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January 9, 2024 28 mins

Some people want you to believe that all that lies between you and your millions is hard work and determination. Well...maybe, BUT often the thing that isn't mentioned is the privilege or family connections helping people on their way to their fortune. Today we unpack the damaging myth of the self-made millionaire and take a look at what really counts...opportunity.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
My name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr the
Order KERNI Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before we
get started on She's on the Money podcast, I would
like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land of
which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, acknowledging
the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming through

(00:23):
as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing and
the storytelling of you to make a difference for today
and lasting impact for tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Let's get into it.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
She's on the Money. She's on the Money.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money cast for
millennials who want to become millionaires day.

Speaker 5 (01:03):
I see what you're doing there.

Speaker 4 (01:05):
My name is beck Side and with me is Victoria Divine.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Hello, my friends. Hi, how are you?

Speaker 4 (01:11):
I'm good? How are you good?

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Week? I'm having that a week? Yeah, I'm having a
good week. Buff.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
Now, I do want to ask you about something's a
little bit controversial.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:21):
Are self made millionaires a thing?

Speaker 1 (01:24):
No?

Speaker 4 (01:24):
Is it an oxymoron?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:26):
It's crazy?

Speaker 5 (01:27):
I wrote an article a couple of weeks ago for
The Age and Sydney Morning Herald. If you guys don't know,
I have a weekly column in.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
There because I'm a big dog.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:36):
Also, I get really anxious every week when I write them,
and I like fluster and I send it to six million.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
People because this good. Is the Internet going to come
after me? Anyway?

Speaker 5 (01:44):
I wrote an article about this myth of the self
made millionaire because I've just been thinking about it a lot.
Thinking about this idea of the self made millionaire. I
feel like I'd seen so many headlines that said I
became a self made millionaire by the time I was forty,
And there was another one that was like, oh, the
surprisingly simple things I sacrificed to become rich.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
And I was just like, there's so much pressure on
us to be.

Speaker 5 (02:08):
More and do more and have more and a mass
more wealth, and that doesn't necessarily make us better human beings.
But also we're not recognizing that for someone to become
a millionaire, for someone to become a billionaire, it's at
the cost of other people's labor. Like I was saying
to you off air that if I dumped you on
an island and said, okay, create wealth, and you didn't

(02:29):
have anybody else to help you.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
You're not gonna make millions.

Speaker 5 (02:33):
Like, from my perspective, the only self made millionaire is
someone who won the lottery. Yeah, because like you walked in,
you bought a ticket, full stop, end of story. There
was no real work or effort that had to go
into that.

Speaker 1 (02:47):
And like if you google how to become a.

Speaker 5 (02:49):
Millionaire, there's so many tips and tricks and strategies. And
I'm just I'm not talking about people who become millionaires
on this episode as a bad thing. Like, please do
not get me wrong. I have absolutely every intention of
one day retiring and being able to say I am
a millionaire, because that is going to put me in
the best possible position to live the life that I
have been working so hard for. But I think we

(03:12):
need to talk about this idea that this narrative can
be incredibly isolating, and this narrative can always put a
lot more pressure on us and make us feel like
we are less than when we are not. Like how
many times do we look at social workers and nurses
and teachers and those people that don't ultimately usually become millionaires.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Those people deserve.

Speaker 5 (03:36):
So much more respect, so much more recognition, but these
self made millionaires get that respect and recognition in the media,
and it puts so much unnecessary pressure on us.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Go, maybe I'm not enough, Maybe I should be doing more. No,
you shouldn't.

Speaker 5 (03:50):
The world is about so much more than that, And ultimately,
I think this episode is really about talking about how
it takes a village to create wealth, regardless of where
you can from. And I know that there are going
to be some people listening to this and they're like, well,
I'm wealthy now, but I grew up in poverty and
I had all of these extranuating circumstances that for any
other human being would have made it really hard to

(04:11):
be successful.

Speaker 1 (04:12):
And you're not wrong.

Speaker 5 (04:13):
I'm not putting you in a position where I'm saying, beck,
that person didn't work hard.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Yes, you absolutely had to work hard.

