Building Better Marriages Podcast

In today’s episode, I’m inviting you to step away from the noise and into the quiet presence of God—to pause, rest, and remember that joy, laughter, and love were always part of His design for marriage. I've compiled seven summer night fun date night ideas to help you get started. 

We’ll explore what the Bible says about rest and renewal, and introduce our first Hebrew Word Moment by looking at the word Sheva (שֶׁבַע)—the number se...

Feeling guilty for resting? You’re not alone. In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares why rest is sacred, modeled by God, and essential for soul renewal.

Learn how to practice Sabbath rhythms with practical, grace-filled pauses in your week. Matthew 11:28–30 (NLT) “Come to me, all of you who are weary…”

Want to go deeper? Join The Heart Reset: A 3-Day Journey from Stuck to Surrendered and rediscover rest rooted in God's presence...

Feeling behind this year? You're not alone. In this heartfelt mid-year reflection, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to release guilt, receive grace, and reset your heart with God's truth. Discover how to move forward in faith, not frustration, and embrace the rest of this year with peace and purpose.“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” —Isaiah 43:18–19 (NLT)

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Have you ever looked back on your life and felt shame, regret, or disappointment?

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that God doesn’t waste a single chapter of your story. Whether you're navigating marriage struggles, personal growth, or spiritual renewal, this message will help you see your past through the lens of grace, not guilt.

You’ll learn:

• Why your story matters

• How God can use your testimony to heal ot...

In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah dives into Jeremiah 15:19 to explore what it really means to be an influencer for God’s glory in a culture driven by popularity and platform. You’ll learn how godly influence differs from worldly influence and how to stand firm in your faith without being swayed by the noise around you.

Whether you’re mentoring others, building a Christ-centered marriage, or simply showing up online, this episo...

Does it feel like the love in your marriage has gone cold? You’re not alone—and there is hope. In this encore presentation of one of our most downloaded episodes, “What Do I Do When the Spark Fades?”, we revisit one of the most common and heartbreaking questions Christian couples ask. If you've ever whispered to yourself, "I still love my spouse, but we feel like strangers", this message is for you.

As a Christian marriage counselo...

Feeling stretched thin and spiritually drained? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah Skomba offers faith-filled encouragement and practical, biblical strategies to help busy Christian women care for themselves without guilt. Learn what true self-care looks like—far beyond bubble baths—and why Jesus modeled the importance of rest and renewal.

From spiritual habits to healthy boundaries, this episode will guide y...

Are you staying silent in your marriage to avoid conflict? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores three powerful questions couples often avoid to " keep the peace.” Discover how silence can harm your connection and how biblical truth and loving communication can lead to healing, trust, and lasting intimacy.

What You’ll Learn: ✅ The difference between false peace and true peace ✅ 3 hard but necessary questions to bring into your marr...

Are you feeling stuck in your marriage or unsure how to build a strong one before you say “I do”?

In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares 3 biblical keys from Nehemiah to help you overcome obstacles in your relationship through prayer, planning, and protection.

Whether preparing for marriage or restoring what feels broken, you’ll walk away with Christ-centered hope and practical steps.

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Are you feeling distant from your spouse even though you’re doing life together? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, I explore what to do when emotional connection fades and conversations stop. Learn practical ways to reconnect, communicate with grace, and restore intimacy in your marriage using biblical truth.

This episode includes:

• 4 steps to rebuild emotional connection

• A prayer to invite God into the space bet...

In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage.

Ready to go deeper? Book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and get personal guidance for your season of preparation. CLICK HERE

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In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares why trust is the foundation of every Christ-centered marriage—and how transparency keeps it strong. Learn biblical strategies to rebuild trust after it's been broken, open the door to honest conversations, and create a safe space for emotional connection. Plus, Dr. Deborah prays 5 daily prayers to help you and your spouse walk in truth and grace.

Listen in and discover: • How to communi...

Dear One, are you carrying emotional wounds from past relationships, heartbreak, or current struggles in your marriage? In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to step into God’s healing presence and discover how lasting love starts with a restored heart.

Drawing from Psalm 147:3 (NLT), "He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds," Dr. Deborah shares practical, faith-filled insight on how to begin healing...

Before and After the Ring: What If You’re Stronger Than You Think?

In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage.

Ready to go deeper? CLICK HERE to book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and...

Everyone talks about red flags—but what if your relationship already holds the key to lasting love?

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you recognize the spiritual strengths you already have and how to build from them. Perfect for engaged or seriously dating couples who want to build a Christ-centered marriage with purpose and confidence.

📥 Download here the free guide: 10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before the Ring 📞...

Everyone talks about red flags—but what if the greatest insight for your relationship lies in what’s already working? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you shift your focus from fear to faith by identifying the God-given strengths in your relationship and how to build from them.

You’ll learn how to:

• Recognize your spiritual assets as a couple

• Reinforce healthy patterns before marriage

• Build from what’s right, no...

Welcome back to episode 57 of the Building Better Marriages podcast. I’m so glad you’re here because today, we’re talking about something that can truly change a couple’s life.

We will look at what happens before the ring—before the vows, before the dress, and before the honeymoon. I want to help couples and those who care about them understand the red flags and foundations that really matter when it comes to marriage.

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In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, showing how God defines love not as a feeling but as action, sacrifice, and commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this message will help you set biblical expectations that lead to deeper trust, healthier intimacy, and stronger Christ-centered relationships.

You’ll learn:

• How to recognize real, God-honoring love
• Why feelings...

Why are so many people afraid of true commitment—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the fears that hold us back from diving deep into lasting love and why God’s design for marriage is the only way to truly experience the joy, safety, and purpose of covenant love.

If you’re ready to move past the fear and into a Christ-centered relationship that reflects His heart, this episode is for you.

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