Ready For Love with Hilary Silver

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver

I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does. This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life. As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok. This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life. You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve. New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.

Episodes

#100: The Worst Relationship Advice Women Keep Falling For (And What Actually Works Instead)

January 23, 2026 • 26 mins
Modern dating advice that trains women to manage men instead of trust themselves and this explains why so many smart, emotionally aware women end up anxious, exhausted, and disconnected from their own intuition. When dating guidance asks you to stay chill, wait longer, or twist yourself into something more acceptable, the problem is not you. It is the system you were taught to follow. This conversation flips the framework back w...
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#99: Master Detachment and Watch Everything Chase You

January 16, 2026 • 21 mins
The moment you stop gripping so tightly to what you want may be the exact moment it finally becomes possible. Here is a hard truth: the tighter you squeeze, the faster things slip through your fingers. When wanting quietly turns into needing, everything starts to feel urgent and heavy. You overthink. You push. You try to control the timing, the outcome, and other people. And somehow the thing you want keeps dodging you. Hilary b...
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#98: 5 Principles That Help Me Stay Super Fit

January 9, 2026 • 26 mins
Staying fit and confident as you age has NOTHING to do with discipline or rules and everything to do with how devoted you are to yourself. Most fitness advice for women over 40 is exhausting. Push harder. Try again. Do more. Hilary says what a lot of women are already feeling but rarely hear out loud. That approach is not making you stronger. It is just making you tired. And it is definitely not building confidence. In this e...
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#97: Give Me 14 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Confident

January 2, 2026 • 18 mins
Confidence is not built by proving yourself through achievement.  Instead it happens by deciding you trust yourself no matter what happens. You can’t lose, no matter what. If you are successful on paper but feel unsure, self-doubting, or overly accommodating in dating and relationships, this episode will hit close to home. Hilary explains why confidence built through achievement works at work but falls apart in intimacy, and why...
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#96: The Real Reason You Can't Be Yourself In Relationships (And How It Sabotages Your Love Life)

December 26, 2025 • 20 mins
People pleasing in romantic relationships is often praised as being “easygoing” or emotionally smart, but it is actually self-betrayal that blocks real love, emotional safety, and genuine connection. In this episode, Hilary pulls the curtain back on approval seeking and emotional self abandonment. This is the habit of editing yourself, managing reactions, and shape shifting to avoid rejection. It can look polished on the outside, ...
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#95: Stop Settling in Relationships And Get What You Want In 2026

December 19, 2025 • 21 mins
If your relationship looks good on paper but feels empty, this episode explains why settling in love keeps happening and how it quietly trains you to accept less in relationships. Hilary gets direct about why smart, capable women keep choosing the wrong men and staying in relationships that technically work but emotionally fall flat. This is not a dating pool problem. It is a self-worth and scarcity mindset issue that shows up w...
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#94: Dating After Loss: How Charlene Found Real Love Again

December 12, 2025 • 41 mins
Charlene thought she was ready to date after losing her husband and parents, but she struggled to find real love with the men she was dating. Each relationship reflected the same old wounds she carried into her marriage: overgiving, hoping for scraps of connection, and treating attention like approval. Nothing shifts until you’re willing to look at what keeps repeating and ask why it still has a hold on you. That question became he...
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#93: Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and How to Break the Cycle

December 5, 2025 • 20 mins
Feel like a narcissist magnet?  If you keep dating narcissists, attracting narcissists, or you keep repeating narcissistic relationship patterns, there’s a reason, and it has everything to do with something no one is telling you. The truth is, narcissistic relationships take hold when you sideline your own needs and shrink your self-worth. Hilary breaks down the traits that make women vulnerable to toxic relationships with narci...
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#92: Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back

November 28, 2025 • 23 mins
Unrequited love can take down even the most capable, confident women, and Hilary is done watching smart, high-achieving women lose themselves over someone who can’t meet them where they are. This episode is a call back to your power, especially in those moments when your mind is spinning, your heart is hopeful, and the person you want isn’t choosing you back. Hilary dives into the shame, the second-guessing, and the quiet panic ...
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#91: The Painful Truth About Why You’re Still Single

November 21, 2025 • 22 mins
Still single and calling your love life “fine”? Please. Hilary isn’t buying it, and neither should you. In this episode, Hilary is getting real about the quiet ache that hides behind independence and success. She’s talking about the kind of loneliness that becomes familiar enough to live with, even when it quietly hurts. Maybe you’ve told yourself the timing isn’t right to start dating or to find romance, or that you’re focused ...
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#90: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Love Life

