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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARVIFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Right now. Buck love it. Hold on tight, We got
it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Thank you nephew. Subjects. She sent me the proof.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for three years and
my husband is a cheater and a liar. A month ago,
he got a certified letter and I signed for it.
The letter disappeared, and when I asked, he said it
was nothing. Then I started getting unknown calls and I
thought it was spam, so I ignored them. I noticed my
(00:48):
husband got the same calls from the same number, and
he ignored them too. A couple of weeks ago, my
husband ran to the store for me, and he facetimed me.
When he got there, he suddenly got distracted and said
he had to go. He must have put his phone
in his pants pocket because I could hear a woman
yelling in the background and he was telling her to
(01:09):
stop following him. I asked him about it, and he
said it was a homeless person. A week later, I
found the certified letter and his drawer, and it was
a notice for child support. I went off on him,
and he finally admitted that he had a one night
stand with a woman right before we met. According to
(01:29):
the paperwork, their child is four years old, so my
husband's math ain't massing because we've been together six years.
I called a strange number on my phone and I
talked to the woman. She said it is way more
than a one night stand. She sent me an envelope
full of greeting cards from him to her and cards
(01:50):
from flowers he sent to her. He sent her some
of them were recent since we've been married. My husband
swears she's lying, even though it's his hand writing. This
is serious because the child is involved. I know wives
have stayed with their men for far worse things, but
(02:10):
he won't be honest. Should I excuse myself from this
marriage and let them live happily ever after? Please advise? Well,
here's the question. I mean, do you want to be
married to a cheater and a liar? Those are your words.
Those are your words and how you described him at
the very beginning of your letter, So again, do you
want to be married to a cheetah and a liar?
(02:33):
You also said these cards and letters she sent you
were in your husband's handwriting and they were recent, So
he's still still entangled with this woman. She's not just
a baby mama. If they were co parenting, he wouldn't
be sending her cards and flowers and all that. So
why do you need him to be honest when you've
talked to the woman, she sent you the cards he
(02:55):
gave her, and you know there's a four year old
child involved, husband's son. He lied to you throughout your
marriage and continues to lie it every turn, even though
you know the truth. Now, can you take any more
of his lives in your marriage? Is there anything he
can do to make this right? And finally, will you
ever be able to trust him again? These are the
(03:16):
questions you need to think about and ask yourself. And
if the answer is no, then he's got to go.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Steve Wow, I knew it. I knew it. I knew
it when I read the letter what she was going
to do.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I knew it, knew and I know what you're going
to do.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, well she's back, she's and he's back here. You
know what, this letter is a.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Mess because there is some deception going on. Let's just
first admit that there is some deception going on.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
It is a mess.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
I understand the cause of the deception, which I will
try to regulate on this show. I won't have any
success because women don't they don't view this this way,
but I'm gonna help try to help you all understand.
She got a certified letter, then it disappeared. He asked
(04:15):
about it. He said it was nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
She knowed.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
She had been getting a bunch of phone calls from me,
and she ignored those two. And then he was getting
the same calls from the same number and he was
ignoring them too. And now he went to the store
from her and was facetiming, and all of a sudden
he got distracted and said he had to go.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
He put his phone in his pocket.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
And you can hear a woman yelling at him, and
he was telling her to stop following him. I asked
him about it, and he said it was a homeless person.
Brilliant that brud dog come through. Come through, homeless person,
Stop following me, Okay, good, we're working. I asked him
(05:00):
about it, and I found the certified letter in his drawer.
Now he's stupid. Now, why did you keep the damn
letter though? Why would you keep the certified You read it,
you know what it said, throw it away? But it
was a notice for child support.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I went off on him.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
He finally admitted that he had a one night staying
with a woman right before we met.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
And according to the paperwork, the child is four years old.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
So my husband's math ain't mathing because we've been together
six years. Well, hold up, hold up, hold up, back up,
this bag just timeline. Y'all been together six years. When
y'all first met, y'all wasn't really together. Y'all was just talking.
You only been married three years. The baby four years old.
(05:55):
It takes nine months to make the baby. Then the
baby here, that's two years right there, I say, bam,
we right back at six.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Did you see how I did that? You did? You
said that, Mathew, Matthew, y'all.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Been married three years, the baby four years, that's one
year to take nine months to make a baby, that's
two years. That's five years. We right back and when
y'all first met Bam. Here we go. So we do
have that loophole.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
That's what you're trying to find.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Really, get out. I got to get this bro a
one loophole.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
She's already said he was a liar and a cheater.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
All right, Well, Shirley, that's what you want to go with.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
So that's what she said. She's the white We talk
Part two of your response coming up at twenty three
minutes after.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
The subject is she sent me the proof. We'll get
back into it right after this.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
You're listening Morning show, All right, come on, Steve, let's
recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is she sent me
the proof.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
This couple been married three years. She says her husband
is a cheater and a liar. Got a certified letter
came in the mail. All of a sudden, she noticed
the letter disappeared. He had opened it, told it wasn't nothing.
