Reflections of The Father’s Heart

In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl discuss the importance of emotional wellness and introduce their Emotional Wellness Assessment. They explore how emotions can accumulate over time, likening them to pebbles in a backpack, and emphasize the need to address emotional health for overall well-being. The conversation highlights the connection between emotional and physical health, the significance of understanding one's...

In this podcast, Sandi Derby shares her journey of understanding God and healing from past religious experiences. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing God's presence in our lives, even in difficult situations, and encourages listeners to embrace their spiritual journey with compassion and openness. Sandi discusses the significance of community, the challenges of navigating toxic relationships, and the need to break free fro...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her journey through grief recovery and the importance of preparation in achieving success. She discusses the challenges of building a practice, the significance of having a healthy relationship with money, and the necessity of inner healing. Sandi emphasizes the need to dig ditches in preparation for the blessings God has in store, while also addressing the struggles of self-worth and the im...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of emotional turmoil and transformation through faith. She emphasizes the importance of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification and healing, highlighting that believers cannot navigate their spiritual journey alone. The discussion covers the significance of community, the distinction between the gifts and fruits of the Spirit, and the cost of power in both the l...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her personal journey of grief recovery and the importance of being honest with God. She reflects on her experiences at a singles conference, where she learned that intimacy with God is rooted in honesty rather than performance. Sandi emphasizes the need for emotional honesty, lamenting, and the power of David's example in the Psalms. She encourages listeners to confront their pain and be aut...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the themes of spiritual resistance, the nature of sin, and the importance of emotional honesty in the Christian faith. She discusses how feelings of unease often precede breakthroughs and emphasizes the need for individuals to confront their emotions and be honest with God. Sandi also delves into the concept of sin, highlighting the shift from behavior modification to understanding the hea...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the importance of maintaining a close relationship with Jesus while navigating the complexities of grace, forgiveness, and the dangers of manipulation from narcissistic individuals. She emphasizes the need for boundaries and the understanding that forgiveness does not mean tolerating harmful behavior. The discussion also touches on the impact of childhood trauma and the necessity of releas...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the importance of the inner journey and the process of healing and restoration. She emphasizes that while restoration may not always look like what we expect, it is still possible and often leads to greater blessings. Sandi shares personal stories of loss and healing, illustrating how God can bring new life and abundance even in the face of trauma. She encourages listeners to embrace their...

In this heartfelt conversation, Sandi Derby reflects on the recent passing of Charlie Kirk, expressing her grief and the complexities of understanding death within a faith context. She emphasizes the importance of facing storms rather than running from them, using the analogy of buffalo and cows to illustrate how we can confront our challenges. Sandi discusses the significance of community in healing and encourages listeners to emb...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the theme of pressure in our lives, emphasizing the importance of understanding its role in our spiritual journey. She discusses how pressure can lead to healing and surrender, the necessity of community and connection, and the need to face darkness and lies. Sandi encourages listeners to lean into God during difficult times and highlights the importance of igniting faith and releasing bur...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby discusses the themes of transitions, emotional pain, and the journey towards healing. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing weariness and how it can affect one's spiritual life. Through personal testimonies, she illustrates the transformative power of God's hand in our lives, encouraging listeners to embrace their purpose and the blessings that come with healing. Sandi also highlights the si...

In this engaging conversation, Sandi Derby and Seth Dahl explore the critical themes of healing, emotional health, and spiritual warfare. They discuss the misconceptions surrounding emotional pain and the importance of addressing it for spiritual growth. The dialogue emphasizes the necessity of working through emotional wounds to fully experience the freedom and purpose that God has for individuals. They also highlight the process ...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the dynamics of narcissism and sociopathy, emphasizing the importance of understanding these personality types to navigate relationships effectively. She discusses the psychological and spiritual aspects of these disorders, highlighting the dangers they pose and the need for discernment in interactions. Sandi also shares personal insights from her experiences and offers guidance on how to prote...

In this podcast, Sandi Derby discusses the importance of discernment in recognizing false prophets and the need for personal healing to avoid being influenced by the enemy. She emphasizes the role of community and relationships in spiritual growth, the significance of recognizing emotional hooks and red flags in relationships, and the power of prayer against assignments from the enemy. Sandi shares personal experiences and biblical...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby shares her transformative journey from a background steeped in darkness and Satanism to discovering the love of Jesus. She explores the complexities of love, compassion, and legalism within the Christian faith, emphasizing the importance of understanding individual stories and the nuances of love in various contexts. Sandi discusses the impact of spiritual abuse, the role of compassion in healing, ...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the complexities of honoring parents, especially in the context of difficult or abusive relationships. She discusses the biblical command to honor one's parents, the challenges that arise when parents are destructive, and the importance of understanding the difference between difficulty and destruction. Sandi emphasizes that true honor may sometimes require setting boundaries or even separ...

In this episode, Sandi Derby shares her transformative journey of a backyard project that became a metaphor for her spiritual growth and relationship with God. She emphasizes the importance of enjoying the process rather than rushing to the end goal, highlighting how breakthroughs and personal growth often occur during the journey. Sandi discusses the balance between seeking immediate results and understanding the value of process ...

In this podcast, Sandi Derby explores the theme of going deeper in our spiritual and emotional lives. She discusses the challenges faced in both the mental health and Christian communities regarding internal work, emphasizing the importance of understanding the root causes of our behaviors and struggles. Sandi shares her personal journey of healing and the significance of compassion in addressing deep-seated issues. The conversatio...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the challenges of living in a distracted world and the importance of discerning our commitments. She emphasizes the need to say 'no' to things that drain us, using the metaphor of mistletoe as a parasitic commitment that can hinder our growth. Sandi discusses the significance of setting boundaries in relationships, understanding God's calling, and the journey of letting go of past commitments. ...