Modern Marriage with Monica

Join us for an insightful and transformative episode of the podcast where I’m thrilled to be joined by Karyn Seitz, the creator of the Happy Wife School YouTube channel.

Both of our channels share a mission to empower women to cultivate their own happiness and help men navigate the complexities of modern relationships.

In this engaging conversation, we explore critical topics like why women often resist taking personal respo...

Discover how I grew my YouTube channel, Modern Marriage with Monica, to 50,000 subscribers in just one year and how I got monetized in just 6 weeks!

Learn the exact strategies, equipment, and editing tips that helped me succeed, plus behind-the-scenes insights on creating viral content (like my clip with 300,000+ views) that resonated with men seeking better marriages.

Want to start your own YouTube channel? Learn from my m...

In this engaging podcast episode, we sit down with Rich Cooper, a prominent figure in the manosphere, known for his YouTube channel Entrepreneurs in Cars with over 700,000 subscribers and a strong presence on X with 217,000 followers. Rich shares his journey from business-focused content to addressing men’s relationship challenges, drawing from his personal experiences, including his 2011 divorce and subsequent insights into modern...

In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity.

Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disconnect to building a thriving marriage.

Drawing from his new book, The Way of...

Welcome back to the second part of our two part series on the Eight Characteristics of Unframed Men. In this episode, we wrap up the discussion by exploring characteristics 5 through 8, diving deep into what it means to lack frame and how it impacts your life, relationships, and personal growth.

Building on last week’s insights—where we defined frame, its importance, and covered the first four characteristics—this video tackles...

Unlock the secret to sustaining long-term sexual attraction in your marriage by mastering the concept of masculine frame. In this in-depth video, we explore the critical role that a strong masculine frame plays in fostering a healthy, passionate relationship dynamic. Learn what it means to operate with mental strength and fortitude, why this is essential for maintaining respect and attraction, and how losing your frame can lead to ...

Discover the final 5 of the 10 Laws for Married Men in Part 2 of our series.

In this video, we dive deep into essential tips for a thriving marriage, covering why open communication is critical, how to avoid letting sex become a reward, and the importance of maintaining effort. Learn why setting boundaries and being willing to walk away are game-changers for a healthy relationship. Don't miss Law #10—it's the most crucial one. ...

Unlock the secrets to a thriving, passionate marriage with my "10 Laws for Married Men" series! In this must-watch Part 1, we break down the first 5 essential principles every husband needs to master to become a better partner and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Designed specifically for men, these powerful laws cut through the noise of endless relationship advice and tackle real issues like disrespect, communicatio...

Is marriage really a financial disaster waiting to happen, or could it be the key to a richer, happier life for men? In this in-depth video, we’re tackling the big question: Is marriage worth it? We’re diving into a fascinating article from the Institute of Family Studies (https://ifstudies.org/blog/debunking-the-ball-and-chain-myth-of-marriage-for-men) , packed with data that challenges the myths keeping guys on the sidelines. Sp...

Are you a married man stuck in a sexless marriage for years—or even decades? You’re not alone. In this in-depth video, we explore the heartbreak of sexless marriages, a major source of unhappiness for countless husbands. Why do men stay? The top reasons I hear in the comments are: 1) wanting to raise their kids, 2) fearing financial ruin from divorce, or 3) honoring a faith-based vow to God.

This video is tailored for Christian...

In this powerful episode, Monica Almaguer sits down with Ralph from Dad Starting Over and HelpForMen.com to dive deep into the topic of "dead bedroom" struggles in relationships. Ralph, author of the bestselling book The Dead Bedroom Fix, shares his personal journey from divorce to rebuilding his life and offers practical advice for men facing intimacy issues in marriage. From tackling low libido and menopause to navigating modern ...

Are you feeling emotionally disconnected from your spouse? In this in-depth video, we explore why emotional connection is the key to a thriving marriage—and why it’s often the missing piece when intimacy fades. Based on real-life insights, I share my own experience of noticing distance from my husband and realizing it stemmed from unspoken issues. We’ll unpack the science of a woman’s responsive nature, why men need to lead with em...

What Would You Do If Your Husband Tracked Your Sex Life? | Viral Reddit Story Breakdown

Ever heard of the husband who made a spreadsheet of all the times his wife denied him sex? This wild story, originally posted anonymously on Reddit in 2004, went viral again recently—and people have opinions. Over 7 weeks, he logged 27 attempts, with only 3 successes (an 11% success rate). Excuses? “I’m watching Friends reruns,” “I feel gross,”...

I attended a marriage conference hosted by a Las Vegas community church last weekend—not to learn, but to research. What are these events teaching about marriage priorities? After two days, I found the same surface-level advice: pray together, communicate better, keep God at the center. Check, check, check. But something critical was missing—sex.

Stats show 25-50% of marriages are sexless (10 times or less per year), yet churc...

Is your wife having an affair? Discover 7 subtle signs your wife might be cheating or your marriage is at risk— from leveling up her appearance to secretive phone habits. Don’t confront her too soon—gather proof first! We dive into stats (like a 75% divorce risk if her friend’s divorced) and real-life insights. Watch now to spot the clues: new lingerie, new friends, or gut feelings screaming trouble. Comment your thoughts—did we mi...

With a 50% divorce rate and women filing most cases, are men opting out of marriage? In this video, we dive into hypergamy—women’s natural tendency to seek higher-status partners—and the concept of 'monkey branching.' Does hypergamy stop after marriage, or do women keep searching for a better option? We debunk myths (no, it’s not just about money!), explore why divorce is declining, and reveal the one way to divorce-proof your marr...

Struggling in a sexless marriage? In this video, we tackle the tough question: When is it time to leave a sexless marriage? From years of no intimacy to a complete lack of affection, too many men are stuck in "Sexless Island" —some for decades—turning into shells of their former selves. We explore why guys stay (faith, finances, kids), when divorce might be justified, and key questions to ask yourself before making the call. Is for...