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I always love these type of stories because headlines are
so misleading. So the headline reads that zach Efron was
taken to a hospital for a minor pool incident.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, okay, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
What that is. Minor pool incidents like he skinned his knee,
like he hit his toe on the bottom right right,
Maybe he dove into the shallow side after a day
of drinking and almost broke his nose. That doesn't feel
like minor. That happens. Sometimes it does happen. I think

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if you have to shove tampons in your nose to
stop the bleeding. Minor isn't a word to use, no, no,
no no, But I mean it could happen. Like you know,
you dive in and you think it's the deeper end.
You're least going to it to land in the deeper end,
and you just kind of skin your forehead, you know,
on the bottom of the pool. Okay, skin your forehead's minor.
That's a minor injury. You don't go to the hospital

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for that though. Oh and you definitely don't stay in
the hospital for a couple of days like he did.
The story apparently, well, but let me back up. We
think of like Bam Majera or Wes Scalen, We're like, pooh,
these guys are a mess. I didn't know zach Efron
is a mess. It doesn't seem like it. He if
you go down the history of the things he's done,
he is messy, really. And so he's thirty six years old, right,

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and he moved. He's had many incidents and admitted to
addiction issues.

Speaker 7 (05:41):
I know. I did not know that.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
So apparently the story is that he was found unresponsive
in a pool, okay, and they had trouble reviving him
and he was taken to the hospital. Possible over again,
this is all internet blah blah blah. But also it
explains minor. But you can put him in the camp

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of Bam Majerio. Maybe not as crazy as Bambajera, West
Cantlin or you know those likes. But Bro's got some issues. Yeah,
and I had no idea. I think he's a fun actor. Yeah,
seems like a good, clean dude. You don't really hear
a whole lot of him, like in the news like
this or whatever bad things he's done or being a mess,

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like you forget them because there have been issues. He
beat up a homeless guy. What no, he did? He
sure did on skid Row, got arrested for it.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
What no?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
And why would you be on skid row? Why would
you be even interacting down there looking for Drews. Yeah,
I don't believe it. I'm gonna search. I don't believe love.
Of all the things that I've ever said, that's the one.
You're like, no, no, And so he was.

Speaker 7 (06:54):
In high school musical is it?

Speaker 1 (06:55):
I think it's because he looks fit. He doesn't look
plump like Bam Majera or fat faced or anything like that.

Speaker 7 (07:04):
He ties to the Rock, so you would think, what
does that mean? Well, like he hangs out with people
like the Rock so he couldn't.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Be a bad guy.

Speaker 1 (07:12):
What do you mean he hangs out with him?

Speaker 7 (07:14):
Well, he did a movie with him.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
That's not hanging out with that's working together. Yes, so
Zach didn't really beat up a homeless guy like that.
He got in a fight with the homeless guy and
he ended up, you know, defending himself. That's just what
I'm reading right here on a quick Google search. You
make a sound like he's like going down to skid
Row just beating that. I'm just telling you what the

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headline said. Okay, and just because you're reading the TMZ report, Well,
I mean that his publicist Spun Entertainment defend himself, because
what homeless people just randomly attacking people? Why is he
on skid Row? Put it together?

Speaker 2 (07:54):
Man?

Speaker 7 (07:55):
Doing research for a movie?

Speaker 1 (07:56):
Right? Yeah, yeah, that's it. Yeah, he's just like dude
to doud going out to eat to a restaurant on
skid Row. Oh no, this guy has attacked me. I
must defend myself. He's like, it's Zack a frog. Come on, Yeah,

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it's because he looks good.

Speaker 7 (08:22):
He's got that nice jaw line.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
Does he he does? I mean he's got a jaw line.
I've never understood like he's got a well defined and
chiseled I understand because you look like a superhero like
Clark Kent right, a cartoon character. But when you're like
he has a super strong I don't.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
I'm just not somebody who understands what that means.

Speaker 7 (08:45):
Apparently, from what I recently learned is that his jaw
line is new. This was a new surgical thing.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
Of course. Not well, he's also claiming he wasn't passed
out in the pool or beat up a homeless person.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
If I'm I'm trying to figure out. Let's just say,
I don't know what the if I enter an area
of Tulsa known as a homeless camp, right, which is
what skid Row kind of is, right, Sure, bad things
happen or known to be there. It's a place inhabited
by people down on their luck, history of drug sales
happening in that area. If I go down there, and

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what people are gonna get We don't lack your kind
down here. I'm just trying to figure out how that
plays out, Like what am I doing there? They don't
watch a lot of movies on skid Row, I'm assuming
so they don't care who zach Efron is. Maybe he's
trying to hand out meals or possibly you know, donating here,

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here's you know, fifty bucks, go get you some food,
maybe a new pair of sneakers or something. Maybe he's
trying to help the homeless and not you know, help
him by giving him money for drugs. Then he wouldn't
have been by himself, and he wouldn't have been without security.
Are we still talking about beating up to hobo because
the art the article that I read said that he

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had security guards with them and they all got into
the brawl with the homeless people. Yeah, because homeless band
of brothers manse had to come and break up. The
cops had to show up. So twelve minutes out, that's
how long this melee lasted. Was it that it had
to have been a drug sale? That's the only explanation
for it to last that long? Did the police have

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to show up? By the way, who's calling the police?
I mean some one of the security guards? Right, hold on,
give me a minute, zachly right or it that's like, hey,
security beat off these hobos while I call the cops
real quick. You know, maybe that was the case. I
just don't want to, right, and most people don't want

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to believe that Mark Wahlberg denied someone their civil rights.
But hey, these things happened. Everybody's got a life. He
was a different kind of guy back then. Yeah, yeah
he was, and so he so clearly there's some issue
that he had this weekend or last week in a
pool passed out, And I'm intrigued by the idea of

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not dealing with it because then he posts something of
him lifting weights, and like, I'm good by the way
he looks like he's lifting thirty fives, which aren't real.
They're heavy. But to a guy who looks like he
can rip open a phone book, uh huh, right, he
shouldn't be doing thirty fives. He does not look good
with the mustache. I just say it. He needs to

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be clean shaving. He looks too plastic y to me.

Speaker 7 (11:35):
Yeah he's a little plastic.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Key Man's in shape. Good for him, but he looks
not normal, a little kin dollish if you will. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (11:46):
Ever since the Netflix of the Ted Bundy when he
played Ted Bundy, okay, he's been looking a little plasticky.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
He's taken on a lot of roles where you have
to be ripped, right Baywatch. Uh, he did the the
wrestling one most recently. Yeah, that people say it's great,
but I haven't. I haven't seen it at all. And oh,
by the way, we watched IF this weekend. Oh yeah,
what a turd?

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Really?

Speaker 1 (12:16):
Yeah, with Ryan it's so slow, so slow, Ryan Reynolds.
You think John Krasinski you expect it to be awesome?
Really anyway?

Speaker 8 (12:27):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, So he's been doing movies that everybody says supposed
to be good. But maybe it's just the cheat machine
churning stuff out. Probably it m that's why he looks
the way he does.

Speaker 7 (12:41):
You know, a reboot of Three Men and a Baby.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
Is he the baby?

Speaker 7 (12:48):
My guess would be no.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
I mean it's a reboot. They do things a little
different in reboots.

Speaker 7 (12:53):
Maybe with the stash he's doing the Uh, he's gonna
be the Tom Selleck.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
I hope not. Don't be Tom Sellek. Those things be
someone else. I mean, right, you didn't see Channing Tatum
or Jonas Joe what is his name? Jonah Hill be
Gordon Grico, right, Johnny dam Yeah, they made it their own. Yeah, yeah,
make it your own if you're gonna do it?

Speaker 9 (13:18):
M h.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
What would be the storyline for that? Because I remember, right,
Three Minute a Baby was about three men. They were
unsure who got this person pregnant.

Speaker 7 (13:28):
No, we knew who got her pregnant.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
From the beginning. Yes, yes see, I don't keep it.
I don't remember this movie.

Speaker 7 (13:35):
Go ahead, Ted Danson's baby.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
Yeah, and they just all three lived together.

Speaker 7 (13:38):
Yeah, they were just all roommates bacheloring it up.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
And what happened to the mom she was she lived.

Speaker 7 (13:45):
In England, I believe, and she wanted the daughter to
get to know.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
Her dad.

Speaker 7 (13:53):
And but but Ted Danson's character was an actor, so
he was always off filming, and so the little girl
got to know all of his roommates. And actually it
was Tom Sellick's character who ended up falling in love
with the little girl the most, I think. And then
that's a weird turn with the mom. They bonded the most, bonded,

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got it? Okay, he fell in love with the mom
I think, which his roommates girl.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
Yeah, that's pretty skeezy.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
But in the end they made like three of those, right.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
So at least two too.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
Yeah, because it was like three men and a little lady,
she growed up a little bit. Yeah, weird. Yeah, I
don't know how you make that today unless you go
with the same storyline. But people's social norms are a
little different. Now he's dumped your kid, Like, here go,
how long is the timeframe in the movie? What do

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you mean, like she dumps her kid off so she
can hoar it out.

Speaker 7 (14:56):
Yeah, I don't know, maybe summer.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
I didn't say, like how old that baby was? Do
kids go? The phrase is used a lot, like, oh,
I spend the summers with my dad, but really it's
like two weeks.

Speaker 7 (15:13):
Yeah, I think so, right, Yeah, it's never.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
It's never a Memorial Day to Labor Day.

Speaker 7 (15:20):
No, I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Of my friends who are from divorced families and they
spend time with their dad that don't live in the state,
typically it's a couple of weeks or a week, maybe
a month at the most.

Speaker 7 (15:33):
Yeah, but it's broken up maybe two weeks here and
then another week there.

Speaker 1 (15:37):
But never like the whole summer, right, huh. Yeah, I
don't see that ever, it would never happen, but it's
a movie, so whatever.

Speaker 7 (15:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Yeah, did you watch Game of Thrones last night. I'm sorry,
did you watch House the Dragon last night? I did not? Okay,
I did not. I'm want to watch that this afternoon
when I get home. I have not either, okay, but
I have been quite frustrated the last couple episodes. I
don't know. I think that the previous episode was pretty
pretty awesome in my opinion. Anyway, it took me two
days to get through it. Yeah. Yeah, I liked the

(16:11):
idea of like, you know, they're getting these new Dragon
writers and stuff like that. They're like, didn't know, like
feels a little jumped to shark. I didn't know that
I could write a dragon like that. One dragon like
sought out that black guy or whatever. And I can't
blame the black guy for being scared, you know, as
a Jared dragons chasing you through the forest, you know,
just to go and then the dragon wants you to, Hey,

(16:32):
let's go for nuzzles and yeah, and like that that
that last scene or whatever when they all go down
to the dragon pits. Yeah, so I was like that
that scene was awesome. I was expecting that one guy
to like get eaten then kind of like a drunkard,
haggard guy or whatever. Suspecting him to get eating but
it built that he tried to build that character for
too long. Yeah, so so now you know, I guess

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he gets to write a dragon too. So that's that's cool, right.
We saw him a reappear too many times. Same with
the guy, the Big guy. Yeah, yeah, her brother year.
I always have to ask my wife because I never
keep up. But the thing I'm gonna there is a
revelation that happens in last night's episode. But I have
been I've read over and over again that it was
very disappointing. Okay that it was a sixty minute trailer

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for season three in two years? Oh nice. Yeah, I
love waiting two years to get on, you know. But
there's a big revelation. Do you want me tell you
what it is? Sure? When I was running for everybody,
I mean, you got a second hearing you turn it down.
I'm not going to go on and on about it.
Damon is the Winter King from Gang of Game of Thrones. Okay,

(17:35):
I kind of had that feeling just by the way
he looks. Yeah, I didn't put it together actually, like
that white Walker from Game of three. Yeah, the lead whitewaker. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
and I was like, I bet you, I bet you
that's him. So well, that's cool, cool, And apparently that's
the only exciting thing that happens for sixty five minutes. Okay, yeah,

(17:57):
I'm it's pretty frustrating to watch. It moves so slow,
so slow, you don't if any character dies, I don't care,
Like there's nobody. I'm like, they're awesome, right, I guess
I'm interested to see how this young king fares from
his you know, getting toasted alive. Yeah, I think they're
going to kill him off. He can't continue one like

(18:18):
an I don't know man, and then his brother you
know who's in charge right now, being an asshole. Apparently
the book line, the storyline is that he does survive
and then burns are near alive with the dragon. Oh okay,
well that's just the book though, correct, which we have learned.
Any of those show like they just beat it because

(18:38):
now they're they promoted this prequel to Game of Thrones
that's gonna come out, and any of the walking down
when they start doing I'm like, oh my gosh, just
let it go. Squeeze as much juice as you can.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
Just do the season.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
Do the show. Then when it's over, it's over and
we get to go. Well that was nice. Yeah, that
was a good show. I don't need a prequel to
the wire, all right, I don't need a what are
they doing now? Right? I don't know. I just I
think it takes away from the mistique of how great
it was.