Speaker 5 (04:20):
Like to amass any type of wealth, you have to
have some level of intelligence of how to invest it
and save it and put it in the right position.
But you also have to work hard for that money
to come in the door in the first place. But
there's always going to have been some other labor in
the background, because your time is ultimately capped, right, Like
I am only going to be able to work for

(04:42):
forty hours a week, right, But by growing my team
and relying on their labor, yes, I'm paying for it,
but relying on their labor, I can create a more
successful business. Yes, I can, you know, become an individual
who doesn't have any team members and become a millionaire.
But it's because people teach you and offer you men
touring opportunities and say yes when other people say no.

(05:03):
So I think there's just so much to it, and
I think we should break it down and talk about
it because I don't believe that there is such thing
as a self made millionaire, regardless of how many times
people want to put it in the media.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
Yes, when you put it like that, I think I
agree with you, But well, why are we talking about this?

Speaker 5 (05:18):
Obviously I could rant all day, but I just feel
like at the moment, as I said before, there's just
been so much in the media about how you know,
at this point, we are putting so much pressure on
ourselves to strive for more and be more and be
better than we were the day before, and it just
seems as though the sum of our life's worth is
based on the number of zeros in your bank account

(05:41):
and Beck is it.

Speaker 4 (05:44):
No?

Speaker 1 (05:44):
Oh my gosh, I hate that. It's not.

Speaker 4 (05:47):
That I'm so sorry.

Speaker 5 (05:48):
I feel like you're like the number one person that's like, man,
money's helpful, but like totally I want to go lay
in the grass and have a good time and enjoy
my friend's company. And I think that you are the
post to girl for being like, yes, who wants to
be a self made millionaire? Not back?

Speaker 1 (06:03):
I mean, I don't think you'd say no.

Speaker 5 (06:04):
If someone was like, do you want to be a millionaire,
you'd be like, I can buy a lot of English
muffins for that.

Speaker 4 (06:08):
Yeah, I mean I wouldn't say no, But also I
don't mind.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
Yeah. I feel like this idea of the self made
millionaire has become really popular because like you click on it,
you're like, I would like to become a self made millionaire,
like that headline real catchy does the job. But we
often hear stories of individuals who you know, came from
humble beginnings and then worked tirelessly in amassed incredible wealth.
And I just think, obviously we're not downplaying their incredible

(06:33):
dedication and hard work. But the truth is, no one
becomes successful in isolation. Every single person who has any
level of success has actually benefited from some level of support,
whether it's direct or indirect, along their journey to success.
And we need to acknowledge that, Like, we need to
talk about that and then also talk about what life
is really about. Yeah, because I think it's about the

(06:55):
relationships that we have and how much we give back
and how much we care. Because I don't look at people.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
And go, hmmm, I wish they were richest so I
could be friends with them back.

Speaker 5 (07:06):
Maybe you do, but I've never done it.

Speaker 4 (07:09):
I do. It's kind of a prerequisite. I do have
to check my friend's bank accounts before we officially hang
out as friends.

Speaker 5 (07:15):
Yeah, do you want me to send you a screenshop
before or do you just want me to tell you?

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Like, how do I prove?

Speaker 4 (07:21):
Do you need some proof?

Speaker 5 (07:22):
Okay, sorry, I'll just give you my banking details. You
can log in and check it.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
Whenever you want.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
Your card might be good?

Speaker 5 (07:27):
Yeah, actually, yeah, how about if I just give you
a copy of my credit card?

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (07:31):
Perfect, that would be great, Thank you so much. But
v it seems like this episode today is a bit
of I guess, like a mindset check. If you're someone
who like myself. For example, there's definitely been a time
in my life where it'll be like, oh my god,
if I had just worked a little bit harder, I
could be more wealthy or something like that. But let's say,
for example, you grew up in a home, you're born

(07:51):
into a family where there's like I don't know, abuse
and trauma and all this stuff, and you end up
moving into your teenage years you become I don't know.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
It's just like a troubled future for you.