She had been getting some phone calls from some numbers
she thought was spam. He was getting calls from the
same number. She ignored him. He ignored him too. He
(07:25):
went to the store for he facetimed his wife from
the store. All of a sudden, she heard a woman
yelling at him. He must have put the phone in
his pocket without cutting it off. He told her quick
following him, you go home. She asked him who it was.
He brilliantly said it was a homeless person.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Perfect. I asked him about it. He said it was
a homeless person.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
A week later you find she finds the certified letter
in his jower.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Why this man kept this letter, I do.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Not and disappointing in him.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
God, you should have put this in the real well
of your car where it's bad tires had dog.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
They don't never go in there.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
You could have did anything, man, You could have told
the back head rest off the back seat and put
it up under that little hole and there it's some
places you could put this anyway. And found a letter
and there was a notice for child support. I went
off on him. He finally admitted he had a one
night staying with a woman right before we met, and
according to the paperwork, they child is four years old.
(08:30):
So my husband's math ainkt mathing because we've been together
six years. No, no, no, you've known him six years.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
We've been together.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
No, they've known each other six years. That's what y'all
always think when we met. We was together.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
We wasn't.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
We just met. We knew each other. I was hollering
at you, but we was not together yet. But if
the baby is four and y'all being married three, that's
at least a year before you met. And then when
the baby was uh conceived, that's another nine months. That's
enough damn near two years. That's the baby four, y'all
(09:09):
be married three, that's fourth minus one plus one. Were
right there, we had five years right there, that's where
we first met. He is right spot on the money.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
But he said it was a one night standing.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
This is where we're getting into trouble at I called
the strange number on the phone and I talked to
the woman. She said it was way more than a
one night stand. She sent me an envelope full of
greeting calls from him to her and calls from flowers
he sent her. Some of them were recent since we've
(09:47):
been married. God, b this is where we help him.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I can't help him, man, help him, give him a lot.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Now, this envelope, there's too much stuff in this.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
There's one we can get out, but this envelope full
of stuff. My husband swears she's lying, even though it's
his handwriting.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
That ain't handwriting. That's I get out of that. A
lot of people write like me.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
What's a handwriting line? What is that?
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Well? A lot of people write like me.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Just lying, you know. I.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
You know, before we got met, I was in forour
fraudry of fraud fraud cases and uh, you know it
found out that people it wasn't me, wasn't my hand right?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
A lot of people write.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Like me, this is serious because the child is involved.
I know whives have stayed with that man for far
worse things, but he won't be honest. Should I excuse
myself from this marriage and let them live happily ever after?
Please a buy First of all, he don't want her.
(10:58):
Let me just tell you that he don't don't want her.
The reason I know he don't want her is because
he has done everything in his power to fix this
mistake he made.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Thus you have the lies.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
And here's the part they don't understand, Jr. The lies
is because he loves you.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
The god that boy.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Kidding me right now, if.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
He didn't care, he lets you get hurt. But he
been trying to protect you from his mistake. He made
a mistake. His protection is to lie to cover the mistake.
And let me tell you something. Obviously, he don't want
the woman because now she got the stalking to get
him to come through for something. Now she got to
(11:46):
follow him. So now there's proof that he's avoiding the
woman because you heard him. He didn't even know you
was listening. Stop following me. He don't want this. He
made the mistake. The girl of his dreams is probably
who he's married to, and he trying to hang.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
On to it.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
But he want to be honest.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Well, see, y'all keep talking about honesty when well he
try and hold on this to his marriage.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
We have time to be honest right now.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
She wants him to tell her the truth.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Well, see, the truth is the baby's out there. You
got the truth?
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Honestly has to do with time, now.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Yeah, you got the truth.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
He don't want you to think, he continued, because he
trying to keep his marriage.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Y'all don't staying. I do, brother, god man, damn, thank you,
Tommy and Kim. But he didn't care. All he would
say is hey, just deal with it. What about it? Yeah?