Speaker 2 (19:10):
Yeah, definitely, all right.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
We got to take a break. We got tickets to Ocklaholma.
We're gonna give away. We'll do that coming up at
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Speaker 7 (19:56):
Woman arrested after she admits to drowning roommate pet spider.
This happened in Cresview, Florida, where Aileena Rene Resmussen, who's
forty three years old, stands accused of one count each
of larceny, petty theft in the second degree, and animal
cruelty that torments, deprives, mutilates, or kills any animal, according

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to the Akalousa County Sheriff's Office. Now, her motive for
the animal's death is unknown, but Sheriff's deputies say that
the defendant readily admitted to killing the tiny creature. She
texted the victim admitting to drowning the jumping spider in
ginger Ale. The incident occurred at home and the medium

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sized eastern Western Florida Panhandle. On July fifteenth, the defendant's
roommate came home to discover that her pet spider had
been missing out of its enclosure. After that, the Sheriff's
office said that the frantic roommate reached out to her
roommate about where the spider was. She said she didn't know.

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On Monday, following the alleged confession, the defendant was charged, arrested,
and released on a personal recog recognance bond. The spider
cost her around seventy bucks, so that I guess because
she paid for it. Maybe that's why she's getting all
of these fines against her, charges against her, because she

(21:31):
treated and she treated it did and she did. Yeah,
she said she drowned.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
In ginger ale.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
Well, yeah, I mean that's that was roommate's pet. Like,
let's just say if the roommate had a cat and
she drowned it in ginger reil, it it would be
the same thing. I mean, we think of it as
a spider, and it's a jumping Spider's like, oh no,
kill it. But still, I mean it was somebody's pet.

Speaker 7 (21:53):
Yeah, I mean, because my sentence one is a spider
considered an animals.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
An insect, right, as an insect, that's still a pet. Yeah,
it's still a pet. It's like if somebody had a
pet tarantula, right, and you stomp on it or drown it,
and ginger reil or whatever. These aren't very big no
no soaping spiders or not. So then how did she
drown it? Probably scooped it up, dumped it in the
ginger ail and just let us sit there until it died. Yeah. Psychopath.

Speaker 7 (22:23):
Yeah, she looks like a psychopath too, and she says so.
The Akalusa County court record show she's got prior charges
in her name for battery and driving under the influence.
She's not being represented by any council, and she is
slated to appear in court for her arrangement on August twentieth.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yeah, I killed that spider su Yeah.

Speaker 7 (22:50):
I didn't like the way it was looking at me
with its eight eyes.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
Right. Siblings brawl over chicken preparation has come out of
South Carolina where a guy named Anthony Harper and his
sister Hope, and they have another sibling. They live with
their granny. Right, well, I guess Anthony was making chicken
for dinner and Hope and then some rando dude there

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started questioning Anthony about seasoning the chicken, and Anthony responds
to her with I know how to cook, and granny
is going to season the chicken. All right, seems simple enough.
But then Hope fires back at Tony and says, you're
not human, You're a dumb dog. Okay, so this is

(23:39):
just siblings being siblings at this point. However, they get
into a little squabble they're in the kitchen. The Hope,
the rando random dude, and then the other sibling all
end up getting scratched on the arm. Okay, how stop.
That's when the rando dude exits the kitchen because they're

(24:01):
still fighting, and the random dude fires his nine millimeter
into the air into the ceiling to try to break
up the fight, right, Okay, that didn't work at all whatsoever.
That's when Hope grabs a state knife and starts chasing
Anthony around the house with it. Dude, there's so much
going on in the story, it is insane. So she

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starts chasing him around the house with it, and then
Granny's like, oh hell now, and then Granny gets her
broom and she starts waving it at Hope until Hope
finally puts the knife down. Okay, you'd think that would
be enough, but that no, no, no. Anthony then grabs

(24:45):
a can of raid and sprays it into Hope's face.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
God dag.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
Sprays it all over her face and neck. Hope then
takes the can of bug spray from him and then
sprays it all over his body. I evade. The cops eventually
got called out, okay, and they ended up taking both
Hope and Anthony in for assault and battery. But the

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random guy that fired off his gun in the house,
he didn't get any charge. That's shocking. That's what I
thought too. And then of course Granny didn't get in
any trouble. Either for you know, using the old broom
to you know. Two crazy things that I have questions
on is one, how old is the granny because grannies
can be pretty young. Yes, it does not say in
in in the story. And the other one is who

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keeps raid next to their chicken prep? I mean, you know,
if it's like on the counter or whatever. I mean,
you know, maybe they forgot to put it away, who knows.

Speaker 7 (25:44):
Maybe under the sink, who knows, mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
Maybe they got a problem and they just got to
have it readily available, you know, like they got a
lot of they got a problem, a lot of problems.
Child dies after bound house flies into air and crashes
onto a field. Didn't you already read the story? Once
I have read this story, I'm trying to illustrate how
common it is. A young boy is dead after a

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bounce house went airborne and crashed into a baseball field.
Officials say a gust of wind carried the bounce house,
which was filled with children, fifteen to twenty feet into
the air, and it came crashing down during a Southern
Maryland Blue Crabs game. The five year old was airlifted
to a hospital and later pronounced dead. Another child was
taken to the hospital with non life threatening injuries. Witnesses

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reportedly said stakes had been hammered into the ground to
help secure the bounce house. Apparently it was like behind
a fence where and then the game was going on
that the bounce house for the kids, because baseball's not
always exciting, and they were doing the thing and Win
blew it up into the air, threw it in the outfield.

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Paramedics obviously were already there because the baseball game. They
rushed in, some other people rushed in, and it killed
the little boy. You would think there'd be enough padding
at a bounce house to, you know, kind of dampen
things a little bit, saving you wouldn't die. But this
happens a lot. Do you ever do the experiment as
a kid where you have to try and drop the

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egg from so high with it out at breaking and
you did ways many times where it was padded and
it would break. Same principle, same principle. All these stories
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Sports Team USA men's basketball coach Steve Kerr says his
team is going into their quarterfinals matchup with Brazil wary.
Brazil might be going into the game as underdogs, but

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their physicality is something Kerr says shouldn't be underestimated, and
they are the number one offensive rebounding team in the tournament.
curR says his team needs to be on edge and
ready for them because they're not going to back down.
USA versus Brazil will tip off tomorrow afternoon at two thirty,
and Team USA is a twenty seven point five point favorite.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
He has to say that I agree. He can't go.
We got this.

Speaker 7 (28:51):
I know nothing to worry about.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
Because then the other teams be like use that as motivation.

Speaker 7 (28:57):
The United States women's national basketball team completed their sweep
of Group C with an eighty seven to sixty eight
win over Germany. With the win, the US women extended
their winning streak to fifty eight games, with Jack Young
leading the way with nineteen points. The women's quarter final
games will be played on Wednesday. On Saturday, Simone Biles

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earneder seventh career Olympic gold medal in the vault final. Afterward,
Biles appeared to leave the door open for more. While
twenty seven might not sound old in the real world,
it's getting up there for an Olympic gymnast. That said.
In a post event press conference, Biles said never say never.
When asked if she was done, Biles added that the

(29:40):
next Olympics are at home, so you just never know.
She said, I am getting really old. Yesterday, American cyclist
Kristin Faulkner shocked everyone by taking the gold medal in
the road race event. This win breaks a four decade
drought for the Americans in the event. The last time
an American woman won this event was in the nineteen

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eighty four Los Angeles Olympics when Connie Carpenter Finney earned
the victory. Faulkner is a graduate of Harvard and is
a former rower who got into cycling just by riding
around Central Park in New York City.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
Pretty maze.

Speaker 7 (30:17):
Yeah. Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Did you see the French pole vaulter yesterday?

Speaker 7 (30:25):
I didn't?

Speaker 1 (30:26):
You didn't? All right? Well, please let me show you
his attempt at going over the frozen on pole. Vauldien
is very long stick. You run with it, you've put
it in the hall and like Canna pulls you up over.

Speaker 7 (30:40):
Oh, poor guy, what did you see? I got hung
up right there on his junk.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
He didn't get hung up on his junk. His junk
is so massive that it just he's serge of bakud
whatever that thing is that they have to mp overcalled Yeah,
how he knows right?

Speaker 2 (31:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (31:07):
Is he one of those like it's average right right?
Like tape it down, bro, Definitely? Why would you work
so hard for something and let that get in the way.
It's that I'm flabberg acid on many different levels with
that imagery.

Speaker 7 (31:26):
His dms have got to be full like his inbox clearly.

Speaker 1 (31:34):
I mean, yeah, I didn't. I didn't explore his name
or dig any deeper. I felt like I knew more
than I needed to know about him. Absolutely, by the way,
good for him. He may not have won the Olympics,
but he won.

Speaker 7 (31:47):
He is definitely a winner.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
He doesn't have a medal to put around someone's neck,
but no, And.

Speaker 7 (31:59):
That's your ball to the wall sports, someone's you on
ninety seven to five KMO.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
D Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine one,
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(32:24):
four five, Good morning Lindsay.

Speaker 7 (32:27):
Good morning Corbyn. Join us this Friday for our final
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Speaker 1 (32:56):
Good morning Gimpie, Well, Good morning Corban. Every day the
Asses buy as a day closer to Rocklaholm and Labor
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dot com. We're gonna do best and Worst of the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened this weekend and the
worst thing that happened this weekend? Nine one, eight four
to six o kmod or you can text bmms and
whatever that is to eight two nine four five. What's

(33:18):
the best thing that happened this weekend and the worst
thing that happened this weekend?

Speaker 7 (33:22):
Lindsay the best Yesterday we took the kids to Spring
Creek and enjoyed time on the creek. It was very
the water is so fresh and so cold and refreshing,
and we did a little grilling out there with our
friend Stephanie and some friends of hers, and it was
just a beautiful day was had and the kids caught

(33:45):
some lots of crawfish and minnows and for the first
time ever there were so many minnows. But for the
first time ever, I had one of those little minno pedicures,
those fish pedicures that you see in like Japan, where
they go and stick your feet and a bucket and
fish come and eat your dad's skin off your feet.
I've never had that happen, but yesterday.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
Is this something you paid for?

Speaker 7 (34:07):
No, they were just sitting there when we were in
the creek. They just came up to your feet, the
fish did, and it was I thought it was gonna
be creepy, but no, uh uh it was really cool
and you have to sit there for a while because
I have to get comfortable, but they do it and
it tickles and it was interesting. And the worst part
is I'm dealing with some horrible allergies and I gotta

(34:31):
go see an ant because.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
Not too horrible, right, I mean, I mean, you've got
to go to the creek.

Speaker 7 (34:36):
I mean, I don't feel awful like, but it's just
at night it's draining down my throat and making me
sound like es. So it's just, yeah, something's got to give.
So I don't know if it's stronger allergy medication that
I need to be on or what or I'm hoping

(34:56):
no surgeries need to be.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
What allergy medication are you taking? Medicine?

Speaker 7 (35:01):
Zyrtech and I do nasal court the sinus spray and yeah,
so we'll see what happens. What the ant says best.

Speaker 1 (35:15):
And where's the weekend? What's the best thing that happened
this weekend? And the worst thing that happened this weekend?
GIMPI the best of the weekend, definitely Saturday, the entire day.
My birthday's on Wednesday, like this Wednesday, right, But I
want to be out of town. This weekend, so we
celebrated on Saturday. So Saturday morning, to get up, me

(35:35):
and my lady, we hop on the bike. We ride
all the way to Wichita so I can get my
Kansas patch because that's something I'm trying to do is
get a patch for my cut from every state that
I traveled to. So we went up to Wichita, got
a patch, had some lunch, a nice scenic route back,
a full day of riding. It was pretty awesome. And
she's not it's not her favorite thing, but she goes anyway.

(35:59):
She's never on a bike until she got with me. Okay, okay,
you know, so she's still learning or whatever she says.
She likes it and she enjoys it. She has a
lot of fun, and she's even thought about, you know,
getting her own bike and going to like Myers Durn
to take the learn to ride class and stuff like that.
I'm like, that's awesome, you should do that. So as
I'm tired of having you behind her, no no, no, no,

(36:19):
I love having her back here. So yeah, we did that,
and then we came back and then got together with
friends and had dinner, and then we went over to
Grumpies and did some karaoke in and and had the cake.
I didn't eat the cake. I just blew the candles out,
you know, didn't have your cake. No, no, I was

(36:39):
too busy drinking, too too enjoy. But it did have
some cupcakes because there were cupcakes there as well. You know,
I got was smashed it all into my face. That
was Oh that was cool. Yeah, totally. But it was
a great day. Saturday was probably an awesome, awesome day,
probably the best day having a long time. Worst part
of the weekend. I they had some friends, I have

(37:02):
some friends. I have some friends, and they recently went
to New York to get married, and then they came
back and they had a reception here for the people
here in Oklahoma. Well, and that was Saturday night as well, right,
And my plan was to you know, go there and
celebrate them and then you know, go to dinner and
then go do karaoke whatever. But scheduling didn't work out

(37:26):
in my favor, so I ended up having to miss that.
And I feel really bad for having to miss their
reception or whatever. So that was the worst of it,
best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
this weekend BMMS space and whatever that is K two
nine four five that's out of text in or call
it nine one eight four six oh kmod. Best part

(37:46):
of the weekend for me would be try to homemade
pete a new different type of homemade pizza. All y'all.
It was pretty, It was okay, it was fine. What
made us so different? I've been putting calabria and chili's
in my sauce. Yeah, and so I tried that with
a different type of crust style, and uh yeah, it

(38:07):
was fine. It was good.

Speaker 7 (38:08):
Have you got any of the colorflower crusts?

Speaker 1 (38:10):
Why that's not I don't know. Why would I do that.

