The Middle Aged & Miserable Podcast

“Your future thoughts are downstream from what you consume today”. In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris expose how social media algorithms and 24/7 news shift your attention toward outrage and fear, then show you how to reverse it. If your beliefs about yourself and the world have turned darker, your energy is dropping, or you’re arguing about things you can’t control, you’re likely being progra...

You think comfort is the goal. But what if comfort is actually what’s keeping you stuck, unhappy, and drifting through middle age?

In this truth-bomb episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris expose the hidden cost of staying in your Comfort Zone — and why the “safe” path often leads to regret, boredom, and missed potential.

If you’ve ever felt like life is on autopilot, this episode is your wake-up call. You’...

You’ve worked hard, built the career, raised the family—yet life feels flat, like you’re stuck on repeat. Why?

The problem is most of us hit middle age running on unconscious autopilot. The same routines, the same reactions, the same patterns—day after day. That’s why purpose disappears, and why success often feels empty.

In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris reveal how unconscious behaviors quietl...

AI is exploding — and if you’re stuck in life, this could be your golden ticket out of the grind. In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris reveal how artificial intelligence can help you work less, earn more, and finally build the life you’ve been chasing.

Forget the fearmongering — AI isn’t here to replace you, it’s here to give you a second chance. A chance to reinvent yourself. A chance t...

You’ve done everything “right.” Career. Mortgage. Family. But somewhere along the way, something got lost—your sense of purpose.

In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris dive deep into what purpose really is, how it quietly slips away during middle age, and how you can get it back—today.

You’ll discover why in middle-aged we often feel disconnected, what’s really behind that sense of drifting, and—mos...

Success rarely comes from talent or intelligence alone. The truth is far simpler — and far harder: success belongs to those who persist.

In this episode of The Middle-Aged and Miserable Podcast, we explore the often-overlooked factor behind every meaningful achievement: persistence. For many men, the desire to change careers, launch a business, or escape the rat race is quickly followed by a wave of doubt — “I don’t know how,” “I’m ...

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your own success?

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris dive deep into the world of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and show you how your unconscious mind might be the biggest thing holding you back from the life you actually want.

They explain how your early childhood programming formed the beliefs that now run your life on autopilot—and how to finally ta...

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged and Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris sit down with former MLS star and US National Team player Kelyn Rowe to reveal the untold side of MLS soccer. Sharing his experiences playing against Thierry Henri, David Beckham and Zlatan Ibrahimović, Kelyn also opens up about the sacrifices, mindset, failures, and brutal transitions that few athletes ever talk about. 

From childhood obsessi...

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris share the 5 most important self-reflecting questions everybody should ask themselves right now — especially if you're feeling lost, unfulfilled, or stuck.

These aren’t surface-level journal prompts. These are deep, sometimes uncomfortable, truth bombs designed to shake you out of autopilot and spark serious life change.

If you’re tired of drifting...

What if success wasn’t just for the “lucky” few—but something you could engineer with a few simple mindset shifts? 

In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, we share 7 practical success hacks that will help you thrive in ANY area of your life—your career, side business, finances, health, or relationships. Whether you're stuck in a 9-to-5, trying to scale your business, or just want more out of life, these str...

What If Everything Bad That Happened… Was Actually Good? The biggest thing keeping you stuck isn't your situation—it's the meaning you're giving it.

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, we dive into how you can take back control of your life by mastering the one thing you can ALWAYS control—the meaning you assign to life's events.

Learn how two people can experience the same setback...

In this powerful episode of The Middle-Aged and Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris tackle one of the most misunderstood—but life-changing—concepts in personal growth: the Law of Attraction. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or like life just isn’t giving you what you want… this episode might just change everything.

Forget the fluffy “woo-woo” talk. We’re breaking down the science behind vibration, energy, and the subconscious pr...

Are you afraid of failing? Do past failures haunt you and hold you back from achieving your dreams? In this powerful episode of the Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris dive deep into why failure is actually the key to success. Learn why top entrepreneurs actively embrace failure and how you can turn setbacks into steppingstones to build the life you've always dreamed of. Stop fearing failure—start using it to yo...

Your Beliefs Control Your Life—But Are They Holding You Back?
Everything you have—or don’t have—right now is a direct result of your beliefs. Success, money, relationships, and happiness all start in your mind. But what if your unconscious programming is keeping you stuck?
In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, we break down how your beliefs are formed, why they control your life, and—most importantly—h...

Want to be happier? It’s not as complicated as you think. In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, we reveal 9 simple but powerful habits that will instantly boost your happiness and change the way you see life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, unmotivated, or like happiness is always just out of reach, this episode is for you. We break down the mindset shifts, daily habits, and small tweaks that can help you take contr...

Are you stuck in the rat race, dreaming of a life where you can retire early and live on your own terms? In this episode of The Middle Aged & Miserable Podcast, we dive deep into how starting a side business—without quitting your job—could be the right solution for you!

We’ve been where you are. A decade ago, we realized that waiting until 65+ to retire wasn’t an option. We wanted more—more freedom, more control, and more financ...

Are you waking up feeling stuck, unmotivated, and behind before the day even starts? It’s time to take control of your mornings—and your life.

In this episode of The Middle-Aged & Miserable Podcast, we uncover the secret weapon used by the most successful people to boost productivity, improve focus, and create unstoppable momentum.

Your morning routine.

This isn’t just about waking up early—it’s about setting yourself up for massi...

Are you stuck in the same place year after year, wondering why life isn’t going the way you want? If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting the same results. It’s time to take control and design the life YOU want instead of drifting through it.

In this episode of The Middle Aged & Miserable Podcast, Pat and Chris break down why having a clear vision for your life is crucial, how to create one, and what steps...

Life is busy. Between work, family, and all the responsibilities of adulthood, exercise is often the first thing to fall off the list. But what if skipping your workouts is actually costing you more than just fitness?

 In this episode of The Middle Aged & Miserable Podcast, we break down why staying fit is non-negotiable—not just for you, but for your family, your energy levels, and your long-term success. We tackle the myths of...