Raising Boys Building Men ®/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys

One day your son is building Lego towers, and the next he's asking if he can take a girl on a date.

For many moms, dating brings a mix of excitement, worry, and a whole lot of questions.

How much guidance should you give?

What dating skills actually matter?

How do you help him through his first heartbreak?

In this episode, Heidi breaks teen dating into five practical sections that will help you feel more confident as a mom while he...

What if nothing has gone wrong?

Many moms see their teenage son pull away and immediately assume something is broken. Maybe he's distant. Maybe he's making choices you don't understand. Maybe conversations turn into arguments before they even begin.

In this episode, Heidi shares one of the most powerful mindset tools she teaches her coaching clients: Clean Pain vs. Dirty Pain.

You'll learn how to stop adding unnecessary suffering t...

Does your teenage son avoid chores, drag his feet, or act like unloading the dishwasher is a personal attack? You are not alone.

In this episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, Heidi dives into one of the biggest struggles moms face with teenage boys: teaching them responsibility and work ethic without damaging connection.

You’ll learn why labeling your son as lazy may actually keep the cycle going, how your mindset impacts hi...

This week’s episode is personal, heartfelt, and a little emotional.

Heidi shares what she’s learning as her youngest son graduates from high school, her fifth and final boy to reach this milestone. As one chapter closes and another begins, she reflects on the lessons she wishes she could go back and tell herself 10 years ago, when all five boys were still under her roof.

In this episode, Heidi talks about trusting that ...

Summer sounds easier until your teenage boys are home all day. More screens. More messes. More arguing. More wondering if you are doing any of this right.

In this episode, Heidi talks honestly about why summer can feel so hard for moms raising teenage sons and how a little intention can completely change the next few months. You will learn how to stop reacting all summer long and start creating more connection, more peace, and more...

Mother’s Day can bring up a lot for moms. Joy, pressure, doubt, and that quiet question in the back of your mind… am I doing this right?

In today’s episode, I sit down with my mom, Sue Rigby, who raised six kids and now has the gift of perspective. We talk about what actually mattered when raising boys and what didn’t.

If you’ve been stressing about grades, behavior, or whether your teenage boy will t...

Do you feel frustrated with your teenage son all the time? You are not alone. Whether it is his attitude, silence, or lack of effort, frustration can feel constant when you are parenting teenage boys.

But what if frustration is not the real problem?

In this episode, Heidi shares a powerful shift that can completely change your relationship with your son. You will learn why frustration is actually a secondary emotion and what is r...

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, snapping at your family, or wondering why everything feels so hard right now, this episode is for you.

This time of year gets busy fast. School events, sports, work, home, and everything in between. It can feel like too much. And when your brain starts telling you there is not enough time, overwhelm takes over.

In this episode, I break down what is really causing that overwhelmed feeling. S...

What happened to your sweet little boy?

One day he wants to be with you all the time. The next day he barely looks at you. If you are parenting a teenage son, you have felt this shift.

In this episode, Heidi talks with neuropsychologist, author, and speaker Dr. Matt Bellace about what is really going on in your son’s brain. They break down why boys pull away, why they seem angry for no reason, and how moms can stop taking it ...

If your teenage boy won’t talk, you are not alone.

You care. You are trying. You are paying attention.

But what if the way you are showing up is actually creating distance instead of connection?

In today’s episode, we break down three emotions that feel almost the same but lead to very different results in your relationship with your teenage son: curiosity, assumption, and suspicion.

Only one of these builds trust and k...

Ever find yourself typing a parenting question into AI… just hoping for the right answer?

When you’re overwhelmed, frustrated, or stuck with your teenage son, getting instant advice can feel like relief.

But here’s the truth no one is talking about:

Just because the answer sounds good doesn’t mean it will actually help your relationship.

In fact, it might be doing the opposite.

In this episode, we’re ...

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation with your teen son thinking, “I totally messed that up,” this episode is for you.

So many moms of teenage boys carry constant guilt, second-guessing their decisions and wondering if they’re doing more harm than good.

In this episode, Heidi talks with JoAnn Crohn from No Guilt Mom about why mom guilt shows up so strongly in parenting, how control quietly creeps i...

If you’re raising a teenage boy, you’ve probably noticed how easy it is to fall into the role of manager.

You remind him about homework. You wake him up for school. You track his schedule, his chores, and sometimes even his friendships.

And before long, it can feel like you're running his life while he simply lives it.

In today’s episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, we’re talking about a powerful shift tha...

If your teenage son won’t try in school, you are not alone. So many moms tell me the same thing.

He is smart. He is capable. But when it comes to school, he just doesn’t seem to care.

Homework turns into arguments. Missing assignments show up in the grade portal. And somehow you feel like you care more about his grades than he does.

In this episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, we are talking about why so many boys dis...

If you are tired of reminding, repeating, and rescuing your teenage son, this episode is for you.

Why do teenage boys forget everything? The homework. The jersey. The water bottle. The alarm. It can feel like they do not care. But what if it is not defiance at all?

In this episode, we talk about what science says about the teenage brain, including prospective memory and executive function. You will learn why your teenage boy’...

Parenting teenage boys can feel harder than you expected. If your teenage boy will not listen, talks back, or shuts down, you are not alone.

In today’s episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, Heidi shares five super skills every mom of a teenage boy needs. And here is the good news. You already have more of these skills than you think.

We talk about: • Why emotional regulation matters more than the perfect parenting script • H...

Some seasons of motherhood feel light and joyful. Others feel heavy especially when you're parenting a teenage boy.

If your teenage son won’t talk, seems distant, moody, or easily irritated… you’re not alone. 

In today’s episode, we’re talking about how viewing parenting teenage sons as “seasons” changes everything. When you stop fighting this stage and start responding to it, connect...

Saying no to your teenage son can feel heavy. Will it hurt your relationship? Will he resent you? Will you become that parent?

In today’s episode, Heidi breaks down why no might be the most powerful parenting tool you have and how to use it in a way that actually builds trust and connection.

You’ll learn:

• Why clear boundaries help teenage boys grow into confident, resilient men

• The difference between fear-based ...

When a teenage boy messes up, fails, or feels rejected, something powerful happens inside his brain long before you ever see the behavior. He tells himself a story. And that story quietly shapes his confidence, his choices, and how he shows up in the world.

In today’s episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, Heidi is joined by confidence coach and belief expert Micaela Clegg to unpack what teenage boys believe about themselves ...