Speaker 7 (38:14):
I don't think they're bad.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
If someone could, it's you're lying.

Speaker 7 (38:22):
I've had some good colorflower crusts.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
So if I put a two different crusts in front
of you, one of them traditional bread and one cauliflower,
you'd be like, this is a tough call.

Speaker 7 (38:31):
I mean, if I'm dieting, I'm going to color flower crust. No, No, yeah, no,
I'm breading. I'm bread. One is definitely better.

Speaker 1 (38:42):
It's superior. Yeah, okay, right, I'm not saying like if
you've got a gluten allergy or you can't eat bread.
I'm sure cauliflower's fine, but nobody's trying to make cauliflower crusts.
People have to make cauliflower c.

Speaker 7 (39:00):
Yeah, but if you can perfect it, why not.

Speaker 1 (39:03):
Try because again, nobody's nobody's wanting to do that. You
have to do that to either cater to people that
have an allergy or dieting, or because you serve a
business and you want to guess have that on your menu. Yeah,
but the group of people that want cauliflower crust tiny population.

Speaker 7 (39:25):
And you're not one of them.

Speaker 1 (39:27):
So's the majority of humans. It's like going, yeah, but
have you perfected cauliflower rice? Yeah, nobody wants that.

Speaker 7 (39:36):
Sorry, I I tried something new. It ain't calorflower though.
Uh uh.

Speaker 1 (39:43):
I mean it's a pretty ludicrous thing to say. Okay,
to imply that making crust cauliflowers should be in that
conversation makes no sense at all. People don't eat cauliflower
as a vegetable on that right. Oh, I like it
when it's mixed on the tray with the broccoli and

(40:04):
the celery sauce, right right, right, But nobody's like gosh,
I can't wait to go home and have some cauliflower.
And vegetable ranking it's pretty low. Yeah, people will choose
the broccoli over the cauliflower nine times out of ten.
I feel when you have conversations about bad vegetable, like
gross vegetables, cauliflowers in the conversation.

Speaker 7 (40:26):
I think it gets forget It gets forgotten about.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
Because they don't want it. It doesn't like people go,
oh yeah, caulifer, it's so good. No one does that.
It's pretty vile. Best Gimby's birthday celebration Saturday. Worst is
going to work today. Couldn't get sleep to save my life.
Best part of the weekend spent the weekend in Vegas

(40:51):
for my brother's bachelor party. Worst part of the weekend
spent the weekend in Vegas for my brother's bachelor party.
Best of the week got back from a bike trip
in the Virginia Mountains. Was a blast. Worst of the
weekend had to deal with drama as soon as I
got hacked. I'm gonna say that's probably meant to say
back ei the way. It sucks. Best spent Saturday night

(41:14):
at the Drillers game with my kid at mascot mania,
got a sign ball for my kid. Then Sunday went
to the zoo. Worst back to work in a warehouse
with no ac no wonder you could do both those things.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
Then you're right right.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
Best of the weekend with some help. I got my
big deck erected, my wife won't stay off and now
worst sunburn, Best got to see my daughter dance on stage.
Worst heat exhaustion. Best spent time with family, Worst on
night shift at work. Uh okay, people giving all their

(41:56):
I love when people say this, Hey, just try local honey, right,
because apparently you know allergies and what not supposed to
help with I mean, local honey does work if you
used to have it, like as a baby, and you
work on it all year, but as an immediate remedy. Now,
best I got to spend it with my family. Worst,
I go back over the road for the week of work.

(42:20):
Uh what about cauliflower diet soda? Okay, jeez, you thought.
Lindsay asked if Corbyn wanted ocre based pizza crust. Same
thing you should try, Corbin, You never know you might want. Yeah, listen, sorry,
she asked. All right, we got tickets that we're going
to give away to Rock, Oklahoma. We'll play that game.
Come good morning. It's the Big Man Morning Show. Nine one,

(42:54):
eight four six O KMOD can also text bmmss and
then what you want to say to eight two, nine
four or five. I mentioned Zach Efron earlier. I mentioned
Wes Scallon and passing that he got in trouble over
the weekend for apparently was a traffic stop. He wouldn't
get out of his car because they wanted to talk
to him because of a past warrant issue. He decided

(43:16):
to stay in his car. They brought in a crisis negotiator.
He wouldn't get out of his car. The SWAT team
was called in. He was pepper sprayed, always been arrested
for resisting arrest. You just had to get out of
the car, man, that's it. Yeah, philosophical difference, right right,
I don't think I should have to You are incorrect.

(43:39):
I was gonna say, I feel like if the officers
are you know, if you're cool with them, they'll be
cool with you. You won't get the swat team or
pepper sprayed or anything like it. Yeah, but if you
feel like you're harassed by them, you say it all
the time people get to a point where they've had enough. Yeah,
they snapped, for sure, But I mean he snapped a lot.

(44:01):
By the is he constantly being pulled over and being
harassed by the police, Probably he thinks he's being harassed
for sure. I mean one incident involved him had a
baggage claim and he rode the the baggage claim around
and he thought he was just trying to have fun.

(44:22):
Man rock and roll. Yeah, I have fun, live your
rock and roll lifestyle. But if you don't do stupid
stuff like that, you won't get in trouble with the police. Hey,
like I posted over the weekend, life is meaningless sad face. Also,
life is meaningless thumbs up, So which one is it? Right?

(44:46):
At some point you got to go enoughs enough. By
the way, they are touring still and they have a
date coming up and they're playing the Taco and Tequila Festival.
That sounds like a great time. I you would be
excited about it. I love both of those things. I
love tacos and tequila. I mean, there's not really a

(45:06):
reason to not like it. Right right, last year listen
to who they had last year play, because apparently this
is like the second year at least according to their
their insta. Last year they had Collective Soul, the Toadies,
Bowling for Soup, and Texas Hippie Coalition. Right, this is
that feels all over the place to me? Not focused.
This year also feels a little all over the place.

(45:29):
Three to eleven Okay, Okay, all America rejects okay, Hollywood
undead okay, puddle of mud, Giovanni and the Higher Guns. Okay, Right,
I don't hate the line. I don't hate it either,

(45:49):
but also huh right, yeah.

Speaker 7 (45:53):
Also kind of feels like, in case someone backs out.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
Which one, right, I'm just being listen. They're all fine,
Hollywood and Dead's awesome, right, I've seen them live a
couple of times. They put on a ridiculous show. Three
eleven puts on a great show. But huh yeah, a
little weird little match up there, yes, yes, but maybe maybe,

(46:19):
like you know, it's a money thing. No, it's like
we got a little bit of money left over when
we get three eleven. Okay, because West Scantland a puddle
of much too expensive. Yeah, they're not.

Speaker 2 (46:32):
It's now.

Speaker 1 (46:34):
I think Hollywood a dead is one of the guys.
He lives here. The lead. Is that the lead scene
that lives here? I don't know. I think so he
started Yeah, I didn't know that. Yeah, he started a
weed company and they moved it to here when that
became legal. I might be wrong, it feels right though.
Uh yeah, all right, Well, let's see what Gimpi has

(46:55):
in his four by four cole It says here is
that neu link implants a second patient. Now, Elon Musk
says his company, company Neurlink, has put a brain implant
in a second patient. The device aimed aims to allow
paralyzed people to use digital devices with their thoughts. Musk

(47:15):
says the implantation was successful and that the company plans
to implant eight more patients this year. That's so crazy
to me, the fact that it's so privatem hmm when
they do it. There's this documentary online about the guy
who did all this and everybody just believed him right,
and he just everybody had to take his word, come

(47:36):
to find out he didn't. And so to the shroud,
the cloak of secrecy is the part that's a little bizarre, right,
Still pretty impressive be able to do that, could come
up with that, you know, device, and maybe if it works.
If it works yeah, right now we're just hearing him
say that, right. And this one person that got this right, well,

(47:59):
we'll see what happens. They got it more lined up
if it works out, unbelievable for sure. What else have
we got here? RFK Junior says, I put the dead
bear in Central Park. This is a wild story. Yeah,
Robert Kennedy Junior is clearing up a minor mystery. He
says that he was the one who left a dead
bear in New York City's Central Park ten years ago.

(48:21):
The Independent presidential candidate posted a video Sunday yesterday where
he explains the story to Roseanne and says that he
wants to get the story out there before something comes
out in the New Yorker now. Kennedy says now, he
saw the bear get killed on the road in the
Hudson Valley area and decided to put it in his

(48:41):
van so he could take it home, skin it and
use the meat. He got delayed in New York City
and he didn't have time to take the bear home
before he had to get to the airport, so he
settled on dumping it in the park and making it
look like it was hit by a bicycle. It's the
wildest story. He is so eccentric or crazy. No, damn

(49:03):
bicycle is gonna kill a bear? Come on, it's what
in New York City? In New York City, in Central Park?
How often are their bear sightings in Central Park? I
don't know. I've never been in New York City, so
I don't know. I'm gonna go and not. And it's
been a while. Kamala Harris's meeting with v VP candidates.

(49:27):
She's been holding meetings with three candidates to be her
running mate. She was scheduled to meet with Senator Mark
Kelly of Arizona, Governor Tim Walls of Minnesota, Don't Janol,
and Josh Shapiro of Pennsylvania. She's expected to announce her
VP on Tuesday, which is tomorrow, and then lastly here,

(49:48):
Reading Partners seek more two tours for students the school year.
The Tulsa nonprofit that helps kids with reading needs more volunteers.
Reading Partners Tulsa helps elementary students improve the reading skills.
To be a two tour, you have to be at
least fourteen years old and have a willingness to help.
You can sign up at Reading Partners dot Org.

Speaker 7 (50:12):
A magical year got a little more magical yesterday for
Scottie Scheffler, the star of the twenty twenty four PGA
Tour season, earned Olympic gold thanks to a stellar final

(50:34):
round of sixty two. Keep in mind that John Ram
seemed to have things well in hand when he had
a four stroke lead with seven holes to go. Bogie's
on eleven, twelve and seventeen ended up taking Ram out
of metal contention, with Tommy Fleetwood taking silver and Hedeki
Matsuyama taking a bronze. It was a big final day

(50:56):
in swimming for Team USA at the Paris Olympics. Americans
three more medals, including the women winning gold in the
four by one hundred medley relay. The men's four by
one hundred medley relay team led by Caleb Dressel, earned silver. Meanwhile,
American Bobby thank You won his second straight gold medal

(51:17):
in the men's fifteen hundred meter freestyle while setting a
new world record. Sunday marked the final day of swimming,
with Team USA winning twenty eight total medals in the
pool in Paris, ten more than the next country. Australia
sprinter Noah Lyles broke a twenty year drought for the
Americans after a photo finish and a difference of five

(51:40):
to one thousandth of a second. Lyles won the gold
medal in the men's one hundred meter yesterday in Paris.
Fellow American Fred Curley took home bronze after finishing in third.
Four more medal events are on tap today. In athletics,
the Tennessee Titans added a veteran to their defensive backfield.

(52:01):
They signed safety Quandre Diggs to a one year deal.
According to ESPN, the contract is for up to five
million dollars. Diggs is entering his tenth season in the NFL.
The thirty one year old has not missed a game
since twenty nineteen and made three consecutive Pro Bowls from

(52:21):
twenty twenty to twenty twenty two, and the Jets think
their star quarterback can turn back the clock this season.
Head coach Robert Salad told the media on Saturday that
Aaron Rodgers looks like he never missed any time after
a ninety minute scrimmage. The forty year old is coming
off a season ending achilles tear just four plays into

(52:44):
his gangering career last year. Sally says the Super Bowl
winning QB is unlikely to play in the preseason.

Speaker 1 (52:53):
We'll see if the rest of the people can keep
up with his demand. There's already been talk about his
expectation from players and players being like, who are you, hi,
Hall of Fame quarterback. Probably so maybe listen to him,
I don't know, So we'll see how that plays out.
Same thing now, again, these are all online reports. Is

(53:14):
happening in Chicago where some of the veterans in the
clubhouse are not happy with Caleb Williams and it's super petty.
But also there's a hierarchy that happens in football, and
when you're a rookie, you don't get to order people around,
even if you are the quarterback the number one draft pick.
But also if you're the quarterback and you're the starting quarterback,

(53:36):
you're expected to leave. Yeah, so it's kind of a
hard pickle he's in. And so he yelled at everybody
quote unquote to clean up the locker room because it
was a mess. And he was like, guys, I'm paraphrasing.
It's guys, there's a lot of people that have to
work hard to clean up this whole place. And if
we can help him out and folcus closure being a

(53:59):
good dude, yeah right, right, yeah, but if some guy
who's been in the league ten years don't want to
hear it from you, nube, right, you kind of out
of line rather than just like be the guy that
just clean it, just do it right and people will follow.
But that's not apparently the way it went down. And
then there's some people that are also like, hey, it's fine,
we need a revolt, right, we need to change shut things. Yeah,

(54:21):
so it isn't all roses in Chicago, but we'll see.

Speaker 7 (54:27):
I just hope they respect him on the field and
listen to them.

Speaker 1 (54:30):
I don't know any of the stuff I've seen online.
He's acting like justin fields, which is run the ball right,
great bullhogs.

