Thirty Flirty and Trying

Thirty Flirty and Trying

A biweekly podcast for millennial girls, gays, & theys just out here doing their best. “Thirty, Flirty, & Trying” is hosted by NoLo, a badass Multi-Passionate Generalist and mom of 3 (if you count her 2 dogs) still trying to find herself, and Chris, an awkward Creative with too many hobbies and physical ailments. Join us as we talk candidly about the struggle that is life and navigating all the transitions that come with being in your 30s as a millennial.

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January 25, 2026 128 mins

Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.

Today we’re finishing out the season by diving head first into Mommy and/or Daddy Issues. We’ll talk a bit about our lore, those childhood experiences that shaped who we are now, how those old wounds sneak into...

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Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.

Today we’re diving deep into the beautiful chaos of parenting, particularly that sweet spot where we try to gently parent our kids while also reparenting ourselves. The truth is that healing your inner child ...

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December 28, 2025 123 mins

Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.

'Tis the season, and today we’re talking about dating when you’re in a committed partnership. We obvi don't mean sneaky links or affairs, but intentionally dating your spouse. AND we’re not doing it alo...

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December 14, 2025 103 mins

Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.

Today we’re talking about On today’s episode we’re talking about dating in 2025, because dating out here is ROUGH. SWe brought in Dr. Jessica Sanchez, licensed sex therapist and pleasure advocate to help us ...

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November 30, 2025 77 mins

Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.

Today’s episode is all about surviving the messy culture of corporate life and we invited our new frahnd, Ruby Gomez to help us spill some tea and clock bad behavior!! We’re talking drama, backstabbing, the tox...

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November 16, 2025 71 mins

Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.

Today we’re getting real about something that so many of us are unlearning: the influence of the male gaze and how it’s shaped the way we show up in the world. From how we dress, to how we act, to what we post ...

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November 2, 2025 60 mins

Hi, frahnd!

This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.Today, we’re diving into something we’ve both been feeling lately…finding energy for a social life. Why is it so hard to make plans, go out, or even want to be social these days? And when we do, what can we ...

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October 19, 2025 75 mins

OMG Hello again, frahnd! Welcome back to Thirty, Flirty & Trying!

This season, the struggle continues. Relationships, whether platonic, romantic, familial, or otherwise, take time and patience to cultivate and, honestly, ain’t nobody got time for that😔 Tbh, our social lives feel out of control and on the decline. Juggling time to love on our friends, partners, and family feels overwhelming and almost impossible in a culture th...

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January 5, 2025 64 mins

Hi Frahnd!! On the last episode of the season, Struggling with Sensuality, we talk about the demonization of women’s sensuality, the uncomfortable adult lens that grown ups project onto women as children, and how we’re healing these wounds to finally have mental autonomy over our bodies again.  .


What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Have you been personally victimized by others for your sensuality? Share your thoughts and strugg...

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December 8, 2024 99 mins

TRIGGER WARNING: Hi Frahnd! This episode covers a few different heavy topics, including the recent election, religious trauma, r@cial inequality, and child ab*se. If this is not the episode for you, or today is not a good day to hear about this stuff, please take care of yourself; catch us in the next one bb, no stress<3


On today’s episode, we talk about our tumultuous spiritual journeys, the reasons why so many millennials a...

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November 18, 2024 72 mins

SOUND DISCLAIMER: Hi Frahnd! We had many an issue recording this episode; it literally took 3 takes and we just about had a meltdown. Unfortunately, about an hour into the episode Chris’ mic died so the sound of the last 10 minutes is MUCH softer than the rest. You’ll still be able to hear, but you’ll need to turn up the volume drastically for that last part of the episode. We apologize for the inconvenience!


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October 27, 2024 85 mins

On today’s Spooky Spectacular, we discuss where we are in our personal aging journeys, where the fear of aging comes from, the ugly side of eternal youth and the risks that come with pursuing it, and talk about a mindset shift to set future you up for a peaceful and fruitful aging process.


What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear what your experience has been like with aging. Share your thoughts and struggles with ...

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October 13, 2024 109 mins

On today’s episode, we’re joined once again by Ursula Rodriguez of Soleil Vida Studio. We’ll discuss the many ways our childhood traumas affect our present-day lives, take you through helpful tools to honor the needs of your inner child, and share how we’ve applied some of these in our own lives.


What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear if you've had a similar experience unraveling your childhood and how you've o...

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September 29, 2024 54 mins

On today’s episode, we’re  joined by Ursula Rodriguez of Soleil Vida Studio. We talk about Ursula’s corporate past, the moment the burnout hit, how that brought us all together, and where our journeys with inner child healing began. This is the first of two interviews with Ursula; make sure to follow us so you don't miss the next episode!


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September 16, 2024 92 mins

On today’s episode, we discuss the ways in which growing up in the early 2000’s affected our view our bodies, where we are in the our Body Dysmorphia Struggle, and what we’re doing to foster more self-love and acceptance for our bodies!


What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear if you had a similar experience growing up. Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube!


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September 1, 2024 61 mins

On our very first episode, we share with you who we are, the story of our unlikely friendship, and why, 7 years later, we have decided to tie our lives together (no pressure) to achieve our dreams of community and fulfillment like the bada** menaces that we are.


What are your thoughts on today’s convo? What are your struggles? Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube!


Thirty Flirty Socia...

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