November 14, 2025 • 35 mins
Think you’re “too much,” “too independent,” or “too intimidating” for love? You’re not. You’re just done playing small! In this episode, Hilary Silver sits down with Ready for Love grad Kara Judd, a powerhouse executive who finally got honest about what was really holding her back in relationships. Kara opens up about how she stopped blaming her success, her height, and her “strong personality,” and started doing the deeper work...
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#89: Why He Won’t Commit (And Why You’re Still Waiting)

November 7, 2025 • 15 mins
When a man keeps you half chosen and half confused, the real problem isn’t his hesitation but the part of you willing to wait for it! Ever been strung along by a man who gives just enough to keep you hopeful but never enough to give you certainty? One day he’s all charm and chemistry, the next he’s conveniently unavailable? You start analyzing his behavior like a crime scene. Does he have trauma? Is it timing? Is it me? Hilary c...
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#88: How Kimberly Found Love After 13 Years of Avoiding It

October 31, 2025 • 22 mins
When you’ve been single for 13 years, “I’m fine” starts sounding a lot like “I’ve given up.” Kimberly was successful on paper, but she was quietly miserable off it. Between perimenopause, work burnout, and pandemic isolation, she’d convinced herself she was too busy (and too jaded) for love. Then she found Ready for Love, and everything shifted.  She thought she was signing up to find love. Happily, she found herself in the p...
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#87: Stop Mothering Your Man

October 24, 2025 • 17 mins
If you’re a woman who can run circles around most humans — yet still finds herself scheduling her partner’s appointments, tracking his moods, or generally keeping his life stitched together — congratulations, you’re unofficially in man-keeping mode. Hilary is calling it out the silent epidemic of high-achieving women accidentally becoming their partner’s project manager instead of their partner. Spoiler: nothing kills attraction fa...
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#86: From Walls Up to Wide Open: Meryl’s Reset on Love & Life

October 17, 2025 • 26 mins
If you’ve ever rejected a man because his name annoyed you… this episode is for you.   Hilary sits down with award-winning interior designer and unapologetic former love-skeptic Meryl Stern, who admits she once dismissed perfectly good men for crimes like “bad vibes” and “unfortunate first names.” (Her words.) But beneath all that discernment? A woman hiding behind a beautifully curated emotional wall.   Inside Ready for Love, ...
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#85: The Worst Dating Advice for Women...And Yes, I’m Mad About It!

October 10, 2025 • 12 mins
Ever seen those videos promising to “make him obsessed with you in 5 texts” or “7 tricks to make a man worship you like a queen”? Yeah… Hilary’s not having it.   This week, she’s calling BS on the toxic, clickbait dating advice flooding YouTube. From “dark psychology” tactics to straight-up patriarchal conditioning, this advice is designed to manipulate women, keep them second-guessing themselves, and—let’s be honest—get them to ...
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#84: How Investing in Yourself Can Change Your Love Life

October 3, 2025 • 41 mins
Lori Young, a Ready for Love alum, decided she was done settling for crumbs of affection, heartbreak, and controlling men. Instead of buying the couch she’d been saving for, Lori put that money into herself—and it changed everything. In this conversation with me, Lori shares how she broke old patterns, stopped confusing drama for chemistry, and learned to ask for what she actually wanted. Today she’s married to a secure, steady pa...
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#83: What Matters MORE than Who You Are Meeting

September 26, 2025 • 18 mins
You can spend thousands on a matchmaker or swipe until your thumbs go numb, but if you keep running into the same disappointing patterns, the real question isn’t “where are all the good men?” The real question is how are you showing up when you meet them? In this episode, Hilary unpacks why so many smart, successful women struggle in love even when everything looks perfect on the outside. Ghosting, mismatches, and one-sided relati...
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#82: If You think Men are Intimidated by You, Listen to This!

September 19, 2025 • 11 mins
If you’ve ever blamed your single status on men being “intimidated,” it’s time for a reality check. That story might feel good at the moment, but it’s keeping you from the very connection you want. In this episode, Hilary calls BS on the idea that your success is the reason love hasn’t worked out. With 25 years of experience coaching powerhouse women, she breaks down what’s really going on when you hear that “intimidating” feedbac...
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#81: Attach Too Quickly? How to stop the Cycle of Disappointment

September 12, 2025 • 14 mins
Wanting love and being ready for it aren’t the same thing. You might be on the apps, going on dates, even hiring a matchmaker—but if you keep finding yourself in the cycle of “hot and heavy” followed by fade and fizzle, the problem may be pacing. In this episode, Hilary unpacks the anxious dating behaviors that push love away and she lays out five concrete ways to date with emotional security rather than a sense of urgency. From k...
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