Speaker 4 (08:03):
I can't imagine that hard work and dedication will make
you become that's remodingly. It's not so like putting that
pressure on ourselves. I mean, like, wow, if I had
just worked hard on it is not crazy. It's not
the case for everyone, you know what I mean. So,
and yes, exactly as you're saying, it takes a village.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
Yeah, it's also about the support that you received, right,
holding people up.

Speaker 5 (08:23):
It's crazy to think that people would drill it down
and go, well, it's just about hard work and effort.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
Beck.

Speaker 5 (08:28):
If you put more hard work, like Beck, what if
you started working ninety hour weeks at work, that's actually
not going to translate to you earning more money.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
That's not how it works.

Speaker 5 (08:37):
Like, you have to have some level of support to
create something different. You have to have some level of
support to know where to go and what to do
and how that all works. Because just putting in the effort,
let's be honest, it's not enough. It's all about networking connections.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
And how all of that works.

Speaker 5 (08:52):
And even if that networking connection isn't in person, like
you know, it's a part of my business. I do
online courses, right, and I adore and we're about to
launch a few new courses. And I don't have anyone
that supports me on that, because there's no one in
Australia that I know that does courses. But the support
I receive is all of the YouTube videos that I
have watched on how to set up that online course.

(09:15):
That support from people that I don't know who have
put out this content to help me grow. It's support
from all of the blogs and the websites. And you know,
I log into my course provide a platform, right and
I have the live chat option to talk to people.
So yes, you can work really hard, but you also
need to realize that the world is now. You know,

(09:35):
I think the self made millionaire is far more popular
nowadays because it's a bit more accessible, if we're honest, Like,
to become a millionaire these days is much easier today
than it was back in the fifties because of technology
and what we have access to. Like nowadays, everyone has
access to the internet, and the Internet is a beautiful
place that can change lives, can ruin lives as well,

(09:56):
let's be honest, but we have access to information. But
that information is there because of the labor of other people, right,
Like it is there because other people have put it
out there to help you. And when you go I'm
self made, I did this all myself, I'm like, well, yeah,
you did do.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
The work, but the hard work is not enough.

Speaker 2 (10:14):
Hmm.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
So that makes sense.

Speaker 4 (10:16):
That makes so much sense to me.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
I have some SATs though, So it's not just fluffy,
So I know you said before, it's a bit of
a mindset check. It totally is, because I want everyone
to pull their heads in and care less about money,
which is funny because this is a money podcast. But
like that's I guess the ethos of She's on the money, right, Yeah,
It's not about what you earn, it's about what you
do with it and the values you hold and respecting

(10:38):
those values and really reflecting what you want to create
as a life. Yes, but global wealth inequity, what does
it look like right now? Back, I'm so glad you
asked Credit Swiss, who I.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
Really like their reports. Actually, they've documented the rise of
the super rich and the growth in global inequality over
the past decade with their Global Wealth Report, which by
the way, has lots of infographics in it.

Speaker 5 (11:01):
So if you ever wanted to go and look at
Global Wealth Report and thought, oh, that's not going to
be good, it's just going to be text. It's not
like it's so pervy. But I've pulled out a few
stats for you, because Beck, you and I both know
you were never going to go look.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
But I was going to ask the question and you read, well,
you're not wrong exactly.

Speaker 5 (11:17):
So it found that in twenty nineteen, the richest ten
percent of people in the world owned eighty two percent of.

Speaker 1 (11:25):
The world's wealth.

Speaker 5 (11:26):
Oh wow, this means that the top one percent of
the richest people in the world own forty five percent
of global wealth.

Speaker 4 (11:33):
Oh that's like half of the entire world.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
That's half of the world is owned by the one percent. Geez,
isn't that cooked? Yeah, that is cooked half of the
world's population, so fifty percent, Beck has one percent of
the wealth.

Speaker 4 (11:46):
Wow, just shared up evenly. Yeah, not even.