Speaker 7 (54:39):
Yeah. Minnesota Twins completed a three game sweep of the
Chicago White Sox with a thirteen to seven win at
Target Field. The Twins scored six runs in the second
inning to take an eight to zero lead and kept
Chicago at an arms length the rest of the way.
The White Socks are now the first team to lose

(55:00):
twenty consecutive game since nineteen eighty eight. They are the
worst team in baseball by far hands down. Just cover
up the field and that is your balls to the
wall sports. I'm Lindsay in ninety seven five KMOD.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
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Speaker 7 (55:39):
Good morning Corbyn. You know we still have tickets for
you to win to see Corn on October twentieth, our
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All you gotta do is go to the website that
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Speaker 1 (55:54):
Good morning Gimpie, Well, good morning Gormyn. We got a
Patty Old party coming up this Roddy. It's a very
last one. We're gonna be able st monkey at ninety
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and have a three dollar mill a lite or six
of them? Time for our listeners are awesome. We like
to chat with our listeners. They share stories about their
lives and we get to know them a little bit better.

(56:15):
And Justin is on the line with us right now. Hey, Justin,
how are you.

Speaker 10 (56:20):
I'm doing pretty good, caffeinated and agitated as always.

Speaker 1 (56:24):
Justin has been married for twenty three years. How'd you
meet your wife?

Speaker 11 (56:29):
When I got back from Basic an aiit went back
to my hometown and she happened to be working as
a waitress and a little bar and grill, and I
applied for a job, ended up working with their and
she just annoyed me in the right way.

Speaker 1 (56:42):
And so, did you have a line you tried to
work on her or did you guys just start flirting
and it just kind of grew from there.

Speaker 10 (56:48):
Well, I started flirting. She's terrible at flirting, real kind
of quiet, reserved, shy, kind of sheltered growing up. So
she did you know quite what to make of it?

Speaker 1 (57:00):
No, I pursued, How many no's did you get? Oh?

Speaker 10 (57:06):
No, No. It started out was just kind of giving
her rides home and this and that and sitting talking
for one, you know whatever, pull over to the side
for twenty three minutes to b s orever before taking
her home because it wasn't the best home situation, so
she wasn't real eager to get back to it. So, yeah,
just kind of visiting, getting to know each other, and
then next thing, you know, we just kind of started dating.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
So yeah, No, I trapped for my wife too. You
were in the military for a while. What made you
want to join the military?

Speaker 10 (57:37):
Kind of a family thing. Both my grandfather on my
mother's side as well as my uncle on my father's side.
My aunt was in the Navy, and then one of
my uncles he tried to go into the military, but
he end up they found out he had a heart murmur,
so they discharged him. So going back several generations on
my mother's side, So just kind of phone family footsteps

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and I really didn't have anything better to do.

Speaker 1 (58:01):
So did you join right out of high school?

Speaker 10 (58:04):
No? I bounced around. I did a few jobs here
and there. I was actually working outsourced Microsoft tech support,
and I absolutely hated my life living in a cubicle farm.
I just it was went from depression to wanting to
beat somebody's face in on a daily basis. And I
can't keep this up anymore. And one of the guys
that worked with was in the National Guard took me
to a drill and I was like, yes, this is
what I.

Speaker 1 (58:25):
Need to do, and so you you enlisted very soon
after that.

Speaker 10 (58:30):
Yeah, I enlisted in summer of ninety nine, went to
basic at the Fort Benning Home for Wayward Boys, and
at Aiit and Fort Gordon. And that's all she wrote.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
You said you were at the Home for Wayward Boys.

Speaker 10 (58:46):
That's what we referred to as Fort Benning Basic Training.
It's the home of the infantry, Fort Benning Home for
Wayward Children.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
I just wanted to make sure I heard it correctly.
Corrected that. And so you were a radio operator, I'm
sure that's a little different than me as a radio operator.

Speaker 10 (59:05):
Okay, you see you on all the the war movies.
You see you on like we were soldiers. He got
that one poor guy that's got the radios on his back,
that big antenna, that big shoot me signing always gets
shot first.

Speaker 12 (59:15):
That was me.

Speaker 1 (59:16):
Okay, how much that thing weigh.

Speaker 10 (59:19):
Depending on what we were doing. Because I was with
an air defense unit, we had to carry actually two
different radios with us, so we split it up between
three guys with extra batteries and antenna's. We had probably
about eighty pounds of gear we had to pack out,
plus all of our own gear.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
And so you were basically the most important guy. What
was the plan if one of you were to get shot,
did one of the other two guys have to pick
everything up.

Speaker 10 (59:45):
Well, with my National Guard unit, we were a scout unit,
so we actually went out. It's kind of complicated to explain.
There's a certain line you got to draw on the
sand of how far out a plane traveling at supersonic
speeds can drop its bombs, call it the dynamite line.
We had to be out past that so we could
give the guys with the missiles early warning that hey,
you got a plane coming. So we were out in

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the frigging boonies. If one of us got shot, we
were pretty much sol We had to do our own
first aid and hopefully that was enough to get us
back to where we needed to go. But odds were
not good.

Speaker 1 (01:00:17):
It's easier to ask you about getting surprised with shells.
I'm guessing that's not like from the beach.

Speaker 10 (01:00:23):
No, No, it was. The Taliban didn't have artillery, but
they did have Russian made one hundred and seven millimeters rockets.
You've overseen videos like the big the trucks they have
with the rockets, it just sends out a whole barrage
of them. Well, they would fire those. They took them
out of the launchers and they prop them up on
like metal tripods, and they were pretty ingenious with their timers,

(01:00:45):
and they would use to get them to fire when
they weren't around, because if they knew, we'd shoot back.
I got into Afghanistan in January of two thousand and seven,
and it's pretty quiet there. In the winter, all the
bad guys go over into Pakistan to train, you know,
heel up or whatever it is, recruit, and then when
the snow melts and the mountain passes, they come over

(01:01:05):
and they start picking fights. So we've had a few
months of just kind of wiley gagging around doing nothing,
and one day I just kind of came out of
the gym was walking back over to my hoots we
called it where we slept, and I just hear oh
crap coming ran screamed like a girl.

Speaker 12 (01:01:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:01:24):
They fired six at us that day as a first
rocket attack we'd had that year. They managed to punch
a hole in the back of the defact or our
dining facility, which made it convenient for getting midnight snacks.
But other than that, that's the only one that actually
landed inside of our compound all year.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
So here's a weird question when you go through training
or you're going to any active theater, like do you
do they like do you get a pre warning of
what the missiles or what kind of rockets would sound like?
Or is that something you just have to learn, like
the way you.

Speaker 10 (01:01:55):
Did you just kind of have to learn. I don't
know if it was a good news or bad news
type of thing that they told you that you never
hear the one that kills you it's coming right. Actually
it doesn't make a sound, you can hear it. It
means it was a mys.

Speaker 1 (01:02:11):
Oh, okay, sure, it says. To ask about the profit truck.

Speaker 10 (01:02:18):
Oh, we had a Our fall was kind of interesting
and unique in the country. I mean, it wasn't a
very big place, but we were kind of in a
pretty strategic spot. So we actually had all three of
the intelligence assets, the human the human intelligence, the interrogators
and whatnot. The image intelligence with that was what I
did with a big thermal camera that could see for miles,

(01:02:41):
and then we had signals intelligence. Profit truck is a
humbe with an antenna on it, and when you'd broadcast
on like a radio or a CB or a walkie
talkies or anything, it would tell us what direction it's
coming from and about what the signal strength is. If plus,
we could listen in on it. So we had interpreters
that would work with us, what we call Cat three,
their American citizens. They've got top secret clearance and they

(01:03:03):
would listen in and tell us what they're saying. So
if there's anything that we need to know about pretty important,
you know, I'm passing on. I was sitting up there.
I hung out with those guys quite a bit. We're
sitting there one day, all of a sudden, we start
getting some radio chatter and our interpreter starts telling us
what they're saying, and like, uh, Jim Shad, Jim shed,

(01:03:24):
I'm going to go and check the thing in the road.
I'm like, I'm great, they put an ID in the road. Crap,
where the heck is this thing? He's like, no, no,
leave it there. I set it myself. It's good. No, No,
I'm pretty sure that the fuse is set wrong. Let
me go check it. No, no, leave it alone. You
full leave it alone in silence, like ten fifteen minutes.
All right, Well, I guess we better. You don't let

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the talk no, so they can kind of keep an
eye out for it. Next thing is here boom, look
out and across the desert and there's the big old
wallets dust and like, oh boy, sure enough, here comes
radio chatter. What happened to Jamel is what happened to Jammel?

Speaker 13 (01:04:00):
He was a fool.

Speaker 10 (01:04:00):
He's no longer with That was kind of the intelligence
level of the guys we were fighting.

Speaker 12 (01:04:07):
It was.

Speaker 10 (01:04:09):
It was kind of like Keystone Cops.

Speaker 1 (01:04:13):
Right. Uh, what about the attack on the Humbie.

Speaker 10 (01:04:19):
Uh, let's see, I'm trying to remember exactly what part
of the year it was.

Speaker 14 (01:04:23):
It was.

Speaker 10 (01:04:23):
I know it was late summer. We went out to
a tiny little village kind of up in the mountains,
and they were kind of an important asset for us
to keep on our side because they were the first ones,
you know, anybody coming across some of the lesser known
border crossings from Pakistan. They were one of the first
places they would make contact with. And went out there
to go do a humanitarian aid drop take on the

(01:04:44):
bags of rice and school supplies for the kids and
all this and that. And we're going up through the mountains.
I was riding a back seat for our FOB commander
and we were I think the third Humby back and
you go up and there's a lot of really show cutbacks,
and we've watched the lead Humby take the hard left

(01:05:04):
turn and there's large boulders lining the side of the
road at that particular corner, and they barely made it
around the corner. We just started hearing what the hell
is that? Next thing you see is all the guys running,
just ghost white and what happened?

Speaker 4 (01:05:21):
You know?

Speaker 10 (01:05:21):
We kind of crept up and looked around the Taliban
and somehow man should get themselves on a a Russian
anti aircraft gun, on those double barreled pomp Pom guns.
Apparently they got a little excited and open fire before
the Humby had come out from behind the rocks, but
it completely shredded the front engine compartment of this Humby.
They were able to bail out and run for cover.

(01:05:42):
But yeah, that was an interesting day because of course,
you know, we had to We couldn't leave that thing
up in the mountains, so we had to go trek
across the valley and up the hill and get ourselves
in a nice little firefight to get them away from
it and blow it up.

Speaker 1 (01:05:55):
Uh. I would imagine containers or we've seen at least
in videos, and of course in movies you've seen the
containers that stuff is stored in, and then you see
a lot of them in those type of settings. But
I would imagine having to save one is a pretty
common thing. But it says to ask you about saving one.

Speaker 10 (01:06:14):
Well, it wasn't so much saving it as much as
making sure nobody got their hands on it. Like I said,
I operated a thermal imaging system and we had you know,
hard drives and whatnot that were you know, the computers
attached to it that were classified. I had image is
from you know, various different operations we've done, so we
didn't want them to know that we could see them. Necessarily.

(01:06:36):
We had a bunch of extra equipment and they contact us said, hey,
you've got that extra container. You've got all those hard
drives and stuff. We want to get it out of there,
you know, just in case, you know, if a fighting
season starting to heat up, let's get it out of there.
Were like, all right, and no problem. So they made arrangements,
had a sho come down, hooked up to it, lifted
in the air, and they start flying north toward Boggeram

(01:06:57):
Air Base, and as we're watching it, they're probably about
seven eight miles out, and all of a sudden, the
Connic starts to swing back and forth and back and forth.
As you can imagine, having that much weight hanging from
the bottom of the helicopter swaying freely in the breeze
like that is not the best for its flight characteristics.
So the crew chief made the call, pulled the pin,

(01:07:18):
dropped the load right right there onto the desert floor.
They're like, ah, I'm like, well, I guess we'll have
to go out there. I'm like, no, sir, we can't
just leave it laying there. It's had classified materials. And
he's like, oh crap. So we had to real fast.
We do it all hands and everybody piling the hombies
and book it out across the desert and you know,
holding for leather, you know how you to eas be

(01:07:39):
damned and get to the stupid thing, make sure nobody
else got their hands on anything in there, and pop,
put it all on a pile and throw some thermite
grenades on it and burn it all up.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
I would imagine that's not an awesome moment when you
see it falling to the ground, knowing you've got to
go and protect it.

Speaker 10 (01:07:58):
Well, I mean, it wasn't my butt. It was God
get in trouble for it, So that wasn't It was
one of those things where all you could just do
is sit there and go ah, oh yeah, this.

Speaker 1 (01:08:08):
Is my life justin what do you do now?

Speaker 10 (01:08:12):
All right now? I actually just completed getting my certification
for armed security. I've been working for a contractor through
Miskogie Nation regarding the tribal complex here in Okmobe.

Speaker 1 (01:08:22):
So just like ground security and stuff like that.

Speaker 10 (01:08:25):
Yeah, right now, I've just been doing on a rover patrol.
But they're going to be moving me to the hospital
in Okmogie here pretty soon.

Speaker 1 (01:08:32):
Was it interesting to get security training after being trained
how to do what you did?

Speaker 10 (01:08:41):
Very similar, a little different in that, you know, it's
obviously dealing with you know, civilians, especially your you know
fellow Americans. You want to be a little more patient,
be a little little a little bit less eager to
escalate the force. Where there it's like hey stop, I
say stop.

Speaker 12 (01:09:00):
Bang.

