Deeper Sex - A podcast about deeper connections and incredible sex
Deeper Sex is a fun and sexy podcast about deep love, exploration and adventure. It’s for those who crave connection that’s real, sex that makes you feel alive, and love that’s rooted in authenticity. We are your hosts - Will and Chiara: life partners, and your mentors on love, sex, and personal transformation. Our mission is to help passionate, growth-minded humans get past their fears, and lay the foundations for deep, authentic connections, so you can increase trust in intimacy, and transform your romantic relationship for good, because the best sex of your life is in your future, and not in your past. With decades of experience in love and intimacy matters, specialised in ENM and open relationships, we’re here to share everything that we’ve learned about helping people unlock the Extraordinary in relationships and in sex. Deeper Sex is part of Deeper Lovers - our coaching platform that was born out of our passion for love, purpose, and personal growth. We saw the incredible effect that our approach had on so many relationship - including ours - and we decided to share with the world what we've learnt about how to keep your relationship alive, while having a passionate, fulfilling, and super fun love life. For more info, visit deeperlovers.com
Episodes
Most people fantasise about being with someone other than their partner. That’s normal. The question is what you do with it.
In this episode, we get into one of the most common — and least talked-about — sexual fantasies: desiring variety in sexual partners.
We cover what ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) looks like in practice – with all its various flavours - and how monogamous couples can safely explore this territory without anyone do...
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What if the fantasy you've been hiding is the exact thing your relationship needs?
Most of us treat our desires like secrets — something to protect our partner from.
Today we are joined by Paris, a longtime tantric practitioner and facilitator who went from completely frigid to living out every fantasy she's ever had. She is one of...
What’s the thing that scares the shit out of most couples? Being seen for who they really are. And in sex? Sharing their fantasies.
What’s the one thing that sits underneath every fantasy, every risk, and every deeply connected relationship? It’s TRUST.
Most of us simply don't trust what will happen when we share ourselves completely.
So, today’s episode is all about helping you doing exactly that. We cover:
- the difference bet...
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Most of us were raised to believe that sexual fantasies are shameful - or just plain wrong. But what if those forbidden desires weren’t signs that something’s broken?
In this episode, we get to the bottom of why so many people are turned on by taboos, what that says about our emotional wiring, and we share practical strat...
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Most people think the key to better sex and exciting relationships is learning the right moves or finding "The One".
In an interview with one of our teachers, Will and I talk about why the patterns that hold you back in bed are the same ones that limit you in life. Why lack of intimacy isn’t about the other person, the se...
To celebrate our podcast 1st anniversary, we address our clients’ most common questions in a live Q&A - from jealousy to sexual dynamics and open relationships.
Partner communication, establishing trust, and addressing underlying issues in a relationship are some of the things we are experts on, and our goal i...
Secret Fantasies FREE LIVE workshop ALERT!
Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies - yet only few people have the courage to act on them. Is it something you should try, or is it better left as a fantasy?
In this episode, Will and Chiara explore the psychology behind group sex, the gap between fantasy and reality, and how to deci...
Will and Chiara tackle another taboo topic that many men (and their partners) struggle with, but rarely discuss openly: erections.
From performance anxiety to the pressure of always staying hard, they explore how much of the struggle is psychological rather than physical.
They discuss how shame, unrealistic expect...
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This is a must-listen for both men and women looking to feel more, longer and better orgasms.
Today’s episode will completely transform your understanding of what “coming” is:
Did you know that there are many types of orgasms for women?
And did you know that men can orgasm without ejaculating… and vice versa?
Love and int...
Download our free guide: “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”
Changing gears with Season 2, love and intimacy coaches Will and Chiara explain in very simple terms the concept of relationship Polarity, and the importance of balancing the masculine and feminine energies that you input in a relationship - regardless of your gender.
They show how a polarity imbalance often leads to conflict, blaming, ...
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Guess what! We’ve been live for 6 months already, and we have a big surprise coming up for you!
We are closing out Season 1 of the Deeper Sex Podcast to come back with Season 2 and offer something even more exciting and useful to you and your lover, in and out of the bedroom.
We believe that sex should not be the driver of arguments and unhappiness for a couple....
Next FREE LIVE workshop on sharing secret fantasies: RESERVE YOUR SEAT
Will and Chiara are interviewed by Human Design coach Adriana to explore how they transformed their lives through sexual exploration and liberation.
They’ve made intimacy coaching their life’s purpose, because there’s so much fun and sex to be had in life, that everyone should be able to experience it!
They talk about their journey of following their hearts an...
How open(-minded) are you, really? And how "free" do you feel?
Our biggest fear is not being loved. And fears keep us stuck in the comfort zone. But what happens when we suspend fear?
While reflecting on our peculiar summer, we explain how openness, curiosity, and feeling comfortable in your own body can bring you a deeper sense of connection and, ultimately, freedom.
There's a different flavour when you meet people who are willing...
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Communication is THE KEY in enhancing relationships and sexual experiences.
Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on how you can initiate open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with your partner.
As always we emphasise on creating a safe sp...
Jealousy can serve as a useful tool in relationships when rooted in objective facts: it can be a sign of real issues, but also a reflection of deeper insecurities. How do you know?
In this episode we cover the various sides of jealousy, how to understand when it is keeping you safe, vs. when it’s signalling that there’s something deeper to look into – your body generally knows best.
We look at jealousy in the context of ENM couples...
Have you ever dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication.
In this episode, we share a very intimate experience where we pushed our boundaries further than ever before: for the first and only time in our life, Chiara is "lent" for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband, while Will is away on an expedition.
He tal...
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Are you “vanilla” or “spicy”? Are you into ENM? Are you not? Are you curious? How much should you share about this with your friends? And should you drag them into this exploration with you?
These are all themes we discuss in this episode, focusing on the importance of respecting the boundaries of people around you.
While we could not wish f...
Free resources + next steps for your sexual healing journey:
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“10 phrases to start deeper conversations with your partner”
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Have you ever experienced how sensuality and soft touch can 10x your sexual encounters?
Listen to the sensual birthday surprise that Chiara arranged for her husband Will: beyond the sexiness of it all, you’ll learn how embracing sensuality, soft touch, and vulnerability can positively impact your intimacy - and your relationship overall.
Will describes his struggle to relax and surrender to receiving attention from his woman, and ...
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Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.
Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fan...
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