Speaker 5 (11:49):
Really nice and even just makes sense, right, They were like, oh,
well we heard that it was fifty and one percent.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
We'll just reverse that. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (11:58):
And the Forbes Billionaire List, it gives real time daily
updates of the fortunes of the richest people in the world,
so pervy, very depressed. The top ten richest men, Like,
it's not a list of like just men, it's actually
just the top ten riches people happen to all be men.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Beck, which I.

Speaker 5 (12:15):
Don't think anyone's surprised by have a master total of
nine hundred and sixty seven trillion dollars.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
Beck whish is absolutely cool, my god.

Speaker 5 (12:25):
But I feel like, as the average lay person like
you and I, we hear the word millionaire and billionaire,
you kind of go same bucket, right, Like you're just
like a million not that much different from a billion, right,
Like you go, that's like one hundred million, that's like
a lot. But like you kind of go, oh yeah,
like at some point, if you start collecting millions, you'll
become a billionaire. So let's put that into perspective of

(12:46):
how much bigger a billion dollars is than a million dollars?

Speaker 1 (12:50):
Right?

Speaker 4 (12:50):
Sure?

Speaker 5 (12:51):
So seconds? One million seconds, beck is eleven days?

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Cool? One billion seconds is thirty one and a half years.

Speaker 4 (13:00):
Oh okay, I see, I see what about and you
might not notice off the top of your head, which
is completely fine. But what about a trillion seconds?

Speaker 1 (13:07):
All right? You want to know trillion?

Speaker 5 (13:09):
Yeah, so one million seconds is eleven point six days, yes,
one billion seconds is thirty one years or thirty one
point seven years.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
I do apologize. Wow, and one.

Speaker 5 (13:20):
Trillion seconds is three hundred and seventeen point one centuries.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
No, it's not, Yes, it is how that math is mathing, Like,
I feel like.

Speaker 5 (13:32):
We just don't have the ability to comprehend what the
difference is. But I think that puts it into context,
so definitely.

Speaker 4 (13:39):
So ten people share, well they're not sharing between each other,
but they have in total nine hundred and sixty seven
trillion dollars.

Speaker 5 (13:48):
And that was one trillion. They have nine hundred and
sixty seven of those. My god.

Speaker 4 (13:53):
Yeah, okay, let's go for a quick break. V I
need to absorb all of this, but stick around because
after the break we're going to be looking at some
key concept around the myth of the self made millionaire.
OKAYV we are back and we've talked before about how
much money is a lot of money on the show,
but how much money do we really need? And should

(14:13):
there be a limit? Do you think that's probably controversial.

Speaker 1 (14:16):
But oh many people think yes.

Speaker 5 (14:18):
I know, so I think in this day and age,
this is going to sound very entitled, but I do
think people should be allowed to be millionaire.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
So I totally get that.

Speaker 5 (14:27):
I think in this day and age, actually, if we're
talking about wealth generation, and my.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
Favorite example, which you've heard on the podcast.

Speaker 5 (14:33):
A million times is beck if you had a one
point two million dollar investment portfolio by the time you retire,
at a five percent interest rate return, that would return
you about sixty thousand dollars a year of income.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Right, So we.

Speaker 5 (14:48):
Obviously as a podcast, as a community, me as an
ex financial advisor, I want you to reach that. A
million dollars sounds like a lot of money, but in
this day and age, sadly, it is not not actually
a lot of money when it comes to talking about retirement,
talking about generating wealth talking about property, Like, the average property.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
Price is now a million dollars.

Speaker 5 (15:08):
So if we think about that and the strategy of
getting to retirement, if the average millennial is purchasing a
property worth a million dollars, the strategy is to pay
off your property before you retire. Completely, right, that just
makes sense. That means that most of you will retire
with more than a million dollars of wealth. Right, just

(15:28):
because you're going to have a property worth in more
than a million dollars by the time we add in
your subranuation, hopefully that bumps it up. By the time
you retire to another million dollars, you're sitting at two
million dollars. Obviously, there might be other extenuating circumstances. You
might have an inheritance, you might have another investment portfolio, like,
it doesn't matter what it is. But the idea that
most millennials will actually retire with more than a million

(15:50):
dollars is not incomprehensible. It's actually quite normal. It sounds
like a lot because a million dollars is a lot
of money. But beck like, I hope that when you
retire you've got about that, if not more, because that's
what's going to create a level of financial freedom for
you not to work, especially with how money is going
to increase, because we know that a dollar today is
not worth a dollar tomorrow, like a dollar.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
Today is going to mean.