Speaker 10 (01:09:01):
Yeah, it's a little bit faster escalation of force over there,
just because you know, phill head coming into the er
is a lot less likely to blow themselves up at
the front gates than the Taliban are.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
Yeah. No, I would imagine the rules of engagement are
a little different. But when you would, was there things
they go through and you went stupid.

Speaker 10 (01:09:21):
Oh in Afghanistan? Oh yeah, No, I.

Speaker 1 (01:09:23):
Mean the training, the training for security.

Speaker 10 (01:09:26):
Oh yeah. And it baffles me too because there's people
who can't pass the written parts of it. And I'm like,
this is the simplest and most common sense stuff I
think I've come across in any kind of professional certification ever.
And it's it's really really dumbfoundingly easy. And the fact
that more people aren't pursuing it because there's actually some

(01:09:46):
really good paying jobs is in and around all over
Green Country for armed in on armed security. I mean,
it's it's ridiculous.

Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
What's your biggest concern about doing armed security well?

Speaker 10 (01:09:59):
With you know, things are getting a little rough with
the whole fentanyl situation and whatnot. So we've got fairly frequent,
from what I'm told, frequent interactions with people that are
you know, drug seeking at the er. They're not the
most cooperative when you tell them they're not going to
get their fixed from you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:16):
So right, the people that aren't mentally, there are going
to be pretty challenging.

Speaker 10 (01:10:22):
Yeah, it's trying trying to reason with those who can't
be reasoned with.

Speaker 1 (01:10:27):
How is being home and being getting reacquainted with civilian life?
Are you still over there?

Speaker 10 (01:10:35):
Hey? Yes and no after being in eleven years. There's
parts of the military that will always be with me.
I have a profound lack of patience with stupidity and selfishness.
I am anal about being on time. I despise large crowds.
I don't like to be where I can't see people.

(01:10:56):
So there's things that stick with you forever.

Speaker 1 (01:10:59):
Yeah, uh, I can I can't. I'm sorry, I can't
imagine what that's like.

Speaker 10 (01:11:06):
It's a unique situation. There's parts of it that I
miss every day. You will never find another place where
you can give each other so much crap and we'll
call it casual racism, but it goes both ways. You know,

(01:11:26):
they're some of your best friends in the world, and
you'll give each other crap and it's just the most
ridiculous things and they give it right back, and everybody
knows it's only good fun. But you'll never meet another
bunch of people. I mean, you deep, I'll you know
wherever getting shot at, and know that the guy you
know five feet away from you, you've spoken two words for,
you know two in your entire life. You don't even

(01:11:48):
know his last name, but you know he will dive
on a grenade for you as much as you will
for him, just because you both sign the dotted line.
You're both there for the same reason and the story.
That's it. That's the brotherhood, you know, and that never
goes away, even now, you know, twelve years later after
I've been out, I still stay on Facebook with veterans

(01:12:12):
groups where we basically just share memes and just dumb shenanigans.

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
I was reading an article about trash talking and you
mentioned you said casual racism, which I think you're probably
being maybe not. It isn't always like that, but it's
it's a lot of trash talking towards each other. And
it said that trash talking, when it's not mean, it
doesn't come from a mean place, is a form of intimacy,
a way to connect with humans.

Speaker 10 (01:12:40):
Well not probably something I can discuss on the air
too much, But if you ever get a chance to
talk to a veteran, especially from like you know, we'll
say two thousand and one onwards. Ask them about Gate
Chicken and the barracks.

Speaker 1 (01:12:53):
See, I've had veterans say stuff like this to me before, Like, hey,
ask a veteran this, and I feel like I am
not qualified. I have not earned the right to ask
something like that.

Speaker 10 (01:13:06):
You have to understand the military is a bunch of
you know, eighteen to I mean, the oldest among us
in any kind of aligned unit is going to be
in their early thirties, and those are supposed to be
the responsible ones. You think about it, when you're in
your early thirties, where you mentally prepared to be in
charge of one hundred and some odd people with guns
and access to high explosives.

Speaker 1 (01:13:27):
That forty nine, I'm forty nine. I'm flabbergacid. They let
me be in charge of two.

Speaker 10 (01:13:32):
Yeah nine, being in charge I i mengine being in
charge of one hundreds some guys who are all basically
functional alcoholics. We've got those what kind of emotional issues,
childhood trauma or whatnot, And now they're going to give
them guns and you're supposed to make sure that they
shoot the right direction.

Speaker 1 (01:13:48):
Right, Hey, listen to me, Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:13:51):
Yeah, yeah. If you get a chance to check out
Fat Electrician on YouTube guys awesome. He explains things excellent.
Why you don't shoot the officers, why you don't shoot
at Doc. Those are the two most important things that Doc.
We love Doc because Doc is there to save us.
You don't shoot the officer because he's the only one
who cares about the Genium convention. Once he's off the table,
the gloves come off.

Speaker 1 (01:14:15):
This has been very interesting. Justin, I've enjoyed talking to
you man. Thanks for taking the time. Congratulations on completion,
for the certification that you just got to do security,
and thanks for your service. And I enjoyed talking with you.

Speaker 10 (01:14:28):
Yeah, not a problem anytime, all.

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
Right, justin, have a good day many Yeah, you too.
That's our listeners are awesome. Gotta take a break and
we'll be back.

Speaker 3 (01:14:36):
The Big Man Morning Show returns next. Elsa's Morning shown, kmod.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
Good morning. It's The Big nin Morning Show. Nine one,
eight four six, Oh, Kate m D. You can also
text BMMS and then what you want to say to
eight two, nine four five. Coming up at nine, Jeff
Finsley will join us. You got a question about divorce, custody, guardianship,
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(01:15:20):
the studio at nine. Get your question to us ahead
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BMMS and whatever that question is to eight two, nine
four five. I was surprised by this. It's the top
ten states for fishing. Oh, what do you think the
top ten states are? Like? Just name a state, lindsay, Minnestoa.

(01:15:41):
Technically the fishermen in the group, So name a state Minnesota.
Minnesota came in at seventh. Wow. I would have named Minnesota.
Two lots of lakes rivers, right, so that came in
number seven. Give me California. California not in the top ten? Really?

Speaker 2 (01:15:59):
Okay, lindsay Florida.

Speaker 1 (01:16:01):
Florida was number one, which that makes sense because of
the sea fishing. Yeah, but I would have not put that.
When I think of fishing, I don't think of seafishing
that is deep sea fishing. I see that as a
completely different category. But yes, number one. Gimme, Okay, Well,
where's Oklahoma land on that? Not in the top ten?
Damn it?

Speaker 7 (01:16:21):
Bass fishing would have been great for Oklahoma. Uh, So
let's go with Michigan number nine.

Speaker 1 (01:16:28):
Okay, Alabama not in the top ten. Really, yeah, I'm
just striking out all over the.

Speaker 7 (01:16:38):
Louisiana not in the top ten.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
Wow, Okay, let's go with Texas not in the top ten.

Speaker 7 (01:16:47):
Good, let's go upstate. Let's go New York.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
Not in the top ten. Okay, how about Oregon not
in the top ten? Damn uh.

Speaker 7 (01:17:05):
South Carolina not in the top ten.

Speaker 1 (01:17:08):
West Virginia not in the top ten.

Speaker 7 (01:17:12):
All right, Wisconsin.

Speaker 1 (01:17:15):
Number five? Okay, New Jersey, but like, have you even
lived up in that area? And I lived at group
in northeast Iowa, went to Minnesota a lot. I would
have never thought Wisconsin is a bigger place to fish
than Minnesota.

Speaker 7 (01:17:30):
Right, No, I wouldn't have either. I would have thought
Minnesota for sure, because they ten thousand lakes, and.

Speaker 1 (01:17:37):
I would have put Michigan way higher for people that
go out onto the lake to fish.

Speaker 2 (01:17:41):
Absolute.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
So it's very odd.

Speaker 7 (01:17:44):
But maybe because of the species, the different species of fish.

Speaker 1 (01:17:47):
Florida. Yeah, yeah, I'll go through them here. So number
ten Idaho, Okay, that's kind of sure. Stream stream fishing, right, okay,
sly fishing, Oh yeah, that.

Speaker 7 (01:18:00):
Mean okay, fly fishing forget about fly fishing.

Speaker 1 (01:18:05):
Yeah, let people take trips over to that area, right
to do that type of fishing. Number nine Michigan, number eight,
North Carolina number seven, Minnesota number six, Tennessee number five,
wiscont Thank you, I got you. Number five Wisconsin play
a game of horses. Number four Alaska. Oh yeah, right,

(01:18:27):
Alaska makes sense, that makes sense. Yeah, cod number three Colorado, Yes,
number two, number two Montana, Okay. And number one Florida.
Florida brings in twenty five million dollars in non resident

(01:18:48):
annual fishing license because they charge out the ass for
these charter trips. Man, when I went down there for
vacation this year, that was something I thought about doing.
Let's let's get a charter boat, right, have some deep
sea fish. Yeah, not even deep sea fishing. That would
be awesome. I'd love to catch marlin or you know
something like that. You know, but just you know, go

(01:19:11):
to pencil, right whatever whatever. You see these beautiful fish
that they have out there. And they were talking is
like minimum eight hundred dollars for like six hours, and
I'm like, oh, I'm good. But yeah, granted, they'll take
you out on the boat. They'll take you to the
special spots. They'll clean it for you. They do all
that work. Blah blah. See that's they did not say

(01:19:35):
that on the website, to be honest with you. But
I'm like, oh, man, sounds cool, but I don't have
eight hundred dollars to just you know, drop and go
fishing like that. Yeah, well, this is just for the license.
This isn't charters because even to do that, you'd have
to have a license.

Speaker 2 (01:19:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Yeah, so have an eight hundred dollars plus the license.
Sometimes they include it.

Speaker 7 (01:19:55):
Yeah yeah, a lot of times it is included.

Speaker 1 (01:19:58):
Uh oh, came in tenth. They bring in ten million dollars. Okay,
a non resident annual fishing license. But I was shocked
by those. They make sense now that I've said them,
all you go okay, yeah, sure, but not I would
have said the pretty much all the ones you guys said,
yeah right, because like Missouri is a big fishing state.

(01:20:22):
Apparently not apparently not Arkansas a big fishing state. I
would like to see like the full fifty list and
see where, you know, where they land on that. You know,
that's great for the top ten, but you know, where's
Oklahoma land on that fiftieth because we're dead last for
goddamn everything.

Speaker 7 (01:20:41):
But if it's non residential, yeah, true, todad.

Speaker 1 (01:20:44):
I mean, I guess you're right. You don't have a
lot of people flocking to Oklahoma to go, you know,
fish in the dirty ass Keystone Lake. I don't know.
We're you vacation in this year. We're going to Oklahoma.
We're gonna go fish like skiatuk.

Speaker 7 (01:21:05):
No, but you'll go get some stripers on like ten
killer I think, or.

Speaker 1 (01:21:10):
Yeah, yeah, this only goes to fifteen on the website.
So Oregon was fifteen, Joelogia fourteen, New Mexico really thirteen? Okay?
South Carolina twelve, Wyoming eleven. Okay, not even enough to

(01:21:30):
mention anything. No, no, we're not gonna board you with
the rest of this right. Oh wait, here's the here's
the fullest. How in the goddamn how am I supposed
to read that?

Speaker 2 (01:21:39):
That's tiny?

Speaker 1 (01:21:40):
Well, don't you have your trifocals on?

Speaker 10 (01:21:42):
Ear?

Speaker 2 (01:21:42):
Old up?

Speaker 1 (01:21:42):
I gotta get wait, I'm up for a prescription change,
So I gotta go way down on my progressives.

Speaker 2 (01:21:49):
Hold on, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:21:50):
Still far down. I gotta lift them up now. Thirty
one is Oklahoma thirty one. Huh yeah, okay, at least
we're not dead Last. Who do you think is last? Oh,
it has to be a place like New Jersey or
like Rhode Island. Nope, really, New Jersey was forty eight,
so you were a cluss. Rhode Island was forty seven.

Speaker 7 (01:22:13):
Kentucky.

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
I think Kentucky would be all right, thirty four okay, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah. California. No, California was damn twenty four. Okay, okay,
dead Last, dead Last, dead Last. All right, let's see here.
Vermont forty six. Okay, now we're getting somewhere, right, Just

(01:22:44):
name another stand around there YouTube come on, yeah right,
Maryland okay, good, thirty two, here's forty on. So forty
is New Hampshire, okay, number forty one, Nevada, number forty two,

(01:23:04):
Indiana huh indeed, number forty three, Kansas forty four was Massachusetts,
then Delaware, then Vermont, then Rhode Island, then New Jersey,
then Connecticut at forty nine and number fifty for the
least popular fishing travel destination in the United States is Hawaii. Wow,

(01:23:32):
people are fishing when they go there. They're too busy,
you know, roasting pigs and doing Luaule's. Is that what
it is? It's an island, You're surrounded by water.

Speaker 7 (01:23:41):
Did they not do charters? Maybe they get there and
they're like, oh, that'll be one thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (01:23:46):
Yeah, right, Oh no, if I do.

Speaker 7 (01:23:49):
This, then we can't afford to get back home.

Speaker 1 (01:23:52):
Right. Texas was twenty two? Just so you know, Okay,
I'm blown away. The Hawaii is dead last. I mean,
to be fair, I don't hear a lot of people
planting fishing trips true to Hawaii. True. Yeah, they go
for everything else.

