Man Within Podcast

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the challenges faced when trying to quit pornography, emphasizing that struggles often intensify after making the decision to quit. He explores the psychological and spiritual aspects of this journey, encouraging listeners to persevere through difficulties and highlighting the importance of community support and accountability. The message is clear: if you don't quit, you win, and the journey, tho...

This conversation explores the complexities of addiction treatment through the perspectives of two professionals, Heather and Josh, who share their personal journeys and insights into the stigma, politics, and treatment approaches surrounding addiction. They discuss the importance of understanding the underlying causes of addiction, the role of choice, and the need for comprehensive education and support systems to effectively addr...

In this conversation, Sathiya explores the profound effects of pornography on the brain, detailing how it alters brain function and behavior. He discusses the neuroscience behind addiction, including decreased stress response, reduced prefrontal cortex activity, sensitization, and desensitization. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of understanding these effects to facilitate recovery and offers strategies for rewiring the brain, in...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about overcoming insecurities, particularly the fear of not being in control and the desire for security. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in healing and suggests focusing on one core issue at a time. Sathiya shares personal anecdotes and insights on building self-security through confronting challenges and the significance of inner chil...

In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the four indicative features of problematic pornography use: tolerance, pornographic binges, tab jumping, and edging behaviors. He explains how these behaviors manifest and their implications for individuals struggling with pornography addiction. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs and taking proactive steps towards recovery.

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In this conversation, Sathiya and Christine delve into the challenges faced by high-performing individuals in their marriages, particularly the phenomenon known as 'roommate syndrome.' They explore the tension between career success and marital intimacy, emphasizing the importance of intentionality and clarity in relationships. The discussion highlights the purpose of marriage beyond companionship, advocating for a proactive approa...

In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the challenging yet crucial topic of confessing a porn addiction to a partner. He emphasizes the importance of honesty and the potential consequences of secrecy. The discussion outlines the process of disclosure, highlighting that it should be an ongoing conversation rather than a one-time event. Sathiya provides practical advice on how to approach the conversation, including being direct, al...

In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of quitting and how the manner in which one quits can influence their recovery journey. He emphasizes the difference between a cold turkey approach and a gradual change, highlighting that those who quit hard often experience harder relapses. The conversation explores the importance of understanding slips in recovery and how a more gradual approach can lead to easier recoveries. Sat...

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the interplay between the left and right brain in the context of pornography recovery. He emphasizes the importance of understanding both logical and emotional aspects of decision-making, particularly in relation to addiction and recovery.

The conversation highlights the need for solutions that address deeper emotional needs rather than just logical fixes, advocating for a more holistic approach t...

In this conversation, Jonah discusses the evolution of their role as a Bible teacher and influencer on social media, particularly TikTok. He shares his journey from traditional teaching to engaging with a digital audience, emphasizing the importance of addressing the challenges faced by Gen Z, including loneliness and mental health issues. Jonah advocates for the church's involvement in social media to provide guidance and support,...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam wraps up the Integrity Secrets series with a focus on the concept of imperfect action. He emphasizes the importance of taking action, even if it's not perfect, to avoid the pitfalls of procrastination and perfectionism. Sathiya shares insights on fatherhood, the impact fathers have on their children, and encourages listeners to pursue recovery and integrity in their lives. He a...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya discusses the importance of inner child work as a means of emotional healing and trauma recovery. He outlines a four-step process for healing the inner child, emphasizing the significance of locating, learning about, leading, and inviting Jesus into the healing process. The conversation also highlights the importance of tracking progress in personal development and the resources av...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya discusses the importance of investing in relationships as a key to integrity and recovery. He emphasizes that all resources, including money and time, should be viewed as investments rather than expenditures. The conversation highlights the necessity of having supportive relationships, including a spotter, a guide, and a community, to aid in personal growth and healing from trauma ...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya delves into the concept of intimacy as a core issue in struggles with pornography and sexual misbehavior. He emphasizes that these issues are not merely behavioral but stem from deeper intimacy disorders. Sathiya discusses the importance of emotional connection, self-awareness, and community support in overcoming these challenges. He introduces the Deep Clean Inner Circle program, ...

In this conversation, John and Sathiya explore the detrimental effects of busyness on spiritual connection and the importance of cultivating communion with God amidst a technology-driven world. They discuss practical steps to reduce distractions, the significance of experiencing God's presence, and the healing that comes from intimacy with Christ. The conversation emphasizes the need for quiet environments and the journey towards f...

In this episode of the Man Within podcast, Sathiya delves into the theme of mastering temptation as part of the Integrity Secrets series. He emphasizes the importance of understanding triggers and temptations, encouraging listeners to embrace rather than suppress them. By asking critical questions about what these temptations offer, individuals can gain valuable insights into their emotional needs and vulnerabilities. The episode a...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya discusses the importance of tracking macros in recovery from porn addiction. He emphasizes the flaws of counting streaks and introduces a progress tracker that focuses on macro trends rather than short-term successes. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding triggers and how to measure progress effectively to foster long-term recovery and personal growth.

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In this episode, Sathiya introduces a seven-part series focused on integrity and personal growth, particularly in the context of recovery from pornography addiction. He emphasizes the importance of aligning one's values with daily behavior and discusses the dangers of the 'rewire your brain' mentality. Instead, he advocates for a long-term mindset, incremental progress, and focusing on the inner life to achieve true freedom and int...

In this conversation, the Sathiya and Scott explore the journey into neuroscience, particularly focusing on the understanding of depression and anxiety. They discuss the significance of the inner critic, its origins in childhood, and how it affects mental health. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of self-compassion in recovery and the balance between methods and outcomes in personal growth.

In this conversation, Scott and Sath...