I did it.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harby on.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Instagram and Facebook. She said he's a liar and a
cheater too.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
He learned because he love you.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
No way.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
I'll check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free
iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded So Good.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
You can download it today.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Coming up in forty six minutes after the hour of
Sports Talk with Junior.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Right after this line is Carrie. I'm just telling you're
listening to Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARVIFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Right now. Buck love it. Hold on tight, We got
it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Thank you nephew. Subjects. She sent me the proof.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for three years and
my husband is a cheater and a liar. A month ago,
he got a certified letter and I signed for it.
The letter disappeared, and when I asked, he said it
was nothing. Then I started getting unknown calls and I
thought it was spam, so I ignored them. I noticed my
(00:48):
husband got the same calls from the same number, and
he ignored them too. A couple of weeks ago, my
husband ran to the store for me, and he facetimed me.
When he got there, he suddenly got distracted and said
he had to go. He must have put his phone
in his pants pocket because I could hear a woman
yelling in the background and he was telling her to
(01:09):
stop following him. I asked him about it, and he
said it was a homeless person. A week later, I
found the certified letter and his drawer, and it was
a notice for child support. I went off on him,
and he finally admitted that he had a one night
stand with a woman right before we met. According to
(01:29):
the paperwork, their child is four years old, so my
husband's math ain't massing because we've been together six years.
I called a strange number on my phone and I
talked to the woman. She said it is way more
than a one night stand. She sent me an envelope
full of greeting cards from him to her and cards
(01:50):
from flowers he sent to her. He sent her some
of them were recent since we've been married. My husband
swears she's lying, even though it's his hand writing. This
is serious because the child is involved. I know wives
have stayed with their men for far worse things, but
(02:10):
he won't be honest. Should I excuse myself from this
marriage and let them live happily ever after? Please advise? Well,
here's the question. I mean, do you want to be
married to a cheater and a liar? Those are your words.
Those are your words and how you described him at
the very beginning of your letter, So again, do you
want to be married to a cheetah and a liar?
(02:33):
You also said these cards and letters she sent you
were in your husband's handwriting and they were recent, So
he's still still entangled with this woman. She's not just
a baby mama. If they were co parenting, he wouldn't
be sending her cards and flowers and all that. So
why do you need him to be honest when you've
talked to the woman, she sent you the cards he
(02:55):
gave her, and you know there's a four year old
child involved, husband's son. He lied to you throughout your
marriage and continues to lie it every turn, even though
you know the truth. Now, can you take any more
of his lives in your marriage? Is there anything he
can do to make this right? And finally, will you
ever be able to trust him again? These are the
(03:16):
questions you need to think about and ask yourself. And
if the answer is no, then he's got to go.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Steve Wow, I knew it. I knew it. I knew
it when I read the letter what she was going
to do.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I knew it, knew and I know what you're going
to do.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, well she's back, she's and he's back here. You
know what, this letter is a.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Mess because there is some deception going on. Let's just
first admit that there is some deception going on.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
It is a mess.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
I understand the cause of the deception, which I will
try to regulate on this show. I won't have any
success because women don't they don't view this this way,
but I'm gonna help try to help you all understand.
She got a certified letter, then it disappeared. He asked
(04:15):
about it. He said it was nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
She knowed.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
She had been getting a bunch of phone calls from me,
and she ignored those two. And then he was getting
the same calls from the same number and he was
ignoring them too. And now he went to the store
from her and was facetiming, and all of a sudden
he got distracted and said he had to go.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
He put his phone in his pocket.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
And you can hear a woman yelling at him, and
he was telling her to stop following him. I asked
him about it, and he said it was a homeless person.
Brilliant that brud dog come through. Come through, homeless person,
Stop following me, Okay, good, we're working. I asked him
(05:00):
about it, and I found the certified letter in his drawer.
Now he's stupid. Now, why did you keep the damn
letter though? Why would you keep the certified You read it,
you know what it said, throw it away? But it
was a notice for child support.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I went off on him.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
He finally admitted that he had a one night staying
with a woman right before we met.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
And according to the paperwork, the child is four years old.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
So my husband's math ain't mathing because we've been together
six years. Well, hold up, hold up, hold up, back up,
this bag just timeline. Y'all been together six years. When
y'all first met, y'all wasn't really together. Y'all was just talking.
You only been married three years. The baby four years old.
