PURPOSE After Domestic Violence

In this powerful episode of PURPOSE After DV, I’m putting the widely known Escalation of Violence Scale side-by-side with a tool I personally created: the Victim to Victory Scale, found in my POWER After DV Workbook.

The Escalation of Violence Scale helps us recognize the progressive nature of abuse—how it often starts subtly and grows more dangerous over time. But that’s only one side of the story. My Victim to Victory Scale offer...

In this follow-up episode, I switch hats and share my experience at the 2025 Called to Peace Survivor Healing Retreat as a people helper—attorney, author, and vendor.

While I came to support survivors with legal insight and healing resources, God had even more in store.

You’ll hear:

• What it was like to offer support from the other side of the table
• Golden nuggets from women hungry for both justice and Jesus
• God's presence and ...

In this heartfelt episode, I share my personal journey as a survivor of domestic violence attending the 2025 Called to Peace Ministries Survivor Healing Retreat.

Set against the beautiful backdrop of Lake Junaluska, this retreat was a sacred space of safety, restoration, and powerful reminders that our Redeemer sees, hears, and heals.

I’ll walk you through moments of breakthrough, powerful teaching from keynote speaker Leslie Verni...

In this special episode, I’m putting on my attorney hat again for the first half of our conversation to walk you through step-parent adoption — what it means legally, how it works, and what families should know when walking this path. Then, we shift into a powerful spiritual truth: you, my sweet sister, have been adopted by God.

Whether you're navigating the legal system or simply searching for a place to belong, this episode is a ...

After the storm, you get to rebuild your life—and that includes protecting your future.

In this episode, I walk you through estate planning basics specifically for women who’ve experienced domestic violence and are starting fresh after divorce.  I also cover what to do before filing for divorce, what you can and can't do once the divorce has been filed, and what to do once your divorce is final.

Learn why estate planning is an act ...

Divorce and custody don’t always have to be a battleground.

In this episode, we’re talking about mediation—what it is, when it’s helpful, and how it can provide a more peaceful path forward for women overcoming domestic violence.

I’ll also introduce you to my “PURSUE with PURPOSE” program that helps you walk in wisdom, clarity, and strength as you deal with an attorney who may not understand the dynamics of domestic violence.

Discl...

In this powerful episode, I put on my attorney hat and speak directly to women navigating the painful realities of divorce and custody battles while overcoming domestic violence.

I walk you through the the importance of finding an attorney who understands the dynamics of domestic violence in a way that’s practical and empowering—because you deserve to know your rights and options. We’ll also discuss how to approach these situations...

In this foundational episode, we unpack the meaning behind the acronym POWER and how each letter serves as a stepping stone toward healing, wholeness, and freedom after domestic violence. From reclaiming your spiritual authority to engaging in true restoration, this episode will encourage, equip, and empower you to rise.

POWER =

• P – Powerful

• O – Overcoming

• W – Women

• E – Engaging in

• R – Restoration

Reflection Qu...

In this episode, Becca joins me once again to unpack the final stretch of Mara’s journey—and what it means for your story.

We dive into the last four steps of the Story Brand framework and how they paint a powerful picture of what’s possible when we stop just surviving and start stepping fully into the life God is calling us to.

Together, we reflect on:

💥 The call to action – what it really means to say yes to healing, growth, and...

🦋 You were made for more. 🦋

In this powerful episode, we complete Mara’s journey—bringing together everything we’ve covered in the StoryBrand framework.

Mara’s transformation is your transformation—from a woman trapped in survivor mode to a strong, beautiful, confident, woman of God.

Like a caterpillar, you may have spent years crawling through life, simply surviving. Maybe you’ve felt trapped in a cocoon, unsure if freedom is re...

Your story doesn’t end in survival—it ends in freedom! In this episode of the StoryBrand series, we are talking about what true success looks like: complete freedom from the effects of domestic violence and stepping boldly into your God-given purpose.

We’ll discuss: ✅ What it really means to break out of survivor mode ✅ How God’s promises guarantee your success when you trust Him ✅ The anointing to set the captives free (Isaiah 61:...

Have you ever considered that staying stuck in survival mode after domestic violence isn’t just painful—it’s disobedience?

In this episode, we dive deep into Isaiah 30:1, where God warns against making plans outside of His will. If we allow the effects of domestic violence to keep us from our God-given purpose, we are aligning with the enemy’s lies instead of stepping into the freedom God has for us.

What’s at stake if we don’t tak...

Today, we focus on the next step in the StoryBrand framework—calling the hero to action. You will never take action unless you are challenged, and the stakes are high. Healing, purpose, and legacy are all at stake, but so is the future example we set for our children.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

• Why action is key in overcoming domestic violence and stepping into the life God has for you.
• The importance of a clear p...

In today’s episode, Becca is joining me to reflect on the first four episodes of this series. We dive deep into the StoryBrand journey we’ve been walking through together and discuss the powerful insights that have emerged along the way. If you’ve been following this series, this episode will help you process what you’ve learned so far and solidify your next steps.

Here’s what we cover in this conversation:

• Episode 1: The Hero...

In this episode, we dive into the next step of the Story Brand framework—Who gives them a plan. As we continue the journey to break free from survivor mode, we’ll explore the importance of clarity and how a well-defined plan removes uncertainty and fear from your healing process.

You’ll learn:

• Why God is a God of order, not chaos, and how He has provided clear, structured plans for His people throughout Scripture.
• The specific...

Every hero needs a guide. If you’ve experienced domestic violence and feel stuck in survivor mode, you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. In this episode, I introduce the role of a guide—someone who has walked the path before you and can help you move forward with clarity, faith, and purpose.

I share my personal journey of overcoming domestic violence and explain why I am here to guide you toward the life God has called you...

Every hero faces an obstacle—and every story has a villain. If you’ve ever felt trapped in survivor mode, unable to step into the calling God has placed on your life, you’re not alone. But the reason you feel stuck might not be what you think.

In this episode, we uncover the real battle keeping you from moving forward. The enemy—the devil—wants to steal your identity, kill your purpose, and destroy your hope (John 10:10). But God h...

Every great story begins with a hero facing challenges—and in this series, that hero is you. In today’s episode, we introduce Building a Story Brand by Donald Miller and explore how understanding your own story can lead to transformation.

We’ll meet our fictional hero, Mara, inspired by Naomi’s story in the Bible—a woman who experienced deep loss and called herself bitter. If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode, struggling to r...

In this special 1-year anniversary episode of PURPOSE After DV, we take a moment to reflect on the journey so far. Join me as I recap highlights from each episode, share personal insights from my current season of life, and anticipate what God might have in store for the podcast in 2025.

From empowering women to overcome the effects of domestic violence to guiding them toward discovering their God-given PURPOSE, we celebrate the gr...