Jabez: Conceived in Pain, Delivered in Victory

Jabez: Conceived in Pain, Delivered in Victory

The Old Testament of the Bible contains many mysterious passages. In 1 Chronicles 4:9-10, we find a short prayer uttered by an obscure man: "Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother named him 'Jabez' saying, 'Because I bore him with pain.' Now, Jabez called on the God of Israel saying, 'Oh, Lord, bless me indeed and expand my territory. Keep Your hand on me, and keep evil from me, that I may not cause pain!' And God granted him what he requested." Nothing is known about the man who voiced this heartfelt cry to God. He appears to be a man whose family was erased from Israel's history. But if the man and his family's memories were erased, why is he mentioned at all? And why does his prayer appear in a listing of the members of the tribe of Judah? In "Jabez: Conceived in Pain, Delivered in Victory" we meet the man behind the prayer. We discover why his family could not be mentioned in the chronicles of the tribes. We learn why he was more honorable than his brothers. More importantly, we find a man with whom many of us can identify. He is a man with a pitiful past and no hope for a future. He is a man who struggles to find meaning and significance in life. He is a man who is desperate to be accepted by his fellow man. But most of all, he is a man who craves a relationship with God. In the end, Jabez turns out to be more than an obscure man in a forgotten time. Instead, he is found to be a man whose prayer had a significant impact on the history of Israel. Though the story takes places over 3,000 years ago, its impact still affects us today. And it all started with the story of a life, told to one small boy.