(05:55):
It takes nine months to make the baby. Then the
baby here, that's two years right there, I say, bam,
we right back at six.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Did you see how I did that? You did? You
said that, Mathew, Matthew, y'all.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Been married three years, the baby four years, that's one
year to take nine months to make a baby, that's
two years. That's five years. We right back and when
y'all first met Bam. Here we go. So we do
have that loophole.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
That's what you're trying to find.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Really, get out. I got to get this bro a
one loophole.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
She's already said he was a liar and a cheater.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
All right, Well, Shirley, that's what you want to go with.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
So that's what she said. She's the white We talk
Part two of your response coming up at twenty three
minutes after.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
The subject is she sent me the proof. We'll get
back into it right after this.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
You're listening Morning show, All right, come on, Steve, let's
recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is she sent me
the proof.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
This couple been married three years. She says her husband
is a cheater and a liar. Got a certified letter
came in the mail. All of a sudden, she noticed
the letter disappeared. He had opened it, told it wasn't nothing.
She had been getting some phone calls from some numbers
she thought was spam. He was getting calls from the
same number. She ignored him. He ignored him too. He
(07:25):
went to the store for he facetimed his wife from
the store. All of a sudden, she heard a woman
yelling at him. He must have put the phone in
his pocket without cutting it off. He told her quick
following him, you go home. She asked him who it was.
He brilliantly said it was a homeless person.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Perfect. I asked him about it. He said it was
a homeless person.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
A week later you find she finds the certified letter
in his jower.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Why this man kept this letter, I do.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Not and disappointing in him.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
God, you should have put this in the real well
of your car where it's bad tires had dog.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
They don't never go in there.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
You could have did anything, man, You could have told
the back head rest off the back seat and put
it up under that little hole and there it's some
places you could put this anyway. And found a letter
and there was a notice for child support. I went
off on him. He finally admitted he had a one
night staying with a woman right before we met, and
according to the paperwork, they child is four years old.
(08:30):
So my husband's math ainkt mathing because we've been together
six years. No, no, no, you've known him six years.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
We've been together.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
No, they've known each other six years. That's what y'all
always think when we met. We was together.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
We wasn't.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
We just met. We knew each other. I was hollering
at you, but we was not together yet. But if
the baby is four and y'all being married three, that's
at least a year before you met. And then when
the baby was uh conceived, that's another nine months. That's
enough damn near two years. That's the baby four, y'all
(09:09):
be married three, that's fourth minus one plus one. Were
right there, we had five years right there, that's where
we first met. He is right spot on the money.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
But he said it was a one night standing.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
This is where we're getting into trouble at I called
the strange number on the phone and I talked to
the woman. She said it was way more than a
one night stand. She sent me an envelope full of
greeting calls from him to her and calls from flowers
he sent her. Some of them were recent since we've
(09:47):
been married. God, b this is where we help him.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I can't help him, man, help him, give him a lot.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Now, this envelope, there's too much stuff in this.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
There's one we can get out, but this envelope full
of stuff. My husband swears she's lying, even though it's
his handwriting.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
That ain't handwriting. That's I get out of that. A
lot of people write like me.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
What's a handwriting line? What is that?
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Well? A lot of people write like me.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Just lying, you know. I.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
You know, before we got met, I was in forour
fraudry of fraud fraud cases and uh, you know it
found out that people it wasn't me, wasn't my hand right?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
A lot of people write.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Like me, this is serious because the child is involved.
I know whives have stayed with that man for far
worse things, but he won't be honest. Should I excuse
myself from this marriage and let them live happily ever after?
Please a buy First of all, he don't want her.
(10:58):
Let me just tell you that he don't don't want her.
The reason I know he don't want her is because
he has done everything in his power to fix this
mistake he made.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Thus you have the lies.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
And here's the part they don't understand, Jr. The lies
is because he loves you.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
The god that boy.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Kidding me right now, if.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
He didn't care, he lets you get hurt. But he
been trying to protect you from his mistake. He made
a mistake. His protection is to lie to cover the mistake.
And let me tell you something. Obviously, he don't want
the woman because now she got the stalking to get
him to come through for something. Now she got to
(11:46):
follow him. So now there's proof that he's avoiding the
woman because you heard him. He didn't even know you
was listening. Stop following me. He don't want this. He
made the mistake. The girl of his dreams is probably
who he's married to, and he trying to hang.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
On to it.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
But he want to be honest.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Well, see, y'all keep talking about honesty when well he
try and hold on this to his marriage.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
We have time to be honest right now.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
She wants him to tell her the truth.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Well, see, the truth is the baby's out there. You
got the truth?
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Honestly has to do with time, now.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Yeah, you got the truth.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
He don't want you to think, he continued, because he
trying to keep his marriage.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Y'all don't staying. I do, brother, god man, damn, thank you,
Tommy and Kim. But he didn't care. All he would
say is hey, just deal with it. What about it? Yeah?
I did it.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harby on.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Instagram and Facebook. She said he's a liar and a
cheater too.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
He learned because he love you.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
No way.
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