Speaker 5 (16:13):
We talked about this on the Triinflation episode, where like
back in the fifties, a basket of goods was like
twenty bucks and now it's one hundred and twenty dollars. Like,
we actually need more money in the future than you
need today. Yeah, so it sounds like an incomprehensible amount
of money, but I promise you it is not. Many
people obviously going to have spicy views on this, that's fine.

(16:34):
Your opinion is not my opinion, and that's what makes
the world go around. But my opinion is that billionaires
should not exist. Nobody beck needs a billion dollars. Yes,
not one person needs a billion dollars. And with the
amount of impact that a billion dollars could have, like
it blows my mind to think that people, you know,
just hoard it and have all of this wealth.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
Like we talked before.

Speaker 5 (16:57):
About how the top ten richest men in the world,
literally the top ten richest men have nine hundred and
sixty seven trillion dollars. That amount of money, even half
of that amount of money could solve world Hunker. Yes, like,
it could do so much good and they're just choosing
not to because it's their money. Hey, Like, it's their choice.

(17:17):
I don't know how you would do that. But there
is a concept called limitarianism, and it's a view that
states that there is a moral limit to how much
we can have. It is not as demanding as some
forms of egalitarianism because it actually accepts some level of
inequality can exist and can be acceptable back. But it

(17:38):
does have a clear cap on how much inequality there
could be before that becomes immoral.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
And I think that.

Speaker 5 (17:43):
That's important kind of liked Otherwise, we live in a
communist society and that's not what actually makes us thrave.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
Sure, Like I think that.

Speaker 5 (17:52):
You know, obviously there's lots of different views on this.
There are going to be lots of people who go, no,
they shouldn't be millionaires, they shouldn't be billionaires. Like I
totally agree with it billionaire statement, but I just go,
all right, well, actually, for you to create wealth and
have a good life, yeah, becoming a millionaire is not
actually at the detriment of other people. Sure, but becoming
a billionaire absolutely is at the compromise that that money

(18:13):
could have done more and been more. And yes, we
could talk about having a billion dollars invested and it
creating a passive INCLM stream of XYZ and creating future wealth,
but no.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
One needs that much money back at the end of
the day, no one does.

Speaker 4 (18:26):
Yes, I quite like the sound of this limitarianism thing.
But as a business owner and someone who is now
not necessarily on the hustle the way you would have
been at the start of your career, do you think
that you have an opportunity to take a different approach
to distributing wealth in your company.

Speaker 5 (18:42):
I think it's an interesting conversation because obviously I don't know.
I feel so uncomfortable talking about it because it just
makes me sound like a wankr. Let's be honest, but
I'm not the highest paid person in my team.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
LA.

Speaker 5 (18:52):
Cool it is, but it isn't like I have amassed
some level of wealth, like I have a home. My
husband and I own an investment property, Like my husband
has a good income that we rely on. And when
we did our maths and worked out, well, what do
I need to survive on? How does this work? What
does this look like? That meant that I could invest
more into my business When I say that, not sitting

(19:15):
on mass amounts of cash in my business, but meaning
that my team are paid very very well, like I
don't know being she's on the money. I look at it,
and I want my team to be able to create wealth.
I want my team to comfortably be able to go
on the holidays that they deserve and buy the houses
that they want. Like, I can't think of anything more
embarrassing as a business owner than going, hey, like, I

(19:37):
bought an investment property, and I know full well that
my team can't afford to buy property to begin with.
So you know, we talk about Jess, right, She's in
a position where she's going to be able to buy
property all on her own, and that's absolutely fine. The
only stumbling block is actually the market, not her income.
And so that makes me, as a business owner, go,
I must be running a pretty okay business if that's

(19:58):
the circumstance for my whole team, and I'm not here
going oh okay, so well rah rah, like it is fair.
They work really hard. It all makes sense. But I
think that there's this idea as a business owner that
you really should be talking and thinking and looking at
the wealth of your team, but also the labor that they.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
Put into it.

