Drink Less Podcast

Lose the Hangover…not the booze! Explore the glorious world of moderation through Mindful Drinking with Erica Mallery + ShameOver

Episodes

October 13, 2025 22 mins

Ian Andersen, co-founder of the mindful-drinking app Sunnyside, gets real about growing up amid alcohol misuse, losing his mom, and watching his dad find sobriety. We unpack why “rock bottom” is a trap, how shame warps our internal “barometer,” and the sneaky ways social identity gets glued to drinking. This is the human side of behavior change—compassion over punishment, awareness over all-or-nothing. If you’ve ever thought, “It’s...

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Host Erica Mallery sits down with Ti King, host of Longterm: A Podcast in Recovery, to unpack what recovery really looks like beyond the headlines: why relapse isn’t failure, how shame keeps people silent, the rural care gap, the fentanyl reality, and why peer support changes outcomes. Ti shares personal history (growing up with an alcoholic, abusive father), powerful guest stories (combat veterans, eating disorders, policy advocat...

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Monica’s story is a powerful one: from a male-dominated engineering career that took her across the world… to pandemic parenting in Norway… to launching Wanderwild, a retreat model designed for moms, kids, and families to reconnect with themselves and each other. Monica has seen it all!

In this episode we cover:

  • Her career + travel story

  • Why motherhood sparked a complete shift

  • The inspiration behind Wanderwild Family Retr...

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Monica’s story is a powerful one: from a male-dominated engineering career that took her across the world… to pandemic parenting in Norway… to launching Wanderwild, a retreat model designed for moms, kids, and families to reconnect with themselves and each other.

In this episode we cover:

  • Her career + travel story

  • Why motherhood sparked a complete shift

  • The inspiration behind Wanderwild Family Retreats

  • Her alcohol-free ...

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Mindful drinking meets systems that save your sanity. In this conversation with brand & social architect Dawn Ferguson (Sneakers & Kale), we unpack how me-time rituals, Vedic (TM-style) meditation, and simple SOPs help you protect energy, sleep better, and get your marketing off the hamster wheel. We also share easy 5pm swaps (hello, La Croix in a wine glass) so you can keep the vibe without the hangover.

Highlights: energy...

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What if the fastest way to change your life fits into one word? Today’s guest Maggie Boillot—self-awareness, activation, and fitness mentor—breaks down her AWARE framework (Acknowledgement, Willingness, Alignment, Release, Experience) and shows how it can shift your identity, habits, and daily joy without the shame spiral.

We dig into:

  • How to get quiet (and why silence is the loudest clarity)

  • The difference between restrict...

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What happens when a public health expert, medical writer, and cancer survivor decides to rethink her relationship with alcohol? Meet Susan Keller, author of Blood Brother and Mostly Sober, who shares how she and her husband cut back from 60 drinks a month to just 6–8 — and never looked back.

In this episode, we dig into: ✨ The science + soul behind Susan’s shift toward moderation ✨ How inner child work and therapy play a role in he...

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Long, holiday weekends are basically built around parties, socializing, and — of course — booze. 🍹 But if you’re trying to drink less, skip the hangover, or just not feel like trash on Tuesday morning… this quick-hit episode is for YOU.

In under 30 minutes, I’m sharing 10 expert-approved tips to help you:

✨ Enjoy the party without the FOMO

✨ Plan (and actually stick to) your drink limit

✨ BYOB like a pro with fun booze-free option...

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Feeling stuck in the all-or-nothing cycle with drinking or wellness? This episode of ShameOver is for you.

Host Erica Mallery sits down with Dr. Jamey Maniscalco, neuroscientist and founder of Manifest Wellness, to unpack how tiny, science-backed shifts can lead to massive breakthroughs in your health, habits, and mindset.

You’ll learn:

  • How to break drinking habits with neuroplasticity

  • Morning routines that support your ner...

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In this juicy episode of ShameOver, Erica sits down with the vibrant Marina Castillo, co-founder of The Modern Mocktail, to chat about all things alcohol-free living, entrepreneurship, and emotional well-being—without the shame.

