Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.* When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything? **Not a thing.
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
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Amaze video: How to Use Condoms Effectively
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
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My guest star Mary Willcox Smith!
Her book, The MicroStep Method for the Overwhelmed Parent is terrific! Get a free chapter here.
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
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Good old Amaze has great videos on masturbation (and more)! Show your kids ages 9+.
Anime Body Pillows! Check some out here.
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The Meaning of Sex Positivity, Explained - My pal and colleague Nadine Thornhill is interviewed for ...
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BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can wat...
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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Joyful Courage with Casey O'Roarty
The Heartful Parent with Christy Keating
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of vid...
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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Helping Women Period - provides FREE period products for homeless and low-income bleeders.
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is...
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watc...
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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These folks do a great job of explaining the two-spirit identity.
A terrifc list of books for kids and teens! Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Children’s and YA Book Lists
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all sc...
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31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post
BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
...GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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RAINN.org - To find a child advocacy center in your area Consent Parenting for support for surviors.
Consent Parenting for support for surviors.
Savvy Parents Safe Kids for general info to keep kids safe.
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Fetal Development
Stages of Fetal Development Illustration
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Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
My YouTube channel is full of ...
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What's wrong with a lack of interest in or desire for sex? Nothing.
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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BBK Bookstore is here
Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!
Other resources
My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get t...
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522
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If your kid is neurodiverse and you’d like to be part of my focus group and get on my special newsletter list, send me an email. Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
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