Speaker 5 (20:18):
Because I'm in the position I'm in because my team
works so hard. I'm not just here because I had
a good idea and it started working. Like I have
the flexibility in my life. Do you know record these
podcasts on a Tuesday when they go out on a Wednesday?
And have you know this life where there is a
lot of flexibility, but that has come at the cost
of other people having to put labor on the table

(20:38):
and put their time, energy and effort into it. And
yes they're remunerated for it. But I look at it
and I just go, well, you know, I would like
this to be a sustainable business with team members who
are respected, and to me, that's how you do that.
So it's an interesting question when you're like, how do
you distribute wealth in your company? I just make sure
my team are well looked after. And it's not about

(20:59):
hoarding cash or sitting on it. It's always about making
sure that it's distributed well to them. We were talking
a couple of weeks ago, actually on Instagram about Christmas parties,
and I posted this thing and I said, hey, guys, like,
what are some Christmas party ideas for Zella and Cheese
on the money? And you know, a Christmas party is fun, right.
I think everyone in the team looks forward going out,

(21:20):
having a drink, having a bit of a van, maybe
wearing a nice dress, and just having a good evening.

Speaker 1 (21:25):
Right.

Speaker 5 (21:25):
The amount of people that were suggesting things that their
businesses did for them, Like one of the examples Beck
was flying everybody to the Yarra Valley on a helicopter
to have an incredibly expensive lunch at a winery and
then flying them home. I looked at the cost of
that and I was like, okay, Like, would I spend
fifteen hundred dollars per team member to go to a

(21:47):
Christmas party?

Speaker 1 (21:47):
Well, depends what kind of year it's been, let's be honest.

Speaker 5 (21:50):
But you look at the impact of that fifteen hundred
dollars and I just know my team would value having
the cash in their account above and beyond that. And
it also makes me go, okay, well, if the businesses
that are making those decisions are making those decisions and.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
Their team are like, yep, this is great. This is stunning.

Speaker 5 (22:07):
Are those teams being appropriately remunerated each and every single
day for the labor that they put into their jobs
or are they just being you know remunerated Okay, but like, oh,
they don't have an emergency fund or they don't have
the ability to buy a house, in which case I
would be really embarrassed. That's the type of showy Christmas
party I was putting on when my team can't even
you know, put the same amount of food on the

(22:30):
table that they could the year before. Yeah, does that
make sense? Like, I just think there needs to be
some level of practicality and thought put into it when
it comes to team and wealth distribution, because you also
can't just pay people heaps and heaps of money. And
I say that because it actually locks people into a role.
Like let's pretend I paid you back five times what

(22:52):
the average annual income was for the role that you perform.
That means that you might become really disenchanted and not
you know, push your career forward or change anything, because
you're like, well, I can't leave working for Victoria because
I'm paid so well here, no one else will ever
measure up. So like in every other aspect, of your
life you might not be as actively engaged. Yeah, so

(23:13):
it's finding that fine balance of like, well, how do
I appropriately remunerate and reward staff for making sure that
they still have equal opportunity and flexibility in the rest
of their life.

Speaker 4 (23:24):
That's a tough one.

Speaker 1 (23:25):
It's very hard.

Speaker 4 (23:26):
It's a tough one to balance. But the ultimately the
end of the day, what would you like people to
take away from this?

Speaker 5 (23:33):
Honestly, this idea of a self made millionaire and my
reflections on it, I guess it opens up the idea
of a wider issue, and that's the undue emphasis that
we put on financial success and the lengths people go
to achieve it. I guess in our digitally driven society,
the idea of keeping up with the Joneses has really
changed into, I guess, a perpetual race against time, you

(23:56):
could say, where the measure of your success is not
just your way.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
But how quickly you can achieve it.