Speaker 7 (01:24:08):
Because they don't bring it. They can't bring it back
with them probably or they don't want but it's a
long flights.

Speaker 1 (01:24:19):
Yeah, could also eat it there, you could.

Speaker 2 (01:24:23):
You could just eat it there.

Speaker 7 (01:24:25):
Yeah. They'd rather learn how to surf. They want to
swim with the dolphins there, not go catch anything.

Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
But to be fair, and I don't know Diddley's squat
about Hawaii except for the fact that there's three things
that I know you can get there without any problems,
and one of them is pineapple, which they don't like. Right,
the locals don't like two sugar and three spam.

Speaker 2 (01:24:51):
Lots of spam.

Speaker 1 (01:24:52):
Lots and lots of spam. What's that. There's that new
chain restaurant that's been popping up around town. They just
put one in a wasso in Hawaiian b there's something
like that, and it's like pokey bowls, but like tuna
and salmon. I'm sorry, tuna and spam. Lots of tuna,
lots of spam. So what I'm getting at is, I
don't know what is known like Florida Marlin, right right,

(01:25:17):
I don't know what fish why he's known for. Uh,
that's a good question. Yeah, So to me, it doesn't
feel like we mentioned Idaho and Wyoming, Montana stream fishing. Okay,
you're mahi mahi. Sure, I don't know. I didn't think
of that. Yeah, that's that's what. That's what it's known for.

(01:25:38):
Not a lot of mahi mahi enthusiasts that I know,
Mahi mahi and the aki tuna and a moral in
actually like for a lot fish. I mean, well, it's
on the list of fish you can get there. It
just says fish to eat in Hawaii. Okay, sure, But
they might not.

Speaker 7 (01:25:57):
Have a lot of charter boats in Hawaii because everything
is so expensive there, including gasoline, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:26:03):
Yeah, but they still have cars, right, they still have planes, like,
they still have things happening just because it's expensive. Yeah,
all right, we got to take a break. We'll be back.
He tell us this morning show, Good morning, It's the

(01:26:34):
big Man Morning Show. Nine one, eight four six, oh
kmod can also text bmmss and then what you want
to say to eight two nine four five. So this
is pretty crazy. I saw a lot of these pictures
pop up over the weekend. Morgan wall And played at
Arrowhead Stadium in Kansas City. And while he he came
out with Patrick Mahomes, Chris Jones, and Travis Kelcey wearing

(01:26:56):
a Chiefs jersey, right, and like it was excited whatever,
like whatever, we're balling, huge deal, right, But the show
was delayed like forty minutes because somebody said that they
were going to shoot Travis Kelcey and Patrick Mahomes. Oh what,
oh good. So it's happened on Friday night, right, And

(01:27:18):
according to police, the concert was delayed because the man
threatened to shoot Mahomes and Kelsey on social media. The
man was detained before the concert was allowed to go forward. So,
according to the Prosecutor's offices, in Jackscatty, Missouri, and Illinois
man had been charged with a felony after he threatened
on social media to shoot two individuals at a concert

(01:27:39):
at Arrowhead on Friday night. According to court records, police
detectives and intelligence analysts in the Kansas City Fusion Center,
Okay on Friday, at Arrowhead Stadium, officers were monitoring threats
at a planned concert when they observed on Twitter a
threat against two individuals who were members of the Chiefs
organization and were present at the event. The defendant confirmed

(01:28:01):
to police where he was located at Arrowhead. The concert
was delayed forty minutes while he was located. After being arrested,
the man now faces a felony for making a terrorist
terrorist threat.

Speaker 7 (01:28:12):
Wow, how dumb to even say where you are? Like, right,
he said where he's at in the in the stadium.

Speaker 1 (01:28:22):
I mean if they contacted him, like, yo, we want
to talk to you. Come on, I'm in row three,
section scene. I'm totally naming the like seat two seat,
two rows in front of me, the least suspecting mofo. Yeah,
so I can be like Also, I'm not going on
social media. Yeah, I don't even want to go on

(01:28:44):
social media and say I like cheese fries. Much less
to go on social media and say I want to
shoot Patrick Mahomes. And Taylor's Swift's boyfriend. He doesn't even
have a name anymore. It's just Taylor Swift's boy.

Speaker 7 (01:29:01):
His purse ca carrier, her perse carrier.

Speaker 1 (01:29:04):
I'll be a purse carrier. I don't care. Yeah, a
big deal. I'm very secure in my masculinity that holding
a purse does not change anything for me, especially if
it's a it's got a click belt loop that I
can go around my waist. I'm completely fine with it.
Oh okay, yeah, it's immerse right. And then it was

(01:29:26):
over the weekend that apparently someone was at the Morgan
wall In concert and uh, people were in Travis Kelsey
parently has a suite, and they were in his suite
and there's a picture of Taylor Swift in his suite,
and people were like they must have gotten married because
there's this picture of her in his suite. A couple
of things that are really important to understand. One, he

(01:29:46):
does not excuse me spend time in his suite. He's
playing football. Additionally, a photo of an individual does not
necessarily guarantee two people have taken vows with each other. No,
but people love to jump to that. And thirdly, it
was a picture from her era's tour poster.

Speaker 7 (01:30:08):
Big deal.

Speaker 1 (01:30:09):
Also not a thing like surely he's got a better
photo of her. It's just say, you know, he was
decorating the suite for himself and he's like, I gotta
put a photo up of her, and he's like, oh,
just use the poster from her tour, right, the same
one my children have in their room from going to
see the movie performance of Aras tour. It makes no

(01:30:30):
sense at all, and people are like, oh, they must
have gotten married. Huh No, the threshold we can ask, Jeff,
But I don't think a photo creates the illusion that
you've gotten married at all. I could be wrong. Now,
maybe them together arm in arm, maybe doubtful, but more

(01:30:50):
so than just this individual photo of her right. Otherwise
they could have his mugshot fro when he got arrested
for you know, weed in college. Right.

Speaker 7 (01:31:10):
Tulsa catcher Dalton Rushing is currently rated the top prospect
in the minor league system of the Los Angeles Dodgers.
In the past two weeks, he has looked every bit
the part of the number one prospect. Sunday afternoon at
one Oakfield, Rushing continued to rese a hot streak by
hitting two home runs to lead the Tulsa Drillers to
a five to three victory over the first place Springfield Cardinals.

(01:31:33):
Rushing's first homer was a two run shot in the
second inning. He followed that up with a solo blast
in the sixth. Despite Rushing's big day, the victory was
not easy. The Drillers had to survive several late inning
threats from the Cardinals to claim the win. The result
gave the two teams a split of their six game series.
The Drillers will have an off day to day before

(01:31:54):
opening a six game series in North Little Rock with
the Arkansas Travelers tomorrow. And no metal for Simone Biles
on the balance beam this time. The American gymnastics star
slipped and fell off the apparatus at the end of
her acrobatic series during the Paris Game's Beam finals this morning,
denying her an opportunity to add to the bronze she

(01:32:18):
won on the event at the twenty sixteen and twenty
twenty Games. Wearing a blue and white leotard featuring over
five thousand crystals. Biles was more than halfway through her
set when she couldn't quite keep her balance. The twenty
seven year old hopped off the beam and onto the
mat while thousands inside a packed Bercy arena, including NFL

(01:32:39):
great Tom Brady, led out an audible oh. Biles received
a score of thirteen point one zero zero, tied with
US teammate Sunny Lee for fourth. There was an extended
wait for score to post. At one point, Biles rolled
her eyes in seeming annoyance, knowing she wasn't going to
finish on the metal stand. Alice Diamato of Italy took

(01:33:02):
the gold with a score of fourteen point three sixty six.
Zoo zek Kine of China earned silver with a fourteen
point one zero zero, just ahead of bronze medalist Manila
Esposito of Italy. Italy, which won silver behind the US
and the team competition, had never medaled on beam before,
so Bios finished in a tie for fifth with Lee,

(01:33:26):
whose hopes for a gold on beam she's long coveted
ended in the middle of her routine when she fell
during the end of her acro series. Just like bios
did a few minutes later. The twenty one year old
league will still leave pairs with three medals, just months
after she was bedridden while trying to navigate a pair
of chronic kidney related diseases. And while Lee's Olympics are over,

(01:33:48):
Biles is also in the floor final later today, an
event where she's never lost a major international competition, including
a gold in Rio de Janeiro eight years ago. And
that's your Balls to the Wall Sports. I'm Lindsay in
ninety seven.

Speaker 1 (01:34:02):
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And then what you want to say to eight two
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Speaker 1 (01:34:52):
Good morning Gimpie, Good morning Corwin. We got Pattio Barty
coming up on Friday, Stumbling Monkey ninety first and Yale
three dollars mill of lights and you can sign up.
We're going to be given away the Miller lte Petti
party brings. Joins in the studio is Jeff Hensley from
Hensley Associate. It's good morning, Jeff Heny.

Speaker 2 (01:35:08):
Good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:35:08):
Jeff's here to answer your questions about family law, custody, guardianship,
name change, adult guardianships, just the name of the few
of the areas of family law that he can help with.
If you have a question nine one, eight four to six, Oh,
KMOD is a way to get that in via phone
or you can email it show at kmod dot com,
or you can text it BMMS and whatever that question
is to eight two, nine four five some one came in.

(01:35:29):
It's a little out but you can definitely give advice
on it. That says, can you have representation at a
small at small claims? And second, is it possible to
put a lean on SS disability and have a potential
sediment redirected to me?

Speaker 14 (01:35:42):
So small claims? Absolutely?

Speaker 9 (01:35:44):
I mean I've if you've got small claims issues, give
me a call. I've done a number of those actually,
so in addition to what we normally do. But yeah,
absolutely can have representation. In fact, the courts kind of
prefer it interest really well, I mean think about it.
Any judge in any situation, doesn't matter if small claims
or otherwise, would much rather deal with attorneys that know
the law and no offense to anybody's doing pro se.

(01:36:05):
I'm I'm not knocking that. I'm merely saying that things
go much smoother in a courtroom, no matter what courtroom
it is, if you are represented by attorneys as opposed
to trying to represent yourselves, because again, you know, whatever
you guys do for a living, I would be clueless,
right because I don't do that for a living, and
you would just like you'd be clueless about what we
do for a living. So yeah, so that's about representation.

(01:36:27):
And as far as the lean is concerned, you know,
you can't put a lien on the SSI itself. I
mean you can't do that, but you can put bank
liens and things like that, bank levies and things like that,
So there are options for getting judgments, and I mean
you can do bank levies, you can do that income
so you can do where you basically live either paycheck.

(01:36:51):
We call them income assignents for child.

Speaker 1 (01:36:52):
Support and it's also called garnishments.

Speaker 14 (01:36:54):
Thank you. I don't know why that's stuck on my
head this morning.

Speaker 9 (01:36:57):
Yeah, garnishments, there's things like that too, be able to
collect on the actual judgments itself.

Speaker 1 (01:37:03):
Is that. Can anybody go and get a lean or
a levee? Yeah? And do you have to go through
the courts?

Speaker 2 (01:37:08):
Well you can.

Speaker 9 (01:37:10):
Anybody can technically get it, but you've got to have
the right documents.

Speaker 14 (01:37:14):
They've got to be filled out correctly, they have to
be signed.

Speaker 9 (01:37:16):
I mean there's all sorts of different ends and outs
of the.

Speaker 14 (01:37:19):
Documents themselves that have to be correct.

Speaker 9 (01:37:21):
Otherwise the people don't have to do anything with it
because it's incorrect.

Speaker 14 (01:37:25):
So if you want it correct, gifts a call. We
can help you out with that.

Speaker 1 (01:37:27):
Jeff Finsley's here from Hensley and Associates. If you have
a question, get it over to us nine one eight
four six oh kmod or you can text it BMMS
and whatever that is to eight two nine four five.
This one says I've had my girl since damn near
day one. I'm worried that my baby mama is trying
to get custody of them. She's not fit to raise them.
But I am not on the birth certificates. Can I

(01:37:48):
get emergency custody if she tries to take the girls.

Speaker 9 (01:37:52):
Well, you can, but you're gonna obviously one of the well,
one of the things you're going to run into is
if you're not on the birth certificates.

Speaker 14 (01:37:59):
Okay, that's kind of an issue.

Speaker 9 (01:38:01):
One of the things is is we would have to
follow a paternity action and claim, you know, make the
claim that you are the presumed father of the children,
you know, and so then we can get emergency custody
through that route. Obviously, but yeah, I mean it can
definitely be done. If she's unfit, then obviously, I mean
the chances of her coming to get them would probably

(01:38:22):
be slim.

Speaker 14 (01:38:22):
But if she does, then give us a call.

Speaker 9 (01:38:24):
We can follow paternity in emergency custody to be able
to protect that, and then of course we would get
you know, get your paternity and of course get your
name on the birth certificate and all those wonderful things
that you would want.

Speaker 2 (01:38:33):
To have done.

Speaker 1 (01:38:34):
Some people might be afraid to I'll use the term
clean up the mess because they're afraid maybe like, oh,
they're going to take them from me anyway, or what
if they're not my kids and they take them from me.

