Building Better Marriages Podcast

In this powerful and deeply reflective episode, Dr. Deborah sits down with John DeJarnette, a man of wisdom and faith, to talk about what it truly means to have the mindset of Christ in marriage.

Together, they unpack how humility, forgiveness, and servant leadership can transform even the most challenging seasons of marriage. John shares honest insights from his own journey—what it looks like to lead with grace, to love without pr...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks the truth of Ephesians 4:22-24 (NLT) — “Throw off your old sinful nature… and let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.”

Marriage renewal begins in the mind. When we allow the Holy Spirit to reshape our thoughts and attitudes, everything changes—our words become softer, our reactions more patient, and our love more genuine. Dr. Deborah shares how to release old habits that hinder ...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba delves into 1 Corinthians 2:16 (NLT): “For we have the mind of Christ.” What does it look like to think, love, and respond to your spouse with the same heart and mindset as Jesus?

You’ll discover how renewing your thoughts through the Holy Spirit changes the atmosphere of your marriage—from frustration to faith, from reaction to reflection, and from distance to connection. Dr. Deborah shares how ...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to experience The Mindset Shift: Seeing Your Marriage Through the Eyes of Christ. Drawing from Philippians 2:5–7 (NLT), she unpacks how humility, love, and servant leadership reshape the way you see your spouse and respond in moments of tension.

Learn how to move from reacting in pride or fear to responding in grace—how to view your marriage not through frustration, but through faith....

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba explores how the power of truth transforms relationships and restores emotional and spiritual connection in marriage.

Honesty isn’t just about words—it’s about the heart. When couples choose to walk in truth, they invite the light of Yeshua into their relationship, creating a foundation of trust and intimacy that no secret or...

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of truth and its connection to Yeshua—the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

Discover how walking in the truth of Christ brings healing, freedom, and a deeper connection in marriage. Learn why truth is more than honesty—it’s a spiritual posture that invites Yeshua’s presence into your relationship. Dr. De...

In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah welcomes Pastor Lorraine Blum for a heart-stirring conversation on what it truly means to live ready for the King. Together, they explore the call for the Bride of Christ to prepare—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally—for His return.

Pastor Lorraine shares wisdom on how to build strong, Christ-centered marriages that ref...

As we look forward to the return of our Savior, Yeshua, there’s no greater time to reflect on how we’re living, loving, and preparing for His coming. In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah discusses the importance of preparing not only spiritually but also within our marriages.

Listen as we explore:

• How to stay spiritually awake and ready for the return of ...

Are you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you.

Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will.

• Release the burden of past mist...

Every marriage has a story — moments of joy, seasons of struggle, and the grace of God holding it all together. In this very special episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah is joined by her husband for an open and heartfelt conversation about their Christ-centered love story.

Together, they share:

• How faith shaped their relationship from the beginning.

• The challenges they’...

Every couple feels it at some point — the gap between his needs and her needs. Maybe it’s in how you communicate, how you show love and respect, or how you approach intimacy and spiritual leadership. In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah shares biblical truth and practical tools to help you bridge those differences and grow closer as a couple.

Drawing from Ephesians 5:33...

Marriage was never meant to be a solo journey. In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah shares why God designed marriage to thrive when both voices are heard, valued, and respected.

Discover how unity in marriage is built not on sameness but on complementing each other’s strengths, perspectives, and God-given design.

Learn how to recognize when one voice is being silenced a...

Are you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you.

Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will.
• Release the burden of past mistake...

Have you ever felt weighed down by regrets or restless in your walk with God? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah shares how to recognize when you’ve wandered off God’s path and how to return to the one He designed just for you — a path filled with joy, peace, and purpose.

Through Scripture, practical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement, you’ll discover:

• 3 signs you may be walking the wrong path

• Why re...

Have you ever said, “You always…” or “Forget it” in the heat of the moment? Words like these may seem small, but they can quietly tear down intimacy and trust in your marriage. In this episode, Dr. Deborah uncovers 10 common sayings that sabotage communication between husbands and wives—and shares biblical, practical ways to replace them with words that bring healing, respect, and connection.

Through Scripture, Hebrew and Greek wor...

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba turns the conversation toward the heart of a wife. Drawing from Ephesians 5:25, the Greek agapaō (to love with Christ-like commitment), and Proverbs 31:11, the Hebrew batach (to trust with security), Dr. Deborah unpacks three needs many wives carry quietly—emotional safety, affection beyond the bedroom, and spiritual leadership i...

What if God’s design for marriage is bigger than “happy wife, happy life”? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah unpacks Ephesians 5:33 — where husbands are called to love and wives are called to respect — and shows how this mutual exchange creates lasting joy, not just temporary happiness.

You’ll hear biblical wisdom, practical steps to show love and respect this week, and a Hebrew Word Moment exploring simcha ...

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks John 10:10 and the powerful promise Jesus gives couples facing spiritual attacks.

Discover how the enemy works to steal, kill, and destroy marriages — and how Christ offers zoē life, overflowing with love, peace, and purpose.

Learn how to identify the thief, invite Jesus into every part of your relationship, and speak lif...