Grayer & Gayer

This conversation explores the vital role of ⁠Finn's Place⁠, a community center in Fort Worth dedicated to supporting the transgender community. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding gender identity, the challenges faced by trans individuals, and the significance of allyship. Through personal stories and insights from the guests, the conversation emphasizes the need for community support, activism, and the celeb...

In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, Jeffrey starts off the show with a little satire on the state of fragile white men. Then hosts David and Jeffrey discuss the SAVE Act and its implications for voting rights and trans rights in America. They reflect on the historical context of American identity, the importance of activism, and the need...

In this episode, David & Jeffrey sit down with Ted Guice, a seasoned fitness trainer, to explore the importance of health and wellness within the LGBTQ community. Ted shares his personal journey in the fitness industry, his experiences with HIV, and how aging impacts physical well-being...

In this conversation, the David and Jeffrey sit down with James Lindquist, the Director of Development at the Palm Spings LGBTQ Center to explore the journey of community building within the LGBTQ community, focusing on personal experiences with HIV, the importance of LGBTQ centers, and the role of allyship. They discuss mental health, fundraising events, and the need for safe spaces, emphasizing the significance of individual d...

In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, the David & Jeffrey discuss the current state of LGBTQ+ rights amidst political challenges, personal reflections on mental health, and the importance of community and activism. They celebrate recent victories in LGBTQ+ representation while emphasizing the need for continued resistance against discrimination. The conversation highlights resources for staying informed and safe, t...

In this episode of the Grayer and Gayer Show, hosts Jeffrey and David discuss the emotional aftermath of a tumultuous election, emphasizing the importance of self-care, community, and resilience. They share personal coping strategies, the significance of staying informed, and the power of art and expression in times of distress. The conversation highlights the need for hope and the role of kindness in fostering connections within t...

In this final episode of Season One, Jeffrey and David reflect on their journey through podcasting, discussing the growth and enjoyment they've experienced, the importance of authenticity, and the political responsibilities that come with their platform. They share memorable moments from the season, express gratitude for their guests, and outline their aspirations for the future, emphasizing the need for empathy and understanding i...

In this episode, David & Jeffrey engage in a heartfelt conversation with Ciana Costa, who shares her journey of coming out as a transgender woman at the age of 50. The discussion covers the challenges and triumphs of transitioning later in life, the importance of family acceptance, and the impact of surgeries on identity. Ciana emphasizes the significance of community support and t...

In this episode of Grayer and Gayer, Jeffrey and David speak with Paul Elliott. He shares his heartfelt journey of coming out as a gay man, reflecting on the challenges he faced with family acceptance, societal expectations, and the importance of community support. He discusses the emotional turmoil of living a lie, the joy of finding love later in life, and the significance of living authentically. Paul emphasizes the need for con...

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey, and their guest explore the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the importance of communication, the impact of aging on relationships, and the journey of self-discovery. The conversation also touches on the role of sexuality in relationships and offers advice for younger generations navigating love and intimacy.

In this episode David and Jeffrey talk with Thompson Lang and explore the profound journey of grief experienced by the loss of his husband, Joe Vargo, during the COVID-19 pandemic. It delves into the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQ community in navigating loss, the impact of shared history, and the importance of community support. Thompson shares heartfelt memories, the struggles of grieving alone, and the process of rediscove...

In this conversation, David, Jeffrey, along with guest Nancy Beverly explore the themes of hiking, aging, and the importance of maintaining physical and mental health through outdoor activities. They discuss personal experiences with hiking, the challenges of aging, and the significance of community and connection in outdoor pursuits. The conversation emphasizes the need for mindfulnes...

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of legal rights and advocacy for LGBTQ seniors. They cover topics such as estate planning, healthcare proxies, and the role of wills and trusts. They emphasize the need for LGBTQ seniors to regularly review and update their end-of-life documents. The conversation also touches on the fear of aging and the importance of having an advocate. Overall, the conversation high...

In this conversation, David & Jeffrey discuss the importance of creative expression and art in our lives. They talk about  how they found fulfillment through their creative pursuits. They emphasize the need for creative outlets and how they contribute to personal happiness and fulfillment while also discussing the impact of art on child development and the benefits of art classes. ...

In this episode David & Jeffrey focus on building community among queer people and fostering intergenerational connections. They discuss, along with Millennial Luke Elick, the importance of role models and mentorship, as well as the challenges faced by younger generations in finding affordable housing and fitting into the gay community. They also touched on the acceptance of bisexu...

Grayer & Gayer Show: In this episode the conversation revolves around the topic of Pride events and their relevance in today's society. David & Jeffrey discuss their personal experiences with Pride and the importance of embracing one's sexual orientation and gender identity. They also interview a guest, Mitch Battersby, who shares his involvement in Pride and the impact it has ...