Speaker 9 (01:38:43):
Well, the only way that you would take me, the
only way it would be not your kids. I guess
is if for example, we 't me back up. A
lot of times we don't do DNA tests because the
parties are not disputing who the father is. Okay, the
parties agree that so and so is the dad. No
one's disputing that, all right, So we don't do a
DNA test typically, all right on those situations. And there
are other situations going. You know, I don't know if

(01:39:05):
I'm dad or not. I have a relationship with this kid,
but I don't know if I'm dad or not, and
I want to check, you know.

Speaker 14 (01:39:09):
See if that's the case.

Speaker 9 (01:39:10):
So we do do paternity tests and find out, you know,
are you dad or you're not dad. If you are dad,
then we move forward on the paternity action. If you're not,
then you have a choice at that point.

Speaker 14 (01:39:19):
You know. Most of the times we just in the
action and move on.

Speaker 1 (01:39:22):
So, because I know people that have not gone down
the road of name changes or went after child support
or wanted to go after visitation because they're afraid it
stirs the pot.

Speaker 9 (01:39:33):
Anytime you file any any action in court, no matter
what it is. It's always going to quote stir the
stir the pot. But that's a risk that you have
to make a calculated risk on that. I mean, you
have to make a decision and say, you know, I
love my kids, I've had my relationship with them this
whole time. Is it worth stirring the pot to be
able to protect them from mom who's unfit, who could

(01:39:53):
take them and next thing I know, they're in a
drug house or they're being abused or molested or something
of that nature. So it's it's a decision you have
to make, but a lot of times it's worth it
because you want to take care of those kids that
you love and respect and have a relationship with.

Speaker 1 (01:40:08):
In regards to that email, if they if his nightmare
occurs where she shows up and wants the kids and
he's not on the birth certificate, he has.

Speaker 9 (01:40:16):
To hand him over, especially if she shows up with cops,
because one of the things that she can do is
go get rid of assistance from the courts that said, hey,
he won't turn the kids over and I'm legally mom
under Title ten, sub section seventy seven hundred. You know
we've talked about this. If you go to the very
last statute. In that section, it says, and I paraphrase,
mom's got soul custody till dad does something about it
with the court.

Speaker 14 (01:40:37):
So if she shows up or the cops show up,
especially of.

Speaker 9 (01:40:40):
The cops, and they've got a rid of assistance from
the court, you got to turn them over. You don't
have a choice if you've not already gone out and
followed for emergency or something else.

Speaker 1 (01:40:48):
Because if they've had a child out of wedlock and
he's not on the ber certificate, he may be doing
the right thing correct, but by the law, he's not
following it correct.

Speaker 9 (01:40:56):
And that's the way it's been since November one, twenty eleven.
I'll never forget, and that law changed because the lot
of us for like, are you kidding me? Because prior
to that it had been something completely different. But that's
the law we've been living under for the last almost
thirteen years now so and it's not been challenged or
turned overturned or anything.

Speaker 14 (01:41:14):
So there we have it.

Speaker 9 (01:41:16):
Guys, if you've got a baby out there with somebody
and you're not on the birth certificate and you're not married,
and all that gives a call we can help get
up that praternity.

Speaker 7 (01:41:24):
Go what if it's a baby with someone and they're
not married, he's on the birth certificate and he lives
in another state, does he have rights to see the baby?

Speaker 9 (01:41:35):
No, cause it goes under the UCCGAE or the uniform
child custody jurisdiction X. So that's the big long acronym
and big lung wording that says defines the home state
of the child. So where the child is located, whatever
the home state is, that's the law that we have
to follow for that state. So if the child is
an Oklahoma resident, then we have to follow under Oklahoma laws. Now,

(01:41:56):
if you're an Oklahoma dad and the child is living
in you were talking about Minnesota earlier, right at the
Land of ten Thousand Lakes, right, you know, if they
live in Minnesota, now you're under the jurisdiction of Minnesota
whatever their law is on paternity, which I have no clues,
so don't ask. But whatever state the child is a
resident of, that's the law that has to be followed.

(01:42:16):
So if it's an Oklahoma child, Oklahoma law.

Speaker 14 (01:42:19):
If it's a Texas child, Texas law, things like that.

Speaker 1 (01:42:21):
So circling back because somebody had a question about the
lean What about mechanic cleans? If I have a customer
not pay, how long till I can take them to court?

Speaker 14 (01:42:30):
Well, I mean, if they're not paying, I mean you
have to decide.

Speaker 9 (01:42:33):
But most of the ones that I know who file
mechanics leens and things like that, it usually some will
give them thirty sixty ninety days.

Speaker 14 (01:42:40):
I mean, it really just depends on what your policy is.

Speaker 9 (01:42:43):
I mean, remember anytime you file in small claims for
mechanics sleens and things of that nature.

Speaker 14 (01:42:47):
I mean, remember there's always fees involved with that.

Speaker 9 (01:42:50):
So a lot of times people wait just to see
if they can get the money out of the person
so they don't have to file the processing fee or
filing fee or whatever it is. But you know, there's
no legal requirement that I'm aware of as far as
hollowing it takes to file a mechanics lead. Uh, just
really depends on the policy of your shop.

Speaker 1 (01:43:09):
Jeff Finsley's joined us from Hensley In Associates. If you
have a question about family law, he can answer it.
Nine one eight four six oh k m O D.
Teresa is on hold high Teresa, how are you good? Good?
What's your question? For Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 15 (01:43:24):
And like I was telling, it may not even pertain
to you. I mean this session. But I have an
adult child and he is an Indian and his dad
is Indian. But I purposely left him off there, you know,
when we were born and I was very young. But
now that we've done a fraternity that the Indians require,

(01:43:46):
I guess you know, a fraternity but he has to
be court ordered. Is this something that I can do alone?

Speaker 1 (01:43:54):
Are you you're trying to have.

Speaker 14 (01:43:55):
So you're trying to get a c you're trying to
get a cd IV card? Correct?

Speaker 15 (01:44:00):
Yes?

Speaker 14 (01:44:01):
All right? And what tribe is in.

Speaker 15 (01:44:05):
Cherokee?

Speaker 9 (01:44:05):
Okay, so most tribes, including the Cherokees require proof of
paternity as well as you've got to be on the
birth certificate. Whoever has the genetic bloodline for the native
blood has to be on the birth certificate. So if
you know, you do a paternity test and he's going
to have to be on that birth certificate, to a
paternity test alone is not going to be enough to

(01:44:27):
show them the bloodline. He's going to have to be
on the paternity or excuse me, it's gonna have to
be on the birth certificate as well. At least that's
been always been my understanding of the Cherokees and the
Creeks as they're requiring that. So I know that the
Cherokees have kind of cracked down a little bit on
proof of being native to be able to I think.

Speaker 15 (01:44:46):
They won't accept just the paternity that we did, that
we pay for.

Speaker 13 (01:44:51):
They want it to be court.

Speaker 9 (01:44:53):
Ordered, right, so right, you have to have a paternity
action showing that they are legally dead.

Speaker 14 (01:45:00):
That is correct.

Speaker 9 (01:45:01):
And if you give your name and number to GIMPI,
I will give you a call and we can talk
about how to get that done.

Speaker 14 (01:45:06):
And because you've also because.

Speaker 9 (01:45:08):
Part of that pattern, just understand, part of that court
order paternity issue is getting the name on the birth
certificate as well, so that that's part of that as well.

Speaker 14 (01:45:16):
So that's all part and parcel. It all goes together.
So if you give your name number to Gimpy, I'll
give you a holler.

Speaker 15 (01:45:21):
Right, thank you?

Speaker 1 (01:45:22):
All right, hang on the line. Let's let's sit that
just for a second. Because she did, she said they
did a paternity. But there is you, and you've mentioned
this before. You can't just go to Walgreens and buy
a paternity and expect that.

Speaker 9 (01:45:32):
To work, right, And you can't just you can't just
go to Pimat or whoever in town does paternity exams
and you know, to get a sheet that says you're,
you know, ninety nine point nine percent dat Okay, you
can't do that either. There has to be an actual
order from the court as well as name on the
ber certificate, all that kind of stuff. Again, the tribes
are starting to and they've always kind of been this way,

(01:45:55):
but you know, they want to protect their people, they
want to protect their heritage, and that's totally awesome, totally great,
And of course they want to make sure that if
you're claiming to be part of a tribe, that you
are actually part of the tribe. So and of course
there's percentage blood percentages that they're requirements of and all
that too.

Speaker 1 (01:46:12):
And they trust a court ordered paternity more than they
trust the one you buy down the.

Speaker 14 (01:46:16):
Street, right exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:46:18):
Natasha is on Natasha's got a question for Jeff Finsley. Jeff,
go ahead, Natasha your home with Jeff Finsley.

Speaker 16 (01:46:26):
All right, Yeah, I am trying to get my birth
certificate for my little girl. I have last October and
that I am still married in the state of Kansas,
and I'm running into a lot of problems where they
want a court order to have him removed from the
birth certificate when I had requested at delivery that he

(01:46:47):
never be put on.

Speaker 17 (01:46:49):
So I am just struggling. How do I get a
court order to do what they're asking? Do I have
to do some kind of paternity testing to prove that
he's not the father? If I do the divorce, will
that make it any simpler?

Speaker 2 (01:47:04):
Okay?

Speaker 16 (01:47:04):
So it just seems like I'm running into a lot
of problems.

Speaker 14 (01:47:06):
So a couple of questions.

Speaker 9 (01:47:07):
So the child was born here in Oklahoma, correct, yes, okay,
and then you're still married out of Kansas, and the
question and they put his name on there because that's
Oklahoma law. I mean, if you're married, you know that individuals,
even if they're not biological dad, they go on the burst.

Speaker 1 (01:47:22):
So she never had a vote because when they come
and talked about the burst of getting she was like,
I don't want his name on it. The person filed
the four law they have to follow, right.

Speaker 14 (01:47:29):
That's the requirement.

Speaker 9 (01:47:29):
So with that being said, to answer your question, uh,
there's a couple of ways to different to do it.

Speaker 14 (01:47:35):
I mean, there's the divorce, that's one way to do it.

Speaker 9 (01:47:38):
The other way is is that the husband needs to
file a denial of paternity and bio dad needs to
step up and file an acknowledgment of paternity.

Speaker 14 (01:47:49):
That is the other way to do it as well.
So you've got a couple options, if you get I
think that's.

Speaker 16 (01:47:54):
What makes my situation so difficult is because I am
not acknowledged anybody. And so they've said that they need
a core order to leave the birth certificate blank because.

Speaker 14 (01:48:08):
Time out, Why are you wanting to not Why don't
you want to acknowledge anybody?

Speaker 17 (01:48:13):
She's kind of I guess, just a simple way to
put it.

Speaker 16 (01:48:16):
She was a child born of trauma, but there's not
a father present U and that I want to involve or.

Speaker 14 (01:48:24):
Include understood, understand. I just always ask.

Speaker 1 (01:48:27):
So I think that's an important point.

Speaker 9 (01:48:28):
It is an important point, and that's why I ask,
because you know, sometimes it's that issue. So you know,
I think the the easiest thing is going to be
the divorce. I mean, and you put in there that
while the child is born during the marriage, the child
is not a product of the marriage.

Speaker 14 (01:48:42):
And so we do it that way.

Speaker 9 (01:48:43):
So again, gave your number number to GIMPI and I
will give you a call and we'll talk about how
to get that going for you.

Speaker 17 (01:48:49):
That would be awesome.

Speaker 16 (01:48:50):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:48:50):
Hang a line there, Natasha. Uh, not a common thing.
People come to the state have a child, unfamiliar with
that law. They think maybe they're running away from somebody
or trying to get away from a bad situation.

Speaker 9 (01:49:01):
But it's pretty standard in every every state. I mean,
if you're still if you're still married to somebody, most
states require that that individual's name, that that married person's
name be put on the birth certificate.

Speaker 1 (01:49:10):
So uh text came in. If a woman refuses to
put the dad on the birth certificate, why should the
dad be held liable? She is sending a message that
she is going going to do it on her own.

Speaker 9 (01:49:23):
Because she's not going to do it on her own,
you know why, Because she's going to go file for
sooner care. She's going to go file for state assistants,
at which point the state says, she's going to say
this instance, we're going to find somebody who's going to
pay for it. Guess what, dad we're coming after you.
I mean, that's the basic, simple truth of it is
is that while while I don't disagree with the with

(01:49:45):
the listener's text at all in any way, shape or form,
I don't disagree with it, the reality of it is
is that most of the time those people end up
going and filing for state assistance, sooner care, wick tan
f all that kind of stuff. With that being said,
if they go after state assistance in some way, they
come after the biodad because biodad's some one that's gonna

(01:50:07):
have to pay for it, because they're trying to lighten
the burden on the taxpayer, and therefore they're starting to
really crack down on payments on sooner care and all
that kind of stuff.

Speaker 14 (01:50:17):
So that's the reality of it.

Speaker 7 (01:50:19):
And in Oklahoma, even if biodad doesn't pay, he still
has rights to see the child.

Speaker 9 (01:50:26):
No he doesn't that not until he files with the
court and says I am dad, and I want to
be found to be legally dad so that I have
rights to see. Now that this is out of wedlock, okay,
we're not. Marriage is different. I mean, if a child's
born during the marriage, and just like the previous caller. Okay,
if the child's born during Even if the child is

(01:50:46):
born during the marriage and is not a product of
the marriage, the husband's still on.

Speaker 14 (01:50:51):
The hook legally for the kid. So but out of wedlock. Yeah,
I mean, that's just how it works. Unfortunately, that's just
the way the laws are.