Episodes

September 3, 2008 • 18 mins
We meet Jabez, a man in his nineties, who has traveled through the deserts of Judah to tell the story of his life to his great-grandson. Why is Jabez's lineage missing from the Bible, though his prayer is mentioned? How can an impotent man father a child? Why did his mother call him "Jabez", which is the Hebrew word for "pain"? (Prologue, Chapters 1 - 2)
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We learn how the circumstances of his birth caused his family to reject Jabez. Who stops Jabez's father from killing the boy? What is the significance of the ram's horn? How will God respond to the challenge Jabez lays out? (Chapters 3 - 4)
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September 4, 2008 • 21 mins
God accepts the challenge. Jabez encounters a solitary traveler in desperate need of a friend. How did the Levite know about Jabez's feelings for Timnah? How could a man without any hope for a future raise the bride-price for his beloved? (Chapters 5 - 6)
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September 4, 2008 • 24 mins
The first and second days of the wedding feast. Jabez learns about Timnah's past. What kind of a man will Jabez be while his bride is suffering? (Chapters 7 - 8)
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September 4, 2008 • 20 mins
The third and fourth days of the wedding feast. Jabez and Timnah exchange words, but why are the wedding guests pleased? (Chapters 9 - 10)
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September 30, 2008 • 16 mins
The fifth, sixth, and seventh days of the wedding feast. Ahijah shares a secret with Jabez, and Gazez looks like he's hiding something. Who does Jabez find behind the veil? (Chapter 11)
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October 6, 2008 • 21 mins
Jabez and Timnah spend a pleasant afternoon together, but their joy is marred by a hideous discovery. Who has violated the possession of Ahijah? What is the punishment for such a grievous affront to God? (Chapters 12-14)
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October 13, 2008 • 23 mins
The guilty one is judged. Dodo recites what he has learned so far. The birth of Elatarah and Elishua. Jabez feels alone; how does God show Jabez his prayer has been heard? (Chapters 15-17)
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October 20, 2008 • 24 mins
The Philistines look upon Israel as an evil man looks on a beautiful, young girl. The Levites of Judah search for a man whom God will use to stand against the Philistines. Jabez seeks help from his brother, Hananeel. Why was Hananeel's wife angry with her husband? How does Jabez respond to the young Levite's questions? (Chapters 18-20)
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October 28, 2008 • 24 mins
The moment of blessing is interrupted. Jabez's nephew and nieces escape certain death. Hananeel's neighbor shares Hananeel's secret. What did Eran do to make Jabez shudder? What finally convinces Jabez he must attend the Council of War? How does Jabez win Ha-gadol's favor? (Chapters 21-23)
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November 4, 2008 • 19 mins
Jabez, Ha-gadol, and one of the Levites travel to Gibeon to meet with representatives from the tribes of Benjamin, Dan, and Ephraim. Ha-gadol almost starts a war. On the way back to Bethlehem, they are refused entrance to the city of Jebus. That evening, they meet two travelers who bear bad news. How come Jabez is not afraid of the travelers? Why is Mishael so concerned about the water shaft? (Chapters 24 & 25)
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November 11, 2008 • 21 mins
Jabez and his men intercept the Philistine merchants, preventing them from entering the land of Judah. The merchants respond to the blockade with a gesture of friendship. When they receive Jabez's answer, the Philistines try to break the blockade. What do the merchants offer Jabez and why does he refuse their gesture? What are Jabez's warriors going to do with their two bowstrings? (Chapters 26 & 27)
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November 18, 2008 • 23 mins
The Accuser attacks Jabez in the still of the night. Jabez tries to ward off the Accuser's arrows, but his heart is pierced with doubt. Reinforcements arrive, bringing news from home. Jonab brings Jabez's son and nephew, Elatarah and Eran, for a visit. Jonab also carries with him a message from Timnah. Jabez questions Eran about the night Hananeel died in the fire. How does Jabez fight against the Accuser? How does Elatarah respond...
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November 24, 2008 • 25 mins
Jabez, Ha-Gadol, and several other men scout the Philistine city of Gath. Plans are made to meet the Philistines in the Valley of Elah. The men seek shelter from a storm in a cave. Jabez receives the plan of battle from an unexpected source. How will the army of Judah be able to fight the Philistines if they have been weakened by an enemy they cannot see? (Chapters 31 - 33)
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December 1, 2008 • 20 mins
The army of Judah meets the Philistines in the Valley of Elah. Jabez finds that the Commander of the Army of God is true to his word. The Philistines find their gods are not as strong as they believed them to be. How did Jabez's men -- sick and weak as they were -- conduct themselves in the battle? Why are the Philistine women so scared? (Chapters 34 & 35)
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December 9, 2008 • 24 mins
The men celebrate the victory over the Philistines. Against his better judgment, Jabez accepts refugees from Gath into the camp. After the feast, Jabez retreats to a place of solitude for a time of reflection, but he is interrupted. How does Jabez respond to the interruption? How does he conduct himself? Does he give in to the temptation? (Chapters 36 & 37)
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December 16, 2008 • 17 mins
News of the victory reaches the ears of Israel. Jabez is summoned to meet with the Levites to give a first-hand account of the battle. Sh'muel arrives to escort Jabez to the town where the Levites are waiting. The leader of the Levites asks Jabez about the women who were seen in the midst of the warriors. How much does Sh'muel see? Why does Jabez get so angry at the Levite's questions? (Chapters 38 & 39)
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December 23, 2008 • 25 mins
Jabez returns to his village on his way back to the encampment outside of Gath. He is pleased to see Matthan and the men of the village have strengthened the walls, but is dismayed to find the gates have not yet been hung. At dinner that night, Elishua sings a song she has written, a song of God's deliverance. Jabez and Timnah share a bittersweet moment together. Is Jabez able to conceal his guilt from Timnah or does she see into h...
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December 30, 2008 • 18 mins
Jabez spends the morning with his wife, daughter, and nieces before leaving his village. He starts the process of healing the pain he has caused Timnah, and allows her to search out his soul. Jabez reviews his village's defensive plans before heading back to the encampment outside of Gath. Matthan expresses his concern about the village's ability to withstand an attack. What does Jabez say that shows Timnah he is already making ato...
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January 5, 2009 • 20 mins
Episode 20 Jabez receives news that a tragedy has befallen his village. He returns to the village with Ha-gadol and several other men to investigate. He discovers that both Elishua and Eran are missing. In what condition is the village? Where have the villagers gone? Where does Jabez find the rest of his family? (Chapter 44)
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