From her former life as a Las Vegas performer to now running a consultancy for non-alcoholic and kava-based businesses, Marina drops serious gems on:

✨The power of ritual in overcoming addiction

✨ How to bu...

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Let’s be real: motherhood is beautiful and bananas. In this episode of ShameOver, I’m joined by the amazing Caroline —certified health & wellness coach and the founder of Mother Hen Coaching—to talk about something all moms need more of: permission to pause.

We’re diving into: ✨ How micro moments of self-care can change everything ✨ Why “doing it all” is a lie (and what to do instead) ✨ Balancing rest with responsibility (witho...

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Busy moms, this one’s for you. If you're stuck in the cycle of doing it all but constantly putting yourself last, this episode is your wake-up call. 💥

Erica sits down with Ashley DiGiacomo Schwartz, certified fitness + nutrition coach and founder of The Busy Mom Method, to talk about what it really takes to thrive as a mom—without falling into the burnout trap.

From navigating perimenopause to building sustainable routines and dit...

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Trust Yourself: How to Build Self-Trust and Heal What’s Underneath with Emily Romero

What if the key to drinking less, feeling more grounded, and finally breaking free from self-sabotage wasn’t more willpower — but more self-trust?

In this deeply powerful episode of ShameOver, I sit down with author and somatic trauma therapist Emily Romero to explore the real reason so many women feel stuck, overwhelmed, and disconnected from the...

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What if your drinking isn’t the problem—but the way you’ve been solving one?

In this eye-opening episode, we flip the script on alcohol and explore why so many smart, sensitive women turn to drinking as a way to cope. From emotional overload to social pressure, we unpack the real reasons behind the habit—and why willpower alone isn’t the answer.

You’ll learn:

  • Why alcohol feels like it “works” in the moment

  • The hidden proble...

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What if your drink could do more for you—like help you relax, boost your mood, or sharpen your focus—without the booze? In this episode of ShameOver, host Erica dives into the fascinating world of functional beverages with Emily, co-founder of Aplos, a brand leading the charge in non-alcoholic spirits designed to elevate your drinking experience.

We’re talking nootropics, adaptogens, and botanicals—what they are, how they work, and...

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Is mommy wine culture really self-care, or is it keeping moms stuck in an unhealthy cycle? In this eye-opening episode of ShameOver, we’re exposing the truth behind the “wine-o-clock” mindset and redefining what moderation in motherhood really looks like.

Join me as I share personal experiences and expert insights on: 🍷 How mommy wine culture normalizes overdrinking ⏳ The 90-second rule—a game-changer for mindful drinking 📝 The P...

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February 12, 2025 32 mins

🎙️ First episode of 2025! Let’s talk mindset—because what you think directly impacts how you drink (and everything else in life).

In this episode, we unpack: ✅ How your self-talk influences your habits ✅ The “WAIT” method (What Am I Thinking?) to reset your mindset ✅ Why lack of control fuels stress, and how to refocus ✅ How overconsumption sneaks into other areas of life ✅ The #1 reason why your moderation plan keeps falling apar...

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The holidays are here, and with them come the stress, the pressure, and way too many opportunities to overdo it—whether it’s food, drinks, or family drama. But what if you could enjoy the season your way?

In this episode, I’m giving you my BEST insider tips for drinking less, stressing less, and actually enjoying the holidays without the guilt or hangovers. From mindful drinking strategies to self-care hacks, I’ve got everything yo...

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In this episode of ShameOver, host Erica Mallery dives into the ins and outs of mastering alcohol moderation through a lively Q&A session.

She tackles burning questions like:

  • Can you really learn to moderate alcohol?
  • What’s the deal with those dopamine hits?
  • And how does alcohol actually impact your health?

Get ready for Erica’s signature blend of personal insights, practical strategies, and no-BS advice as she ...

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This short and sweet episode of ShameOver: The Drink Less Podcast is here to remind you: self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential! Let’s ditch the idea that self-care has to be fancy or time-consuming (but hey, if it’s massages and pedicures for you, I fully support that!).

Here’s what’s in store: 🎯 A new way to approach self-care with my Blackout Bingo Board (download it free at shameover.me/bingo). 🎯 The real deal about filling y...

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