Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking all things queer and gay dating with the incredible Nathan Serrato!

Nathan is a trauma-informed coach and host of the Queer Conscious podcast, helping LGBTQ+ individuals and couples build thriving, intentional relationships rooted in self-worth, communication, and emotional intimacy.

Inside the episode, we explore the beautifully complex, sometimes messy, and yet always real ...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re welcoming someone whose work has helped thousands of people move from stuck to aligned, it's the brilliant Britt Frank.

A licensed neuropsychotherapist, trauma specialist, speaker, and bestselling author of The Science of Stuck and her brand-new book Align Your Mind, her insights have been featured in NPR, Forbes, The New York Times, and Esquire—and today, she’s here with us, Flirtie...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting intimate—literally—with certified sex and intimacy coach, Court Vox. Court is the founder of The Body Vox , a somatic sex educator and has been featured in Vogue, Men’s Health, Allure, The New York Post, and more. 

He’s worked with individuals and couples all over the world, helping them build deeper awareness in their bodies, relationships, and erotic selves.

In today’s conve...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations is the iconic Rebecca More!

Adult industry legend, one-half of the unforgettable Cock Destroyers, star of Slag Wars, and soon competing in an Ironman, today we’re going beyond fame to talk about reinvention.

In this conversation, Rebecca shares her journey of stepping away from porn and adult work, grieving the loss of her dear friend Sophie, and navigating what life looks like now. 

We tal...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting real, raw, and radically open with the incredible Tricia Wise. 

You may know Tricia as the @safe.slut across social media, Tricia is a master aesthetician, reiki practitioner, sexual health advocate, herpes stigma breaker, and meme queen—and today, she’s joining us to talk about something that, depending on the type, affects over 3 billion people around the world. It’s Herpes!

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re defining the relationship, ya’ll, with Carleigh Ferrante!

Carleigh is the creator and voice of @mostlydating on Instagram and host of the Mostly Dating podcast, having built a community of over 200,000 with her honest takes on dating and relationships.

Whether you’re feeling things out with someone new, stuck in dating limbo, or ready to move from casual to committed, this episode of...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Fernie is back on the show for our summer solstice dating horoscope!

With a brand new season comes new energy for dating, romance, flirting, and cosmic possibility.

Joining us today is Flirtations’ in-house astrologer, fortune teller, and magic mystic, Fernie, here to read the stars and pull back the planetary curtain on what this season has in store for our love lives.

What does the Queen ...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Dr. Shanté Holley to the show!

Dr. Shanté is a certified life coach, writer, professor, and host of the podcast The Whole In Your Heart podcast on YouTube. Specializing in guiding individuals through the complexities of healing, wellness, and personal development, today we have a conversation for you about the art of surrender.

We explore how to trust the timing of your life, th...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re going to have a cheeky good time with the fabulous Jana Hocking!

You might know Jana from her spicy columns in the Daily Mail, her time behind the scenes casting and producing The Bachelor, or her wildly popular 'saucy secrets' series on Instagram, where no confession is too hot to handle.

In this episode, we talk about everything from orgasm camp to the realities of modern dating—inc...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Erica Turner to the show, the creator of The Relationship Reset on Instagram and the Secure Dating Playbook, to have a conversation with us about communication in early dating!

We open the show with how to reset the relationship we have with ourselves and reframe some common experiences we might have out there dating. Experiences like feeling like it’s never going to happen, feel...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Alli Goldberg to the show! Alli is a producer, writer, comedian, and creator of the in real life comedy show Love Isn’t Blind that blends dating, laughter, and matchmaking, here to have a conversation with us about dating, flirting, and how we can have more fun making connections.

Questions for Alli for relatively split between this sounds so fun, where can I see a show!, and I c...

Today on Flirtations, we welcome Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the powerhouse due behind the Almost 30 podcast, with over 100M downloads around the world, and authors of the new book Almost 30:  A Definitive Guide to a Life You Love for the Next Decade and Beyond, who are here to have a conversation with us today about dating advice I wish I knew!

We open with the interplay between change and fear, and how can we navigate the...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re celebrating the premiere of the new season And Just Like That … with a special Sex and the City episode! 

Take the "Which Character am I" quiz (takes 3 minutes!):  Sex and the City Quiz

For this conversation, we welcome the multitalented and multifaceted Scott Spraags, a dancer, choreographer, producer, director, and all-around passionate creator who is a Sex and the City superfan, ju...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking limerence, longing, and connection with our guest, Amanda McCracken, a journalist, speaker, and host of the insightful The Longing Lab podcast and author of the forthcoming book, When Longing Becomes Your Lover.

Inside the episode, we breakdown limerence and the limerence cycle, and how this intense and often obsessive infatuation we may develop for someone ultimately keeps us...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by the fabulous Maria Avgitidis— a fourth generation matchmaker, dating extraordinaire, and author of the new book Ask a Matchmaker to have a conversation with us about, well, dating!

Maria brings real-world wisdom, generational insight, and just the right dose of tough love to the modern dating experience we all need.

Inside the episode, we’ll learn what Maria observes when tw...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we have the first-ever guest back on the show, it’s Talia Koren!

Talia is the host of the Dating Intentionally podcast and creator of the Dating Intentionally Instagram and YouTube pages, who is here to have a conversation with us about dating intentionally.

Inside the episode, here’s what you can expect:

• How to identify your personal intentions and needs ...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, I am honored to bring you a conversation with Jillian Turecki, the host of the Jillian On Love podcast and author of the book, It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life.

The topics:  emotional availability and what matters in relationships.

To begin, we talk about some good ‘ol healing and the transformative period known as the "dark night of the soul." Jil...

Coming up on this episode for Flirtations, we welcome Natalie Lue, the host of the Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast and the author of five books, including The Joy of Saying No, to have a conversation with us about people pleasing!

Natalie is a leading voice on boundaries and people-pleasing, helping people understand how their emotional baggage interferes with their ability to live authentically.

Together, we'll delve into what pe...

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking about neurodivergence and dating with our guest, Mady Snyder, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in working with late-diagnosed neurodivergent individuals and couples! Whew, I am so ready!

Dating is a complex journey for most, but for those with neurodivergence, it can present distinct challenges and yet many opportunities.​

Today, we'll discuss:​