Speaker 1 (01:51:00):
Jeff Finsleys join us from Hensley and Associates. Matthew's been waiting, Matthew,
what's your question for? Jeff Finsley.

Speaker 12 (01:51:07):
I was wondering, is there any way to get like
child support services or something to help with proving fraternity
for a child without having to really go through the
courts or anything like that.

Speaker 9 (01:51:23):
The only way you get that done is if you
open a child support enforcement case, and that could be okay,
that's a collection case. So what that means is is
if you're wanting to right, first of all, I guess
is do you have the child or does the mom
have the child or what to kind of give us
some background what's going on.

Speaker 13 (01:51:41):
The mom has the child most of the time. Right now,
she's not letting me see her. I'm trying.

Speaker 14 (01:51:48):
And he's gone.

Speaker 13 (01:51:51):
And i'd like to I'd like to suit your money
right now for that so I don't know if there
was any way to try to can force that with
you know, trying to say that I would like to
have her, and I'm trying to have her and i'd
like to be a parent.

Speaker 9 (01:52:07):
I would like to d So DHS has no control
over any of that. All DHS does is collect money.

Speaker 2 (01:52:13):
That's all they do.

Speaker 9 (01:52:14):
Right, So if you want to have visitation and the
things that you're talking about, we're gonna have to file
a paternity action in court.

Speaker 14 (01:52:20):
That's the only way to get what you want.

Speaker 9 (01:52:22):
Period, outside of you agree, outside of the two of
you agreeing, so to give your name a number to gimpe.

Speaker 14 (01:52:28):
I'll give you a holler. We can talk more about that.

Speaker 10 (01:52:30):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:52:31):
All right, hay online there you say that every time
that they only collect money.

Speaker 14 (01:52:38):
That's all they care about.

Speaker 2 (01:52:39):
All they do.

Speaker 9 (01:52:39):
All they care about is money all they care. That
sounds terrible, right and all they but the reality is
that's what they do.

Speaker 14 (01:52:44):
They collect money.

Speaker 9 (01:52:45):
They make sure that the state gets paid back for
Sooner Care and things like that.

Speaker 14 (01:52:48):
They make sure that the custodiopearans get paid. That's it.

Speaker 9 (01:52:51):
All they do is collect money. Now they can adjudicate
somebody dad. They can legally find somebody to be dad,
but they can't do anything at all with custody, your visitation.
Those issues alone are reserve for the district court, at
which point that's where we have to follow a paternity
action and say, look, DHS is already determined paternity, but
we now need to determine visitation in custody.

Speaker 1 (01:53:11):
Last one here, Josh is waiting. Josh, what's your question
for Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 18 (01:53:16):
Yeah, So, I'm got a business partner that I'm fifty
to fifty percent in the business, is abandoned his roles
completely and is no longer part of the business physically
at all. He's not president, not there, not anything, not
to be contacted or anything. And I want to see

(01:53:38):
what actions I can take to get the sole custody,
like sole ownership of the company.

Speaker 1 (01:53:45):
Well is it?

Speaker 14 (01:53:46):
Is it an LLC? What is it?

Speaker 18 (01:53:48):
It's all yea.

Speaker 9 (01:53:49):
Yeah, and we're gonna have to We're gonna have to
dissolve the LLC and then put it, you know, start
over a brand new LLC with you as the sole member.

Speaker 18 (01:53:59):
So okay, because change anything when you have a business
loan for equipment.

Speaker 9 (01:54:06):
There's a way to I mean basically, there's a way
to communicate to them, say, look, one of the members
is left. We're dissolving the LLC only because we need
to for tax purposes and otherwise so that we need
to put it in my name only. So there's ways
to handle it for sure, absolutely and will not affect
the loan. So give me a call or actually give
me your name number to GIMPI and I will give
you a call and we can talk about how to

(01:54:27):
make that happen for you.

Speaker 1 (01:54:29):
Okay, that sounds great, all right, hang on the line there.
And just an example, you guys do family lowed Hensling
Associates six nine two, but you guys practice in other
areas of law as well.

Speaker 9 (01:54:40):
Exactly so through our PROHUSCA office, and of course I
dabble in a few things too through the PAHSCA office.
It's the Shoemake Law Firm up there. Yes it's a
different name, but it is our firm. We just bought
it from an attorney that retired. So but that being said,
give them a call Shoemaker Law Firm. If you've got
anything in addition to family law, give.

Speaker 14 (01:54:57):
Them a call.

Speaker 9 (01:54:58):
So if you've got criminal case of any sort, I
don't care if it's as simple as this beaning ticket,
all the way up to murder one, give them a call.
If you've got some sort of you know, if you've
been injured in a car wreck, if you've been injured
by somebody in the medical field, or if you've got
a contract issue, or you know, the baby Bimmer generations
coming through and starting to die off. So if you've
got a probate issue, if you've got a will or

(01:55:20):
a trust that is tied up in corteror you need
help with the will or a trust, please give them
a call. So anything, in addition to Famiela, please give
us a call.

Speaker 14 (01:55:27):
We'd love to help you with it.

Speaker 1 (01:55:29):
Five six nine two for Hensley Associates five six nine
mentioned kmod get a free consultation over the phone. Nine
nine eight five six nine two for Hensley Associates, Jeff,
thanks for joining us. I have a great date, take
a break and we'll be back.

Speaker 3 (01:55:44):
Tell USA's Morning show The Big Man Boarding Show. The
Assault continues next ninety seven to five AMoD.

Speaker 1 (01:56:04):
Good morning, It's the Big nd Morning Show. Nine one
eight four six kmod.

Speaker 8 (01:56:12):
I get rarely surprised by anything anymore, just because the
things we've talked about on the show and seeing that
you're just like, hey, yeah, sure, yeah, so this is
kind of fun.

Speaker 1 (01:56:21):
Is are these real books? It's a simple yes or
no game. Okay, all right, first one, fashion cats? Is
that a book? Yes or no? Yes? Apparently this is
a book about fashionable cats man, because why not? Bomb

(01:56:46):
Proofing your Home? Is this a book? Yes, I'm gonna
say no, this is bomb proof. You're hurt. Sorry, let
me make sure I read that right. Sorry, bomb Proof
your Horse? I did read that wrong. Oh do you

(01:57:09):
think that's a book?

Speaker 7 (01:57:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:57:12):
I'm changing my answer, yes, because it's so absurd. Bomb
Proof your Horse teach your horse to be confident, obedient,
and safe no matter what you encounter. It's four and
a half. One hundred and twenty two people have bought
this book. Huh wow, Well you gotta have something to
wa Yes, four and a half, four and a half stars. Hmm,

(01:57:35):
that's a pretty good book. Who cares about elderly people?
Is that a book?

Speaker 2 (01:57:40):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:57:41):
Yes? Yes, that that that is a book. This appears
to be a children's book. Only eight people, oh have
bought this book?

Speaker 7 (01:57:55):
You're saying only eight people care about elderly?

Speaker 1 (01:57:58):
Does God ever speak through cats? Uh, lindsay, is that
a book? No? Yes, I mean we've already illustrated cats
are fashionable? Why can't God speak to you? It is
a book? Does God ever Speak through cats? A paperback
book sixty three four point six star rating on the

(01:58:19):
old Amazon. Sure, how about this one, How to Disappear
Completely and Never be found?

Speaker 2 (01:58:30):
Yep?

Speaker 1 (01:58:32):
Sure, yes, sounds like legit book. I totally expect that
to be a book that makes sense as a book,
and it is a book. This looks like a fiction story.
How to survive a garden gnome attack.

Speaker 2 (01:58:49):
That's funny.

Speaker 7 (01:58:51):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (01:58:51):
Yeah, no, oh yeah, no, this is a book. Twelve
or twelve hundred ratings four point seven stars. This is
how to survive a garden home attack. Defend yourself when
the lawn warrior strike parentheses and they will, Oh God,
person speaks from experience. Yeah yeah. It's supposed to be

(01:59:15):
kind of a take on self help and the silliness.
Tell it to the judge and his name is Greg.
Is that a book?

Speaker 2 (01:59:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:59:27):
No, no, that is not a book, but feels like
it should be. Yeah. That of the ones we've read.
I'm like, okay, sure, a judge advice book, and as
it happens, your Honor Greg right, how to Teach Physics
to your dog?

Speaker 2 (01:59:42):
Oh boy, Yeah, yeah, sounds like a book.

Speaker 1 (01:59:46):
Technically, the book is titled how to Teach Quantum Physics
to Your Dog and this has gotten nine hundred and
sixty one ratings. Wow, and a four and a half
star review. I'm reading some of the reviews of one
book one star on this one. It lost me at

(02:00:07):
the end of page twenty five. You got twenty five
pages in yeah, right. This is yet another science book
written by someone who clearly has no capacity to put
themselves into the mind of the unknown reader. Essentially, the
author has written down what he thinks or what he knows,
with no thoughts paid to what we know. Sure, if

(02:00:33):
you say so, I feel like that's a that's a
ship of sale mark for me. I'm not going to
read a physics book, yeah.

Speaker 7 (02:00:42):
And then try to teach it to your dog.

Speaker 1 (02:00:44):
Forget that. I'm just not going to read a physics
book and I'm definitely not going to put a review
about it. Last one, one hundred and one Pictures of
Ugly Babies is this a book, yes, one hundred percent.
If not, it needs to be, No, it is not.
Oh come on, can you imagine having a newborn a

(02:01:05):
baby fresh? Yeah, still got the wrapping part of the
corners because you haven't got to those yet. Like, hey,
we're doing this book, we'd like to have to take
a picture of your ugly ass baby and people being like,
yeah that makes sense. Yes, no, absolutely maybe math maybe
math parents all right, For the right dollar amount, I'm

(02:01:27):
sure there'd be people that would do it. So then
your kid forever is in a book titled Ugly Babies?
How much can be? How much? I'd do it for
one hundred thousand put my ugly ass kid in there
for one hundred thousand dollars.

Speaker 7 (02:01:38):
Lindsay, Oh, I think I'd do it for free. But
then they have something because a lot of ugly babies
turn out to be the most beautiful adults.

Speaker 1 (02:01:48):
Also, no, though it's about a fifty to fifty games true, Yeah,
I mean if I have to give a dollar figure
ten million dollars, like, I don't see me doing that.
And hey, my kids in the book. Oh really, yes,
ugly Babies, I'll get you a copy, yes, yes, autograph

(02:02:09):
it and everything there you go, or dad's or moms
do this when the other partner doesn't know and take
it to get a pressure taking and just never tell them. Right,
it's kind of guys that take pictures of their wife's
feet without their knowledge and then put it on the
feet page.

Speaker 7 (02:02:24):
Yeah what, I don't know if you could get mad
at that making money off of your feet.

Speaker 1 (02:02:33):
It's feet, but still it's your picture that you didn't want,
you know, taken and then post posted for everybody to see.

Speaker 7 (02:02:42):
But if it's making you rich, what are you complaining
about really rich? I mean, if it's paying some bills.

Speaker 1 (02:02:49):
So if like there's some scantily clad pictures of you
out there and they get posted on the internet, let
me give you give it his example, The same thing
doesn't matter if it's feet, boobs, eyeballs, whatever. Yeah, what
if it's just your breast, not your face or anything.

Speaker 7 (02:03:07):
But just your breast, I wouldn't mind.

Speaker 1 (02:03:10):
You'd be okay with it.

Speaker 7 (02:03:12):
They don't know it's you.

Speaker 1 (02:03:14):
Yeah, I've had this conversation with my wife. I'm like,
let's just take pictures of your feet and let's start
a thing, make some money, make some money, And she's like,
I don't know. I'm like, hey, slippery slope, man, it
starts with feet and the next thing, you're just doing
disgusting things on the internet, just trying to you know,
this guy will give us five hundred dollars if you
pee in a jar.

Speaker 7 (02:03:35):
Yeah, I gotta start somewhere, right.

Speaker 1 (02:03:38):
I don't disagree it is a slippery or slipper soup.
But people are like, oh, make a lot of money.
Let's just say you do a page. Right. Let's just
say you're one of these entrepreneurial husbands and you're like, oh,
I'm gonna take pictures of my wife's feet, even breast.
Let's just say that, just no face, no nothing, and
you're gonna charge what ten dollars a person a month, right,
woof my understanding and that and that world. That's a

(02:04:00):
pretty hefty subscription fee for just breasts or just feet.
So let's just say you get a hundred. That's not
very much money, No, and a hundred it's a good amount. Yeah,
that's a lot of people, a lot of subscriptions. And
you're like, babe, we really got to get more people
because I've quit my job doing morning radio to do this.

(02:04:21):
You're like, what do you think about putting your knees
in there too? Right? Just up to you just up
to your knees, right, maybe with how about you just
your feet and you're stomping on my testicles right because
you're like, we got to get up past we got
to get to two hundred, and you're like, we got
to get three hundred. Then you get three hundred, you

(02:04:42):
gotta get four hundred. It's never good enough, man. No,
that goat post just moves and next thing you know,
you're taking pictures of your hole, you know, and showing
it for everybody, right, kind of like being number one,
and then when you're number one and they're like, yeah,
but could you be number one over here? Right? We

(02:05:04):
want you to be number one. We think you do well,
but we'd like you to be number one over here,
not number one where you've been number one. I digress,
take a break, we'll be back.

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