The Human Intimacy Podcast

The Human Intimacy Podcast

Intimacy is a fundamental human experience that goes far beyond romantic relationships. Join us as we dive into the deep and multifaceted layers of human connection, exploring everything from friendship and family bonds to self-love and vulnerability. Through thought-provoking conversations with experts, personal stories, and practical advice, we’ll uncover the secrets to nurturing meaningful relationships in a fast-paced digital world. From exploring trust and fostering emotional intimacy to navigating conflicts and rediscovering oneself, we’re here to discover the essence of what it means to truly connect with others and ourselves. Whether you’re seeking to improve your relationships, gain insights into human behaviors, or simply crave a meaningful conversation that enriches your understanding of human connection, you won’t want to miss a single episode of The Human Intimacy Podcast.

Episodes

July 29, 2026 20 mins
Should You Do a 90-Day Sex Fast? Understanding the Purpose, Pitfalls, and Path to Deeper Intimacy Episode Summary

Is a 90-day sex fast the right choice for your relationship?

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most frequently discussed—and often misunderstood—recommendations in betrayal recovery and unwanted sexual behavior treatment. Rather than foc...

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Guilt After Betrayal: How Remorse Can Lead to Relationship Repair Episode Summary

What role does guilt play after betrayal? Although guilt is often viewed as something negative, it can become an important force for accountability, empathy, and healing. Unlike shame—which says, “I am a mistake”—guilt recognizes, “I made a mistake, and my actions caused harm.”

In this episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and...

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Why Do I Still Feel Stuck? Understanding the Hidden Barriers to Healing After Betrayal Episode Summary

One of the most common questions betrayed partners ask is, "Why do I still feel stuck?" Despite reading books, attending therapy, participating in support groups, and listening to countless podcasts, many people feel like they aren't making the progress they expected.

In this episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explor...

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Differentiation: Staying Connected Without Losing Yourself Episode Summary

Healthy relationships require both deep connection and a strong sense of self. In this episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore the concept of differentiation—the ability to remain emotionally connected to your partner while maintaining your own identity, values, emotions, and personal responsibility.

The discussion examines how betraya...

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How to Deal with Getting Cheated On: The First Steps Toward Healing After Betrayal Podcast Summary

What do you do after discovering your partner has cheated? Where do you even begin?

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis tackle one of the most painful questions a person can ask: How do I deal with getting cheated on?

Rather than offering quick fixes or encouraging you to simply "move...

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Disclosure Is the Beginning, Not the End Summary

Many couples assume that once disclosure, impact letters, and emotional restitution are complete, healing should naturally follow. Yet many still find themselves feeling disconnected and wondering why they continue to struggle. In this episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explain why disclosure is not the finish line but the foundation for rebuilding a relationship. Recov...

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How Do We Create Safety in a Relationship? 10 Keys to Rebuilding Trust and Connection

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most important questions couples can ask themselves: “How do we create safety in a relationship?” Drawing from attachment theory, betrayal trauma recovery, and clinical experience, they discuss how safety is not simply a thought or...

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How to Strengthen Your Relationship: The Questions Every Couple Should Be Asking Podcast Summary

Relationships rarely fail because couples stop caring. More often, they struggle because they stop asking the questions that create understanding, connection, and growth.

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore the questions every couple should be asking to strengthen their relation...

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Affair, Addiction, or Something More? Understanding the Story Behind Sexual Betrayal Summary

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most confusing and emotionally overwhelming questions couples face after betrayal: Was this “just” an affair, or is there something deeper happening?

Together, they discuss the critical importance of understanding the full s...

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Confident Conversations: Teaching Children Healthy Intimacy, Connection, and Emotional Safety

(with Dan Oakes)

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In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner sits down with Dan Oakes to discuss parenting, healthy sexuality, emotional connection, and prevention in today’s digital culture. Dan shares insights from his new book, Confident Conversations: Teaching Your Child...

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Emotional Safety After Betrayal: Understanding Emotions, Trauma, and Relationship Healing Podcast Summary

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore the connection between emotional safety, betrayal trauma, emotional regulation, and relationship healing after infidelity or sexual betrayal.

Many individuals struggling with betrayal trauma, anxiety, emotional disconnection, or relat...

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Sex After Betrayal: Navigating Sexuality, Safety, and Connection

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and Marianne Michaelis explore one of the most confusing and emotionally charged topics couples face after betrayal: sexuality after discovery. Why do some couples stop having sex entirely while others become more sexual after betrayal? What does it mean if a betrayed partner still desires intimacy? And ...

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Why Can’t I Stop Thinking About the Affair? Understanding Rumination, Triggers, and Healing After Betrayal

In this important episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most common and painful questions after betrayal: “Why can’t I stop thinking about it?”

Together, they unpack the neuroscience and emotional reality behind rumination, intrusive thoughts, ...

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Crucial Moments: How Couples Can Navigate Triggers Without Destroying Connection Episode Overview

What happens when a trigger hits in your relationship—and everything escalates?

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis break down what they call “crucial moments”—those intense emotional experiences where couples either move toward healing or fall back into painful...

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How Do You Know You’re Making Progress After Betrayal? Understanding Safety, Awareness, and Real Change

In this episode of The Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn explore one of the most common—and emotionally loaded—questions couples ask after betrayal: *“How do we know if we’re actually making progress?”*

Healing doesn’t follow a straight l...

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Introducing the Intimacy Repair Method: A New Path to Healing, Connection, and Lasting Change

What if the reason your relationship feels stuck isn’t a lack of effort—but a lack of a clear model for connection?

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner (LMFT-S) and MaryAnne Michaelis, LCSW introduce the Intimacy Repair Method (IRM)—a comprehensive, research-informed framework designed to help...

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Hope After Betrayal: Is Healing Your Relationship Still Possible?

After betrayal, many couples quietly wonder: Is there any real hope for us?

In this powerful episode, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore what hope actually looks like in the aftermath of sexual betrayal—and why so many people struggle to find it.

Drawing from decades of clinical experience, they discuss the reality behind discouraging statistics, ...

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The Courage to Heal: Facing Pain, Shame, and Change Together Episode Summary

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and Marianne Michaelis explore the many forms of courage required in the healing process—both individually and as a couple.

Courage is not just about staying in a relationship after betrayal. It’s about facing pain, telling the truth, asking for help, and being willing to see you...

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Understanding Your Pain: How Childhood Experiences Shape Your Life and Relationships Episode Summary

In this deeply honest and meaningful conversation, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaels explore one of the most important—and often avoided—topics in healing: personal pain.

Whether that pain feels overwhelming and present, or buried and difficult to access, it plays a powerful role in shaping how we think, feel, and...

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Grieving the Unseen Loss: Understanding Grief After Betrayal Summary

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis reflect on the powerful insights emerging from the 2026 Human Intimacy Conference, with a particular focus on grief following sexual betrayal. While much of the field has emphasized trauma and post-traumatic stress, this conversation highlights a critical gap: the profound and...

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