Taboo Talk Not Safe For Brunch

Taboo Talk Not Safe For Brunch

Welcome to Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch! In this podcast, we’re here to bring sex, insight, and real-world education to the table—unapologetically. Think of it as having those important, unfiltered brunch conversations with your closest friends, about sex, relationships, and everything in between. With over 55 years experience combined in the intimacy industry helping individuals and couples focusing on breaking down barriers, reducing shame, and empowering people to embrace their desires and relationships with confidence.

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March 24, 2026 16 mins

Let’s talk about 69… and why it might not be all it’s hyped up to be. 

It’s one of the most talked about positions out there, but when you actually break it down, the reality doesn’t always match the fantasy. 

In this episode, we’re getting real about why 69 looks great in theory but can fall apart in practice, from awkward angles to multitasking struggles and everything in between. 

If you’ve ever tried it and thought “what is happen...

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Spring is known as mating season in the animal world… but humans seem to be doing the opposite.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we zoom out and talk about the big picture of sex, relationships, and reproduction. For most of human history, sex wasn’t optional. It was survival.

Now? Birth control, financial independence, and social change have rewritten the rules.

So why are birth rates dropping? Why are more people ...

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Sex hasn’t changed much over the decades… but the words we use to talk about it definitely have.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we take a hilarious and honest look at the evolving language of intimacy. From old school phrases like “making whoopee” and “going steady” to modern terms like “Netflix and Chill,” “situationship,” and “sneaky link,” every generation seems to invent new slang to say the same thing.

Why d...

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There are a lot of unofficial holidays out there. Some are harmless. Some are funny. And then there’s Steak and BJ Day.

Is it playful? Is it sexist? Is it just a joke? Or does it quietly reinforce one-sided expectations about sex and pleasure?

In this episode, we unpack where this “holiday” came from, why it makes some people uncomfortable, and ...

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Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful, awkward, or uncomfortable because no one taught you the basics.

In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we’re breaking down sexual hygiene from head to butt to bed. No shame. No fear-mongering. Just real, practical conversations about cleanliness, comfort, confidence, toys, lube, oral, anal, kink, and everything in between.

Whether you’re new to sex, deep into midlife changes, exploring new p...

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If sex feels uncomfortable, overly complicated, or more like a workout than pleasure… it might be the position.

In this episode, we break down supportive, realistic sex positions designed for real bodies. No acrobatics. No...

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Valentine’s Day is sold as the ultimate test of love, but let’s be honest, it’s mostly a marketing calendar wrapped in roses and guilt.

In this episode, we break down where Valentine’s Day actually came from, how it became a billion-dollar industry, and why so many people feel pressured, disappointed, or straight-up uncomfortable when February 14th rolls around.

We talk performative romance, overpriced expectations, social media pres...

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Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem, the pressure is.

In this episode, we break down why Valentine’s Day feels so loaded, what people actually want from it (hint: it’s not expensive gifts), and how small gestures create real connection in long-term relationships.

We talk about acknowledgment, emotional intimacy, micro-gestures, expectations, and why being seen might be the most underrated form of foreplay. Whether you’re partnered, sin...

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What happens when honesty becomes a career risk?

This conversation dives into why so many gay men in professional sports remain closeted—and why the issue has nothing to do with masculinity, toughness, or talent. Using the cultural impact of Heated Rivalry as a lens, we unpack visibility, power, locker-room culture, emotional safety, and what actually happens when athletes come out while still playing.

From real statistics to real-wo...

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Ever been told you’re asking for too much in the bedroom?


This episode was sparked entirely by listener comments, and wow, did they expose some deep-rooted double standards around sex, pleasure, emotional labor, and communication.

We’re breaking down:
 • Why having standards isn’t entitlement
 • The emotional labor women carry into the bedroom
 • Why “just communicate” isn’t that simple
 • The truth about sex toy...

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Most people treat anal like a bucket-list stunt.
Try it once, decide forever, never revisit it.

That’s the problem.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we break down why anal play isn’t about bravery or pressure, it’s about skill, anatomy, communication, and going slow enough for your body to actually enjoy it.

We cover:
 • Why your first attempt doesn’t mean anything
 • How different bodies experience anal...

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What if orgasms were one of the most powerful wellness tools you’re not using enough?

In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we break down the science behind orgasms, stress reli...

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The holidays are loud, exhausting, and wildly unsexy… or are they? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we dive into real listener questions about holiday quickies, exhaustion, zero privacy, and why social media makes everyone feel broken. Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just tired.

We talk delegation, scheduling sex, five-minute escapes, realistic expectations, and how connection doesn’t disappear just because the house is fu...

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Forget vision boards. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re doing a year-end sex audit. What turned us on, what shut things down, what surprised us, and what we are absolutely leaving behind.

We talk about saying no without guilt, libido changes, obligation sex, menopause realities, unexpected turn...

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In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking holiday stress, family dynamics, money tension, mental load, and how all of it impacts intimacy. From hosting and traveling to childhood bedrooms to mismatched libidos and unrealistic expectations, we’re keeping it honest, funny, and very real.

If you’re hiding from your family in the bathroom right now, we see you.

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Today we’re diving into the psychology of dominance and submission — why people crave giving up control, taking control, or switching between the two. We’re breaking down the science, the fantasies, the communication, and how to explore power play safely and confidently. If you’ve ever wondered why anticipation hits so hard, why confident dominance is an art, or why so many people fantasize about surrender, this one’s for you.

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From generational differences to queer vs straight dating culture to why men and women are having wildly different experiences, we break down what’s actually happening behind the swipe, and what the numbers say about who’s really finding connection.

If you’ve ever deleted a dating app only to re-download it two weeks later… this episode was made for you.

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Get ready for our steamy holiday gift guide packed with the best couples toys, solo treats, massage must-haves, and sensual stocking stuffers. We’re breaking down how to gift intimacy without the awkwardness, plus our top picks to heat up your holidays. Think travel-friendly wands, prostate toys, clitoral suction, ...

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It’s that time of year, Movember is back, and it’s not just about growing facial hair. In this Tabbo Talk Not Safe for Brunch episode, we’re diving into the real conversations that matter: men’s mental health, physical wellness, and the power of speaking openly.

We’re sharing stories, laughs, and a few mustache jokes while highlighting the impact of Project 11, a Canadian initiative helping young people learn how to talk about menta...

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Are “natural libido boosters” the real deal, or just another marketing scam?
 In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we dig into the truth behind all those so-called desire enhancers: green tea, ginseng, maca root, chili peppers, yoga, sleep, and more.

We talk placebo effects, body confidence, and how connection (and laughter) might be your best turn-on yet.

💋 No filters. No shame. Just the real talk on what fuels de...

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