How to Be a Girl

How to Be a Girl

How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

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November 26, 2024

My daughter and I are stunned and sad, but we are doing OK.

Here is something for you. Some words from me, with some music from my amazing daughter.

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What happens when supporting your child means leaving your home?

Meet my courageous friends from Montana, who are building a new life in a new state after anti-trans legislation targeted their young daughter.

This is the second part in a two-part story. Listen to Part One here.

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Imagine living in a place where your own child has been outlawed. This is happening, right now, all over the United States.

In this episode, you’ll meet my new friends, a courageous and close-knit family who suddenly found themselves unwelcome in the place they had always called home.

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It's been over two years. I wanted to let you know how we are doing.

Thank you for your patience.

(Spoiler: My daughter is still amazing.)

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September 5, 2021 42 mins
For years, people have asked me what I would do when my daughter hit puberty. Was I going to let her do... the "medical stuff?" Well, right after the pandemic struck, so did puberty. And this is what my daughter (and her mother) decided to do.
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This episode is different from any of our previous episodes. It’s also a do-over, because the first version of this episode overlooked the fact that my daughter is growing up, fast. She’s almost a teenager, and we both agree that it’s time she took charge. So that’s what she did. (Here’s a little more about how this episode came to be.)

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September 23, 2019
I want you to meet my good friend, Emma. When she was a little girl, she was just like my daughter. But no one knew her for 60 years. I'm so glad she's here now.
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January 24, 2019
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December 31, 2018
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In this episode, my daughter and I get to talk with two of our heroes.  Jazz Jennings is a reality TV star, LGBTQ activist, and arguably the most famous transgender teen in the world.  Her mom Jeanette is as brave as they come.

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Of course I knew this was going to happen eventually.  But that didn't make it any easier when it did. 

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After a pretty lengthy hiatus, we're back!  The first episode of the 2018 season comes out next week.  Here's a little taste of what's to come.  

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January 15, 2018
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This mini-episode contains: One VERY excited little girl awaiting Santa, news of the big changes coming to our lives, my plans for the future of this podcast, and... a miracle! 

Music credits:

Dee Yan-Key,  "Santa on Tour" (licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0)

Borrtex, "Buying Presents" (licensed under CC BY-NC 4.0)

 

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