Speaker 5 (24:02):
Like, you know, if somebody retires at sixty five with
a million dollars, you're like, yeah, okay, that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (24:07):
But if you said I'm twenty five with a million dollars,
You're like, wow, what a big dog? Like that's so impressive.

Speaker 5 (24:12):
Ye, This consistent and relentless storm of what success stories
look like, I guess makes us feel crash about ourselves.
Like how many times have we seen young entrepreneurs that
are like, I achieved a six figure salary by the
term hols twenty two And you're like, well.

Speaker 1 (24:27):
That never worked for me. That doesn't make sense.

Speaker 5 (24:30):
And they're showing off their cars are worthhouse deposits, and
they're always going on holidays to the Amalfi Coast, And
I just think it's so easy to forget those of
us in our community who work tirelessly day in, day out,
put food on the table, and they don't end up
amassing millions, and somehow that's not deemed to be as
worthy or like what about those people who work for

(24:51):
the sheer passion of it, Like they're just so wildly
passionate about something, Like what if someone is so wildly
passionate about their craft or making a difference to their community,
why aren't we rewarding these people with the center stage?
I suppose when we talk about it to me, I
think it's like the artist that teaches the community workers,
the nurses, the caregivers, their contributions never make the headlines.

(25:13):
They made the headlines during COVID because I think people
finally realized how much we rely on these people and
how important they are when they always were that important.
But yeah, I think that their narrative deserves so much
more acknowledgment and respect. And you know, when the spotlight
gets put on people who have become millionaires as being
like the pinnacle or what we should be becoming, it really,

(25:35):
you know, obscures the fact that you know, at some
point a majority of us are going to face financial
struggle in our lives.

Speaker 1 (25:42):
Yeah, we need to talk about that.

Speaker 5 (25:43):
That's not something to be ashamed of, that's not something
to sweep under the rug. But if the narrative is, oh,
I became a self made millionaire, you immediately think, well,
these people don't have these problems.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
I can't relate. I'll never be successful. Sure, And I.

Speaker 5 (25:55):
Think that in a world where we have unforeseen you know,
interest rate rises, and we have health issues or even
just like a mere stroke of bad luck can see us,
you know, spiral into a financial crisis.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
We need to be protecting ourselves against that.

Speaker 5 (26:11):
And that's not by becoming a millionaire and hustling our
way to the top. Beck, Like, I just think we
need to remember that wealth is not the only measure
of success in this world. Like personal growth, beautiful relationships,
contentment in your actual achievements, and what you do every
single day, no matter how small, are actually the indicators

(26:31):
of this.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
And I think that.

Speaker 5 (26:33):
It brings us to what I would say is the
irony of our time, and that while it's essential to
you know, have aspirations and push our boundaries, we also
need to be aware of not letting the societal pressures
that exist define your worth, because you're worth so much
more than that. And I won't go on and on
about that because I just I could and I would,

(26:54):
and if you gave me the platform, well, and we
might even link my article that I wrote for the
Agian City Morning Herald here, because that actually is another
thousand words of me ranting about how important you see
if you're interested. But I just think, Yeah, you can't
do anything in a vacuum, Beck, The world requires support.
The world requires us to have connections to be successful.

(27:17):
And when you have this narrative of the self made millionaire,
puts unnecessary pressure on you and me to do better.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
And be better and hustle.

Speaker 5 (27:24):
But also it doesn't acknowledge the people that are actually,
you know, supporting the fabric of our society.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
Yep, so true.

Speaker 1 (27:31):
That's where we'll probably leave it though, like otherwise I'll
just go on and on that.

Speaker 4 (27:35):
Hey, we can go on and on off mic, but
so good, And I think it's a really good thing
for people to take away from this episode is that
it's probably not on you. You are where you want
to be and where you have to be, and where
you should.

Speaker 5 (27:46):
Be exactly exactly where you need to be right now,
my friends. Yes, and also my favorite quote of all time.
Let's leave on that arising tide.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Lifts all ships.

Speaker 4 (27:56):
Love it, love it.

Speaker 5 (27:57):
Let's go have the best day, my friends, and we
will see you on Friday.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
Bye, guys.

Speaker 5 (28:08):
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